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May 27th, 2017
Feminine Polarity PUA's??
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jargle

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I wanted to preface this post by saying that I would definitely consider myself to have a very masculine polarity, but I've been reading The Way of the Superior Man, and it got me thinking about how in my family my father had much more of the feminine polarity, and my mother had a much more masculine polarity. 

I guess I was always kind of angry at my father for that, but now that I know more I realize it's just who he is and it's not his fault at all.  Anyways I was wondering if there are any established pick up artists who have a much more feminine energy, and if it is even possible.  

I think most peoples first inclination would be to think that any guy with a feminine polarity is automatically gay, but that really isn't the case at all because I have seen some kids at my school who are really "metro", and although they were almost always surrounded by girls like that gay friend I know they weren't gay.  I also always assumed that they weren't actually getting anything from any all of those girls.  I'm just wondering what your guys's overall thoughts are on that because it might be a part of my game i'd be interested on improving.
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Habit

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 Yeah, like, most of them.

Brad and Mehow come to mind.

EDIT: and nonRSD people are censored.  Oh well.
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who cares? you are who you are.
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jargle

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why do I care?  Because I want to better understand a part of me that I feel like im neglecting and what better way to do that then read some stuff an instructor with that style has put out.

Why post useless shit like the post you just made?
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Habit wrote:
 Yeah, like, most of them.

Brad and Mehow come to mind.

EDIT: and nonRSD people are censored.  Oh well.

It's funny you said that...I've seen almost nothing taped...but this was on the board recently.     The body language and voice tone is gay.   Then overridden with some other vibe, which is leading.     There is so much in here it's unbelievable.   Check shoulders and arms...body language is saying all kinds of things.     Even the woman.    She's masculine.   I am sure I don't fully understand it at all.    It's amazing though.    The LIMITED social conditioning that we have about polarities and drivers and what's going on in people is unreal. 

AMAZING.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=42A_PXAPn3k

( Check voice tone between 18-20 seconds...."I said I like you". ..as well as other parts of the tape.   This sounds like a gay man.   I don't know if it's masculine, but it's openly sexual...that's the sending and recieving....perhaps the woman is the man?   Polarity has to exist for the sexual attraction ). 
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 WTF are you talking about JFM? That video is escalating and leading like a motherfucker. And the woman does not look masculine, especially with Brad's hand all over her ass.
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Watch some other comments that come over the video Powerhouse.    I think a couple of years ago I would have completely missed what was there.   I won't be the only one making that observation.    

Escalating and leading...feminized.   What a mindfuck.
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Powerhouse

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 I've seen the video a bunch of times. I'm saying it's not feminine. He directs the interaction with his dick. I don't mean to seem hostile, but you're still providing no actual reason as to what's feminine about it.

What? it's feminized because he's not leading her outside to smoke? Because he's leaning back against the fixture pulling the girl in instead of pinning her against it? Because he states his intent clearly "I like you" etc?.

"You're more than alright"...yeah that must be it, conveying all the classic signs of femininity...really?

What is a "man" going to say? "Nah fuck your shit". Negs don't work for Brad because he's already high value as it is. A lot of his shit has to be almost like what a "HB10" would use because of his value. If an average dude steps to a 10 and she acts indifferent and starts insulting him, he's fucking done. Swap the genitals without swapping the value.

Point out exactly what makes it predominately feminine and I'll be inclined to listen, but all I see is "Yeah this seems really feminine in a bunch of parts." I could tell you that San Francisco seems really gay in parts too, but that doesn't mean everyone's a faggot.
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She's qualifying herself and asking his permission, signs of being submissive. He's obviously leading. No, it's not full-on hard dominance, but it's not neceassary in this scenario, he's just out meeting people, socializing, having fun.
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http://www.comedycentral.com/videos/index.jhtml?videoId=11927

Bottomline: it doesn't matter if you have the following femnine characteristics:
1. long hair sprayed hair
2. mac makeup with glitter, painted finger nails
3. clothing: blouses, tight ass pant, skinny jeans, platform shoes
4. valley girl, gay ass speech
5. more jewels than  Elizabeth Taylor

IF YOU LEAD AND ESCALATE <------------ THATs Masculine and Trumps all of the above.

The clips above are prime examples although I'm sure most of those guys were at least Bi...
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sorry but I dont buy the whole male polarity and female polarity that dd talks about and a few others talk about ...

you wonder if having female polarity makes you gay - err acting gay makes you gay IMO not expressing things dd and a few others talking about making you gay.

example - drinking beer or wine dd talks about being in the femine ... expressing emotions being in the femine ... <<< this is a big one for me (never really expressed my emotions much in the past) ... now I consider them the ocean of the soul.

I dont remember what other things he mentions as being female polarity - IMO choose what and whom you want to be and not get caught up by mean 'mens' ideas of how you should be.
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