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If you don't have high standards somethings wrong. Any sex worthy person is naturally qualifying everyone they meet and separating them into an interested/not interested list. It's binary. Either you have high standards for yourself and others or low standards. Theres no middle fence, thats just being incongruent.
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It seems good to have standards but if your average on the looks scale and a guy who is super attractive on the looks scale approaches the same girl who will she choose? Even if your game is good its likely the very attractive guy will have good game and she would choose him over you, so lowering your standards the same guy might not approach the other girl who is less attractive and thus you have elmiminated the competition
No.
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edit: maybe she has game
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It seems good to have standards but if your average on the looks scale and a guy who is super attractive on the looks scale approaches the same girl who will she choose? Even if your game is good its likely the very attractive guy will have good game and she would choose him over you, so lowering your standards the same guy might not approach the other girl who is less attractive and thus you have elmiminated the competition
Well, it seems to me that your comparison is based on a faulty premise. I don't see super attractive guys making cold approaches. Perhaps they do in other places, but isn't it likely that super attractive guys get approached by lots of women and thus they don't need to approach? However, beyond that it seems that if you don't abide by your standards, you don't really have standards, just wishes or hopes.D
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thats exactly my point... so even if you have "good game" so to speak and approach a girl... she will be wishing that the super attractive guy approached her instead, kind of like when a fat girl is into you you REALLY wish the hot girl was and would jump on her in a heartbeat... then even if she gives you a chance she will constantly be shit testing you because she is frustrated that the guy she really wants isnt into her... at least thats how it felt with some of my past g/f's
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It seems good to have standards but if your average on the looks scale and a guy who is super attractive on the looks scale approaches the same girl who will she choose? Even if your game is good its likely the very attractive guy will have good game and she would choose him over you, so lowering your standards the same guy might not approach the other girl who is less attractive and thus you have elmiminated the competition
Well, it seems to me that your comparison is based on a faulty premise. I don't see super attractive guys making cold approaches. Perhaps they do in other places, but isn't it likely that super attractive guys get approached by lots of women and thus they don't need to approach? However, beyond that it seems that if you don't abide by your standards, you don't really have standards, just wishes or hopes.D
^^ building on that...
perhaps you should look at your standards as a comparison between your perceived worth and what you think you deserve.
if you're constantly "settling" -- doesn't this speak volumes on how you think you deserve something better than what you're getting? to some degree it's a healthy drive..
perhaps you should look at your standards as a comparison between your perceived worth and what you think you deserve.
if you're constantly "settling" -- doesn't this speak volumes on how you think you deserve something better than what you're getting? to some degree it's a healthy drive..
i dont know if my standards are too high. Whenever I'm out I will look at hot girls and be thinking, "Eh I don't find her all that hot". I guess cause it's because I'm starting to care more about personality other than looks. If you know what I'm talkin about and know what the problem is please feel free to respond.
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I know what you're talking about ^^ and the problem is this...
gaining a sense of interpersonal depth and no longer thinking superficially with your dick. STICKING POINT!!
gaining a sense of interpersonal depth and no longer thinking superficially with your dick. STICKING POINT!!
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