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March 24th, 2017
A girl I know boggles my mind
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Sedna

Sedna

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Join Date: 04/04/2010 | Posts: 46

 A brief backstory. I met this girl in class last fall semester and found out she's a club going type. Initially I got to thinking that she enjoys my company. We hit it off once through texting pretty well actually. It got to the point where she called ME cause she didn't know who else to talk to when she was freaking out about some pain she had in her stomach and was on the way to ER. So I calmed her down to the point where I relieved her and she thanked me genuinely. I met her at a club sometime later, and when she saw me she did this "excited, freakout, hands flailing in the air, stomping on the floor" thing. Haha, thats the only way I can visually explain it. She was with some guys then. I kissed her on the cheek later that night cause I was just really mellow due to drinking and had no fear. Fuck it, right?

Kinda flash forward later on, the texting and all got less and less. She stopped responding bla bla. So I deleted her number.

Flash forward a couple months... A month ago, I went to a club with some buddies, and at the end, she approaches me. I was surprised. She still had my number saved apparently and I found out she texted me when she saw me earlier in the night. Ok cool. So when we part ways I text her and tell her we should hang out more etc, she responded back positively.

I text her again about a week ago asking her when she's going out next, and we should meet. No response.

So I don't bother. I run into her again. She approaches me again. And this happens everytime we run into each other. She finds me. I ask her who she's with and she says with friends. She's also single. 

I just don't get the signals. It's like I have a feeling that there's attraction, but other times I feel like when I make a conscious effort to do something, I hear no response from her and that makes me think that she doesn't give a fuck. Obviously a WEEK is more than enough to get back to my text to her. 

What's happening here? Any pros in the house who have had a similar scenario?
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Naz

Naz

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Join Date: 11/27/2009 | Posts: 43

 This is just another one of those reasons why the seduction community exists, This is not weird at all. In fact, it's quite common. One or all of three things are happening:

1; You're coming across as needy
2. You're coming across as not interested enough
3. There's someone else in the picture
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4. Not enough value.
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justlikethat

justlikethat

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Join Date: 12/09/2008 | Posts: 56

Try calling? She broke the calling ice awhile ago.. Maybe shes waiting for you to grab your balls and call her? But thats caring what she thinks so...
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Manolara

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Join Date: 06/06/2009 | Posts: 128

You needed alcohol to kiss her on the fucking cheek? She's waiting for you to grow some balls and bend her over... follow this example
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Preston~

Preston~

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Join Date: 04/21/2008 | Posts: 379

Next time you see her, just go balls to the wall on her.  Do or die.  She may shoot you down, but hey, that's better than getting strung along and left wondering what the fuck is going on.  Or you just may get laid... could be she is only nice at the club because she's looking for a guy she knows is trustworthy for a sport fuck.

Trying and failing is better than wondering what if.
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