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Idiot. Don't go all horndog in a text message UNLESS you already have that sort of relationship.
You got what you deserved.
As for what to do next, just learn from this and move on. She owned your ass in this interaction so find another girl.
You got what you deserved.
As for what to do next, just learn from this and move on. She owned your ass in this interaction so find another girl.
IT'S LOUD IN HERE!
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Yeah dude I should of put a part what I did wrong and how I should fix it next time, but yeah I just thought she was still HORNY for me cause she was one of the girls that
liked me hella and I just ended up getting fucked over. But w/e ASIAN girls are no fun.
liked me hella and I just ended up getting fucked over. But w/e ASIAN girls are no fun.
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hahaqhahaha im so faded that was beyond funny ahahhaha
dude she litteraly rejected you indirectly.
rejecting somene indirectly = saying i dont want you on facebook
and she said it on facebook and all your friends are laughing at you now ?? ahahha that sux and thats funny
and when she said "Whatever you wanna tell me right now, TELL ME THROUGH HERE".
she meant talk to her in real life lol. not through text message. yeah she is dumb she said "tell me through here" < tell me through the telephone
and thats exactly what your ass did andt he funny thing is that
she told you to do it lol
i thought asians were suppose to be smart
dude she litteraly rejected you indirectly.
rejecting somene indirectly = saying i dont want you on facebook
and she said it on facebook and all your friends are laughing at you now ?? ahahha that sux and thats funny
and when she said "Whatever you wanna tell me right now, TELL ME THROUGH HERE".
she meant talk to her in real life lol. not through text message. yeah she is dumb she said "tell me through here" < tell me through the telephone
and thats exactly what your ass did andt he funny thing is that
she told you to do it lol
i thought asians were suppose to be smart
Yeah she litterally REJECTED INDIRECTLY because that's what I posted, high guy lol. And no my friends doesn't know it's me but she's fucking told her girlfriends and they'll probably tell my friends
but I really don't give a shit. Friends within my social circle are pussies. Only my true friends know wassup. And Dude I fucking told her I wanted to talk to her and see her in person because we live like 20 seconds away from each other and she refused. She kept texting and saying "Just tell me here" and all that kind of shit... And I should of stopped texting her by then but I went for it anyways LOL.
but I really don't give a shit. Friends within my social circle are pussies. Only my true friends know wassup. And Dude I fucking told her I wanted to talk to her and see her in person because we live like 20 seconds away from each other and she refused. She kept texting and saying "Just tell me here" and all that kind of shit... And I should of stopped texting her by then but I went for it anyways LOL.
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And I should of stopped texting her by then but I went for it anyways LOL.
You were probably stressing, like anxious and shit.... That feeling. That's where the seeds of growth are. __________________
okay......
firstly - all the stuff you read about not giving a shit, and non-reactivity, you've taken it in the wrong context COMPLETELY. it refers to COLD APPROACHING in other words girls you meet and will never ever ever see again, so it doesn't matter what the fuck you say to them. in social circle, it is completely different. do you know what social proof is? its what gets people laid 90% of the time, you should give a fuck what she is saying to her girlfriends, even if it is bullshit, because if they think you're chodey you're sure as hell not going to get laid. social circle is different to cold approach man. with a cold approach you can literally say " i want to fuck you now" and its all chill but with a girl you've known for TWO YEARS that is as far from a cold approach as can be.
secondly - dont be mad at the girl, and call her a "bitch" or whatever. heres a newsflash kid, all women will run from confrontation, and all of them are not direct. its not a reflection on any one girl, its all women, and you know why, because they dont need to be confident to get guys, quite the opposite alot of the time. i mean haha shes 17 right, thats young, shes just a girl, she doesnt know whats going on!
i cant remember who said it but you cant next a girl you havent slept with. so whatever happened its all on you, and you have to deal with it. if you want to play with the big boys, you've got to accept responsibility.
dont confront her, i made that mistake when i was sixteen and it blew up in my face. its fine you're young, youll make mistakes we all do. but heres an important concept if she loves attention and stuff, DONT GIVE IT TO HER.
thats right, dont give her attention. you want to be different from other guys, they're called ORBITERS, dont be an orbiter, orbiters pretend to be nice to girls, when all they want is to sleep with them.
if you want this girl, then you should mindfuck her, instead of going direct. go up to her and act like nothing's happened, as in dont be cold to her, and dont be warm, be indifferent, dont give her any special treatment. flirt with her friends, flirt with everyone else, and instead make fun of her, but in a way that she is smiling too. make her comfortable, dont come across as a creepy guy.
