THE FORUMS
Girls are Gay
I don’t mean this in a negative way; I just want you to be REALISTIC about this, because it will affect your interactions.
Girls are dumb
Girls are not emotionally mature
Girls are chodes
When I say “GIRLS”, im talking mostly about females that are under the age of 25.
Females that are above that age tend to be more mature, but it’s also very possible for a female to act like a “girl” when she is 32 years old. But generally speaking, once a female hits 26, 27, or 28 she starts to act like a WOMAN and not a girl. This article im writing today is about girls.
A Girls drive in life is to have as much social value as possible. Her social value is directly related to her self-esteem. Her only value is her looks, if she doesn’t look good that day - her value is lower. She dresses up and wears make-up to compete with other girls in a club to maintain her social value. She will do things that are not smart or immature in the quest of getting more social value points.
I have a lot of experience with this, and I think Girls make up maybe 80% of the female population. So there is a good chance if you do a cold approach on a female in a club, you are walking up to a girl. Not a woman.
Even if you go to a yoga studio or bookstore. You might still just be walking up to a more intellectually smart female, but still not a woman. Some girls are smart and carry them self’s around like they know better. But still make poor choice when it comes to males.
Some Real world examples of "Girl behavior"":
1- I wrote about her before. Alicia Keys recently got engaged because she is pregnant. She is now engaged to a man she met when he was married with 4 kids. She fucked him all this time, and while he was filing for his devoice from his wife, they decided get engaged. When I herd this I was like wtf? Is this the same girl who writes songs like “a woman’s worth” and all these other female empowering songs! – See what a woman says, and how she emotionally responds to stimulus is total different. This is “Girl” behavior.
2- Today I went to lunch with a female friend of mine. This girl is hot. A solid 8.5. We talked about a guy she chased for over a year. This guy had a GF, and she could get any other guy she wanted. She recently broke off from him 3 months ago, and today he added her on facebook and now she is “so confused” again. She obviously likes the emotions she gets from this no matter how destructive this is to her. I know 10 other girls like this in my social circle, with the exact same situation. Where they are all the “girl on the side” and they are hurt, but pursue the man because of this.
3- Think about it. Why do jealously plotlines work in game. They work because the “girl” is not emotionally mature. Just last week RSD Prince charming , Natlex, and I went out with some girls. One of the girls previously said she had no interest in me. Latter in the night she sees me making out with another blonde girl. And she storms out the club into a taxi and leaves without saying goodbye. A woman would explain her self before leaving, or express her true feelings. This is the reaction of a girl, not a woman. Girls do not make sense, and make poor decisions. Mastering this is part of mastering game.
All your inner game work has no IMMEDIATE relevance to that drunken girl in the club. It’s great for you, to be able to now have the confidence to approach her hard and be instate. But she personally doesn’t care that you read Tolle.
Tolle is for you, not for her. It directly affects you, but not your skill set.
Value is not static, Value is relevant to each type of girl.
All of your self actualization means something, but at the same time it doesn’t mean shit
The majority of girls are response junkies. You give them a stimulus and they respond.
This is why button pushing game was so popular 4 years ago. It was the shit
It only stopped working because PUA’s used it to cover up there wounded insides.
It doesn’t mean the button pushing no longer works. It’s not as if in the past 4 years the female race has involved into smart and emotionally mature creatures. No “girls” are the same dumb girls they were before.
Just because the PUA “community” has changed. Girls have not changed. They are still mostly dumb bitches.
Considering everything you now know about girls. How could they help you, when most often they can’t even help them self’s. In the past ive often felt hurt and wanted a relationship to heal me. Thinking if I could just get a hot girl, I could take a break from all this PUA stuff. But girls are damaged; you can’t have a damaged demographic repair you. That makes no sense. Girls can’t even admit to them self’s that they are damaged. And rather then go fix themselves, all they have to do is put on some heels and a skirt and walk down to the grocery store and in 5 mins she has attention and she can distract her self from any real personal development.
Male Douche Bags:
Or as Paris boom boom would say: Ze male douche bagzzz LOL
They are not self actualized. They don’t study inner game. They mostly don’t have amazing skill sets.
Wait wait wait, I can already hear the RSDN comebacks…”Well, we study inner game so we can have the confidence that they have” etc… well I have a theory. And my theory is that its not actually confidence that gets the girls.
What? Not confidence or any of that other non-sense? Nope.
Thinks about it, if you take a chode and have him act confident is he still going to get that smoking hot girl. Nope.
Male douche bags have many other traits that are much more effective.
Don’t feel bad about this. Or think of it as negative. Just realize it’s a fact and adjust your game accordingly.
And good ol Madison is going to name a few. Consider them rules if you fell like it….
DO NOT LOOK TO A GIRL TO SAVE YOU EMOATIONALY OR A RELATIONSHIP TO COMPLETE YOU.
Girls need to know you boundaries, not in a harsh way but you need to express them.
“Hey, that was rude, were both are adults right. So lets act like it”
You need to VERBALIZE your likes and dislikes BEFORE the girl makes a mistake. Let her know what pleases you and how she can do it. “Some girls do xyz, that’s not for me. I like girls that xyz for them man” – or “Some men act xyz, when…. but I think that’s wrong, I think a man should act xyz” – so you are literally communicating to the girl that you have social intelligence and understand the dynamics between men and woman. Infect I think the best pickups I have ever done included this.
Act in a way that respectful to your self:
Mystery: No, not that guy. Im talking about the element of a girl not knowing where she stands with you. The element of intrigue. This is why sometimes less is more when it comes to verbal game. If you can say something in 3 words and enjoy the silence instead of 8 words. Then do it. Less is more.
Be a challenge, and never let a girl know completely how you feel about her. Always leave some doubt that you think she’s cool but you might jump up and leave if she is too much of a dork.
Girls respond primarily to stimulus, and follow what they have always been doing. You should like girl, find them interesting, but in the same way when your dog tries to bite you, you stare it down and let it know its boundaries. Sorry to use a dog analogy, But im going to excuse my self, cause when brad made the breaking repor video he also mentioned talking to a girl “just like you were talking to your dog”.
Your new Mindset:
You should not loose your self in a girl, just enjoy your time with her, and it’s that and only that. It’s a little bit of detachment emotionally. But really what it is- is that all of your good emotions are coming from your self. You know that this girl, who is nice to you, could turn on you and show you her evil bitch side as soon as you loose social value in her eyes. It’s a sort of loving with emotional caution. Maintain control of your self. Knowing that this girl is not going to give you something you cannot get inside your self already. So you are not depending on her. Now, or in the future.
