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WillH

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Critique/comments/props encouraged. Read on. I live in Phoenix. I just graduated from college in *** and I'm a ****.  I love my profession, there's something awesome about working in a field where most of my coworkers are women. The other night we talked about their breast implants for about a half hour, that's my kind of fluff talk. Also, I work the overnight shift, so I'm used to being awake from 3:30 in the afternoon until 8:30 AM. I'm hoping this will make me awake and able to outparty everyone else when I'm out. Since I'm brand new in my profession I am still learning the ropes and dedicate a lot of time to becoming the shit in my career. Starting Jan 2010 I made a New Years resolution to get my shit with women handled, no more PUSSYFOOTING AROUND. This included a resolution to have no girlfriend for the entire year of 2010, well at least no serious relationship. A couple more things about me: I view my life as a sitcom with me as the main star of the show I like to fuck around and make goofy jokes I own every James Bond movie - I love that fukin guy Anyways.........ZZZ.....Its about bedtime since I work tonight 7pm to 730am BUT I'm finally getting off my ass and starting a field report thread ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ I've been up all night, well, aside from a short nap, preparing myself for the worknight saturday night. I went to a friends birthday party last night on the other side of town...well there were no hot women :/ Definitly not how I wanted to spend my Friday/only weekend night Still though, determined to work on some social skills, I stepped out of my shell and socialized and met with people there. The only person I knew was the birthday girl. It went well and I laughed to myself when I started talking to a chic and her boyfriend felt the need to come up right away and kiss her. Then this morning I went to the local coffee shop, it's walking distance to my house, barely a block past my local english pub where I do MONDAY NIGHT KARAOKE if I'm not working. I enter and greet the barista  I know while taking note of any cute girls when I walk in. This place is always busy and theres a pretty good amount of good looking women that come in. The only real set at this time (830am) I decide to sit at a table adjacent to them. I make the comment while I'm sitting down "Heh, I'm glad I don't have to worry about that anymore..." They're studying for their Anatomy and Physiology final. Theres one HB7/8 and one HB6/7 [I'm not really good with the rating system but the hotter one was a definitly cute brown skinned girl]. I'm kind of in a stage right now and I would hook up with either one, even though the less attractive one is not as skinny as I like, she has braces which I find adorable. And on my list is makeout with a girl with braces so either way I'm good. So after I sat and made the comment I got out my book and grabbed a tiny posted note out of my bag to use as a book mark. Then I reengaged them with something and we started chatting, conversation HOOKED.  We chat for a few minutes and I talk about how I'm excited to travel since I just got my passport yesterday. HB6/7 tells me that HB7/8 is traveling to Europe for a month in 3 weeks. She references a travel partner which I start to ASSUME is a long-term boyfriend, especially since they made the plans over a year ago. Regardless I continue to chat both of them and later find out it's just a really good friend. A friend that planned every minute of the trip. I remark how I'm usually just someone that picks up and goes without a plan, and I might even go out of country in two weeks but I'm not sure where yet. Her eyes kind of light up and she says she wishes her trip was that way. They mention their class a little bit and how they dissect cadavers and I tell them the story of my friend who saw a cadaver in high school for a class trip. When they pulled down the sheets he grasped his face and goes "GRANDPA!" and one of the med students ran out crying. He was just joking, it wasn't really his grandpa. Sometime in here I ask their names and they ask mine. Target HB7/8 thought she heard me say "Qwill" (pronounced like quill) and jokes about that. We all chat some more and they start packing up to leave for their test. They're about to walk away and I think to myself "STEP THE FUCK UP. BE A MAN. IF YOU DON'T DO SHIT NOW YOU WON'T SEE THEM AGAIN" So I go with the first thing that comes to my mind ME: "Hey this might be kind of forward but, are you single?" Looking at HB7/8 She says "Yes" and HB6/7 says "Yeah, she just became single." ME: "Well you both seem cool, I think you'd be fun to party with sometime or something. Take my number" HB7/8: [not pulling out her phone] "Do you have something to write it on?" ME: "Yeah here." I pull the post-it note off the front of my book and search for a pen in my bag HB: "Ooh, you have a post-it note ready and everything." ME: "Oh, haha that's my bookmark for this book."  --------------------------------- Note too self that may look planned out, even though it wasn't. It may or may not be good? --------------------------------- They both walk out and I enjoy reading a couple more chapters of this book I just bought "Casino Royal" by Ian Flemming. I also put another post-it note on the front of my book. ********** A few minutes later I receive a text HB7/8: "Hi Qwill ;)" 5 minute wait.... ME: "Haha you better put me in your phone that way *****, or I'll kick you butt" [I look back now and realize I typed "you" instead of "your" No response for an hour, I fear I was too silly which I have a habit of sometimes.... Her: "How old are you?" ME: "26 last week, u?" Her: "Really? U look really young- that's a good thing. Guess?" ME "Lol yeah I get that a lot. 23." HER "24 ;)" HER "Happy belated" ME "Haha sweet. I'm glad, I don't date girls under 21." ME "Wait a minute, should I be worried you thought I was younger and liked that ;)" More to come... I'm off to bed!
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to let you know, after a certain point, you'll get tired of spending so much time adding pics/convos to your FRs and you'll realized that there is a pattern to most of your lays so its the same story over and over--"textbook".

anyways, nice post bro.
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Hey man it's cool to see fellow locals hittin this up. I will definitely keep an eye out on this report.