and dude calm down!!!! yeah theres cool stuff on here, but its like daedalus and icarus, you flight too high, your wings are going to burn off. it takes years to master this stuff, and remember alot of it applies to cold approaches. if you can, do that instead of social circle, because there's more girls out there and you seem to have a good attitude, you could do well with cold approaching
Hector
firstly - all the stuff you read about not giving a shit, and non-reactivity, you've taken it in the wrong context COMPLETELY. it refers to COLD APPROACHING in other words girls you meet and will never ever ever see again, so it doesn't matter what the fuck you say to them. in social circle, it is completely different. do you know what social proof is? its what gets people laid 90% of the time, you should give a fuck what she is saying to her girlfriends, even if it is bullshit, because if they think you're chodey you're sure as hell not going to get laid. social circle is different to cold approach man. with a cold approach you can literally say " i want to fuck you now" and its all chill but with a girl you've known for TWO YEARS that is as far from a cold approach as can be.
secondly - dont be mad at the girl, and call her a "bitch" or whatever. heres a newsflash kid, all women will run from confrontation, and all of them are not direct. its not a reflection on any one girl, its all women, and you know why, because they dont need to be confident to get guys, quite the opposite alot of the time. i mean haha shes 17 right, thats young, shes just a girl, she doesnt know whats going on!
i cant remember who said it but you cant next a girl you havent slept with. so whatever happened its all on you, and you have to deal with it. if you want to play with the big boys, you've got to accept responsibility.
dont confront her, i made that mistake when i was sixteen and it blew up in my face. its fine you're young, youll make mistakes we all do. but heres an important concept if she loves attention and stuff, DONT GIVE IT TO HER.
thats right, dont give her attention. you want to be different from other guys, they're called ORBITERS, dont be an orbiter, orbiters pretend to be nice to girls, when all they want is to sleep with them.
if you want this girl, then you should mindfuck her, instead of going direct. go up to her and act like nothing's happened, as in dont be cold to her, and dont be warm, be indifferent, dont give her any special treatment. flirt with her friends, flirt with everyone else, and instead make fun of her, but in a way that she is smiling too. make her comfortable, dont come across as a creepy guy.
and dude calm down!!!! yeah theres cool stuff on here, but its like daedalus and icarus, you flight too high, your wings are going to burn off. it takes years to master this stuff, and remember alot of it applies to cold approaches. if you can, do that instead of social circle, because there's more girls out there and you seem to have a good attitude, you could do well with cold approaching
Hector
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okay......
firstly - all the stuff you read about not giving a shit, and non-reactivity, you've taken it in the wrong context COMPLETELY. it refers to COLD APPROACHING in other words girls you meet and will never ever ever see again, so it doesn't matter what the fuck you say to them. in social circle, it is completely different. do you know what social proof is? its what gets people laid 90% of the time, you should give a fuck what she is saying to her girlfriends, even if it is bullshit, because if they think you're chodey you're sure as hell not going to get laid. social circle is different to cold approach man. with a cold approach you can literally say " i want to fuck you now" and its all chill but with a girl you've known for TWO YEARS that is as far from a cold approach as can be.
secondly - dont be mad at the girl, and call her a "bitch" or whatever. heres a newsflash kid, all women will run from confrontation, and all of them are not direct. its not a reflection on any one girl, its all women, and you know why, because they dont need to be confident to get guys, quite the opposite alot of the time. i mean haha shes 17 right, thats young, shes just a girl, she doesnt know whats going on!
i cant remember who said it but you cant next a girl you havent slept with. so whatever happened its all on you, and you have to deal with it. if you want to play with the big boys, you've got to accept responsibility.
dont confront her, i made that mistake when i was sixteen and it blew up in my face. its fine you're young, youll make mistakes we all do. but heres an important concept if she loves attention and stuff, DONT GIVE IT TO HER.
thats right, dont give her attention. you want to be different from other guys, they're called ORBITERS, dont be an orbiter, orbiters pretend to be nice to girls, when all they want is to sleep with them.
if you want this girl, then you should mindfuck her, instead of going direct. go up to her and act like nothing's happened, as in dont be cold to her, and dont be warm, be indifferent, dont give her any special treatment. flirt with her friends, flirt with everyone else, and instead make fun of her, but in a way that she is smiling too. make her comfortable, dont come across as a creepy guy.
and dude calm down!!!! yeah theres cool stuff on here, but its like daedalus and icarus, you flight too high, your wings are going to burn off. it takes years to master this stuff, and remember alot of it applies to cold approaches. if you can, do that instead of social circle, because there's more girls out there and you seem to have a good attitude, you could do well with cold approaching
Hector
Thanks Hector for the fucking advice. Really brought me into reality. But dude, for HER, she was like a cold approach since I haven't talked to her since last year. It felt so weird just asking for her number but I guess I took flirting with her the wrong way. But how does MINDFUCKING her increase a chance of me getting with her?? I mean I've done it with other girls that liked me but nothing seems to really happen. (BTW, her asian friends want my dick) but she doesn't seem to be interested lol.firstly - all the stuff you read about not giving a shit, and non-reactivity, you've taken it in the wrong context COMPLETELY. it refers to COLD APPROACHING in other words girls you meet and will never ever ever see again, so it doesn't matter what the fuck you say to them. in social circle, it is completely different. do you know what social proof is? its what gets people laid 90% of the time, you should give a fuck what she is saying to her girlfriends, even if it is bullshit, because if they think you're chodey you're sure as hell not going to get laid. social circle is different to cold approach man. with a cold approach you can literally say " i want to fuck you now" and its all chill but with a girl you've known for TWO YEARS that is as far from a cold approach as can be.
