THE FORUMS
March 11th,2010
Out In Hollywood
Ended up rolling to Empire, an 18+ club in hollywood with my buddy where we were going to meet our promoter friend. We got there at around 10:40 which was def not the time my promoter told us to come at, haha. He told us they were now being assholes and charging 20 at the door. We both assumed it was only 10$ so we were short- all we had was 35$ for the both of us. In line we tried selling his subway card for 5 bucks because that's all we needed to go but no use. Anyways we get in the front of the line and these 3 girls try to go infront of us. Im like "WOAH, what do you think you're doing." They bagan flirting and making it obvious, one of the girls was sorta drunk and touching me and my buddy I was with but i completely ignored it because I just have a thing that I dont try to mess with drunk chicks-- no thrill in it.
We end up letting them cut us thinking that it will get us in for 35 for both of us because we did end up "bringing girls." 5 Minutes later these bitches escape us and dont follow with our deal of coming in with us..smh. I tell the lady here's 35$ for both of us, thats all we have and they hesitantly let us in. We're so siked because we thought we wern't getting it but now we were pumped!
We meet our promoter dude inside and tell him our damn journey of this damn line and driving all the way there and almost not getting in. We head to the dance floor music is pumping and overall going really well. It's EXTREMELY crowded everywhere so we decide to head over where they were taking photos. Soon after THEE hottest girl and her eh friend walk past me and my friend. I'm almost at shock she's blonde, medium height and wow...a stunner i knew i HAD to talk to her before the night ended. Here was an example of my hesitation. I end up actually seeing her just standing with her friend just scanning the venue i guess, she wasn't smiling or anything...looks like she was having no fun at all. I approach them, high energy "Hey whatsup" and she ends up giving me the evil death stare-- havn't seen one like this in a while before and she just looks away. I kinda just stand there really not knowing what to do so I tell them to have a good night and eject. Next set was 1 really hot blonde also just standing there on her phone. I opened them but once again got that damn evil look and it kinda stalled me because they really didnt give me anything to work with--ejected soon after
Approached a few more girl's some went well but most of them didn't really go anyway..their initial reaction wasn't to positive and they didnt give me much to work on. At the end of the night approached some really cute girl by tapping her
Me: Hey whatsup
her: Heyyy not much what about you
me: Not much get over here and give me a hug your adorable and clawed her in
at this point she's just laughing but I dont really take it anywhere not because I didnt want to but I was sorta stuck.
Ended up going home oh and PS* helped my wing hook up with the girl we met in line, hah.
What I learned:
1) Figure out a way to get past this evil death stare...I know in jeffy's book he gets this stare SO MUCH that when he doesnt get it he's sort of suprised.
2) Start Plowing after you hook/attempt to hook
3) Most girls are REALLY fucken nice, they're just so tired of all these value seekers and want a guy who is having a great time and can make them feel good.
4) Start speaking louder, although i'm practically screaming they still sometimes have trouble hearing me. These 18+ clubs are a lot different than my all age clubs where the music is at a decently loud level vs these clubs where its almost impossible to talk
5) Esculate quickly and take it sexual real fast...there's really not that much room to talk so show intent a lot quicker.
Out In Hollywood
Ended up rolling to Empire, an 18+ club in hollywood with my buddy where we were going to meet our promoter friend. We got there at around 10:40 which was def not the time my promoter told us to come at, haha. He told us they were now being assholes and charging 20 at the door. We both assumed it was only 10$ so we were short- all we had was 35$ for the both of us. In line we tried selling his subway card for 5 bucks because that's all we needed to go but no use. Anyways we get in the front of the line and these 3 girls try to go infront of us. Im like "WOAH, what do you think you're doing." They bagan flirting and making it obvious, one of the girls was sorta drunk and touching me and my buddy I was with but i completely ignored it because I just have a thing that I dont try to mess with drunk chicks-- no thrill in it.
We end up letting them cut us thinking that it will get us in for 35 for both of us because we did end up "bringing girls." 5 Minutes later these bitches escape us and dont follow with our deal of coming in with us..smh. I tell the lady here's 35$ for both of us, thats all we have and they hesitantly let us in. We're so siked because we thought we wern't getting it but now we were pumped!
We meet our promoter dude inside and tell him our damn journey of this damn line and driving all the way there and almost not getting in. We head to the dance floor music is pumping and overall going really well. It's EXTREMELY crowded everywhere so we decide to head over where they were taking photos. Soon after THEE hottest girl and her eh friend walk past me and my friend. I'm almost at shock she's blonde, medium height and wow...a stunner i knew i HAD to talk to her before the night ended. Here was an example of my hesitation. I end up actually seeing her just standing with her friend just scanning the venue i guess, she wasn't smiling or anything...looks like she was having no fun at all. I approach them, high energy "Hey whatsup" and she ends up giving me the evil death stare-- havn't seen one like this in a while before and she just looks away. I kinda just stand there really not knowing what to do so I tell them to have a good night and eject. Next set was 1 really hot blonde also just standing there on her phone. I opened them but once again got that damn evil look and it kinda stalled me because they really didnt give me anything to work with--ejected soon after
Approached a few more girl's some went well but most of them didn't really go anyway..their initial reaction wasn't to positive and they didnt give me much to work on. At the end of the night approached some really cute girl by tapping her
Me: Hey whatsup
her: Heyyy not much what about you
me: Not much get over here and give me a hug your adorable and clawed her in
at this point she's just laughing but I dont really take it anywhere not because I didnt want to but I was sorta stuck.