You seem like a cool dude, so if you ever want to wing it in Scottsdale or Mill Ave just shoot me a PM.



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Here's the continuence of texts after I woke up (around 430 pm)

HER " Let's hope you u don't date women under 21 :)"
ME "Hey there! I just woke up. How were your tests?"
HER "One was great, the other, no so much."
ME "I'm heading to the gym right now before work. Do you exercise?"
HER "Umm... Negative :/"
HER "I longboard, hike and dance, I rarely hit a gym."
ME "Awesome! I love hiking, but I definiely don't go enough.
Camelback kicks my ass."
HER "Oh yeah. I stick to piestawa peak, south and north mtn."
ME "Is piestawa the same as squa peak?"
HER "Yeah, the non-offensive name ;) squaw translates to in Navajo"
ME "Haha like anchorman "why don't you go back to your home on
island!"
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Note - texts have been back and forth every 2-5 minutes. After this one there
was no response and I'm guessing she might be part indian or have taken
offense to the lack of my cultural sensitivity.

I consider asking her ethnicity or trying to be more sensitive somehow
but I change my mind and just decide to try this
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20 min later...
ME "I always wondered why they changed it. Now I wanna know why it was named
mountain in the first place!"
(2 minutes later)
HER "Exactly! Anyhew, I'm just chillin out. U @ the gym?"
ME "nope, I'm wakling into work righ now."
HER "I see. Have a good night at work!"
ME "Haha I plan on it, have a great night!"
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TristanLudlow wrote:
Hey man it's cool to see fellow locals hittin this up. I will definitely keep an eye out on this report.

You seem like a cool dude, so if you ever want to wing it in Scottsdale or Mill Ave just shoot me a PM.



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Yeah I'm down to met new people always, we'll talk soon.
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SirKonstantine wrote:
to let you know, after a certain point, you'll get tired of spending so much time adding pics/convos to your FRs and you'll realized that there is a pattern to most of your lays so its the same story over and over--"textbook".

anyways, nice post bro.

Thanks for the feedback. I've never really done a bunch of field reports with detail, its mostly for myself and to keep track of my momentum, look back on mistakes, and keep record of thins I do that I like.

I like your posts usually man, if you see anythin here worth commenting I'm always open to hearing from you.
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WillH

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Thought I'd post this up

I believe most fears should be faced and tackled

I was afraid to shave my head because I never have
I could have an odd shaped head
I have some moles girls might find disguisting

My goal was to shave it before May. So, last Tuesday I did it.
I like the results actually.

Before:


JK....







AFTER



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Yea I agree with you man.I used to "care" about my hair lol.In my opinion it's an interesting experience.I'm glad I did it.Respect.
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WillH

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Well here is another reason why always going out is a good idea. Tonight ended up being
great, not an insane night, but awesome nonetheless.

So as for an update from last posts....here we go.

Girl I met at the coffee shop stopped responding to the texts like she was, no big deal, I still
kept it light but continued to ping towards her every once in a while. Eventually she let me know
that she had tried to let me know before that she met a guy the week prior that she was
interested in and whom she found very interesting. I really respect that she let me know that
and we actually talked for a bit, turns out she's been in and out of long term relationships
since she was 17, she's 23 now.

Anyways...as you're now aware, I work the night shift. After switching back between night and
days (for training) the past few days at the hospital I took a much needed nap around 3 pm. I didnt
wake up until 11 pm-ish. Yuk. its late. 

My biggest issue lately is motivation to go out. I'm wasted tired after 3 or 4 hospital shifts and by the
time I feel recovered it's often after bars are closed (past 2 am), or the day to go back to work. I've been
working around this lately by going out in the morning. I'm not saying all this to bitch, I'm merely
logging what I have been struggling with lately, as a reflection and something to probably laugh at
during a future point.

Sooo, I do some chores, download the new episode of Stargate Universe, drink a cup of coffee/watch
scrubs episode, and shower. Muckity Mucking around the time is around 1 am.

FUCK IT!

I decide to walk to my favorite local pub and bought a kiltlifter (an awesome beer brewed locally). 
Walking outside I open a regular there who broke his arm a few months ago. I ignore the hot day
waitress that was offshift and chatting with the regular. She's waited on me before and I've tried to
get her to come out when she's not working and stuff with no success, I also remember her
mentioning to me having kids. Anyways, I chat up 50yr old regular for a while about his arm and
stuff paying most attention to him and eventually he goes inside.

She doesn't follow him inside and we're both kind of standing there.