secondly - dont be mad at the girl, and call her a "bitch" or whatever. heres a newsflash kid, all women will run from confrontation, and all of them are not direct. its not a reflection on any one girl, its all women, and you know why, because they dont need to be confident to get guys, quite the opposite alot of the time. i mean haha shes 17 right, thats young, shes just a girl, she doesnt know whats going on!
i cant remember who said it but you cant next a girl you havent slept with. so whatever happened its all on you, and you have to deal with it. if you want to play with the big boys, you've got to accept responsibility.
dont confront her, i made that mistake when i was sixteen and it blew up in my face. its fine you're young, youll make mistakes we all do. but heres an important concept if she loves attention and stuff, DONT GIVE IT TO HER.
thats right, dont give her attention. you want to be different from other guys, they're called ORBITERS, dont be an orbiter, orbiters pretend to be nice to girls, when all they want is to sleep with them.
if you want this girl, then you should mindfuck her, instead of going direct. go up to her and act like nothing's happened, as in dont be cold to her, and dont be warm, be indifferent, dont give her any special treatment. flirt with her friends, flirt with everyone else, and instead make fun of her, but in a way that she is smiling too. make her comfortable, dont come across as a creepy guy.
and dude calm down!!!! yeah theres cool stuff on here, but its like daedalus and icarus, you flight too high, your wings are going to burn off. it takes years to master this stuff, and remember alot of it applies to cold approaches. if you can, do that instead of social circle, because there's more girls out there and you seem to have a good attitude, you could do well with cold approaching
Hector
OH AND BTW, I HAVE VARIOUS SOCIAL CIRCLES, but this GIRL is MY ASIAN SOCIAL CIRCLE, so on the not giving a fuck part, it's with COLD approaches and SOCIAL CIRCLES and I SERIOUSLY DON'T CARE if she tells her friends or my ASIAN friends of what her friends think of me because HER FRIENDS (WANT MY DICK) and I'm nice to all of them, BUT THEY'RE ALL UGLY and they don't talk to OTHER SOCIAL GROUPS in school. THIS GIRL IS THE ONLY HOT ONE.
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You're both immature. You can do something about half of that.
Don't ever think you have to prove anything, to yourself or others. Your sense of certainty isn't "out there" in the world, it's to be found in your head. Whatever self-assuredness you possess or lack exists before you enter an interaction. The rest of it is taken care of when you know where you're at.
You can say anything if you're sure of it, but if you were hoping she'd validate what you're doing you can forget it. She did little more than breathe on you and you collapsed like a tower of cards.
Don't follow the ways of other men. Be opinionated. THINK. Try to learn a lesson from everything you do, but don't confuse that with bullshiting yourself that it's someone elses fault in order to evade the sting of a put-down. Assume responsibility for everything except the actions and behaviour of others (but even then, assume responsibility for your feelings in reaction to those actions or behaviours). Don't do anything that makes you feel invalid or guilty or "not who you are", because you could always be called out on it. Unless you want to spend your life fooling people. That doesn't mean you can't be mistaken about who you are or what is permissable to you, but to change that requires an examination of your beliefs.
The opinions and mindstate of the girl you're dealing with is as important as a gnat. You weren't rejected, you just didn't know how to turn around her nonesense. You could have made her love you with the amount of attention she gave you. Get a bit of exposure. When you are bigger you'll find low-hanging fruit everywhere.
Don't ever think you have to prove anything, to yourself or others. Your sense of certainty isn't "out there" in the world, it's to be found in your head. Whatever self-assuredness you possess or lack exists before you enter an interaction. The rest of it is taken care of when you know where you're at.
You can say anything if you're sure of it, but if you were hoping she'd validate what you're doing you can forget it. She did little more than breathe on you and you collapsed like a tower of cards.
Don't follow the ways of other men. Be opinionated. THINK. Try to learn a lesson from everything you do, but don't confuse that with bullshiting yourself that it's someone elses fault in order to evade the sting of a put-down. Assume responsibility for everything except the actions and behaviour of others (but even then, assume responsibility for your feelings in reaction to those actions or behaviours). Don't do anything that makes you feel invalid or guilty or "not who you are", because you could always be called out on it. Unless you want to spend your life fooling people. That doesn't mean you can't be mistaken about who you are or what is permissable to you, but to change that requires an examination of your beliefs.