Ended up going home oh and PS* helped my wing hook up with the girl we met in line, hah.
What I learned:
1) Figure out a way to get past this evil death stare...I know in jeffy's book he gets this stare SO MUCH that when he doesnt get it he's sort of suprised.
2) Start Plowing after you hook/attempt to hook
3) Most girls are REALLY fucken nice, they're just so tired of all these value seekers and want a guy who is having a great time and can make them feel good.
4) Start speaking louder, although i'm practically screaming they still sometimes have trouble hearing me. These 18+ clubs are a lot different than my all age clubs where the music is at a decently loud level vs these clubs where its almost impossible to talk
5) Esculate quickly and take it sexual real fast...there's really not that much room to talk so show intent a lot quicker.
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March 6th, 2010
Parallel Parking Trouble
Went to an all age club down in Hollywood with one of my more hyper wings, tebzz. We have an EXTREMLY large problem because he can't parallel park and I admit I dont have my license ( been really procrastinating, haha) and this was the only parking space avaliable anywhere-- no way were we paying 20$ for parking....He ends up trying but fails...and I offer to do it...took us 20 minutes or so but hey, w\e haha.
We get there at around 11:30,2-3 hours late haha..w\e though no worries. Some guy inline is like 24 or so and says he's being dragged by these girl's who he came with. I tell him there's no bar or anything and there's a bunch of 17 and 16 year olds..so have fun. He didn't seem pleased. We get searched and head our way in. ITS SICK...a LOT of people and everything was hectic. We try to sneak past the place to pay but they end up seeing us and tell us "20$ each" im like uhh how about I give you 20$ for both of us, 10$ each? They okay us and we get in, nice!
I go to the batrhoom real quick and its nasty..throw up everywhere and some girl's purse or some shit in the toilet.. lol ended up peeing on it because there was no where else. I come out and warn everyone not to go in the bathroms and they tell me they already saw. We walk around a lil and i see these 3 sets sitting down so im like ok lets do this shit. I walk up sit down with them and introduce myself. "HEY WHATUP" i say while they're in sort of confusion looks on their faces. I stick with my frame and get their names followed by hi energy hi fives after. As i get to the last girl i totally purposely miss the hi five which seems to always get a laugh for some reason and I was doing this purely for self amusment. I honesrly didnt even have a target at the time I was just there to talk. We end up disucssing the disgusting bathrooms (which that night was a great topic to talk about haha) while tebzz comes in with the ol, "yo have you seen Sarah?" "no, but meet these girl's they're cool" as I introduce them to everyone. They're all jewish except one girl which ends up being tebzz's target so we all bag on her for that playfully.
As i start talking to these 2 girl's who were actually twin sisters, pretty cute girls, real nice we start vibing real well it's going AWESOME. We're talking about just random shit, my likes dislikes what they do for fun etc. They're party girls so I tell them to hurry up and get legal *they're 17* and i'll maybe take them out clubbing if they stay cute. The convo is going great though...real authentic convo, great eye contact they are so engaged in the convo, its great.I'm basically winging for tebzz he's doing his thing and after a while and a great convo for about 20-30 minutes we decide to bounce look for other sets after getting their numbers and names first.
After i make tebzz approach a 4 set with 1 guy of blondes. I watch and after a lil go in to wing. I approach the 2 blondes, one is cute the other is not so much. The cute one is sorta drunk so I'm like sigh...w\e though lets make this work. I start being agressive with her and touchy, commanding her to do things which she ends up doing. She's on her phone and i tease her by saying she's just pretending to text people to look cool which she denies. I do some random future projection but shes wayy to drunk to understand wtf is going on haha, i continue though for my amusment. After a lil i pull her hand and pull her to the dance floor. We start grinding and wow she's just getting down haha...I try to go for the quick K close on the dance floor but couldn't spin her around because she was practically attatched to her friend. After a while they boune to the bathroom and I dont see them again..oh well, haha.
We continue to approach every girl just clawing them in and overall high energy. Some go over well some dont. We see 2 set of 2 cute black girls ( i really like black girls for some reason haha) They blow out tebzz at first but then i'm like fuck it, i'm trying to approach every single girl AT THIS club before we bounce i'm doing it. End up talking to them and the initial reaction they wern't giving me to much to work with but i continued to PLOW PLOW PLOW. I was at a point where i was telling the MOST RANDOM story i have ever told, something about us going to knott's and her flying out of some roller coster cause she was to cool to wear the seatbelt folowed by a trip to the beach where she gets eaten by a shark? haha Anyway's i tell the girl's they needed smile more and eventually they get more invested into the convo and start asking us questions etc and all is going well. Didn't really esculate at all except a few claws and hugs but stil had a good convo.
