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I have my standards, both on what is visible and on what is not.
Some people say they're super high, some say normal some say I can do better.
Who gives a fuck, the thing is: do you really enjoy that woman? if not then you re cheating yourself, and should go for better ones.
Some people say they're super high, some say normal some say I can do better.
Who gives a fuck, the thing is: do you really enjoy that woman? if not then you re cheating yourself, and should go for better ones.
i know the looks don't matter thing is popular here but aren't some people just trying for something that really is not attainable? don't some people have to realize that going for model types is just out of their league?
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I'm no master PUA but a model girl CAN EASILY get a model guy... sure, you can have crazy game and pass her tests and caveman or whatever but for her to actually stick around you will have to have equal or higher value with her... and a solid nine with an average looking guy... that ain happenin CONSISTENTLY... I would rather have a girl that really cares about me anyway than someone who always feels like they could do better, that would be a pain in the ass to deal with... in fact I've been recently turning girls down who are into me if I feel there out of my league b/c I don't want to be just their last resort guy
i know the looks don't matter thing is popular here but aren't some people just trying for something that really is not attainable? don't some people have to realize that going for model types is just out of their league?
keep in mind tho Billy Corgan and BBT are both ok/decent looking, okay faces, not overweight, not short... BUT they have that rockstar image. Not only that you can't compare celebrities to average people... why do you think jennier aniston dumped vince vaughn, he didnt look good enough plain and simple, people can always get lucky but consistency is key... also they hotter girls I have dated have always gotten on my ass about my looks after we broke up, called me short and said "the guys i real want don't want me and the guys who like me i don't like that much" etc... hmmm why would that be? i would tkae the less attractive girl who cares any day of the week
Jessica Simpson went from Tony Romo to Billy Corgan. Do looks really matter?? Have you seen Billy Corgan?? SURE GOOD LOOKS HELP. But they don't limit you from being succesful.
The reason most guys are unsuccesful with women is because they don't believe they deserve 9's or 10's. Point blank. THEY LACK CONFIDENCE.
Before Brad Pitt. Angelina Jolie dated Billy Bob Thornton. She had her options of Jude Law, Tyreese, Matthe McCouneghey, George Clooney, etc, etc. and she dated Billy Bob Thornton!!!!
If you are highly confident. Have shit going on for you in your life. Great personality, great lifestyle, great career or some combination of that. And you believe in yourself.
and you really have REAL CONFIDENCE in yourself. Girls will be attracted to you.
Girls are attracted to confidence like guys are attracted to tits and ass.
A lot of good looking guys just happen to have confidence. Because society says good looking guys should date good looking girls.
That gets hammered into them over and over again until many of them develop confidence. And to the average chump. this just further supports his "belief" that girls are superficial like us.
Girls are mostly attacted to confidence. More than looks. Way more.
i know the looks don't matter thing is popular here but aren't some people just trying for something that really is not attainable? don't some people have to realize that going for model types is just out of their league?
Jessica Simpson went from Tony Romo to Billy Corgan. Do looks really matter?? Have you seen Billy Corgan?? SURE GOOD LOOKS HELP. But they don't limit you from being succesful.
The reason most guys are unsuccesful with women is because they don't believe they deserve 9's or 10's. Point blank. THEY LACK CONFIDENCE.
Before Brad Pitt. Angelina Jolie dated Billy Bob Thornton. She had her options of Jude Law, Tyreese, Matthe McCouneghey, George Clooney, etc, etc. and she dated Billy Bob Thornton!!!!
If you are highly confident. Have shit going on for you in your life. Great personality, great lifestyle, great career or some combination of that. And you believe in yourself.
and you really have REAL CONFIDENCE in yourself. Girls will be attracted to you.
Girls are attracted to confidence like guys are attracted to tits and ass.
A lot of good looking guys just happen to have confidence. Because society says good looking guys should date good looking girls.
That gets hammered into them over and over again until many of them develop confidence. And to the average chump. this just further supports his "belief" that girls are superficial like us.
Girls are mostly attacted to confidence. More than looks. Way more.
i think most men fall into the category of around average, the people you named would fall into that category, and i do agree that with good game you can overcome being not so great looking. but there are guys who physically really don't have much going for them. and are below average, i just in my day to day life do not see one of these guys with a hot girl, i am not saying it does not happen but i just don;t see it
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Just one comment about Billy Bob Thorton dating Angelina Jolie, and this is has nothing to do with looks;
I've met and had a conversation with Billy Bob Thorton and the dude has very little confidence. Weird vibes galore and nothing like I thought he'd be. He didn't win over a 10 with his sense of humor or 'strong sense of reality'. My point is, don't forget the wild card; sometimes there are no 'rules of attraction'.
I've met and had a conversation with Billy Bob Thorton and the dude has very little confidence. Weird vibes galore and nothing like I thought he'd be. He didn't win over a 10 with his sense of humor or 'strong sense of reality'. My point is, don't forget the wild card; sometimes there are no 'rules of attraction'.
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What I hear you saying is that your standards need be realistic and realistically attainable. In this, I agree. I don't find my standards to be unrealistic or unattainable. I have reference experiences that allow me to conclude that my standards aren't out of line. Yes, I have been approached by women that don't meet my standards, and while I was flattered and appreciate the attention, that didn't mean that I was going to change my standards. I'd rather go home alone than compromise my standards.
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