The opinions and mindstate of the girl you're dealing with is as important as a gnat. You weren't rejected, you just didn't know how to turn around her nonesense. You could have made her love you with the amount of attention she gave you. Get a bit of exposure. When you are bigger you'll find low-hanging fruit everywhere.
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They should manufacture rubber dildos and vibrators with a cartridge containing my semen. Trouble is my dick is bigger than the UK.
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Don't ever think you have to prove anything, to yourself or others. Your sense of certainty isn't "out there" in the world, it's to be found in your head. Whatever self-assuredness you possess or lack exists before you enter an interaction. The rest of it is taken care of when you know where you're at.
You can say anything if you're sure of it, but if you were hoping she'd validate what you're doing you can forget it. She did little more than breathe on you and you collapsed like a tower of cards.
Can you give me an explanation of this? Don't ever think you have to prove anything, to yourself or others. Your sense of certainty isn't "out there" in the world, it's to be found in your head. Whatever self-assuredness you possess or lack exists before you enter an interaction. The rest of it is taken care of when you know where you're at.
You can say anything if you're sure of it, but if you were hoping she'd validate what you're doing you can forget it. She did little more than breathe on you and you collapsed like a tower of cards.
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furyx
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Join Date: 04/05/2010 | Posts: 272
So I started reading articles and shit to get motivation and so at school I approached her and it was so easier because she was part of my SOCIAL circle, but we just don't talk a lot so I fucking got her number again and I started texting her. The beginning of texting, it was alright. but I really brought it to a whole another LEVEL making it really EXPLICIT that I want her and I WANT TO FUCK HER. I wasn't scared at all and just fucking zoomed through it. She is a really shady, shy, DIRTY girl because she can be really shy one day and be SUCH a crazy PARTY bitch the other.
So, I said I wanted to see her because we live like 30 seconds away from each other and I asked if I can come over(HER HOUSE IS FUCKING INSANELY NICE TO HAVE SEX IN).... She started saying shit like "WTFreak?? Are you serious?? LOL" and I said FUCK YEAH IM SERIOUS and I thought I had her but she REFUSED and SAID NO. She told me "Whatever you wanna tell me right now, TELL ME THROUGH HERE". I was LIKE ARE YOU SERIOUS?? So I text her saying "I FUCKING WANT YOU RIGHT NOW".
THEN WHAT THE FUCK DUDE....AFTER I SENT THAT TEXT, I CHECK MY FUCKING FACEBOOK AND SHE POSTS : " What up with all these guys acting hella weird towards me? Like Gdamn, get off my jock. I don't want you. I'm sorry." DUDE even my friends started to GET ON THIS. There was so many fucking comments on this post LOL. But right there was when I got rejected INDIRECTLY via FACEBOOK and I was so PISSED because this girl is so fucking shady and SHE doesn't even have the guts to TEXT ME back and say "NO, I DONT WANT YOU. FUCK YOU" but she boasts ON FACEBOOK for everyone to see how "these guys" (when it was only me) are acting weird with her and HOW SHE is SO COOL that I should get off her JOCK LMAO..
First of all, I'm not really disappointed in this rejection. I'm a really SHY GUY when it comes to girls and to even have me text her kind of shit like that took so much guts from me.
I really got motivated from the articles and I just wanted to prove to myself that I did what I did and I'm not a fucking pussy and I fucking stepped up like a man and went after what the FUCK I want and I was not afraid of BEING REJECTED. SHE was just too RETARDED to notice this. SHE should actually be pleased that I flirted with her because within my SOCIAL CIRCLE, no one would flirt with her because the guys are all pussies.
Second, another thing I can take from this is when she posted that shit on FACEBOOK and I bet she told all her close friends about this too.... BUT YOU KNOW WHAT??? This is where the " I DO NOT GIVE A FUCK WHAT PEOPLE THINK ABOUT ME" comes in. I'm not a fucking pussy and I LIKE GIRLS and I would actually go FOR THEM unlike other fucking PUSSY ASS shrimpdicks in my school, who I analyzed ARE JUST FUCKING PUSSIES. So overall, this is great EXPERIENCE from this REJECTION.
But I HAVE A QUESTION... I was still really pissed about how she never responded to my text and tell me in person that she doesn't want me but INSTEAD rejects me by using FACEBOOK. IT coems to show that she doesn't have the fucking guts to do it and she's afraid I'll get heartbroken or something..
SHOULD I COME UP TO HER AT SCHOOL AND CONFRONT HER ABOUT THAT SITUATION OR SHOULD I JUST LET IT BE? She's the kind of girl who likes to get a lot of attention and very emotional and I was hoping if I did that, can there be some juice to power her up again? Because no doubt, If she hated me, she would of REJECTED me DIRECTLY.