Things I learned:
1) Approach with a quick mind and try to hook, if it doesn't work just plow...PLOW PLOW!! Read Brad's Article on vommiting words to get better at it. I read a post somewhere where you can practice talking about a certain topic with someone for 5 minutes straight to become really good at this. For example lets say the topic is movies, so you talk about movies, any kind, how they make you feel etc for 5 minutes and branch off to other convo's and do the same..its great practice for plowing.
2) Be more agressive! Push myself till the blowout or the lay or in my case the K close/BJ because of logistics
3) Just approach and dont hesitate
4) Open girls who have their back to you just by tapping them on their shoulder, easy as that.
Parallel Parking Trouble
Went to an all age club down in Hollywood with one of my more hyper wings, tebzz. We have an EXTREMLY large problem because he can't parallel park and I admit I dont have my license ( been really procrastinating, haha) and this was the only parking space avaliable anywhere-- no way were we paying 20$ for parking....He ends up trying but fails...and I offer to do it...took us 20 minutes or so but hey, w\e haha.
We get there at around 11:30,2-3 hours late haha..w\e though no worries. Some guy inline is like 24 or so and says he's being dragged by these girl's who he came with. I tell him there's no bar or anything and there's a bunch of 17 and 16 year olds..so have fun. He didn't seem pleased. We get searched and head our way in. ITS SICK...a LOT of people and everything was hectic. We try to sneak past the place to pay but they end up seeing us and tell us "20$ each" im like uhh how about I give you 20$ for both of us, 10$ each? They okay us and we get in, nice!
I go to the batrhoom real quick and its nasty..throw up everywhere and some girl's purse or some shit in the toilet.. lol ended up peeing on it because there was no where else. I come out and warn everyone not to go in the bathroms and they tell me they already saw. We walk around a lil and i see these 3 sets sitting down so im like ok lets do this shit. I walk up sit down with them and introduce myself. "HEY WHATUP" i say while they're in sort of confusion looks on their faces. I stick with my frame and get their names followed by hi energy hi fives after. As i get to the last girl i totally purposely miss the hi five which seems to always get a laugh for some reason and I was doing this purely for self amusment. I honesrly didnt even have a target at the time I was just there to talk. We end up disucssing the disgusting bathrooms (which that night was a great topic to talk about haha) while tebzz comes in with the ol, "yo have you seen Sarah?" "no, but meet these girl's they're cool" as I introduce them to everyone. They're all jewish except one girl which ends up being tebzz's target so we all bag on her for that playfully.
As i start talking to these 2 girl's who were actually twin sisters, pretty cute girls, real nice we start vibing real well it's going AWESOME. We're talking about just random shit, my likes dislikes what they do for fun etc. They're party girls so I tell them to hurry up and get legal *they're 17* and i'll maybe take them out clubbing if they stay cute. The convo is going great though...real authentic convo, great eye contact they are so engaged in the convo, its great.I'm basically winging for tebzz he's doing his thing and after a while and a great convo for about 20-30 minutes we decide to bounce look for other sets after getting their numbers and names first.
After i make tebzz approach a 4 set with 1 guy of blondes. I watch and after a lil go in to wing. I approach the 2 blondes, one is cute the other is not so much. The cute one is sorta drunk so I'm like sigh...w\e though lets make this work. I start being agressive with her and touchy, commanding her to do things which she ends up doing. She's on her phone and i tease her by saying she's just pretending to text people to look cool which she denies. I do some random future projection but shes wayy to drunk to understand wtf is going on haha, i continue though for my amusment. After a lil i pull her hand and pull her to the dance floor. We start grinding and wow she's just getting down haha...I try to go for the quick K close on the dance floor but couldn't spin her around because she was practically attatched to her friend. After a while they boune to the bathroom and I dont see them again..oh well, haha.
We continue to approach every girl just clawing them in and overall high energy. Some go over well some dont. We see 2 set of 2 cute black girls ( i really like black girls for some reason haha) They blow out tebzz at first but then i'm like fuck it, i'm trying to approach every single girl AT THIS club before we bounce i'm doing it. End up talking to them and the initial reaction they wern't giving me to much to work with but i continued to PLOW PLOW PLOW. I was at a point where i was telling the MOST RANDOM story i have ever told, something about us going to knott's and her flying out of some roller coster cause she was to cool to wear the seatbelt folowed by a trip to the beach where she gets eaten by a shark? haha Anyway's i tell the girl's they needed smile more and eventually they get more invested into the convo and start asking us questions etc and all is going well. Didn't really esculate at all except a few claws and hugs but stil had a good convo.