I always tell girls how i feel about them, but because im cool it actually means something to them. Me being around them strengthens their reality. When you know who you are and become the social context a girl will want to be with you because if you say she has value....she has value. Think about it, if brad pitt walks up to a girl and tells her she is pretty, what do you think her reaction is? If he says it and means it? She will really believe she is pretty. Go read alex's blog and his strength of reality articles.....AND IMPLEMENT IT, this problem will go away but trust me it takes effort. You become this source of validation to chicks, which is why you can walk up to a girl circled by guys hitting on her and tell her she is hot and she will be all on your shit. Masculine polarity is a beautiful ting. But then you get quality problems like girls using you for your personality :-/I don’t mean this in a negative way; I just want you to be REALISTIC about this, because it will affect your interactions.
Girls are dumb
Girls are not emotionally mature
Girls are chodes
When I say “GIRLS”, im talking mostly about females that are under the age of 25.
Females that are above that age tend to be more mature, but it’s also very possible for a female to act like a “girl” when she is 32 years old. But generally speaking, once a female hits 26, 27, or 28 she starts to act like a WOMAN and not a girl. This article im writing today is about girls.
A Girls drive in life is to have as much social value as possible. Her social value is directly related to her self-esteem. Her only value is her looks, if she doesn’t look good that day - her value is lower. She dresses up and wears make-up to compete with other girls in a club to maintain her social value. She will do things that are not smart or immature in the quest of getting more social value points.
I have a lot of experience with this, and I think Girls make up maybe 80% of the female population. So there is a good chance if you do a cold approach on a female in a club, you are walking up to a girl. Not a woman.
Even if you go to a yoga studio or bookstore. You might still just be walking up to a more intellectually smart female, but still not a woman. Some girls are smart and carry them self’s around like they know better. But still make poor choice when it comes to males.
Some Real world examples of "Girl behavior"":
1- I wrote about her before. Alicia Keys recently got engaged because she is pregnant. She is now engaged to a man she met when he was married with 4 kids. She fucked him all this time, and while he was filing for his devoice from his wife, they decided get engaged. When I herd this I was like wtf? Is this the same girl who writes songs like “a woman’s worth” and all these other female empowering songs! – See what a woman says, and how she emotionally responds to stimulus is total different. This is “Girl” behavior.
2- Today I went to lunch with a female friend of mine. This girl is hot. A solid 8.5. We talked about a guy she chased for over a year. This guy had a GF, and she could get any other guy she wanted. She recently broke off from him 3 months ago, and today he added her on facebook and now she is “so confused” again. She obviously likes the emotions she gets from this no matter how destructive this is to her. I know 10 other girls like this in my social circle, with the exact same situation. Where they are all the “girl on the side” and they are hurt, but pursue the man because of this.
3- Think about it. Why do jealously plotlines work in game. They work because the “girl” is not emotionally mature. Just last week RSD Prince charming , Natlex, and I went out with some girls. One of the girls previously said she had no interest in me. Latter in the night she sees me making out with another blonde girl. And she storms out the club into a taxi and leaves without saying goodbye. A woman would explain her self before leaving, or express her true feelings. This is the reaction of a girl, not a woman. Girls do not make sense, and make poor decisions. Mastering this is part of mastering game.
All your inner game work has no IMMEDIATE relevance to that drunken girl in the club. It’s great for you, to be able to now have the confidence to approach her hard and be instate. But she personally doesn’t care that you read Tolle.
Tolle is for you, not for her. It directly affects you, but not your skill set.
Value is not static, Value is relevant to each type of girl.
All of your self actualization means something, but at the same time it doesn’t mean shit
The majority of girls are response junkies. You give them a stimulus and they respond.
This is why button pushing game was so popular 4 years ago. It was the shit
It only stopped working because PUA’s used it to cover up there wounded insides.
It doesn’t mean the button pushing no longer works. It’s not as if in the past 4 years the female race has involved into smart and emotionally mature creatures. No “girls” are the same dumb girls they were before.
Just because the PUA “community” has changed. Girls have not changed. They are still mostly dumb bitches.
Considering everything you now know about girls. How could they help you, when most often they can’t even help them self’s. In the past ive often felt hurt and wanted a relationship to heal me. Thinking if I could just get a hot girl, I could take a break from all this PUA stuff. But girls are damaged; you can’t have a damaged demographic repair you. That makes no sense. Girls can’t even admit to them self’s that they are damaged. And rather then go fix themselves, all they have to do is put on some heels and a skirt and walk down to the grocery store and in 5 mins she has attention and she can distract her self from any real personal development.
Male Douche Bags:
Or as Paris boom boom would say: Ze male douche bagzzz LOL
They are not self actualized. They don’t study inner game. They mostly don’t have amazing skill sets.
Wait wait wait, I can already hear the RSDN comebacks…”Well, we study inner game so we can have the confidence that they have” etc… well I have a theory. And my theory is that its not actually confidence that gets the girls.
What? Not confidence or any of that other non-sense? Nope.
Thinks about it, if you take a chode and have him act confident is he still going to get that smoking hot girl. Nope.
Male douche bags have many other traits that are much more effective.
Don’t feel bad about this. Or think of it as negative. Just realize it’s a fact and adjust your game accordingly.
And good ol Madison is going to name a few. Consider them rules if you fell like it….
DO NOT LOOK TO A GIRL TO SAVE YOU EMOATIONALY OR A RELATIONSHIP TO COMPLETE YOU.
Girls need to know you boundaries, not in a harsh way but you need to express them.
“Hey, that was rude, were both are adults right. So lets act like it”
You need to VERBALIZE your likes and dislikes BEFORE the girl makes a mistake. Let her know what pleases you and how she can do it. “Some girls do xyz, that’s not for me. I like girls that xyz for them man” – or “Some men act xyz, when…. but I think that’s wrong, I think a man should act xyz” – so you are literally communicating to the girl that you have social intelligence and understand the dynamics between men and woman. Infect I think the best pickups I have ever done included this.
Act in a way that respectful to your self:
Mystery: No, not that guy. Im talking about the element of a girl not knowing where she stands with you. The element of intrigue. This is why sometimes less is more when it comes to verbal game. If you can say something in 3 words and enjoy the silence instead of 8 words. Then do it. Less is more.
Be a challenge, and never let a girl know completely how you feel about her. Always leave some doubt that you think she’s cool but you might jump up and leave if she is too much of a dork.
Girls respond primarily to stimulus, and follow what they have always been doing. You should like girl, find them interesting, but in the same way when your dog tries to bite you, you stare it down and let it know its boundaries. Sorry to use a dog analogy, But im going to excuse my self, cause when brad made the breaking repor video he also mentioned talking to a girl “just like you were talking to your dog”.
