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December 7th, 2016
Maybe Looks DON'T Matter At ALL!
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mix_master

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Join Date: 12/06/2009 | Posts: 100

I've done so much to change my exterior, my physical appearance in recent years. Clothing, working out, other cosmetic changes.

And yes, it makes a big difference in the number and perhaps quality of opportunities you will have with women.

Having said that, in checking out BluePrint, I am now beginning to recognize ALL OF THE TIMES WOMEN HAVE WANTED ME PRIOR to these physical, external changes as well!

For whatever reason, whenever women/girls displayed their desire for me in the past, MY CONSCIOUS MIND WOULD REJECT THIS EVIDENCE and it would not even make it to my conscious level of awareness.

So what's been going on all along is that many women, even STRIKINGLY HOT WOMEN,  were trying to signal to me that they were attracted to me, but I either didn't acknowledge it, or I would actively reject any realization that they were wanting me.

In other words, for whatever reason, women will dig you, regardless of looks.

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OR, here's another possibility, which is equally plausible. I HAVE BEEN GOOD LOOKING ALL ALONG and never even realized it!

Either prospect is equally infuriating!
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STEELE

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Join Date: 11/05/2007 | Posts: 344

Good stuff man.
Yes it's true looks play a small or no factor as far as attracting women go.

At the same time I don't think a 500lb man will be getting any hot women.

Money doesn't matter either but someone living in their van collecting cans won't be pulling in hotties in record numbers.


That aside, I've been through exactly what you described.I remember one time in particular I was riding the subway minding my own business and this girl kept staring at me.  Then she starts talking to me, and is now OBVIOUSLY TRYING TO BANG ME, but I didn't know wtf was going on and paid it no mind.  That has happened more times to me than I care to talk about. 
Another time I was around 18, getting gas while my friend was in the store, and this car full of four cute girls my age pulls up next to me and the hottest one is out of her car getting gas.  I'm there by myself, she asks me "do you live in so-and-so town?" And I just pursed my lips, shook my head and said "um, nope." Not to be deterred, she says "you look familiar.  do you know someone named so-and-so?"  And I had the same dumb response - "um, no... Then the girls leave, probably surprised how dumb I was.  I had no idea what just happened but my friend was watching me from the store and when he got back to the car he asked me what she was saying.  So I tell him, he punched me and said "DUDE they want to fuck! did you get their number??"  HAH! "No dude, they thought I was someone else.  You're an idiot."  He goes "No dickhead that's how girls try to fuck you - they ask dumb shit!  DUUUDE!!!!"

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HAHAHAA oh god, I have screwed up so many times just by not knowing what was happening.

A big part of getting laid is knowing when it's being placed on your lap and you taking it.

Women are a billion times more horny than men are and they do send signals that they want to get penified, but you have to be able to catch the signals they're throwing at you instead of ducking like an idiot and having them sail over your oblivious head.
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BloodmoneySWE

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Join Date: 06/07/2009 | Posts: 787

"For whatever reason, whenever women/girls displayed their desire for me in the past, MY CONSCIOUS MIND WOULD REJECT THIS EVIDENCE and it would not even make it to my conscious level of awareness. "

This is very true, if your a self-hating chode you usually have blindspots towards IOIs from girls, i recognize myself in this as well from when i was younger.


Do looks fucking matter? Yeah, some. But a guy can be BELOW AVERAGE looking and yet be sooooo attractive from personality that its just OVERKILL and spoiled to about appearance. Even if a guy is "HOT" if he is rigid and insecure it dosent help many times.

thats maaa attitude on this looks thing.
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azn8ball

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Join Date: 05/01/2008 | Posts: 11

In the end looks doooooo matter, but only as much as anything else

I know EXACTLY what you mean, women will send signals but if your self worth isn't there good luck buddy.
I find its best that if you get that feeling of "I think she likes me, but I'm not sure just yet" the LEAST you can do is ask her innocent questions and keep the fire going until you know more. But of course as a man, you should know when someone likes you and make the moves all the way till the end, good luck though as noone "knows" until they've had enough experience.
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BloodmoneySWE

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MY god....


looks matter mostly in the sense that SOME girls are reaaaallly into hot looks. And these are more then anomolies of 3 %. As long as you are not TOO self hating looks can help.


OFC some girls are gonna view "hot guys" as High Value these days, even if they lack Alpha traits. Just common sense.
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Tyler

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Join Date: 08/20/2006 | Posts: 8726

Taking care of your appearance is a symptom of self respect.  When you see dudes who don't do it and ALSO have problems with girls, it makes you kind of frustrated because you know it's a part of a bigger cycle.  That said, when I've gone out and been dressed poorly, or when I've been out of shape when I'm travelling and eating in too many restaurants, I've had generally the same results.

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BloodmoneySWE

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Tyler,

Inspirational. :]
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YaBoiRayDawg

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Join Date: 03/02/2009 | Posts: 1499

i dont think girls have ever hit on me. not a bad looking dude either. though i was a bit of an ugly duckling when i was younger and i have no style.
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BloodmoneySWE

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Evenstar,

you only NEED personality.

"Alpha" traits are generally more important. Its more in your head, than your looks.
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Kody_star

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Join Date: 06/12/2009 | Posts: 403

There was one dude I was winging with that I just had to dis associate myself from altogether. He just did not take care of himself. After a night of semi-successful gaming (amazingly successful from his point of view), he invites me to talk game with him at his pad.

The entire place smells like dog shit. Actually his car smelled like cat piss so perhaps it shouldn't have come as a surprise. This is a semi cool dude but man, even if HIS nose had gotten used to the smell, other people's hadn't.

It's just embarrassing when people don't take care of themselves and live in such a slovenly manner.
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Svall

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Join Date: 01/21/2009 | Posts: 1084

ALOT of girls will hook up with a guy because they think he has good looks, the only thing he needs more is a "not fucked up personality" AKA normal chill dude.

This is a fact, dont believe me? Go ask some girls, because you are hanging out with girls right?

Now, its far from everything, but if you are good looking you will get alot of freebies if you just grab your balls and approach.
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