Things I learned:
1) Approach with a quick mind and try to hook, if it doesn't work just plow...PLOW PLOW!! Read Brad's Article on vommiting words to get better at it. I read a post somewhere where you can practice talking about a certain topic with someone for 5 minutes straight to become really good at this. For example lets say the topic is movies, so you talk about movies, any kind, how they make you feel etc for 5 minutes and branch off to other convo's and do the same..its great practice for plowing.
2) Be more agressive! Push myself till the blowout or the lay or in my case the K close/BJ because of logistics
3) Just approach and dont hesitate
4) Open girls who have their back to you just by tapping them on their shoulder, easy as that.
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New field report 2.0:
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/315808?#comment-1018656
LA dudes hit me up for wings.
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LA dudes hit me up for wings.
March 13th,2009
Party Close By
Mothelover(wing) and I decide to go to an all age party close by with the 2 chicks I met last time (the twins) The 1 chick REALLY hooked amazingly so we decide to meet a little bit before and just chill at my jacuzzi while we wait for Motherlover to come. He arrives, I give him a great introduction and we head out. They're wearing some langirae because it is a langirae party :), nice plus I offer to go to the jacuzzi after the club. She says she has no bathing suit, i tell her thats not a problem with me. :)
The line when we get there is decent size and we meet up with my friend and his girlfriend there. I see the 2 girl's i came with ex bf and greet him and we talk, he's a cool kid. We're all just talking and having a great time in line, I'm picking my target up hugging her, spinning her all of it, just having a great time. As we get in we dance with them a little and me and mother end up trying to find a way to get them away so we can open other sets haha. They take care of themselves and tell us that they're gonna go dance over there, nice. We did the 30 second approach or get punched game for most of the night which was REALLY fun. Saw some girl i know from school with a cute frien who apprently was her sister. She was sorrounded by like 3 guys but i approached anyways. The girl was cute and she was down but the girl i know from school kept pulling her away and saying her date was gonna be here soon, very gay. I tried to plow through this and the girl was following my lead but i was getting cock blocked quite hard lol. Oh well after a while i kinda just give up on that, to much hastle.
I see a 4-5 set of black girls, tall and cute and end up approaching them because time was running out ( the 30 second game) and i had to find a set. I say hi and it hooks decent but i began to plow. I talk about avatar and the hype about it followed by some other random shit. I dont esculate barely at all except for again hugs and claws and shit but other than that nothing. The set is going well but her friends coem out of no where and I just couldn't bring the attention back to me the friends were a huge distraction. One of the friends actually opened me up asking what my name was. I told her my name was tyrone(thats not my name, haha) she laughed but I didnt really take it anywhere because they were about to leave. Overall great night, i foccused on having FUN over trying to get laid etc. great mindset change, big props to BIGSTEVE for that good mindset to go in with.
There were some sets i hesitated and got blown out completly from. One was i opened trying to sell girls car inssurance and they were NOT INTERESTED AT ALL, i thought at one point they were gonna just start screming for securitty because i was just PLOWING and PLOWING of ridicilous after they're like NO GO AWAY NOW , haha was awesome. The other girl's look amused but wouldnt talk with us because their leader friend was completely not down haha...after a lil we eject. Overall good night but still few things to work on
Things I learned and need to work on:
1) ESCULATE..take it sexual, touching, kissing on the cheek..w\e quicker. I'm hooking some sets but they end up not going anywhere because i'm not showing my manly true intent
2) Just open worst they can do is give you the death stare which all you have to do is plow through untill something hooks
3) Plowing is way to fun and so is the game! i love it
Party Close By
Mothelover(wing) and I decide to go to an all age party close by with the 2 chicks I met last time (the twins) The 1 chick REALLY hooked amazingly so we decide to meet a little bit before and just chill at my jacuzzi while we wait for Motherlover to come. He arrives, I give him a great introduction and we head out. They're wearing some langirae because it is a langirae party :), nice plus I offer to go to the jacuzzi after the club. She says she has no bathing suit, i tell her thats not a problem with me. :)
The line when we get there is decent size and we meet up with my friend and his girlfriend there. I see the 2 girl's i came with ex bf and greet him and we talk, he's a cool kid. We're all just talking and having a great time in line, I'm picking my target up hugging her, spinning her all of it, just having a great time. As we get in we dance with them a little and me and mother end up trying to find a way to get them away so we can open other sets haha. They take care of themselves and tell us that they're gonna go dance over there, nice. We did the 30 second approach or get punched game for most of the night which was REALLY fun. Saw some girl i know from school with a cute frien who apprently was her sister. She was sorrounded by like 3 guys but i approached anyways. The girl was cute and she was down but the girl i know from school kept pulling her away and saying her date was gonna be here soon, very gay. I tried to plow through this and the girl was following my lead but i was getting cock blocked quite hard lol. Oh well after a while i kinda just give up on that, to much hastle.