Your new Mindset:
You should not loose your self in a girl, just enjoy your time with her, and it’s that and only that. It’s a little bit of detachment emotionally. But really what it is- is that all of your good emotions are coming from your self. You know that this girl, who is nice to you, could turn on you and show you her evil bitch side as soon as you loose social value in her eyes. It’s a sort of loving with emotional caution. Maintain control of your self. Knowing that this girl is not going to give you something you cannot get inside your self already. So you are not depending on her. Now, or in the future.
Chopping out neediness also helps. Go try mess a couple of sets with some 'turbos' to reinforce that there are a lot of them out there and so that you are first self amusing and secondly getting girls.
This is all just a guess btw i have no idea what your situation is.
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I don't have dreams i have goals
Day 17:
Went to B-Side and Caffateria last night. Some things i noticed are:
i update the subject of the thread as days go on. Man i am tired. i walk around the club like a zombie with a smile on his face. Like bill murry in the movie groundhog day.
I am there, but my mind is really getting dull, i am not sharp or quick with my responses anymore. and i find my self running out of things to say. which is odd, because a week ago i was the master of not running out of things to say. I dont "suck" at all. I pulled 2 gilrs last week. im just out of it.
One thing that has been happening is i have been uncovering a lot more weaknesses in my "game". I don’t have anything im bad at. Just some areas that i need to improve on so that i can pull almost every night if i wanted to. The way it is right now im at a 25% success rate.
if i go out 4 times. i will pull once
if i go out 4 times, i will get 4 SOLID numbers
Out of the 4 solid numbers... 25% will meet up for a day 2.
I have some week points in my game as i mentioned.
1. Escalating after the hook to a full embrace with my arms around her and hers around me
2. Extract from Mixed sets
3. Asians
4. Permission to FULLY escalate on Turbos
5. Seeding Mini-Pulls
6. Sexual teasing “I am the sexual prize” – I have work tomorrow so don’t get the wrong idea, this doesn’t mean im going home with you etc.
7. Make out comments before kisses: Are you a good kisser, or you probably can kiss anyways, do you like it when a guy pulls you hair, etc.
Things I have to STOP doing:
1. Moving around so much…. More sticking with a girl all night
2. Once I open and a set hooks, not leaving, only to return and find the girl with lower buying temperature.
3. Stop focusing on my wings having fun, that drains my energy. i cant make them have fun. only they can do ti for them selfs
Once these things are handled, I will pretty much have elite level game since im already at an advanced level now.
Moving around can be a good thing broski. If her interest level is high enough, it wont matter. If she wants to fuck you, nothing else matters. I don't stick with just one girl. I like to spread me seed. My goal or life philosophy: give love; get love. The only time moving can fuck with you getting the girl is if she is ready to fuck, bathroom pull or hotel pull & you stand by or wonder off. Everyone drops the ball here or there. Just learn from the experience. No biggie. Went to B-Side and Caffateria last night. Some things i noticed are:
i update the subject of the thread as days go on. Man i am tired. i walk around the club like a zombie with a smile on his face. Like bill murry in the movie groundhog day.
I am there, but my mind is really getting dull, i am not sharp or quick with my responses anymore. and i find my self running out of things to say. which is odd, because a week ago i was the master of not running out of things to say. I dont "suck" at all. I pulled 2 gilrs last week. im just out of it.
One thing that has been happening is i have been uncovering a lot more weaknesses in my "game". I don’t have anything im bad at. Just some areas that i need to improve on so that i can pull almost every night if i wanted to. The way it is right now im at a 25% success rate.
if i go out 4 times. i will pull once
if i go out 4 times, i will get 4 SOLID numbers
Out of the 4 solid numbers... 25% will meet up for a day 2.
I have some week points in my game as i mentioned.
1. Escalating after the hook to a full embrace with my arms around her and hers around me
2. Extract from Mixed sets
3. Asians
4. Permission to FULLY escalate on Turbos
5. Seeding Mini-Pulls
6. Sexual teasing “I am the sexual prize” – I have work tomorrow so don’t get the wrong idea, this doesn’t mean im going home with you etc.
7. Make out comments before kisses: Are you a good kisser, or you probably can kiss anyways, do you like it when a guy pulls you hair, etc.
Things I have to STOP doing:
1. Moving around so much…. More sticking with a girl all night
2. Once I open and a set hooks, not leaving, only to return and find the girl with lower buying temperature.
3. Stop focusing on my wings having fun, that drains my energy. i cant make them have fun. only they can do ti for them selfs
Once these things are handled, I will pretty much have elite level game since im already at an advanced level now.
Hang with cool guys man. Personally, I've hwung with one community guy. The rest are all naturals. I even befriend naturals in the club if no girls are around or the girls are low caliber & i am rolling solo. I mingle in the que. I mingle in the streets. I mingle in the girls washroom. I could give a fuck. Personally, I wouldn't suggest searching for "elite game." If you feel you have areas to improve on, just be conscious of these areas for future being "now." Watchout for "theory" and reading. If you are reading, go out and apply what your wokring on. 4nights is sweet. I was doing 6 nights & pulling quite frequently. At the same time, it is expensive and diversity is important. Game is not just pick up. If you are pretty good with pulling girls or getting numbers, then prioritizing your time maybe a better idea for your all round goals. For instance, finances are highly important to me. Hitting the gym is a big deal to me. I go to the gym to workout but, I pick up as well. I will pull in the mall and get a quick number or lay. Whatever. The same applies at works. Its not a light switch that ever goes off. For nights that you feel off, for whatever reason, the stars aren't aligning, it is awesome to have cool friends around you.
Madison, I've pulled girls in the line. They usually all want to fuck me. I pick the hottie or If I am not into her, I bring her into the venue, hook her up VIP style with her friends, befriend them, dance around them, pull the girls in, push them away, mingle with others, take the girls I want. Aim for the night is the pull. I don't spend to much time thinking about it cause it evades me. Its like I am wearing an invisible sign over my head - screaming my intent.
I remember one night being out all night and early stages of the next day. The ratio is horrible. Then, my buddy gets my attention about a hottie. I hit on her & the bathroom pull is there. Another night, I am bored as fuck. I am not feeling it. I am with two of my close buds/wings/homies. I want to be at home but, I push through it. I don't portray any sorta negativity. Then, i see the gorgeous blonde out of the corner of my eye. She then bull rushes me into the ball. Make out ensues. Finger fucking on the dance floor. I got a chubby. Night ends. I've puled and landed multiple numbers. WTF? I felt like shit. Yes, I am good looking but, what differs from the foot baller who is on top form to off form? To me, its being lost in the moment for the better - when your just living it up. Your doing oppose to analyzing.
I hope this has been some what informative.
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Jlaix: You are rather cheeky I admit but the self amusing authentic avi makes it impossible to hate!
