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May 21st, 2013
Girls are contacting me but I can't seem to get em out!
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#21
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By the second or third line, you need to be curtailing the length of what you write, not going into rapport-seeking mode, but ramp UP into the sexual mode.  Not with in-your-face stuff like, "Blow me bitch!"  Start smaller.  Instead of continuing to make small talk about stupid nonsexual school shit and asking try-for-rapport questions, you should start making sexual statements, like "I think we looked cool, send me the one with your tongue in my ear"  or "I think we looked cool, I want to pick you up and throw you on the couch."  or "A glorious picture, let's get together soon - I want to see this thing"

Or if you do it after your last line, you make an affirming self-directed statement such as,  "Nerds are where it's at, my pocket protector gets all the ladies feeling my junk.  Which is a stapler, but hey, they don't find that out till later."  Or things equally obnoxious, inane, SEXUAL and funny as fuck.  You must be sexier and funnier, dude, and sooner.
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#22
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Haha. You sound like a huge nerd too in writing. This is my latest text msg thread. Her: are you free tonight? Me: Who is this? Her: (ex fb) Me: Be there in an hour. Of course she is heaps ugly but hey, i got laid. Learn off me son
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#23
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MiNdFcUk wrote:
something is off i dunno i get that feeling that your trying to connect and she s letting you do that ,it should be the opposite
exactly
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like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding
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#24
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TOOBAD wrote:
Thanks Ambiguity - Something to think about there for sure

Thanks Real World - you the man! 

Alright - here's the latest one - I wanna see what you guys reckon - this one's a facebook convo - Met her last night - wasn't a heaps long convo or anything but I wasn't completely in the mood - we have one mutual friend who was at the club at the same time - we took a pic together - told her we'd chat on facebook. I think it's solid because of the social circle thing - could be wrong though.

Her: cheers for the add TOOBAD :D hru?
Me: My pleasure :) I'm good - had a lazy ass day - was going to - with all good intentions do my last assignment - but ultimatley ending up sleeping and watching movies =P How's everything?
Her: ha ha ha thats the way after a big nite at the club. I'm pretty good I was planning on doing stuff since I had day off but ended up laying in bed all day :D good night it was
Me: The awesomeness of a Wednesday night out. Where's our mad picture - I think we looked cool :)
Her: still in my camera....its a ganga and wont upload pics properly yet i'l figure it out soon hopefully and yup it was cool :) what was ur assignment for?
Me: Ganga cameras - pissing people off since 2009! It's for English Literature studies - gotta analyse the films Dracula and Twilight - ghey but hey - it's gotta be done! And what do you do with yourself - you strike me as an interesting person!
Her: hahaha ur damn right! thats cool u get to study movies but gay as to what the movies are ha ha I did study art for a year at tafe but now im just working at 'someplace' until I find my niche in life :) do I really? why's that... u seem interesting too
Me: Yep I had a hunch about art or something to do with expression - go me lol - I see you as a deep person - many layers :) lots to get to know about you - Me? I'm just a big nerd - but I love to party and I stand by my friends thick and thin - loyal and honest :)
Her: hahaha i guess i give off that creative vibe thanku :) nerds are cool and those are good qualities! lol

So I'm thinking it would be time here to ramp it up - but I want some seasoned playas advice here :)
It seems weak dude. No hate broski. Step it up man. I don't see any baiting interaction here. Its forgetable convo. Fluff convo.

If I am not on, energy is low, I tend to not hangout. I want to bring my best self. I want to get laid but, if I am not about to put in my best work, sometimes it is not worth it. Basically, each interaction, I go hard and like i wont ever say her again.
Its left all on the line. Guns blazing. No questions asked. I bring my A-game.

This is it. I don't go out to get a number. I go out to get balls deep. If all else fails, there is a cock block on the prowl, poor "logisitics" or whatever, then I number close. I do my best to bait her into interact after the club, "We can grab food?" or "smoke a J" (friends smoke weed, I do not alter my brain chemistry with weed, alcohol or drugs or any kind). Now, if you can hangout the same night, its pretty solid. If I don't chill the week of, I delete the number. I don't hold onto it like M Y S T E R Y says too hold onto it. It seems weak in my opinion but, to each their own. It comes down to compliance. I push her away, I chat up her friends but, I put my hat on her head. I make her jealous but, I still got a way or excuse to come back and chat her before some guys pull her away. Man, some nights I am smooth. I am bring the fire. Other nights, i ask myself,  "WTF HAPPENED?"

Broski, when you are with her, you want to get as much info from her ass possible. Analyze where she is at, the sorta girl she is, her life situation. Like they say in the community, women are at different points in their life. I pulled some girl who just got cheated on after a multi year relationship. Girl is really pretty but, I know what it is. She slipped up in letting me know. I know its either a rebound fuck or a summe fling. I bait and I interact. I invest but, I give and go. I don't hold out for her or dwell on the interacting. She is an emotional wreck. She will test me. She will say shit like "oh, I will come out if you come grab me and my girlfriends?" FUCK OFF... come grab you guys? got to be kidding. I wouldn't do it for a group orgy nevermind to hit  up a club. Women make me laugh sometimes. I come back with something like "Sucks to be you guys." LOLOLOL Sure enough, she finds herself at my club of all clubs. It happens.

You need to comply here and there. Don't think everything is a "shit test." Extend group invites. A girl in her situation, I am not doing any individual hangout or at least right away. Nothing that seems like a date immediately. She is ab emotional wreck. I will bait but, I wont chase. I wont over invest. We just pair off. She wants to fuck. They all do. Party girls and bar stars are fun to fuck. I will beat it up but, I will not wife it.