I see a 4-5 set of black girls, tall and cute and end up approaching them because time was running out ( the 30 second game) and i had to find a set. I say hi and it hooks decent but i began to plow. I talk about avatar and the hype about it followed by some other random shit. I dont esculate barely at all except for again hugs and claws and shit but other than that nothing. The set is going well but her friends coem out of no where and I just couldn't bring the attention back to me the friends were a huge distraction. One of the friends actually opened me up asking what my name was. I told her my name was tyrone(thats not my name, haha) she laughed but I didnt really take it anywhere because they were about to leave. Overall great night, i foccused on having FUN over trying to get laid etc. great mindset change, big props to BIGSTEVE for that good mindset to go in with.
There were some sets i hesitated and got blown out completly from. One was i opened trying to sell girls car inssurance and they were NOT INTERESTED AT ALL, i thought at one point they were gonna just start screming for securitty because i was just PLOWING and PLOWING of ridicilous after they're like NO GO AWAY NOW , haha was awesome. The other girl's look amused but wouldnt talk with us because their leader friend was completely not down haha...after a lil we eject. Overall good night but still few things to work on
Things I learned and need to work on:
1) ESCULATE..take it sexual, touching, kissing on the cheek..w\e quicker. I'm hooking some sets but they end up not going anywhere because i'm not showing my manly true intent
2) Just open worst they can do is give you the death stare which all you have to do is plow through untill something hooks
3) Plowing is way to fun and so is the game! i love it
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New field report 2.0:
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/315808?#comment-1018656
LA dudes hit me up for wings.
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LA dudes hit me up for wings.
really one of the most fun nights out i've ever had. Just pushing yourself to open with the 30 second game, and then when you're in continuing to plow is a deadly combinations. You can pump your state really fast and at the same time gain valuable referance material. Overall just a great way to spend a saturday night, woudn't want to be doing anything else.
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Attraction equals higher value plus a full range of emotions, to the power of infinity. ~ Alex
Attraction equals higher value plus a full range of emotions, to the power of infinity. ~ Alex
Sounds all really good! I wish you luck! Id wish I lived in Hollywood sometimes, Copenhagen (Denmark) can be a little too easygoing for my taste sometimes, but it will do for now :) Especially like how you focus on making it fun and the part with "what you learned" keep it up :)
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Btw thought you might like this line originally by Pook (a famous PUA from the donjuan archives)
"To be perfect is boring, to be human is beautiful"
You should never strive to be perfect because nothing ever is, you should try to be one with the universe, that is always changing and shifting (Tylers latest article).
"To be perfect is boring, to be human is beautiful"
You should never strive to be perfect because nothing ever is, you should try to be one with the universe, that is always changing and shifting (Tylers latest article).
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Your title is what made me think of that again, and why I clicked in on this in the first place... I like it very much that this is your "journey to CONSISTENCY NOT PERFECTION" :)
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Apreciate the kind comments bro I will def keep this updated
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New field report 2.0:
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/315808?#comment-1018656
LA dudes hit me up for wings.
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/315808?#comment-1018656
LA dudes hit me up for wings.
Great journal rigthnow, you should be proud. It looks like you've got a really positive frame through your field reports, even when you're getting blown out. That's hard to do. I'll be 18 in a couple months and I hope i'm at a similar point in my game then. Also, santa monica is fucking tight and I wish I lived there.
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Thick and Viscous Part Two, read it!
www.rsdnation.com/node/150156
Thick and Viscous Part Two, read it!
www.rsdnation.com/node/150156
Great journal rigthnow, you should be proud. It looks like you've got a really positive frame through your field reports, even when you're getting blown out. That's hard to do. I'll be 18 in a couple months and I hope i'm at a similar point in my game then. Also, santa monica is fucking tight and I wish I lived there.
Thanks man I noticed I take blowouts with no pain at all...I guess i somehow just believe so hard in this stuff that it just goes in through one ear and right out the other one, no pain at all.March 18th,2010
Empire on Thursdays, "I DONT LIKE GUYS ,PEACE"
My boy picks me up and we start out night by picking up 2 of his home girls. One really bomb russian girl and a cute blonde chick whos latina. He introduces me I get them laughing but really wasn't feeling the logistics so decided i'd just be cool with them (friend status). We end up having a really good talk in the car while we waited for my promoter friend to get paid and come back which i'll expalin below.
We arrive pretty early and the dance floor is basically empty and people are all just starting to arrive. I just hang out for a lil bit with my promoter friend who we'll call Jack just for the sake of it but after a little while he goes somewhere and i lose him. I end up just kinda hanging for a few minutes before opening up some decently attractive girl who was just standing near the wall doing nothing. We talk for a little but its not really going anywhere just shooting the shit--not triyng to take it anywhere eaither. She tells me she's waiting for her friends and after a while they end up coming through the door she bounces with them. I see her a couple times with her cute blonde friend but never end up saying hi. Oh well!
I hang out with the russian chick and the blonde near the bar while the place starts getitng filled up but eventually they leave to go dance and i'm just chilling by myself. I didn't go with my wing like I usually am used to so I knew today was going to be a challenge. I had no one to lean on or hang out with to push me...it was all me and this was a frightning thought at first.