Tyler:This is ultimately one of the keys to the game -- viewing EVERYTHING AS A JOKE. It's ALL funny.
Tim:`How can I make this fun?
brad:This thread got Ambiguity banned, you can thank me later.
Zack G: Ambiguity is becoming the Howard Roark of RSD!
Alex: "The famous ambiguity!" + "This is what happens when your naturally attractive; cheekyinnit#!
Ambiguity: I don't chase, I replace.
Tyler:This is ultimately one of the keys to the game -- viewing EVERYTHING AS A JOKE. It's ALL funny.
Tim:`How can I make this fun?
brad:This thread got Ambiguity banned, you can thank me later.
Zack G: Ambiguity is becoming the Howard Roark of RSD!
Alex: "The famous ambiguity!" + "This is what happens when your naturally attractive; cheekyinnit#!
Ambiguity: I don't chase, I replace.
FR: Girl says: “Take my number” and battle with anothers Boyfriend
Madison + 20
Thanks the guestlist at club we go to in the old port this weekend.
The line up is A-Booty, her friend. Abower, Natlex, Mathieu, Robert and some others.
I pull some magic with the bouncers and get Robert in when the bouncers don’t like his jeans.
Only 2 sets of the night stand out. I need to study them to find out what I do when I am “on”
Straberry Girl:
A thin Armenian girl see’s me chatting up a 3 set. She is not eye fucking me, but I can tell she has noticed me. I roll up and say something. I don’t quite remember. I should have wrote this FR yesterday. But in the interaction talk about her home country and that I can tell she is smart. I break out Twilight on her. We start doing weird and funny dances lik 80’s break dancers. I say something about the sangria she is drinking. She starts feeding me, I eat the strawberry out of her hand. I ask about her crew shes with, I befriend her boys that are having a birthday party. When she says something wrong to me, I back up a few feet or back turn her hardcore. After about 10 minutes she says “You should take my number” – strait up. That shit rarely happens to me. I was like – “oh, like that” shes like “ya”. We exchange numbers and facebooks. I say to her, why are we going to call each other we should just hang out now. I try to extract her. but she says “She cant make it that easy for me” if I stayed with her all night I could of closed. But I had friends I wanted to hang out with so, its all good. Since she asked me for the number I feel it was solid.
I see a classy white girl with a black girl ass. I yell her down and get in her face. Basic opner stuff. She is holding my hands when were talking but drops the boyfriend bomb on me. She runs to the bathroom but I ignore what she said cause her eyes tell me its clearly on.
I can feel the Nimbus is tight and everything I say is golden.
She come back from the bathroom and I spin her, grab her ass. Pick her up and slam her against the wall and go for a make out. She is resisting but laughing the whole time. She escapes and goes to her table, I ask if I can come. She finds her friends and ignores me completely. Arggghh. Im standing there for 2 mins like a chode, and open up a set next to her. They love me. And offer me drinks. I decline. I now turn to the hot girl and open her up. Her group is looking at us weird, one of the guys trys to cock block. I hold frame, apparently its her boyfriends best friend. He then like me. She shit test me hard, I pass. She she says “you are crazy” I say “I am the best”. She says “I can believe you” I say “ I can feel the chemistry too” – keep in mind this would be totally creepy what im saying, btu me and this girl really did have a sick unspoken sexual connection. I feel like I have this with maybe 1 out of 100 girls I meet. Its rare, but it’s a special click. So no matter what she is saying to me on the surface, I just get back to our connection, and ignore her surface bullshit. We play the game fuck marry kill.
Then a guy come up and puts his hand on my shoulder.
Guy: “Hey man, I just want to let you know not to get grabby with this girl. She my girlfriend”
Me: “That’s funny, she didn’t say she had a boyfriend”
Guy: “well dotn try anything”
Me: “we were playing fuck marry kill, bla blah blah “ (I don’t qualify myself – but I just express good vibes)
Guy: Hey man, do you want a drink?
Me: naww, its cool, no worries man
I turn back to the girl and im like “Some guys is pretending to be your boyfriend haha”
Her: “That IS MY BOYFRIEND”
Me: “You did nto say your boyfriend was here”
Her: “Ya, I DID – 3 TIMES!”
I realize now that I completely blocked that out of my mind. I really just ignored it. classic case of brain broken, but game is good.
She ask me my nationality and admits she has a weekness for me. She verbally confirms she want me, and I want her. I say its cause she drunk. She tells me no, and clearly goes through 5 reasons why she likes me. But she tells me she must be faithful. I facebook close her and try to remember her name.
Next day I forget it – oh well.
Strawberrygirl: Lesson learned: Could have pulled. if i stayed with her all night.
Girl with BF Lesson learned: Next time I will just bathroom pull.
Madison + 20
Thanks the guestlist at club we go to in the old port this weekend.
The line up is A-Booty, her friend. Abower, Natlex, Mathieu, Robert and some others.
I pull some magic with the bouncers and get Robert in when the bouncers don’t like his jeans.
Only 2 sets of the night stand out. I need to study them to find out what I do when I am “on”
Straberry Girl:
A thin Armenian girl see’s me chatting up a 3 set. She is not eye fucking me, but I can tell she has noticed me. I roll up and say something. I don’t quite remember. I should have wrote this FR yesterday. But in the interaction talk about her home country and that I can tell she is smart. I break out Twilight on her. We start doing weird and funny dances lik 80’s break dancers. I say something about the sangria she is drinking. She starts feeding me, I eat the strawberry out of her hand. I ask about her crew shes with, I befriend her boys that are having a birthday party. When she says something wrong to me, I back up a few feet or back turn her hardcore. After about 10 minutes she says “You should take my number” – strait up. That shit rarely happens to me. I was like – “oh, like that” shes like “ya”. We exchange numbers and facebooks. I say to her, why are we going to call each other we should just hang out now. I try to extract her. but she says “She cant make it that easy for me” if I stayed with her all night I could of closed. But I had friends I wanted to hang out with so, its all good. Since she asked me for the number I feel it was solid.
I see a classy white girl with a black girl ass. I yell her down and get in her face. Basic opner stuff. She is holding my hands when were talking but drops the boyfriend bomb on me. She runs to the bathroom but I ignore what she said cause her eyes tell me its clearly on.
I can feel the Nimbus is tight and everything I say is golden.
