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How important is self love?
Fuck game, son. Self love is key to life. I don't like this, because you're seeing this about yourself and all you're concerned about is how it affects your game? That shit will fuck up your life man. You gotta get some priorities in order. Fuck some game, learn to love yourself first. Why do you hate yourself? Are you just being silly? Or do you really hate yourself? If so, what do you do about this? You sound like my girlfriend's brother in law. He claims he hates life and I thnk he does it more out of haibt and for sympathy than anything.
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What's that feeling? Uh oh, what's that feeling in your gut?
You just realized that you don't give a fuck and you can do anything you put your mind to.
That's what that feeling is.
You just realized that you don't give a fuck and you can do anything you put your mind to.
That's what that feeling is.
yo EAsy, no i'm not in it for the game..u misunderstand, i'm just trying to see if this is what's been fuckin up my game. i think a lot of guys, including myself got into the community because we tried to find love in others when we couldn't find it in ourselves. as to the why...dam that's a long story goes back all the way to maybe when i was 8 or something like that. anyways...how do you go about changing this...how do you love yourself? you can't just say in your head that you magically love yourself and pretend everything's alright.
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I'm gonna go out on a limb and say... yes, it's probably taking some serious toll on your game. haha :)
Yeah dude, I totally feel ya there. I was one of those guys FOSHO and I just have moved out of that headspace around Christmas of last year.
I understand what it means to have skeletons in the closet, as well. And idk dude, I love myself, so it's far from my reality. You just have to take a look at what's stopping you from loving yourself. Right now, for you, it's not about loving yourself as much as it is about not hating yourself, if you can follow that concept, I may be being too vague.
Anyways, you're probably a kick ass dude. I'm sure you offer the world some unique value in some way. I'm sure you've got reasons to love yourself, or right now, just not hate yourself. I love you fine so far dude! And telling yourself you'll love yourself and being delusional will help. Be fucking delusional! That's how you gotta be sometimes. Like I'm only a JV soccer player at my high school, but when I hit the field, I'm Wayne fucking Rooney dammit. Delusion is sort of like hammering a thumbtack. You know that shit is going in there without question. It has too much reinforcement not to. You'll begin to fall into a pattern of self love, because you'll realize, in the end, we are the only ones we can truly rely on.
It'll take some soul searching maybe. But you'll get there. You have no reason not to. No reason not to love yourself.
Yeah dude, I totally feel ya there. I was one of those guys FOSHO and I just have moved out of that headspace around Christmas of last year.
I understand what it means to have skeletons in the closet, as well. And idk dude, I love myself, so it's far from my reality. You just have to take a look at what's stopping you from loving yourself. Right now, for you, it's not about loving yourself as much as it is about not hating yourself, if you can follow that concept, I may be being too vague.
Anyways, you're probably a kick ass dude. I'm sure you offer the world some unique value in some way. I'm sure you've got reasons to love yourself, or right now, just not hate yourself. I love you fine so far dude! And telling yourself you'll love yourself and being delusional will help. Be fucking delusional! That's how you gotta be sometimes. Like I'm only a JV soccer player at my high school, but when I hit the field, I'm Wayne fucking Rooney dammit. Delusion is sort of like hammering a thumbtack. You know that shit is going in there without question. It has too much reinforcement not to. You'll begin to fall into a pattern of self love, because you'll realize, in the end, we are the only ones we can truly rely on.
It'll take some soul searching maybe. But you'll get there. You have no reason not to. No reason not to love yourself.
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What's that feeling? Uh oh, what's that feeling in your gut?
You just realized that you don't give a fuck and you can do anything you put your mind to.
That's what that feeling is.
You just realized that you don't give a fuck and you can do anything you put your mind to.
That's what that feeling is.
Man, I was such a self-defeating and self-hating asshole. I still get the habits coming back in. I mean it's almost like a continuum from like negative to positive, you just kind of have to work you way to the good end. I mean it's a habit you've built so many years being negative and self-hating that its bound to come back. Honestly, if you can't love yourself, you can't really expect to really love another person or have them love you. That, or you could be using the person to fill a void which is really using the person. :-/
Self love is more important than "being good with women"
Once you love yourself you become more attractive in my experience.
www.rsdnation.com/node/145753
Once you love yourself you become more attractive in my experience.
www.rsdnation.com/node/145753
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I'm going to make this quick.
But while doing EFT one night on the issue of "Not loving myself", I came to the realization that Self Love and Leadership are hand in hand.
The concept of "Go First" is most important with self-love.
If you don't love YOURSELF, then how is she going to love you?
But while doing EFT one night on the issue of "Not loving myself", I came to the realization that Self Love and Leadership are hand in hand.
The concept of "Go First" is most important with self-love.
If you don't love YOURSELF, then how is she going to love you?
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My game = social skills + having a dick. Morely the latter.
Self love is massively important. I recommend you look into anthony robbins, it will help you a lot. Im probably a narcissistic bastard, and I still get tremendous value in his programs!
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