I then chat up HBwaitress trying to keep it light and CONVERSE about:

Things I'm passionate about like work and my upcoming travel plans

AND

Things she'd be passionate about like her and her children

Looking back I dont think I initiated enough touch early on, but I did throw
some here and there. In retrospect I'm glad I didn't try to hardcore caveman because we are hanging
out at her job and a lot of people know her there.

We jibber jabber some about how we are drinking the same beer and stuff and she compliments me on my
shaved head and then I invite us to play darts inside (which apparently has never played the whole
time she worked there). Keep it light, no score keeping just fucking around and chatting, and I also teach her
a little about dart throwing techniques.

We step outside for a smoke, back in for darts. In this time she mentions how her tubes are tied because she is so
fertile (she has 3 girls) and if she ever really wants another (she always wanted a boy) she'll come up
with the 25 grand to get them un-tied [as insurance was more than happy to tie them for free].  She goes
to the bathroom leaving her purse with me and comes back, its last call. I say I'm going to the bar to
close my tab and she goes to close hers. She is at the waitress station chatting up her coworker and I
finish closing my tab....SHIT...I didn't introduce after hours venue change yet. I pretend to text on my phone
and a couple minutes later she walks up to me, we decide to walk out to the parking lot.

Earlier she had asked if I drove and I told her I walked from my apartment which is really close. She offers to give me a
ride to my place and mentions that her baby daddy has the kids tonight.

She accidently passes my place and when I say this she's like

"Oh, yeah I was just going to kidnap you" 

I'm like "Well I eat three times a day, I sleep spread out over the bed, and I'm awake nights."

Then I say, "You know, I have to be awake all night to get ready for my shift tomorrow. You should
totally come play some mario brothers with me and keep me company for a little bit."

 Her: "Sure, I can stay till 3am then I have to go because I work at 10 am." 

I also comment how I smell bud in her car and she tries to deny it at first then I tell her that I don't care,
even though I don't smoke all my friends from high school did and a friend of mine makes bongs. Inside
the apartment I give her the tour (lately I've been goofily showing a tour around my tiny apartment
overexagerating the place like it was a mansion). She smokes a bowl, we play some video games and
the time is approaching 3 am.

She mentions how she's not got that great of memory all the time (from the bud) and I say

"Well my name is Will".

Her: "Oh I remember your name, but I'm ******." 

Me: "******* That's a pretty name, I like that name."

We chat a little and as getting ready to leave and I finally grow some balls and move for a kiss. She kind
of turns her cheek and says she likes me but she doesn't kiss on the first night out with a guy and then I get
her to do some very light kissing. It seems like she got out of a relationship recently and she mentions not
being sure what a guys intentions are and I don't address this and maintain a chill frame.

We go outside and she smokes a cig and tells me about planning to get breast implants in July (she's this tiny 94 pound girl) and
I kind of test her on if she's getting them for her or because she's self concious and she stays congruent with
wanting them since she was 16.

I then walk her to her car.

I go to kiss her again and they're these very like lame pecks and I tease her and we have a couple of real kisses and
then she leaves. I tell her to text me when she gets home.

Her: Hey, I am home
Me: Haha cool, get some sleep and we'll talk soon.
Her: K have a good night
Me: You too, I'm glad we hung, you're a cool woman
Her: :) thanks, I think you are a cool person too, glad I got to know a little about you

Looking back at tonight its way awesome that I could've had a completely boring night but instead 

I WENT OUT
AND HAD FUN

And

I got a pretty girl back to my place that I've wanted to go out with in the past

In retrospect, this could mean for awkward times at my favorite pub and I've heard its bad news to
date people you work with, people in your apartment complex, and people that work at establishments
that you frequent. I haven't personally made mistakes and had to deal with this before, but this could
potentially lead to some awkward times in the future. I doubt it will, I'm pretty chill and I think awkwardness
is funny, so we will just have to see LOL
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Quick update...I'm glad I held off from texting more as the last one I received was 10pm which is the beginning of my day but the end of hers:

447pm ME: "What's up ***? Stay awake thru the day?
805pm HER: "Hi :) How was your day? Surprisingly enough I woke up at 7 w/out an alarm...and found that two 32 oz redbulls
mixed with mntn dew will keep u awake w/out any problems.
923pm ME: "Haha nice, I slept all day and then went to the gym. I'm at work and about tos tart on redbull #1 for the night. Happy early mothersday!"
1001pm HER: "Thank you :) Really looking forward an entire day off with the girls. Hope u have a good night."

I'm tempted to tease in the text...text longer...or try to build sexual energy

but often enough in the past if I do that at a time I'm not able to meet up quickly with her

its like a hot quick fire that burns out

So I held back to see if it stays lit longer...2 more overnights of work before I have time for a day 2 with her or any of my regulars....

And then I may hit up LV or CA...who knows
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YO THAT WAS MY GIRLFRIEND YOU TOOK TO YOUR PLACE!!!!
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