She come back from the bathroom and I spin her, grab her ass. Pick her up and slam her against the wall and go for a make out. She is resisting but laughing the whole time. She escapes and goes to her table, I ask if I can come. She finds her friends and ignores me completely. Arggghh. Im standing there for 2 mins like a chode, and open up a set next to her. They love me. And offer me drinks. I decline. I now turn to the hot girl and open her up. Her group is looking at us weird, one of the guys trys to cock block. I hold frame, apparently its her boyfriends best friend. He then like me. She shit test me hard, I pass. She she says “you are crazy” I say “I am the best”. She says “I can believe you” I say “ I can feel the chemistry too” – keep in mind this would be totally creepy what im saying, btu me and this girl really did have a sick unspoken sexual connection. I feel like I have this with maybe 1 out of 100 girls I meet. Its rare, but it’s a special click. So no matter what she is saying to me on the surface, I just get back to our connection, and ignore her surface bullshit. We play the game fuck marry kill.
Then a guy come up and puts his hand on my shoulder.
Guy: “Hey man, I just want to let you know not to get grabby with this girl. She my girlfriend”
Me: “That’s funny, she didn’t say she had a boyfriend”
Guy: “well dotn try anything”
Me: “we were playing fuck marry kill, bla blah blah “ (I don’t qualify myself – but I just express good vibes)
Guy: Hey man, do you want a drink?
Me: naww, its cool, no worries man
I turn back to the girl and im like “Some guys is pretending to be your boyfriend haha”
Her: “That IS MY BOYFRIEND”
Me: “You did nto say your boyfriend was here”
Her: “Ya, I DID – 3 TIMES!”
I realize now that I completely blocked that out of my mind. I really just ignored it. classic case of brain broken, but game is good.
She ask me my nationality and admits she has a weekness for me. She verbally confirms she want me, and I want her. I say its cause she drunk. She tells me no, and clearly goes through 5 reasons why she likes me. But she tells me she must be faithful. I facebook close her and try to remember her name.
Next day I forget it – oh well.
Strawberrygirl: Lesson learned: Could have pulled. if i stayed with her all night.
Girl with BF Lesson learned: Next time I will just bathroom pull.
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Went back to terrasse.
Saw girl with botfriend
she added me on facebook. i dont want to be her friend. wtf. She knows the deal.
Number closed a solid 9 model. But got reactive at the end.
infact.....i got reactive bcause she was so non-reactive.... hahahah the madness never ends
I googled her. Shes is a a very well known person in my city.
Shes is not just texing back with short 3 word answers. i will let it lie low for a week
On another note. fucked 2 girls this week. a 7 and 8.5
So why do i feel so lonely.
Damn, relationship times?
P.s. Guys flame me on the fourms, they dont see me in real life. im solid. and im happy to show anyone in real life anytime. fuck the haters.
Saw girl with botfriend
she added me on facebook. i dont want to be her friend. wtf. She knows the deal.
Number closed a solid 9 model. But got reactive at the end.
infact.....i got reactive bcause she was so non-reactive.... hahahah the madness never ends
I googled her. Shes is a a very well known person in my city.
Shes is not just texing back with short 3 word answers. i will let it lie low for a week
On another note. fucked 2 girls this week. a 7 and 8.5
So why do i feel so lonely.
Damn, relationship times?
P.s. Guys flame me on the fourms, they dont see me in real life. im solid. and im happy to show anyone in real life anytime. fuck the haters.
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cool reports. dont know why I always thought you were lame(and a bit of a kj ), but you seem totally cool.
I also like your style in the pic with the jacket, really really good, cool but not try hard etc (minus the sunglasses though..)..
If you got laid two times this week, why no report about that and some reports about times you did not get laid
One thing though, you are far too logical(and nerdy) in your analyzes of things. it is also probably why i thought you were lame, your posts are so nerdy, you think too much, maybe not in the field, but at least in the forums... Yes far far too much thinking going on!!! You seem to dissect every detail of everything, this doesnt help you!
in some of your posts, i just feel "oh my god this guy needs to chill, why is he thinking all these shits.."
relax, take it easy!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (take some beers maybe, it helps :) )
anyway, most important is that you go out, have fun and get girls (what you apparentely do. Hope you are enjoying it, sometimes it seems more like work, or like you want to perform, it should not!)
I also like your style in the pic with the jacket, really really good, cool but not try hard etc (minus the sunglasses though..)..
If you got laid two times this week, why no report about that and some reports about times you did not get laid
One thing though, you are far too logical(and nerdy) in your analyzes of things. it is also probably why i thought you were lame, your posts are so nerdy, you think too much, maybe not in the field, but at least in the forums... Yes far far too much thinking going on!!! You seem to dissect every detail of everything, this doesnt help you!
in some of your posts, i just feel "oh my god this guy needs to chill, why is he thinking all these shits.."
relax, take it easy!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (take some beers maybe, it helps :) )
anyway, most important is that you go out, have fun and get girls (what you apparentely do. Hope you are enjoying it, sometimes it seems more like work, or like you want to perform, it should not!)
cool reports. dont know why I always thought you were lame(and a bit of a kj ), but you seem totally cool.
I also like your style in the pic with the jacket, really really good, cool but not try hard etc (minus the sunglasses though..)..
If you got laid two times this week, why no report about that and some reports about times you did not get laid
One thing though, you are far too logical(and nerdy) in your analyzes of things. it is also probably why i thought you were lame, your posts are so nerdy, you think too much, maybe not in the field, but at least in the forums... Yes far far too much thinking going on!!! You seem to dissect every detail of everything, this doesnt help you!
in some of your posts, i just feel "oh my god this guy needs to chill, why is he thinking all these shits.."
relax, take it easy!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (take some beers maybe, it helps :) )
anyway, most important is that you go out, have fun and get girls (what you apparentely do. Hope you are enjoying it, sometimes it seems more like work, or like you want to perform, it should not!)
Haha ya I go out with him and I also tell him the same things. He overanalyzes thing so much. Good thing you stopped doing MM because I think you would have went insane by now if you did it for more than a year or two...I also like your style in the pic with the jacket, really really good, cool but not try hard etc (minus the sunglasses though..)..
If you got laid two times this week, why no report about that and some reports about times you did not get laid
One thing though, you are far too logical(and nerdy) in your analyzes of things. it is also probably why i thought you were lame, your posts are so nerdy, you think too much, maybe not in the field, but at least in the forums... Yes far far too much thinking going on!!! You seem to dissect every detail of everything, this doesnt help you!
in some of your posts, i just feel "oh my god this guy needs to chill, why is he thinking all these shits.."
relax, take it easy!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (take some beers maybe, it helps :) )
anyway, most important is that you go out, have fun and get girls (what you apparentely do. Hope you are enjoying it, sometimes it seems more like work, or like you want to perform, it should not!)
He thinks a lot in the field.. but way less than on the forums haha. I think he gets bored during the day ;)
Ironically Madison really does get a lot of girls and some really hot ones very often. It just doesn't come through in his writting at all because he seems to write as some guy who just went out for the first time or something :P.