Be confident dude. Some girls just want to chase. Some girls want the guy they cannot get. In the meantime, they like to feel needed. They like ego boosters such as yourself. Guys that chase them make them feel better for the guy who fucked & chucked her.

7day window is what I give myself. I need to hangout in that time frame or I cut the number. She can get at me after that. It happens as well. Women get busy. Exams happen. Weddings or other events occur. They text and the first thing I respond with is "Who is this?" YEAH, I FORGOT WHO YOU WERE.

Bro, I am a good looking guy. I get girls. I don't wait on any. So what she is cute or your hot. Alfie puts it best in saying, "Whenever you meet a beautiful woman, just remember somewhere there's a man who's sick of shagging her!"

No exceptions!
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#25

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 say whats on your mind or what you feel - the content of it doesnt matter, it only matters that its coming from you

so alot of girls i met may take time to warm up to me:
1. so i was persistent txting something maybe every two or three days
2. saying over the top things about how much i am into her -- but here i'd say dont say these things because it is a rule that you must say over-the-top things, NOPE, say what you feel just dont worry that its over-the-top
3. i think though the one thing that is a must -- APPROACH must be hard/unapologetic/almost like you were so compelled to meet her when you spotted her
4. persist for the meet every two or three days or whenever you feel you can meet
5. going back to number 2, i wasnt afraid to show i was upset if she flaked, which ended up in her asking me when i wantd to meet, so dont worry of what she thinks of you, show her all sides of you but again, this is not a technique, you just say what you feel or whats on your mind without worrying about the consequences you just deal with them as they come, and in the process you give her a range of emotions. you must completely ZAP out any worrying of how what you say or do may come across to her, its more important that you say and do SOMETHING
6. finally, NUMBERS GAME, not all girls will be into you, and trust me you will know when a girl is into you, until that point its sifting and sorting
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#26
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Alright - thanks heaps boys.

Points taken - yeah my shit does look weak here - because it fucking is - I hate texting and shit! When there's no outcome involved I'm fucking awesome - otherwise - this is the quality you get.

Be a sexual deviant - Well I already fucking am, so I'll do it in texts more :)

I'll update this shit once I'm doing that more - need to get my poo text game handled.
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Me: Well not as bad ass as me - I'm guessing you didn't see my new stripper moves - on occasion I take my shirt off too - I'll let you watch next time - if you can wait till then :) I heart to party - but with winter coming I'm thinking snuggling is gonna be awesome too - you look cuddely.

Her: yes I hae seen u stripper dance in the cage before lmao....are u hitting on me rofl

Me: You seem cool - so yes - I'm instigating this coversation towards us having at least 11 kids - half nerdy - half creative. And don't even try to tell me you can't divide 11 by 2 or I'll bite you.

Her: lol fuck ur funny yes i can 5.5 meaning one of them is nerdy and creative :) they shall be a stunner haha .

Me: Our kids would be so hot - I want to concieve at least one of them on an aeroplane - you can decide the altitude - I'm still gonna bite you for being defiant but I won't lie - I like your fiesty-ness . 

Her: ha ha ha ha ha ha mile high club awesome thnx ....u towning sunday? . 

Me: Probably not - but that's only a small obstacle compared to our love. You can be my Bonnie - I'll be your Clyde . 


Her: wow ur really pulling out some classics arnt u lol . 

Me: We'll fight for our love! You know what - I'm glad I finally met you properly - We have to continue our adventures in person - all that mischeif we're gonna create :) I'm gonna be pretty free after Tuesday - do you wanna get married in Vegas - or do something fun with me before we write our vowels

Her: I have tuesday and wednesday off except ur purchasing the tickets k ha ha ha
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Haha. And here i was thinking you were the qualification king.....can i come?
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Moey wrote:
Haha. And here i was thinking you were the qualification king.....can i come?

Fuck no it's like the whole reason I started this thread so I could get qualification down - thought I'd gotten better though - am I doing something wrong with that still? Got me all fucking paranoid ya bastard haha.

You can come - we'll gang bang her for the honeymoon
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TOOBAD wrote:
Me: Well not as bad ass as me - I'm guessing you didn't see my new stripper moves - on occasion I take my shirt off too - I'll let you watch next time - if you can wait till then :) I heart to party - but with winter coming I'm thinking snuggling is gonna be awesome too - you look cuddely.

Her: yes I hae seen u stripper dance in the cage before lmao....are u hitting on me rofl

Me: You seem cool - so yes - I'm instigating this coversation towards us having at least 11 kids - half nerdy - half creative. And don't even try to tell me you can't divide 11 by 2 or I'll bite you.

Her: lol fuck ur funny yes i can 5.5 meaning one of them is nerdy and creative :) they shall be a stunner haha .

Me: Our kids would be so hot - I want to concieve at least one of them on an aeroplane - you can decide the altitude - I'm still gonna bite you for being defiant but I won't lie - I like your fiesty-ness . 

Her: ha ha ha ha ha ha mile high club awesome thnx ....u towning sunday? . 

Me: Probably not - but that's only a small obstacle compared to our love. You can be my Bonnie - I'll be your Clyde . 


Her: wow ur really pulling out some classics arnt u lol . 

Me: We'll fight for our love! You know what - I'm glad I finally met you properly - We have to continue our adventures in person - all that mischeif we're gonna create :) I'm gonna be pretty free after Tuesday - do you wanna get married in Vegas - or do something fun with me before we write our vowels

Her: I have tuesday and wednesday off except ur purchasing the tickets k ha ha ha
Compare the blue and pink text here. You're writing 2-3 times as much text and is really working on grammar and punctuation while she can't be arsed to capitalize or spell properly. Who's the buyer and seller here?
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