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December 9th, 2016
“ROW Through the World with Ease – PoP’s Masterpiece”
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SnugglyBear

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Originally posted on April 14th, 2009

Am I so far gone that I prematurely tout this off-the-cuff article as my personal magnum opus? Nay, I daresay tisn’t the first time I’ve been premature in my days of spouting off improvisational hodgepodgery. I can barely use my lungs to jazz improv, so I doubt I can make a woman trumpet with my trumpet if I blow too soon. On the trumpet, that is.

But enough bizarre and hard-to-understand metaphors inexplicably expressed through second-rate Shakespearean dialect, yessirs.

Onward with the show.

I am a stickler for simplicity; perhaps my general lack of cognitive capacity, or more accurately, short attention span is to blame. But I adore boiling things down to the bones so as to teach the way of scraping two sticks together. It serves me, and incidentally, the broadest range of my kin – in this case, those of the masculine variety.

I can’t quite spit this out in a single zen-like phrase, so I will instead consolidate an abbreviation within a zen-like phrase that wasn’t even written by me. But I can lay claim to at least half and certainly the cleverer portion: “ROW through the world with ease.”

Relax
Offer value
Walk your path

Before your eyes glaze over in a seizure of self-help terminological oversaturation, allow me to elaborate.

I find this is all I need to succeed nowadays. And through introspection, any man.

A game of puzzle that is straightforward but interconnected – firing on all cylinders one can expect a new reality of superheroic proportions.

If you feel like you can skim this and understand the basics, then do so. But taking in the full article will give you a greater understanding of why this is the shit, virtually all you need, and will give you more faith in implementing it thoughtlessly but effectively.

RELAX. First the nut before the bolts. Get that nut right off. The similar feeling of easy breeziness post-release. It’s a simple chill of presence, soaking up the vibes of the moment and per discretion, the environment. Acquiring this is first and foremost of paramount importance. Three ways to achieve this state consistently:

1) Bring Ecky back. Hardcore. Let it zen then zone you out. Don’t think about not thinking, just let him talk your busy brain into a place where it feels comfortable to let go. Once you find that place it will be like hitting a 45 degree hill on rollerblades with shoddy brakes.

2) Let go of everything that is not conducive to that state – anything you notice that would normally stress you out, let it go. Anything negative, let it go or laugh it off. Any insecurities, comparisons, fears… let it go. Deal with it with it comes up, and when it comes up you’ll be in this state and it won’t even be a problem, chicken.

3) “Break rapport with logic.” I came up with that, I think I’m pretty smart. Christ, that’s ironic. Anyway, since that “vibe state” you’re aiming for is pure emotion and burgeoning euphoria, you have to literally MOCK and INCINERATINGLY NEUTRALIZE your logic.

“But I’m scared” – you jump in and dominate with “--ROW through the world with ease.”
“I can’t think of anything to say” – slice it up with “--it’s all good.”
“What if this or that happens” – own yourself with “--oh yeah, I love it when that happens!”

Or fuck, that’s really being too kind. Just jump on your logical protests and overserious chode patterns with the stupidest shit you can conjure. "[Random logical bullshit]" – cut in with “--Slob my knob hoe!” The more vulgar the better, clearly. It doesn’t have to be anything special. Point is you’re pummelling it and subconsciously labelling it irrelevant. Which it is… intellectual masturbation is ego masturbation. Real masturbation is at least 2.5 times more fun.

Relaxing, allowing that formless state to be the beautiful place you dwell at all times. Getting to know it as your home. It’s essentially egoless and therefore essentially masculine (since you are in a man’s body). You can express anything you want and let it go as it goes. It’s an unreactive but responsive state at its core, and carefree. Just remember not to create anxiety around relaxing – the same thing as thinking about not thinking. Retarded. Shed the anxiety by adhering to the unity of ROW and the methods and understandings outlined above.

Kicking it down before general restlessness and irritability sets in (talking to my keyboard sucks compared to real people).

OFFERING VALUE. Damn this is deep. Sound like a buzzword or two but it really is a deep rearranging of your psychology. It implies so many things at once to your subconscious and other people, and when taken as a rule, has massive benefits for your reality.

Note to self: turn on lights. It feels like I live in the Batcave. Condoms strewn everywhere, soggy sheets… ambiguous stench. Perhaps the lights are off for a reason, my room probably looks like a crime scene.