I'm in my head a little but eventually I'm like fuck it lets do this--I didnt waste 10$ plus gas money to just stand around like an idiot haha. I start approaching really direct..."Hey You're Cute" i opened with but nothing. I got a typical "thanks..." and it kinda got stale after that. Really hard for me to work with the girl when she's not pitching anything to help the convo flow. Eventually I decide to take a different approach. I notice I'm talking quite fast and just spitting out and am waiting for the reaction. I decide to SLOW SHIT DOWN
Opened up a very sexy black girl directly with your cute lets dance but didnt hook and she points at her "boyfriend" which i assume is her friend "who protects her" and I'm not tripping, i see them laughing but it really doesnt bother me. Next!
My next apporach i opened with the same line but spaced it out..and wow what a difference. I open a cutie with a bunch of her friends with You are....Cute/Adorable. This opens up much better, the girls are like "thanks" with a smile I get the convo going but it goes no where and eventually I eject.
I make an oath to myself to only approach the girl's who were just BOMB...NO EXCEPTION , NO CUTIES, NO EH...maybe...but DAMN shes fucken hot girls ONLY.
Saw 3 set on the dance floor of 3 BOMB girls....ended up tapping the blonde opening with you (PAUSE)..are CUTE and then demanded her to dance haha. After the opener i followed by a mini qualificaiton i asked "YOU guys are fun YEAH?" they're like "YEAH!!!!!! we're fun!!" She had a really postive response to my opener and it made it a lil easier "come on lets dance, come here" .We grind for a lil but I stop grinding to talk to her HB9 friend for a little bit and evetually they end up leaving. That was and helped me come up with something new i was going to try. I was now going to try to open with a little tease in the mix
I approach a 3 set after seeing a guy getting blown out seconds before...one of my fears. I decide to go anyway, I tap the black HB8 girl who turns out to be 24 and say:
"you know you are...KINDA cute!" in a obviously positive tone.
She responds with "KINDA????"
and i'm like "haha yeah, but im sure your personality is good"
"no its def not"
"you are so negative, you need to smile RIGHT NOW..let me see your damn smile" (positive playfull tone)
she laughs and we chill for a lil abit and shoot the shit...found out it was her friend's 21'st birthday...nice, nice. She soon realise i'm not over 21 and everything kind of just starts going down hill from there haha..SHIT....oh well, i say hi to her a couple more times she's still nice and shit but it wasnt going anywhere, all good :)
I end up walking around a lil abit and see the girls that i grinded with just chilling in the patio. I open them up again and we chat a little bit and this one girl i guess who just arrived runs up to me and starts screaming? BRYAN?!?!? BRYAN?!?!? IS THAT YOU??? I'm kinda shocked by this and am like uh...no... lmao... ( i later realize i shoulda messed around with her and said yeah babe im bryan get over here now) woulda been funny to me..oh well ) We talk a little bit i tell them we should dance but they say they're tired blah blah blah bull shit etc...and then i get my first " will you buy me a drink." question...Oh how i've waited for this moment...i answeered with "of course not...are you gonna buy me one?" Ejected a little after that
I open the cocktail waitress apprently and tell her she's sexy....She was nice and chill but for some reason wouldnt tell me her age lol...kinda caught me off guard but we talked a little bit...def wasnt going anywhere actually tried to give her a hug and wish her a good night but she kinda shook it off haha. All good though..onto the next one!
Some hot girl's walk by and I dont open.. Hesitated and didnt go...really goto work on that! Just goto go in...I started holding back a little and got into my head...I need to just go straight in hard right when i see them or claw them in if they're walking past me!
End up seeinng a HB9 walking in dance floor with her friend..man she was BOMB..tight body, tits..all that ..damn. Tap her as she's walking through the dance floor with your kinda cute..she thanks me and i say "come here lets dance" as her friends pulling her away then im like "its ok look come here lets go" she hesitates a little then spits out "i have a boyfriend" i quickly respind with "thats cool i dont care come here" but it was to late she was kinda far away and her friend pulled her away. DAMNIT haha...not tripping though.
End up finding "jack" and we kick it for a while near the photobooth just hanging out. I see 2 girls and ask him what he thinks...he goes go ahead man. I shoot at them with energy and open with my "you..are..so cute" followed by bagging on her for being kinda quiet and shy. I was plowing really but they were both being kinda shy. Def shoulda kept plowing talking about whatever since the set did hook but could have been better. Needed to show more intent and just be more sexual...def goto work on that and be more dominant with them. I end up taking a picture with her but after they dissapear...oh well
still got to take a picture with my lovely shirt haha which by the way is AWESOME and i love it :P
I later after open up some blonde girl who i opened before but it didnt hit at all...she just looked depressed the entire night and not fun at all. I see her though just sitting alone and i approach her and just tell her hey look you need to smile!! I was just recently hired here to MAKE sure you have a good time, are you having a good time YET??? she nods with like NO ENERGY haha..i say GOOD! ill be checking up on you. Didnt even really care to try anything more she was just unreactive completly and i guess totattly not in the mood.
