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December 7th, 2016
Non-Ghetto Black Men
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Franklin551

Franklin551

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Join Date: 01/22/2010 | Posts: 17

What is with young women overlooking non-ghetto black men? I am black, and not ghetto. Since middle to college(I am currently going to college), young women don't seem interested in non-ghetto black men. We can still have a personality by being ourself, and not trying to be a stereotype. People always tell me I am a nice looking well dressed guy, but I have never been kissed, had a girlfriend, and a date. Either I am actually unattractive or it is because I am not a stereotype black man. Girls tell me that there is nothing wrong with who I am, but I am the worst looking guy to date. I have seen girls smile at me. I walk over and talk to them. They soon findout I am not ghetto, and lose interest as fast as lighting strikes! The most ironic thing about this is that I actually really like white girls(It took a month for my mom to believe me). I don't perfer black women. I have asked out a few black women I was attracted to. I have also asked out girls of other races as well.
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hc-zeppelin

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Join Date: 01/20/2010 | Posts: 203

You probably suck at something else and your brain is making you think it is b/c your not a ghetto black guy!
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Falsetto

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Join Date: 12/28/2008 | Posts: 344

 Dude this is just a limiting belief. You have never been kissed because you never GAVE a kiss, you never WENT for a kiss. You see, as a man, you are supposed to be the leader, you take the interaction wherever you want it to go. Girls wont land on your dick or even give you obvious signals that they are interested.

It has NOTHING to do with the way you look, your background or whatever. But it has EVERYTHING to do with YOUR behaviour, mindset and beliefs about yourself.

Just go out and take a bootcamp

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Franklin551

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I do make the first move by asking a girl out on a date. I never been on a date nor had a girlfriend. So I never had any oppunities to kiss a girl. I am not scare to kiss a girl.
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Franklin551

Franklin551

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Join Date: 01/22/2010 | Posts: 17

LOL. I watched that video a few weeks ago. It is very interesting.
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Distant Light

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Join Date: 08/22/2006 | Posts: 2390

*Mythbusters Rolling In*

Really was going to ignore this post...

This has nothing to do with you NOT being ghetto. I'm black, dress pretty stylish and have a highly eccentric personality. From my experience all types of women love me and hope to meet me. From the rockerish chick to the eastern european. Most of the women I've messed with never even saw or kissed a black person before since I tend to go for eastern european chicks. All chicks assume I'm a player...

To me it just doesn't sound like your masculine making things happen. When I'm out and about I'm ALWAYS giving women the chance to get the opportunity to win me over. Whether I'm randomly walking by an just smile at them or just pull them into me asking if she's a food lover. I've basically become a social & physical guy so its inevitable for sexual things to happen.

Overall all I can really say is go out there and put in the work, cut down your limiting beliefs and enjoy because what your stating is totally irrelevant. I've fooled around with women of all races, many uncommon nationalities and haven't seen a problem. Chicks from...
-  EVERY eastern european country (Also all scandinivian countries)
-  Japan & Korea
-  Pakistan, India, Turkey,  Afghanistan, Iraq, UAE
-  Alaska, Texas, Montona, Maine, North Carolina
-  Nicaragua, Peru, Argentina, Venuzuela, Bolivia
-  Calgary, Vancouver
-  Congo, Sudan, South Africa

You get my drift...Bottomline, my experience isn't your experience so all this is irrelevant unless you go out and experience for yourself. Stop limiting yourself, from your writing I can already tell you don't get it at all and have alot of learning to do. Chicks should be hoping and crying to get the chance to meet you farless have sex with you.

Overall you just don't convey a man who's attractive. You're not a social & sexual being. Start your journey and a few months later look back on this thread and laugh about it.
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Franklin551

Franklin551

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Join Date: 01/22/2010 | Posts: 17

I am a very social person. Sometimes I also smile at girls, and will talk to some of them. I do lack allot of experience because I never had a chance with anyone. I have been rejected atleast 20 times in a row. Normaly I would say "Would you like to go out to dinner?", "Want to catch a movie?". You get the point.

Online dating has not been very good. My pictures normally get a 1 or 2 rating out of 10. Women never write me back. I introduce myself, and mention someting about her on her profile.
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#8

gram101

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Join Date: 09/29/2009 | Posts: 81

maybe your just ugly.
i'm black and not ghetto, bitches dig me so.

not every girl is ghetto either..
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SeVenight

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Franklin551 wrote:
I am a very social person. Sometimes I also smile at girls, and will talk to some of them. I do lack allot of experience because I never had a chance with anyone. I have been rejected atleast 20 times in a row. Normaly I would say "Would you like to go out to dinner?", "Want to catch a movie?". You get the point.

Online dating has not been very good. My pictures normally get a 1 or 2 rating out of 10. Women never write me back. I introduce myself, and mention someting about her on her profile.
There's a difference between being not being ghetto and just coming across as lame and uncool and boring.

You can be "non-ghetto", but you still have to have some edginess and sexiness to your personality.

You said you haven't kissed a girl because you haven't been on a dates. Who says you have to wait for a date to kiss a girl?

From what little I have to go on, it sounds like maybe your approach is too bland. You can be intelligent and well-spoken, but sexy it up a little bit. Get physical with girls early on. Lead them around physically. Be more commanding. Get up in their faces and check out their lips. Give them a reason beyong just seeming like a nice guy for them to want to see you again.

For the record, the best guy I know with chicks is black and non-ghetto.
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Powerhouse

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Join Date: 06/22/2009 | Posts: 1711

think denzel, think will smith. women start kicking their shoes off as soon as they see em.
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