Forgetting girls names. how to overcome

Posted April 7th, 2010 at 5:50 AM

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if i forget a girls name i call her 'darling' or my lovely vixen/maiden
ill call one of my friends and introduce them and then get their name from there

ask her how u spell her name cause u wanna add her on facebook...

or just tell her u forgot her name cause her pretty face kept distracting u

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Posted April 7th, 2010 at 6:22 AM

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I'm bad with names too, but I always remember faces. Anyway, what helps me to remember names is saying their names a few times after hearing it. Like "Who are you?" "I'm Linda" "Hi Linda" "So, Linda, what's the most exciting thing you've ever done" etc., do that a few times and I'll double my chances of remembering her name. Plus people always like hearing others say their names :D

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Posted April 7th, 2010 at 7:31 AM

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fuck names! give them numbers

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Posted April 7th, 2010 at 8:42 AM

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To remember her name after you get her phone number, I get their phone number and save it with a description next to their name. For example - Jenny NY Gold Bar Hottie with Pink Hat. If you have a blackberry, you can also write notes in the address section to remind you who she is and what you talked about. If I forgot her phone number, I'll have my friend come by and introduce him and then he will ask her name to remind me what it is if I forgot it.

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Posted April 8th, 2010 at 7:59 AM

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Full.Metal.0_0

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I just admit I forgot it and turn it into a joke.
Teasing them is the best way out.

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Posted April 8th, 2010 at 8:59 PM

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Mezina

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Introduce them to your friends:

To your friend Bob: " hey Bob, do you know my new friend?"
To HB: "he's Bob, a good friend of mine"
They introduce each other and she'll tell her name to Bob. This time pay attention !!!

If it's just the two of you... find her a nickname... and you've just started a role play about it :)

*head scratching* .... this looks like a routine to me

Anyway, works 100% of the times...then you get to the FB, #, @ close and it's safe to ask: "how do you spell your name?"

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Posted April 8th, 2010 at 9:05 PM

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Used to have this problem all the time. Now when they ask if I remember their name I just tell them no I don't and keep gaming. I think it sub-comnunicates that I don't the interaction to seriously and it actually builds attraction because they are used to guys who cater to them or will try to lie and say they do remember their name because they are scarred to piss them off.

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Posted April 8th, 2010 at 9:22 PM

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ACTUALLY CARE

whatever anyone else says is BULLSHIT

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Posted April 8th, 2010 at 10:36 PM

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