I then take a little walk and see this BOMBSHELL blonde who gives me one of my best blowouts ever.NICE. She's basically at this bridge thing that overlooks the dance floor just leaning by herself doing nothing. I walk right past her at first then see her and am debating whether or not to approach...gosh i hate when i do this. I tell myself i will REGRET it if i dont at least approach her..eventually i go up to her tell her shes cute and WOW was she not down. She barely even turns her head to aknowledge me...i try to plow but there is absolutely NOTHING to work with. She eventually tells me "I DONT LIKE GUYS" in a nasty tone...unreactive i tell her dude thats awesome i dont eaither we have that in common. She gives me this horrible look and just straight up says "peace" and walks away like a couple of feet. Dont know what the hell happened to her that night but def my top blowout :) . Didnt effect me at all, actually kinda felt bad for her..watched her walk on the dance floor all slow by herself not really interacting or doing anything with anyone... oh well. At one point i asked her if she was about to sock me or something because of how mad she looked haha...def didnt lighten her up but entertained me!
My legs get real tired so i decide to go outside nad just hang out. I see a bombell girl come out but hesitate to say anything at first but she sits quite close to me. Takes me a little time but i just open with some chit chat bull shit but she payed no mind or attention to. Continued to just kick it and relax for the next 20-30 minutes before i went back inside.
I open get inside and go on the dance floop and open up 1 attractive girl that i WANTED to talk to...i hesitated at first but opened her in the dance floor but she was not down. I then see a guy get blown out by this 4 set of girls dancing but that doesnt stop me and i tap the asian hottie go in direct and ask her to dance. She sorta declines but one of her friends really likes me shirt and gives me high fives and was chill about it but my target wasnt feeling it so i eject.
The night was coming to an end..lights were turning on and it was basically over. I see a 3 set in the end and open up the black girl who just blew out some random dude who tried to talk to her...oh! a challenge. I open with direct "you...are cute" i love your smile...this girl was loving it and i kept making her show me her smile. I talked to some of her other friends who were chill but eventually it got kinda stale...goto work on plowing and keeping the convo going even in loud ass venues.
We all exit the club and i meet up with the 2 girls we came with and wait for jack to get paid. Some guy outside the parking lot approaches the 2 girls I'm with and is basically getting real close to her, whispering in her ear and i'm just watching this. I had no interest in any of the girls but I respect that he was brave enough to just get in there with even me in the set and just rap to these 2 girls. He ends up "leaving" and getting their number and before he left he did something I really liked. He gave her a kiss on one cheek, the other cheek..paused and then went in for the makeout. Not bad man, mad props.
I tease russian girl after he leaves and after a little bit she's cold and jack is taking a while to get paid so me and her decide to just chill in the car. The whole time we're talking and i ask her if she''s going to call any of the guys that she got a number from. She tells me nope, none of them. I ask why and she tells me everytime shes tried to meet up with a guyu from the club all they wanted from her was sex. I then ask her so where do you expect to meet guys and actually call them back with intentions to see them again. She tells me places like cofee shops, school, malls..basically any place except clubs or bars. This really had a lot of value for me ...obviously solid numbers are very possible in a club but it def shows how a hot girl's mind works with that kind of shit. You really goto stand out to them for the shit to work and you need that connection plus vibe along with showing her that you're not all about just getting some and thats it.
Overall great night i pushed myself HARD...i realised WHY the FUCK waste my time with EH girls and "cute" girls when i can SIMPLY JUST go after the BOMBSHELLS..nothing else. There's NO POINT honestly in not going for the hot ones only...thats what i want and that is where I will learn the most from. I was I guess afraid of these kinds of girls before and I went for just the cute ones thinking i'll "work" my way up to the bombshell ones later. bull shit though...ego protection crap that I knew i HAD to get rid of. I pushed myself to talk to EVERY SINGLE HOT girl there REGUARDLESS of anything...I opened a LOT of sets got NO closes but that doesnt matter. The experiance a lone is so priceless and I know shit will start to click soon enough. I remember first time I hit this club up I could'nt even open anyone because the club was SO ..SOOO LOUD but now i'm able to and I'm just slowly but surely climbing this ladder.
Also let me note and it's not ment to sound racist or as an ego protection but I litteraly am the only 18 year old white boy there haha...Most of the venue is 21+ year old latino guys...the girls are mixed decently (mostly latinas but still some white girls/black girls etc) but I'm pretty sure I was one of the 5 white people in the entire club haha. Pretty funny to me but I def stand out in the crowd which has its negatives and positives :).
What I learned:
1) Talking fast shows extreme uncofidence..slow it down...take your time and hooking % goes up GREATLY!
