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Girls Kiss You, Then Stop...
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It should be you who breaks the kiss off first. Give her a bit more passion each time, but keep her wanting more.
Oh, and if she wants to sleep in your bed and cuddle all night without fucking or sucking you then I would suggest kicking her out. I think this is one of the most empowering things you can do as a man.
Oh, and if she wants to sleep in your bed and cuddle all night without fucking or sucking you then I would suggest kicking her out. I think this is one of the most empowering things you can do as a man.
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When she says you should stop kissing just say "you're right we should stop", then keep kissing. If you're in bed and she says to stop say "okay, lets just go to sleep" and turn straight over as if to go to sleep...she'll pull you back and suddenly start initiating make-out, if she doesnt just leave her for a bit to get pissed off that you've withdrawn your interest from her then start again.
Just keep moving more and more forward, every time she says about stoping be totaly cool about it. She needs to know its not a big deal for you and your happy to stop and leave it, then she'll be happy to let herself go and just roll with it because she knows you'll be cool if she freaks again as things go on.
Just keep moving more and more forward, every time she says about stoping be totaly cool about it. She needs to know its not a big deal for you and your happy to stop and leave it, then she'll be happy to let herself go and just roll with it because she knows you'll be cool if she freaks again as things go on.
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Although a possibility I do not believe this is the problem. Regardless, I will make sure next time that my breath is fresh. I'm going to go buy one of those keychain breath fresheners now.
It should be you who breaks the kiss off first. Give her a bit more passion each time, but keep her wanting more.
Oh, and if she wants to sleep in your bed and cuddle all night without fucking or sucking you then I would suggest kicking her out. I think this is one of the most empowering things you can do as a man.
Oh, and if she wants to sleep in your bed and cuddle all night without fucking or sucking you then I would suggest kicking her out. I think this is one of the most empowering things you can do as a man.
I don't really have time to break the kiss off first. Sometimes I would, but it didn't seem to matter. I guess I just wanted to kiss her, I mean I don't understand what's wrong with that. This does make a bit of sense though and I will incorporate it next time more thoroughly.
Yeah it happened last night that she just wanted to cuddle in my bed. So, yes I did kick her out. In fact, at 6 am in the morning I drove her to her sister's house which was 30 minutes away while she was barely cognizant because of alcohol.
When she says you should stop kissing just say "you're right we should stop", then keep kissing. If you're in bed and she says to stop say "okay, lets just go to sleep" and turn straight over as if to go to sleep...she'll pull you back and suddenly start initiating make-out, if she doesnt just leave her for a bit to get pissed off that you've withdrawn your interest from her then start again.
Just keep moving more and more forward, every time she says about stoping be totaly cool about it. She needs to know its not a big deal for you and your happy to stop and leave it, then she'll be happy to let herself go and just roll with it because she knows you'll be cool if she freaks again as things go on.
Just keep moving more and more forward, every time she says about stoping be totaly cool about it. She needs to know its not a big deal for you and your happy to stop and leave it, then she'll be happy to let herself go and just roll with it because she knows you'll be cool if she freaks again as things go on.
I pretty much do that, she never says "we should stop", she just either turns her head after a few seconds, closes her lips, or pulls away. I reinitiate alot of times with power like she grabbing them, pushing up against the wall, etc. Same result. She would say "let's go to sleep" and I'd be like O.K. then instead of her reinitiating she'd just try to go to sleep. She didn't seem pissed off that I withdrew interest.
I kept moving more and more forward I mean if she stopped kissing it didn't deter me one bit and this has happened several times. Thing is, I"m not THAT bummed about stopping and leaving and not doing anything but I'm more confused.
I don't know, I don't understand the situations at all.
I would disagree kissing with passion will get a girl turned on.
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I would disagree kissing with passion will get a girl turned on.
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she thinks she has you already, so there is no challenge. If she's getting everything she wants from you already, what need is there for sexual intimacy?
and yes, kissing properly will get a girl horny.
and yes, kissing properly will get a girl horny.
kiss her with your dick
Thats pretty wierd, and id say annoying. Heres my step by step process for escalating in bed. Im new to it, but works.
1) Get into a bed
2) Snuggle, I prefer spooning.
3) With free hand I lightly run my hand/fingers around stomach area. This'll open her up and she'll be pretty sure whats on.
4) Once I get the little rush from that I get a little rougher and usually do a little massage esque rubbing near I guess hips, inner thighs then up back.
5) This is when I get a response. All physical but she starts reacting to the touch. This is when Ill start touching the naughty areas. Note for tits I pull shirt up but I pull it back down when I'm done. I get a better response when I touch then re-dress. I guess its kind of like teasing idk. And when I go south with my hand i'm not immediatly going for vag. Ill massage around it first. Same applies with tits, I go more around the nips but "accidently" make contact a few times. When your hand is in her pants on skin level at this point dont finger or rub yet.