Now check it. Here’s the idea: you offer value to literally EVERYONE you meet without caring if they reciprocate or not. It is a rule, and your uncompromised frame. Take it on immediately, trust in it unequivocally.

For you dorkus deluxorz who insist on doubting me, here is the reasoning behind it:

-You simply cannot offer value to EVERYONE in an egotistical state. Your mind will put up resistance on certain people, and tell you “it’s not worth it” or “she seems like a bitch” or “I can’t connect with that type of person.” And then you know you’re in the wrong state – you can’t be continuously relaxed in an ego state. Cause or effect works – relax fully and you can offer value to everyone, force yourself to offer value to everyone and you’ll start to relax more and more.

-Value starts with the vibe. All you have to do is cultivate the good, pure vibe of self esteem and direct your attention on everyone you meet, even if only for a moment. That way you’re developing the habit for yourself and living up to the standard, cementing a non-ego reality and thus a non-ego (relaxed) state. Giving your attention to each person you come across is sufficient for “offering value” although obviously it goes deeper than that.

-As Alex~ says there’s nothing anyone can give you that you can’t get yourself as a man. That’s true, and on many different levels. Thus to come from a truly masculine frame you have come from the offering value frame.

-Only your ego wants to take value. If you don’t engage your ego you automatically give value. The biggest implication of this is that if you truly step to people offering value YOU WILL STAY OUTSIDE YOUR HEAD. You can only go inside your head if you are trying to figure out how to take or manipulate value out of people.

-It puts you at ease with yourself knowing that it’s your only interpersonal intention and possible action. This feeds full relaxation state. It eliminates social anxiety, which can only come from self-seeking (value taking). Pure expression arises instead.

-Last but not least, the content is irrelevant. You learn that from this good intention you can say whatever you want (barring massive Jeffy-circa-‘04 miscalibration). Value can come in the form of total space, presence, attention, vibing, jokes, resources, contacts, guidance, wisdom, knowledge, seeing yourself in them, whatever. But as long as it arises from the first piece of the puzzle, relaxation, you’re set to explode into a higher level of value output (thus yielding a more prosperous reality).

Mostly if you stay outside your head and in a flow state you will automatically offer value to everyone. But check in with yourself every once and a while to make sure you don’t make an ego out of the new self you’re seeing, and continue to offer value, since each social situation and space-based companion is a freshly minted moment to master and give your all to.

As long as you maintain this attitude and standard of offering value WITHOUT EXPECTING ANYTHING BACK and take responsibility for it, you become welcome, socially proofed and influential everywhere you go, you always have a good time, and you attract people and situations who will bring that value back to you in SPADES, in ways you can’t even begin to imagine right now. Magic guaranteed.

WALK YOUR PATH. This will probably alter slightly with self esteem as you will relinquish certain egoic drives. On the other hand things like hitting the gym, eating healthy, focusing on excellence in work and school and such should become stronger than ever with the first two components fueling them. Walking your path is essential for cultivating polarity, concentration, and directing your value to the places that you deem the most deserving.

Another huge part of walking your path is not betraying the first two parts of the puzzle. If anything detracts from your positive state or your ability to offer value freely, IT IS NOT PART OF YOUR PATH. That's how you know what to acknowledge in your reality, and what not to – while still maintaining an open, chill state.

Your centeredness and purity of state and value you have to offer will become amplified the more you walk your path and do what you need to do for you.

So there you have it gents and gentiles. Relax totally at all times, breaking rapport with your logic to access your self esteem continuously. Offer value to all indiscriminately, indifferent to the returns you get. And walk your path, further fulfilling yourself as a man and in turn fulfilling the first two criteria.

Don’t neglect any part of the philosophy or it falls apart. Fail to relax, and you will be constantly scrambling to get the other two parts down. Fail to offer value, and your entire worldview and relationships will get scrambled. Fail to walk your path, and you will be a pile of scrambled eggs, a jelly-legged polarity-devoid excuse for a man.

Unscramble and you unearth the simplicity of yourself and life. And then you can not walk, not run, but ROW your way through the world with ease.

Happy rowing my friends.

It’s good to be back.

PoP
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good stuff, well written
very key. i like the part about offering value to everyone
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Yes, that's the best part.
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Genius. I love relaxing

Great writing style too
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This is great, but how come you had to delete your old account?
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so they let you out of the mental institution?

are you ok now?

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You serious?  Are the paparrazi after you or something snugglybear
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Pretty much.
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