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May 23rd, 2013
Girls are contacting me but I can't seem to get em out!
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TOOBAD

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Frustrated as fuck.

I’ve gotten a few numbers lately and had these girls chasing me through texts - contacting me first etc – But fuck me do I always seem to fuck it up – Couldn’t get a day 2 with these girls to save my life at the moment – what the fuck!

What’s everyone’s strategy to meeting up with girls – as soon as I go for the suggestion they go cold – winning formulas please - I’m just doing something implicitly wrong here.
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Haha I've had a few girls like this. Still no day2 for 6 months for me. Have fun!
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Screw you Koolaid haha - well this one in question just told me for sure she wanted to hang - so I'll post up a LR for ya soon =P

But seriously - did I get lucky this time lol
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I think the most important thing is that you give her a reason why you want to meet up with her. what do you like about her, other than the fact you want to get her into bed? 'hey, it was fun meeting you, let's hang out some time' 'we both like jazz, let's go to this jazzcafe' 'hey, you're a really cool girl, I want to see you again some time.'

if you're not giving her a reason, it's 'guy trying to get laid', if you do it's 'guy inviting a girl that lives up to his standards to go on a date with him'

maybe it's also due to the fact that they're chasing you, maybe you're giving off this vibe of standoffishness and disinterest, then if you suddenly ask them out, they realize that it was all fake. you suddenly stop being a challenge.

there's a really good post on phonegame on alex's blog, alexattitude.com.
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Hmm my perspective is of course limited based on my current level, but sometimes I find these girls who talk to you just like male attention but don't want to meet up for real. More about the initial interaction.
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yeah but the place you're coming from shouldn't be 'I want to have a day2, now let's find any girl who is willing' but 'I'm having fun, hey this girl is cool if she wants to she can hang out with me'
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Nice advice - Velouria - I can defintiely see some of what you're saying applying here -

This chick just told me we're doing the same degree and going for the same career - quite possibly the reason she accepted my request - I'll use that to my advantage now when setting the meet up for sure.

It could be the whole chasing thing to a degree also - so next time I'll apply the 'qualification' stuff and see what happens - I think that has something to do with it now for sure ;)
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its cuz these girls are from C TOWN

nuff said

nuff said
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Daniel wrote:
its cuz these girls are from C TOWN

nuff said

nuff said

Dude the gurls here easy as fuck - you're just jealous they're not like them North shore sluts who think the world owes them something - farrrrrk yooooou haha
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Real World~ wrote:
Hmmm...

I have had the same issue too man. Things have been running a lot smoother since following the Alex~ phone game blog to a tee though.

http://alexattitude.com/?p=28

Longer interactions, staying with the tension and sticking to the phone game blog ftw!

It's cos were sooo hot haha - I'll take your advice sir - in the quest for the deepening of the knees in vagina
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haha true true, nothing beats them europeans at world bar on a tuesday
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Daniel wrote:
its cuz these girls are from C TOWN

nuff said

nuff said

Dude the gurls here easy as fuck - you're just jealous they're not like them North shore sluts who think the world owes them something - farrrrrk yooooou haha
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