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My FR Thread, My newer blog on health expirements/nutrition & my blog on making money online since late 2010 (SEO mostly)
cool reports. dont know why I always thought you were lame(and a bit of a kj ), but you seem totally cool.
I also like your style in the pic with the jacket, really really good, cool but not try hard etc (minus the sunglasses though..)..
If you got laid two times this week, why no report about that and some reports about times you did not get laid
One thing though, you are far too logical(and nerdy) in your analyzes of things. it is also probably why i thought you were lame, your posts are so nerdy, you think too much, maybe not in the field, but at least in the forums... Yes far far too much thinking going on!!! You seem to dissect every detail of everything, this doesnt help you!
in some of your posts, i just feel "oh my god this guy needs to chill, why is he thinking all these shits.."
relax, take it easy!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (take some beers maybe, it helps :) )
anyway, most important is that you go out, have fun and get girls (what you apparentely do. Hope you are enjoying it, sometimes it seems more like work, or like you want to perform, it should not!)
Haha ya I go out with him and I also tell him the same things. He overanalyzes thing so much. Good thing you stopped doing MM because I think you would have went insane by now if you did it for more than a year or two...I also like your style in the pic with the jacket, really really good, cool but not try hard etc (minus the sunglasses though..)..
If you got laid two times this week, why no report about that and some reports about times you did not get laid
One thing though, you are far too logical(and nerdy) in your analyzes of things. it is also probably why i thought you were lame, your posts are so nerdy, you think too much, maybe not in the field, but at least in the forums... Yes far far too much thinking going on!!! You seem to dissect every detail of everything, this doesnt help you!
in some of your posts, i just feel "oh my god this guy needs to chill, why is he thinking all these shits.."
relax, take it easy!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (take some beers maybe, it helps :) )
anyway, most important is that you go out, have fun and get girls (what you apparentely do. Hope you are enjoying it, sometimes it seems more like work, or like you want to perform, it should not!)
He thinks a lot in the field.. but way less than on the forums haha. I think he gets bored during the day ;)
Ironically Madison really does get a lot of girls and some really hot ones very often. It just doesn't come through in his writting at all because he seems to write as some guy who just went out for the first time or something :P.
Yeah im a huge KJ when i write.
But in feild i turn it off and i flow baby
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FR: Trashy Dancing Girl and an Alley
I decided not to write FR’s for glory, well maybe for personal glory.
But ive also decided to NOT write down every time I have…ummm…. Errr. Adult relations
That would be just silly, so im only gonna write the crazy storys that have lessons to be learned
My brother calls me up and ask me to perform with him at a show. I say cool.
Next few days after he come to my house and we go to the show.
None of my friends that say they are going to show up come. Booo!
We end up walking on st.denis street and im just chatting up random people.
I see a woman with tan skinned and blonde hair sitting with friends, she glances at me and makes direct eye contact. I go in. I don’t remember what I say, but I ask her whats her nationality. She says Moroccan. I tell her I love Moroccan woman. She is the 2nd one I met in 24 hours. My RAS must be picking them up. I sit down from a minute and get close, teach her a handshake, I tell her all about Africa and where morocco is. I tell her about me going to perform. We exchange numbers. She is a wild cat, I can tell. She is like 6 years older then me if I have to guess. I get her facebook and number. I text her to get home safe later in the night. I went back to see her, but I chickened out for some reason. I think I was afraid to sit with the 5 set for some odd reason.
I see 4 girls walking on the street. All amazing skin complexions. 1 guy in the group. Didn’t even notice him. I see they have a box of pizza.
I ask them to buy a slice off them with my visa card.
I take out my visa and swipe it in one of the girls tits. They love me.
They give me 5 slices of pizza anyways
I ask where they are from. They say brazil and spain.
I talk to a girl in a beautiful orange summer dress. I tell her all about Rio and how I wanted to go there but could not get the travel visa fast enough. She tells me about rio.
I tell her shes my new rio girlfriend and claw her in.
She likes it, but her other rio friend wants action. She tells me to marry her.
I say ok. She says she is serious. She wants to study in Canada but is leaving in 1 week.
She ask me to marry her again. I say I will think about it.
This goes on for 5 more minutes.
I say if were going to get married we need to practice, I have her friend marry us.
I pick her up and suck on her neck. Her friends are all in shock. Of course.
We exchange numbers and chat for a little longer. Me and my brother eat the pizza.
We go to the show. Its at a Rock/Goth club. Its like 20 people.
I see her. Trashy dancing girl.
Shes not hot, shes average. But something about her is very sexual. Her girlfriend is grinding on her. They are making a spectacle of themselves. They don’t give a fuck. I wish I would video her dancing, its so random and like sway. Her hands are always in the air, and she shakes from side to side. She dances like shes dumb, but its hot.
My turn comes to get on stage and me and my brother perform. Im looking for HB Trashy dancer. But she left to go smoke. No social proof for me.
We finish and get off stage. We go sit. She comes back in.
I open her, I tell her she reminds me of Lady Gaga but in a good way.
I tell her she dances freely like no one is watching and I like it.
She likes it.
I tell her she is sexy as fuck.
She is flattered by all this but at the same time feels like im “hitting on her”
That’s the weakness in my gave, I have trouble “being smooth with my interest” or my SOI’s
Her UG friend shes what im doing, comes up, and kisses my girl 2 times on the mouth.
I tell her im gay, im not going to steal her friend. She is getting mad and kisses her again.
She walkes off. I ask my girl “why is your friend so possessive”
I reframe it. I win. I have infinite game.
My girl is into me and starts going 50/50 on the convo. She ask me the chode questions.
We talk for 5 mins, and she tells me she is going to smoke. I tell her I don’t smoke but I could go with her. She ask if I coming. I ask if that’s a invitation. She says if I want.
She goes to smoke. I don’t follow, I chat up my brother. Hes like what are you doing, go outside.
I go outside, she is sitting on the steps in the rain. I say my brown hair beauty, where have you been all my life. I sit down next to her. She sits on my lap. I take my hat off and put it on her head to keep her dry. She is in my arms. I am strait up baby talking her.
Her UG friend comes and gets jealous.
I ask the UG: Don’t we look good together, don’t you want to see you friend happy?
The UG says: whatever.
Boooo for the UG!
I pick up my girl and carry her inside. I pick her up and carry her to a back room and lie her down. She wont kiss me yet. The UG finds a boy and brings him and starts to make out with him. My girl ask me to buy her a beer, im broke.
She runs off and buys a drink and starts dancing. I find her and start to mosh pitt on her.
She likes it and then runs off anf trashy dances…liks she was born to do.
I talk to my brother, she finds me, and says don’t leave without saying good bye.
Ding ding ding, pull sign
We all hang out for 30 more mins.
I tell the girl to come to my house, she needs to get her friend home. Arggggg!