2) Plow..stop letting hooked sets get stale...talk about whatever it doesn't really matter
3) Start off by giving the girl a kiss on the cheek or something..turn it sexual...go for the close fast
4) Although what opener you open with isnt important I'm going to try opening with "you know you're kinda cute..but I dont think we'd ever work out" Just a simple push pull as the opener or something silly like "you are EASILY..the top 100 cutest girls here!" just something i came up with in the morning thats just playfull. I really want to try the pushpull opener because it might hook quite well especially with the "kinda" ..I just like the aspect of a tease right off the bat..Def will test it next tiem I go out
5) Day game is essential to meet quality women more solidly.
6) Try to close fast...dont take your time
7) MUST..NOT...HESITATE....see hot girl..go open.GO..
8) Girls are nice..some of them are mean but who knows about their situation at that moment.
9) Blowouts have honestly no effect on me anymore..i feel nothing... i guess i've got much thicker skin now. I used to be bothered when people would make fun of me in middle school but now if this ever does happen It litteraly just bounces off..there's no identity in my old insecurities and it's just such a joke now that even i have fun with it.
10) APPROACH THE BEST..why settle for less? why go for eh girls or "cute girls" when you can have the BOMBSHELLS....they are JUST like the cute girls just a little harder...dont "work" your way up to the hot girls that makes no sense and is just an ego proctection mechanism...instead GO for the best...if they blow you out who cares you will EASILY learn 100 times more of shit that works and doesnt from a girl that has been fucked by high value guys/cool guys and rejected thousands of men rather than some cute girl whos experianced a decent amount of guys but easily a FRACTION of what the hottie has.
11) Approach harder.. i'm not having to many problems of approaching but def getting easier and easier...
*little side note
I arrived to school the next day and it was just such a change of how i saw girls. The girls that i percieved to be cute were just NASTY to me...I guess after seeing just 10's all over the place and actually talking to them...seeing its possible and with small tweaks these women will be YOURS it just changed my entire mindset.
Good weekend and wow this one was long....hope it offered some value
cheers
-911
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Join Date: 06/25/2009 | Posts: 1122
So lets start with my pre "rsd and everything." I sucked with girls. Lets keep it short and simple. I had girls chose me and it was never the other way around. When i finnaly got the courage to tell some girl i liked her in 8th grade, she saw me as a friend and just broke up with her "bf" so she"wasnt ready that to get into a relationship that quickly." lol... sigh.
I also remember i did an even sadder attempt. It was like 6th grade maybe? idk prob before but i ended up making a fucking website for this girl who i liked confessing my love for her LOL. She ended up saying, wow this is really sweet but uhh lets just be friends. Damn. Ahhh good fucking times. I actually started all this shit with the man himself, david DEEEEEEEEE. Watched all his shit but didnt know how exactly to incorperate it.
Ended up seeing the man with the funny goggles on one of his videos. He presented some cool points and i was interested in it right away. My buddy actually called me and told me about him right after i saw the video. I was like YEAH DUDE i just saw him on david d oh shit, dude must be legit. Started watching Vh1's shit..i bookmarked like everything and was so fucking interested. I actually ended up incorperating his shit 1 time.
I tried the trust test but didnt even fucing need it lol. Made out with the girl after, the field report is prob somewhere in my earlier posts. Overtime, while browsing MM forums i saw some shit advertising something called RSD. Looked cool and clicked the link to this website and here I am now. Grateful that i found this shit and actually happy that i decided to tell motherlover about it, and not keeping it a secret. So far met a lot of cool people, except tebzz, he's kinda gay and makes girls run away LOL <3. But yep, welcome to my journal that I will keep updated forever, and ever hopefully.
I'd also like to add I DO NOT DRINK, never have and won't. WHY? because I just don't want to..simple, and rather not use it as a crutch, ever. That is all :).
March 14th,2010
Sup guys,
After reading almost all of haze's field report and learning a great deal from his interactions and journey in the game i decided myself to do something similiar. I go out usually 2-3 times a week while still maintaining school etc. During spring break/summer break I will be going out a LOT more so I will def have much more reports. I hope this brings value and I will try my best to make it as detailed as possible. My overall goal is to get better at moving the convo with intent and gettign sexual VERY quickly.
My AA has almost dissapeared completely- I dont tend to usually get that knot tieng twist in my stomach but instead it's just stillness. I still sometimes (rarely) delay myself and hesitate but its not because of some feeling in my stomach of death or so but instead sort of like a silent thing telling me, " no dont go shes on her phone, shes not facing you etc.." Really gonna try my best to get over this. Overall I just want to get better results and push myself fully to get this.
I have my wings and my promoter from hollywood that hooks it up with all the clubs for a sick price. So here we go I guess feel free to check up on it i will update it every week and everytime i go out! I'm planning on going to a bootcamp def sometime this or next year as soon as I save up some money just for the amazing experiance that I've heard from it. Plus, after going to the free confrence and seeing Tyler and Papa speak it was really inspirational because of how cool these guy's are and how just normal they are even if they do have this amazing skillset they're still normal, really chill and cool people. Well here we go
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