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How to Handle Compliance Ladder Denials?
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You mean compliance tests? If she turns it down, you change the topic, keep talking, escalate physically, and try again later.
What do you do when compliance ladders fail? Do you try again right
after with another compliance test, or do you build attraction up again and
THEN try the compliance once more?
I thought I had this girl in the bag. She kept telling me I made her laugh, I
made her feel good, even said “You made my day” and all that cute shit. When I
pulled out a compliance test, she didn’t necessarily say “No,” but she put up a
loop (“I only do that with someone I love.”)
How do you handle this? Was this even a NON-compliance? What should I have
done?
Oh man, I love giving compliance tests to girls. I just love staring into their eyes, and then giving them these compliance tests. When I see a full cutie walk past, it's like, ahhhh, damn I would love to give her a hot, sensual compliance test. after with another compliance test, or do you build attraction up again and
THEN try the compliance once more?
I thought I had this girl in the bag. She kept telling me I made her laugh, I
made her feel good, even said “You made my day” and all that cute shit. When I
pulled out a compliance test, she didn’t necessarily say “No,” but she put up a
loop (“I only do that with someone I love.”)
How do you handle this? Was this even a NON-compliance? What should I have
done?
Stock wisdom: Wash, rinse, repeat. That's all you need. Ala ThatKyle. It's called being persistent, and not being thrown off by whatever fluctuating nonsense she's dishing out. More stock wisdom: If she's still standing there, it's on. 'No' often means 'not yet'.
Sounds like you entertained the shit out of her. Gave her some serious validation. Something was missing. Man, it's strange, trying to break this down. I never think about this stuff during an interaction. But um, if you're a really logical dude, and you're playing with this as you're moving into more internally centered stuff, try playing with false choices, where you already assume that she's compliant. "I'm so hungry. What are you getting at Denny's, french fries, or hash browns?" When you're talking in the club and you assume she's coming with. Lame example but you get the idea. I always assume that girls will be compliant with me. To even have a conversation, they have to be pretty compliant. I'm always telling them to do stuff, to move, I drag them around, etc.
Girl: "I only do that with someone I love"
Arnaut: "Ahhh, I had no idea you felt that way about me. Come here, dearest." Shameless escalation, over-the-top claw and embrace and dip, force her to swoon, go for the makeout. She should laugh. She might resist. Just make her laugh. Then, wash rinse repeat. She'll get the idea.
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poi s'ascose nel foco che gli affina - the refining fire
Cool. Thanks for the replies.
I was more into logicality at that point. I wanted to test shit out to see what worked/what didn’t, and how to properly handle each scenario for future purposes.
My chances with this girl were not ruined. Overall I think it was just a cute little hoop she put up since (IMO) she felt I had the upper-hand at that point. If I had gone for it right then and there she would have melted despite her hoop.
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I was more into logicality at that point. I wanted to test shit out to see what worked/what didn’t, and how to properly handle each scenario for future purposes.
My chances with this girl were not ruined. Overall I think it was just a cute little hoop she put up since (IMO) she felt I had the upper-hand at that point. If I had gone for it right then and there she would have melted despite her hoop.
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after with another compliance test, or do you build attraction up again and
THEN try the compliance once more?
I thought I had this girl in the bag. She kept telling me I made her laugh, I
made her feel good, even said “You made my day” and all that cute shit. When I
pulled out a compliance test, she didn’t necessarily say “No,” but she put up a
loop (“I only do that with someone I love.”)
How do you handle this? Was this even a NON-compliance? What should I have
done?