We all go outside, and my brother calls his girlfriend to come get us in her car.
My girl ask me to pick her up. I do and slam her into a wall.
I ask if she likes is ruff, I pull her hair and choke her.
She tells me her and her ex used to be into rape scene. Whatever that is.
I take her to a corner in the alley while she is wrapped around me.
I make out with her, and finger her in the alley.
I take out my dick. I tell her to rub it. She tells me she wont fuck me without a condom.
Just as im about to ask her form one. People start coming and we have to leave the alley
UG is being a bitch. Shes complaining about some guy
Then complaining about her wallet
Then complaining how she wants to go home and is hungry
Nothing positive or contributing. Bad energy
The driver comes they give the driver gas money.
UG sucks the mood, and is killing the fun.. Bitching about her wallet she lost.
She pulls my girl into the drama.
We get to the girls house and her mother is there and her UG friend. I cant go in.
This is not what we agreed on.
She apologizes and kisses me 2 times. And says we will get together soon.
The UG has won this time.
We all laugh about the Cockblock on the way home.
I decided not to write FR’s for glory, well maybe for personal glory.
But ive also decided to NOT write down every time I have…ummm…. Errr. Adult relations
That would be just silly, so im only gonna write the crazy storys that have lessons to be learned
My brother calls me up and ask me to perform with him at a show. I say cool.
Next few days after he come to my house and we go to the show.
None of my friends that say they are going to show up come. Booo!
We end up walking on st.denis street and im just chatting up random people.
I see a woman with tan skinned and blonde hair sitting with friends, she glances at me and makes direct eye contact. I go in. I don’t remember what I say, but I ask her whats her nationality. She says Moroccan. I tell her I love Moroccan woman. She is the 2nd one I met in 24 hours. My RAS must be picking them up. I sit down from a minute and get close, teach her a handshake, I tell her all about Africa and where morocco is. I tell her about me going to perform. We exchange numbers. She is a wild cat, I can tell. She is like 6 years older then me if I have to guess. I get her facebook and number. I text her to get home safe later in the night. I went back to see her, but I chickened out for some reason. I think I was afraid to sit with the 5 set for some odd reason.
I see 4 girls walking on the street. All amazing skin complexions. 1 guy in the group. Didn’t even notice him. I see they have a box of pizza.
I ask them to buy a slice off them with my visa card.
I take out my visa and swipe it in one of the girls tits. They love me.
They give me 5 slices of pizza anyways
I ask where they are from. They say brazil and spain.
I talk to a girl in a beautiful orange summer dress. I tell her all about Rio and how I wanted to go there but could not get the travel visa fast enough. She tells me about rio.
I tell her shes my new rio girlfriend and claw her in.
She likes it, but her other rio friend wants action. She tells me to marry her.
I say ok. She says she is serious. She wants to study in Canada but is leaving in 1 week.
She ask me to marry her again. I say I will think about it.
This goes on for 5 more minutes.
I say if were going to get married we need to practice, I have her friend marry us.
I pick her up and suck on her neck. Her friends are all in shock. Of course.
We exchange numbers and chat for a little longer. Me and my brother eat the pizza.
We go to the show. Its at a Rock/Goth club. Its like 20 people.
I see her. Trashy dancing girl.
Shes not hot, shes average. But something about her is very sexual. Her girlfriend is grinding on her. They are making a spectacle of themselves. They don’t give a fuck. I wish I would video her dancing, its so random and like sway. Her hands are always in the air, and she shakes from side to side. She dances like shes dumb, but its hot.
My turn comes to get on stage and me and my brother perform. Im looking for HB Trashy dancer. But she left to go smoke. No social proof for me.
We finish and get off stage. We go sit. She comes back in.
I open her, I tell her she reminds me of Lady Gaga but in a good way.
I tell her she dances freely like no one is watching and I like it.
She likes it.
I tell her she is sexy as fuck.
She is flattered by all this but at the same time feels like im “hitting on her”
That’s the weakness in my gave, I have trouble “being smooth with my interest” or my SOI’s
Her UG friend shes what im doing, comes up, and kisses my girl 2 times on the mouth.
I tell her im gay, im not going to steal her friend. She is getting mad and kisses her again.
She walkes off. I ask my girl “why is your friend so possessive”
I reframe it. I win. I have infinite game.
My girl is into me and starts going 50/50 on the convo. She ask me the chode questions.
We talk for 5 mins, and she tells me she is going to smoke. I tell her I don’t smoke but I could go with her. She ask if I coming. I ask if that’s a invitation. She says if I want.
She goes to smoke. I don’t follow, I chat up my brother. Hes like what are you doing, go outside.
I go outside, she is sitting on the steps in the rain. I say my brown hair beauty, where have you been all my life. I sit down next to her. She sits on my lap. I take my hat off and put it on her head to keep her dry. She is in my arms. I am strait up baby talking her.
Her UG friend comes and gets jealous.
I ask the UG: Don’t we look good together, don’t you want to see you friend happy?
The UG says: whatever.
Boooo for the UG!
I pick up my girl and carry her inside. I pick her up and carry her to a back room and lie her down. She wont kiss me yet. The UG finds a boy and brings him and starts to make out with him. My girl ask me to buy her a beer, im broke.
She runs off and buys a drink and starts dancing. I find her and start to mosh pitt on her.
She likes it and then runs off anf trashy dances…liks she was born to do.
I talk to my brother, she finds me, and says don’t leave without saying good bye.
Ding ding ding, pull sign
We all hang out for 30 more mins.
I tell the girl to come to my house, she needs to get her friend home. Arggggg!
We all go outside, and my brother calls his girlfriend to come get us in her car.
My girl ask me to pick her up. I do and slam her into a wall.
I ask if she likes is ruff, I pull her hair and choke her.
She tells me her and her ex used to be into rape scene. Whatever that is.
I take her to a corner in the alley while she is wrapped around me.
I make out with her, and finger her in the alley.
I take out my dick. I tell her to rub it. She tells me she wont fuck me without a condom.
Just as im about to ask her form one. People start coming and we have to leave the alley
UG is being a bitch. Shes complaining about some guy
Then complaining about her wallet
Then complaining how she wants to go home and is hungry
Nothing positive or contributing. Bad energy
The driver comes they give the driver gas money.
UG sucks the mood, and is killing the fun.. Bitching about her wallet she lost.
She pulls my girl into the drama.
We get to the girls house and her mother is there and her UG friend. I cant go in.
This is not what we agreed on.
She apologizes and kisses me 2 times. And says we will get together soon.
The UG has won this time.
We all laugh about the Cockblock on the way home.
