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May 24th, 2013
The EMOATIONAL shift from: "My game got the girl" -to- "I AM what got the girl"
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Madison*

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I commented on this before, but I felt it deserved its own post.

Your first 10 Models, you are going to fuck it up

Your first 10 strippers, you are going to fuck it up.

You first 10 doctors or lawyers, you are going to fuck it up.

And its all OK



Why?, im glad you asked. It all comes down to BELEIVING in your success.

Even if you go “natural” , and you get results being natural, there is a delay in emotionally comprehending those results.



The path is like this.

You have no game.

You learn natural game

You get decent results

Time passes

You get solid and now get awesome results

You fuck up results because your inside has not caught up to you outer reality.



It has nothing to do with being “good” or “bad” at this. In fact it’s a rather advanced sticking point. Because you may being getting Grade A results in field. On the outside you are a PIMP. But on the inside despite all your inner game work. The SELF TRUST shift has not been completed.



Self Trust; you hear about that a lot if you read RSD these days. It sounded like fancy Ekart Tolle mombo-jumbo to me. But now at this senior level is starting to make sense to me finally. It’s a click that happens in the later stages. Its something REAL.



It’s the emotional shift from:

“My game is what got the girl” – To: “I am what got the girl”

Not a logical understanding of it. But an emotional belief.

Easier said then done.



…and ultimately, this has noting to do with girls.
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haiqu

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Sweet!
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Powerhouse

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 thumbs up
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-oasis-

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true that OP
MiNdFcUk wrote:
the thing is if you have im a good with girls identity ,etc
better to dissasosiate yourself from attraction

only if you think you have something to prove
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Madison*

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Powerhouse likes my stuff. Valadation +1 LOL
What the fuck you do with Dave?, i cant reach this guy in San Fransisco!
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Gseus

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I suggest "girl and me got together".
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I f-ed my first model.  She was an 8 though and not a full time model.
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Fingerman

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We do nothing man. We just eat tacos all the time and fuck a girl every once in a while. Oh and I cancelled my mtl phone if thats what you mean
Mr. Mtl Madison wrote:
Powerhouse likes my stuff. Valadation +1 LOL
What the fuck you do with Dave?, i cant reach this guy in San Fransisco!
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You got tha gurl
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 I know what you mean man. I can even be in bed with a pretty hot chick that I already banged, but for some reason I might not feel totally comfortable and "full pimp" and kinda hesitate, which comes down to not having full self trust,  so how do u get that full self trust??
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Madison*

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Fingerman wrote:
We do nothing man. We just eat tacos all the time and fuck a girl every once in a while. Oh and I cancelled my mtl phone if thats what you mean


Mr. Mtl Madison wrote:
Powerhouse likes my stuff. Valadation +1 LOL
What the fuck you do with Dave?, i cant reach this guy in San Fransisco!

you cancled your phone ahhh. send me the new number then
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