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Au Revoir Belgique!

A week long party-trip with local and international students comes to an end. At the moment of typing, I have slept 2 hour, like the last 4 nights, feeling physically exhausted. I've been social 18 hours per day meeting new people, checking out girls, drinking beer and eating Belgian chocolates. Diet went to hell, alcohol consumption from 0 to 60 and workouts consisted of numerous city tours.

What do I have to show for it: Reinforced key social principles and got a hot 22 year old Peruvian princess who so happens to be the President of the organisation and who I shall proceed to fuck as soon as I finish typing and before boarding my flight in a couple of hours.

All week long I've been surrounded by girls, guys, cultural events, parties 7 day straight and culinary delights. When in a larger group, my process of establishing a leadership role, although natural, did learn me a few things.

- State is contagious. People and girls particularly will literally surround you on your "on moments" and leave you sort of be if you succumb to fatigueness or being inside of your head.

- Being comfortable with who you are, ESPECIALLY in situations where other people are not (public speaking, first introductions etc.) is THE way to stand out. Fuck egotistical attempta to impress with your clothes, jokes, travel stories etc. Relaxed arousal wins.

- Social value is ARBITRARY. 1 night someone might be particularly in state due to alcohol or more sleep, but that does NOT mean he is "better" than you. Trust in what you have to offer and strive for consistency in expressing yourself authentically and you are good to go.

My experiences include having 3 girls outright tell me I'm handsome, 1 Japanese stalker, guys buying me drinks and organizers looking to ME to make decisions on where to eat because I trusted my own opinion more than they did theirs.

Had brief interactions with the girl from Peru because she was busy ALL the time. So my exprevieness of who I am was from a distance with her noticing my interactions with other people - she told me that the way I carried myself when meeting new people was one of the sexiest traits about me.

Now.. Was I perfect in every interaction or smooth 24/7. Well hows about this as an example: FIRST night, in pub meeting everyone, I'm talking with some people, the Peruvian girl comes over to say sometjing to us and I FALL flat down off my chair in front of everybody with a BANG. All eyes on me. Smooth. What do I do? Get up slowly, adjust my chair, sit down, look at her in the eyes and calmly exclaim: "Continue..". I could've felt embaressed, but I didn't want to.

Trust in what you do, in who you are and what you have to offer.

3 nights in she meets me for a private drink away from thw group and tells me about 4 girls who are interested in me. I tell her honestly that I only am interested in one and that she's Latin American. She mentions one of the girls is her close friend. Cool..

5 nights in, isolation, she had too much too drink, pulls me away from the other girls, makeout ensues and grabbing.

6 nights in, the girl is a player and likes games. Unresponsive. I handle logistics including getting out of a bus with 20 guys fighting and the police being involved. But I'm comfortable with it and so is she. Go home, love in the morning.

Things to improve on: Close earlier, trust my instincts even more, become EQUALLY dominant with the girls I "like" and the girls I'm indifferent to. I take it down a notch with the 9's and 10's which makes no sense.

Great adventures, off to finish them off and then head back to Copenhagen to unite with the Crew.

Au Revoir Belgique!
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Valentine's Day.

I start off the day busy as hell. Had a list of 25 To-Do-Things. In charge of a delegation of 15 people going to Barcelona in May, handling payments, contacting sponsors, catching up on university, handling logistical issues with regards to my own personal finances and on top of that, arranging a Valentine's Day to remember. I was taking my Brazilian sweetheart out for the night, but more importantly, I use these occasions to celebrate myself, my life and my work.

So I bought strawberries, oranges, lime fruits, whipped cream, Ciroc Vodka, pink lemonade, fresh Orange Juice, ice cubes, chocolates, canles, rose pedals, passion fruit massage oil and prepared a playlist I like to call "Mattress Music".

I clean up, get fresh, grab some roses and meet up with her at 7 o'clock. We go to an awesome Latin Restaurant having Mango Margheritas and Tequila Sunrise drinks. Apetizers, whisky steak and other Mexican dishes. The conversation makes me laugh as her hands squeeze mine tighter. I joke around with the people sitting next to us and mistake another guy for the waiter when I ask for the check. His wife at a nearby table laughs. I discretly apologize but it was an honest mistake. We finish our dishes and walk towards the movie theater.


My girl has no idea where we're going and tries to get me to tell her. I enjoy the teasing and the promises of freaky things in the night if I succumb. I do not. Besides, the freaky things are guaranteed.. ; ) We grab some sodas and candy before the movie and cry from laughter.

Afterwards we proceed back to my place, where I have her wait outside while I light the candles, prepare the ice cubes and spread the rose pedals. My apartment looks like a scene from countless romantic Hollywood depictions. And this one, I'M living out. I get her inside and open a bottle of Ciroc.

She feeds me sweet strawberries, Belgian chocolates and whipped cream. Kissing and holding me passionately. I am indeed a deserving man. I grab her, pull her hair and take her clothes off. I find the bottle of massage oil and the scent of passion fruit mixes with the strawberries, burning candles, lime and her sexy perfume. The sex is incredible and I ravish her body with a passion suited for the occassion. She goes to the bathroom and I lie back, having some more strawberries and Ciroc. I grab some icecubes and once she's back, I run it down her back.

My life.. Is amazing!
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#13

PillowFire

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I enjoyed your last two reports, both of which I read just now. Love the "romantic apartment" thing :)
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jonas_88

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 Awesome Journal, your the man. Nice meeting you in gothenburg.
Let me know if your coming to sweden!=)
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- State is contagious. People and girls particularly will literally surround you on your "on moments" and leave you sort of be if you succumb to fatigueness or being inside of your head.

- Social value is ARBITRARY. 1 night someone might be particularly in state due to alcohol or more sleep, but that does NOT mean he is "better" than you. Trust in what you have to offer and strive for consistency in expressing yourself authentically and you are good to go.


Yup.... and yup.

Very acute observations :D It shows an advanced mentality.

Kimball
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