6) Now I take my hands off skin and start rubbing her vag over the underwear. Slowly. Then I dont take her panties off, I pull them aside and finger her still spooning.
7) By this point I have to do nothing else. Youll know if your doing everything right if her body moves into your hand and her breathing changes. Also alot of times the girl will change positions now to get a bit more into it.
8) I usually then DONT let her fuck yet. Or touch my dick yet. I tell her to get on top if she isnt already. From here I makeout while fingering her/grabbing her ass. What youll notice now is shell probably be grabbing your chest abs region or trying to give you a handjob. I spend alot of time in this stage, as its my favorite part. UUUGGGHHHH sooooooo intense I loveeeeee itttt.
9) Seriouslly you shouldnt need any more steps at this point. Think with your dick.
Now, i'm not sure how long you need to take, but I pace myself, this is an hour plus of foreplay when done right. Foreplay for me is my favorite part, although its all fun. Remember to pace yourself. And take away too, put clothes you took of back on her etc, like if you pull her shirt up put it back down. I also switch between super horny aggressive to passionate. The more I tease and the subtler the tocuh the more they seem to enjoy it. This I figured out on my own basicaly, so obviouslly some more expeirenced ppl might change things but this has literally NEVER failed for me yet. And if a girl says no I ROLL OVER. Only girl that said no tho was saying it while she was naked step 8. At that point it was almost a joke lol. And the SECOND I turned over it was on again, so that I definatly agree with. and have fun with it dont be too in your head. You probably wont get far in these steps before you just feel what to do next.
1) Get into a bed
2) Snuggle, I prefer spooning.
3) With free hand I lightly run my hand/fingers around stomach area. This'll open her up and she'll be pretty sure whats on.
4) Once I get the little rush from that I get a little rougher and usually do a little massage esque rubbing near I guess hips, inner thighs then up back.
5) This is when I get a response. All physical but she starts reacting to the touch. This is when Ill start touching the naughty areas. Note for tits I pull shirt up but I pull it back down when I'm done. I get a better response when I touch then re-dress. I guess its kind of like teasing idk. And when I go south with my hand i'm not immediatly going for vag. Ill massage around it first. Same applies with tits, I go more around the nips but "accidently" make contact a few times. When your hand is in her pants on skin level at this point dont finger or rub yet.
6) Now I take my hands off skin and start rubbing her vag over the underwear. Slowly. Then I dont take her panties off, I pull them aside and finger her still spooning.
7) By this point I have to do nothing else. Youll know if your doing everything right if her body moves into your hand and her breathing changes. Also alot of times the girl will change positions now to get a bit more into it.
8) I usually then DONT let her fuck yet. Or touch my dick yet. I tell her to get on top if she isnt already. From here I makeout while fingering her/grabbing her ass. What youll notice now is shell probably be grabbing your chest abs region or trying to give you a handjob. I spend alot of time in this stage, as its my favorite part. UUUGGGHHHH sooooooo intense I loveeeeee itttt.
9) Seriouslly you shouldnt need any more steps at this point. Think with your dick.
Now, i'm not sure how long you need to take, but I pace myself, this is an hour plus of foreplay when done right. Foreplay for me is my favorite part, although its all fun. Remember to pace yourself. And take away too, put clothes you took of back on her etc, like if you pull her shirt up put it back down. I also switch between super horny aggressive to passionate. The more I tease and the subtler the tocuh the more they seem to enjoy it. This I figured out on my own basicaly, so obviouslly some more expeirenced ppl might change things but this has literally NEVER failed for me yet. And if a girl says no I ROLL OVER. Only girl that said no tho was saying it while she was naked step 8. At that point it was almost a joke lol. And the SECOND I turned over it was on again, so that I definatly agree with. and have fun with it dont be too in your head. You probably wont get far in these steps before you just feel what to do next.
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I'll have a girl over/whatnot and I'll start kissing the girl. She'll kiss me back then stop about 5 seconds later. I keep trying, I try all sorts of ways to get her aroused, etc. She will lay with me on my bed and whatnot, want to hang out with me, go somewhere, etc. I've even had a girl do this and still want to just sleep in my bed with me (not have sex or do anything else despite my massively persistant and intense advances) but not kiss me for more than 5 seconds. I will kiss her over and over (like 30-40 times) to see if eventually she'll just stick with it....nope. Kiss her neck, breathe lightly on her ears...just don't know.
How would you guys interpret this? This is really confusing me. Happen to anyone else?