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What is the difference between Logical Communication and Emotional Communication?
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Macavity

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Isit in what we say? Or what we sub-communicate? Could someone please clarify. 
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Abower

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The goal of logical communication is to exchange information.

The goal of emotional communication is to feel.
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Abower wrote:
The goal of logical communication is to exchange information.

The goal of emotional communication is to feel.
I sort of did an experiment with my last relationship - well not sure if it was an experiement or what ... but I was rewatching was it transformations with tim and he talked about emotional spikes (correct me if Im wrong).  

And I proceeded to use these throughout the Whole relationship ie 2 months (including the first date).  I Fing loved it ... was exactly my cup of tea (frak sounding like a british dude) ... anyways the emotional spikes are exactly what they sound like ie its emotional communication.  They are a bit tough to use and sometimes you dont know wtf can happen but they create so much more spice in the interaction and relationship.
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Would you be able give an example of a conversation that is emotional not logical? 

I have tried being deliberately illogical but it doesnt tend to spike the girls emotion that often. Do i have to be in an emotional state myself? Because sometimes im feeling shit and the girl will laugh at me explain my situation such as me missing the bus because i tripped over.

So far, I think of it as Logical conversations have purpose and are like a straight line. Emotional conversations have no purpose and go in all directions. But im confused on how to deliberately communicate this way and spike a girls emotions. Naw mean?  
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Emotional spikes are easy as fuck if you get past the opener. Smoothly leading the interaction through all the obstacles to the close is what's difficult.
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Pirate wrote:
Would you be able give an example of a conversation that is emotional not logical?
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What you say (content)
How you feel (context)

People tend to transfer emotional states and women are more vulnerable to this than men.
People like to be around people that feel good, bring a fun, spontaneous vibe. That's why it's so important.
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Emotional communication has SUBTEXT.
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Pirate wrote:
Would you be able give an example of a conversation that is emotional not logical? 

I have tried being deliberately illogical but it doesnt tend to spike the girls emotion that often. Do i have to be in an emotional state myself? Because sometimes im feeling shit and the girl will laugh at me explain my situation such as me missing the bus because i tripped over.

So far, I think of it as Logical conversations have purpose and are like a straight line. Emotional conversations have no purpose and go in all directions. But im confused on how to deliberately communicate this way and spike a girls emotions. Naw mean?  
logical conversation is conversation used as a means to an end, emotional conversation is a end in itself.

emotional conversation is spontanious and thus happens on its own, so you cant deliberatly do it
when you think you have to do anything to get something you lose that spontanuity that make people laugh, you are in a logical headspace.
you cant deliberatly make these things happen, even by trying not to try > its an endless loop

what you can do is just learn to communicate honestly, even tell a girl that you are trying hard
when i say communicate honestly, i mean communicate every thought in your mind; this can be used as a method of meditation. a way to let the thoughts out,  and disintangle urself out of a logical headspace.

another practice is pushing the boundaries of your conceptual indentity and social norms, like saying things that do not suit your personality and saying things that put you at risk of looking like a dickhead.
if you can do this and not be swayed by the tension, the tension will be shifted onto the girls, and this is the tension that creates laughter and emotional spikes.

the emotional state you have to be in is very simmilar to water, be water my friend
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 Ok, so if its transferred by the way I feel, how do i send a girl through a range of emotions without using lame-ass routines. Is being just Positive Dominant enough to send a girl through the range of emotions? 
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She feels what you feel
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