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The game is designed for you to be exactly what you think you are. ~ Rosebudd Bitterdose
The game is designed for you to be exactly what you think you are. ~ Rosebudd Bitterdose
Madison*
Trusted Member
Join Date: 07/07/2008 | Posts: 3168
I don’t mean this in a negative way; I just want you to be REALISTIC about this, because it will affect your interactions.
Girls are dumb
Girls are not emotionally mature
Girls are chodes
When I say “GIRLS”, im talking mostly about females that are under the age of 25.
Females that are above that age tend to be more mature, but it’s also very possible for a female to act like a “girl” when she is 32 years old. But generally speaking, once a female hits 26, 27, or 28 she starts to act like a WOMAN and not a girl. This article im writing today is about girls.
A Girls drive in life is to have as much social value as possible. Her social value is directly related to her self-esteem. Her only value is her looks, if she doesn’t look good that day - her value is lower. She dresses up and wears make-up to compete with other girls in a club to maintain her social value. She will do things that are not smart or immature in the quest of getting more social value points.
I have a lot of experience with this, and I think Girls make up maybe 80% of the female population. So there is a good chance if you do a cold approach on a female in a club, you are walking up to a girl. Not a woman.
Even if you go to a yoga studio or bookstore. You might still just be walking up to a more intellectually smart female, but still not a woman. Some girls are smart and carry them self’s around like they know better. But still make poor choice when it comes to males.
Some Real world examples of "Girl behavior"":
1- I wrote about her before. Alicia Keys recently got engaged because she is pregnant. She is now engaged to a man she met when he was married with 4 kids. She fucked him all this time, and while he was filing for his devoice from his wife, they decided get engaged. When I herd this I was like wtf? Is this the same girl who writes songs like “a woman’s worth” and all these other female empowering songs! – See what a woman says, and how she emotionally responds to stimulus is total different. This is “Girl” behavior.
2- Today I went to lunch with a female friend of mine. This girl is hot. A solid 8.5. We talked about a guy she chased for over a year. This guy had a GF, and she could get any other guy she wanted. She recently broke off from him 3 months ago, and today he added her on facebook and now she is “so confused” again. She obviously likes the emotions she gets from this no matter how destructive this is to her. I know 10 other girls like this in my social circle, with the exact same situation. Where they are all the “girl on the side” and they are hurt, but pursue the man because of this.
3- Think about it. Why do jealously plotlines work in game. They work because the “girl” is not emotionally mature. Just last week RSD Prince charming , Natlex, and I went out with some girls. One of the girls previously said she had no interest in me. Latter in the night she sees me making out with another blonde girl. And she storms out the club into a taxi and leaves without saying goodbye. A woman would explain her self before leaving, or express her true feelings. This is the reaction of a girl, not a woman. Girls do not make sense, and make poor decisions. Mastering this is part of mastering game.
All your inner game work has no IMMEDIATE relevance to that drunken girl in the club. It’s great for you, to be able to now have the confidence to approach her hard and be instate. But she personally doesn’t care that you read Tolle.
Tolle is for you, not for her. It directly affects you, but not your skill set.
Value is not static, Value is relevant to each type of girl.
All of your self actualization means something, but at the same time it doesn’t mean shit
The majority of girls are response junkies. You give them a stimulus and they respond.
This is why button pushing game was so popular 4 years ago. It was the shit
It only stopped working because PUA’s used it to cover up there wounded insides.
It doesn’t mean the button pushing no longer works. It’s not as if in the past 4 years the female race has involved into smart and emotionally mature creatures. No “girls” are the same dumb girls they were before.
Just because the PUA “community” has changed. Girls have not changed. They are still mostly dumb bitches.
Considering everything you now know about girls. How could they help you, when most often they can’t even help them self’s. In the past ive often felt hurt and wanted a relationship to heal me. Thinking if I could just get a hot girl, I could take a break from all this PUA stuff. But girls are damaged; you can’t have a damaged demographic repair you. That makes no sense. Girls can’t even admit to them self’s that they are damaged. And rather then go fix themselves, all they have to do is put on some heels and a skirt and walk down to the grocery store and in 5 mins she has attention and she can distract her self from any real personal development.
Male Douche Bags:
Or as Paris boom boom would say: Ze male douche bagzzz LOL
They are not self actualized. They don’t study inner game. They mostly don’t have amazing skill sets.
Wait wait wait, I can already hear the RSDN comebacks…”Well, we study inner game so we can have the confidence that they have” etc… well I have a theory. And my theory is that its not actually confidence that gets the girls.
What? Not confidence or any of that other non-sense? Nope.
Thinks about it, if you take a chode and have him act confident is he still going to get that smoking hot girl. Nope.
Male douche bags have many other traits that are much more effective.
Don’t feel bad about this. Or think of it as negative. Just realize it’s a fact and adjust your game accordingly.
And good ol Madison is going to name a few. Consider them rules if you fell like it….
DO NOT LOOK TO A GIRL TO SAVE YOU EMOATIONALY OR A RELATIONSHIP TO COMPLETE YOU.
Girls need to know you boundaries, not in a harsh way but you need to express them.
“Hey, that was rude, were both are adults right. So lets act like it”
You need to VERBALIZE your likes and dislikes BEFORE the girl makes a mistake. Let her know what pleases you and how she can do it. “Some girls do xyz, that’s not for me. I like girls that xyz for them man” – or “Some men act xyz, when…. but I think that’s wrong, I think a man should act xyz” – so you are literally communicating to the girl that you have social intelligence and understand the dynamics between men and woman. Infect I think the best pickups I have ever done included this.
Act in a way that respectful to your self:
Mystery: No, not that guy. Im talking about the element of a girl not knowing where she stands with you. The element of intrigue. This is why sometimes less is more when it comes to verbal game. If you can say something in 3 words and enjoy the silence instead of 8 words. Then do it. Less is more.
Be a challenge, and never let a girl know completely how you feel about her. Always leave some doubt that you think she’s cool but you might jump up and leave if she is too much of a dork.
Girls respond primarily to stimulus, and follow what they have always been doing. You should like girl, find them interesting, but in the same way when your dog tries to bite you, you stare it down and let it know its boundaries. Sorry to use a dog analogy, But im going to excuse my self, cause when brad made the breaking repor video he also mentioned talking to a girl “just like you were talking to your dog”.
Your new Mindset:
You should not loose your self in a girl, just enjoy your time with her, and it’s that and only that. It’s a little bit of detachment emotionally. But really what it is- is that all of your good emotions are coming from your self. You know that this girl, who is nice to you, could turn on you and show you her evil bitch side as soon as you loose social value in her eyes. It’s a sort of loving with emotional caution. Maintain control of your self. Knowing that this girl is not going to give you something you cannot get inside your self already. So you are not depending on her. Now, or in the future.