THE FORUMS
Friday 2 July 2010
Written for my own benefit here. Ended up in a club alone, as a cunt of a mate decided to invite me out and ignore my phone calls when I arrived in the location. Twat.
Anyway, didn't pull, no make outs, some push away blow outs by bitchy friends. Basically a "bad"night. Ultimately it can never be a bad night. Went out to blow off some steam, talked to some girls, had some fun and had some beers. Booo hoo didn't hook up with anyone.
Only thing I need to do is accept my entitlement, stay the fuck in set - particularly when its uncomfortable, and stay the fuck with it till the bitter end - win or learn. I'm a great guy, be assertive with my value. Return to "bad" sets, keep at it.
I could get down about tonight, particulary about my epiphanies not translating into real results.
BUT, I forget that I have 2 girls in love with me that I'm fucking - a whole host of other girls who fancy me.. And my life is awesome without girls anyway. Last time I got depressed abouyt a night out I pulled the following night, so its nothing.
Its like pool, sometimes I play well, sometimes I play shit - no rhyme or reason. Chill mate.
Written for my own benefit here. Ended up in a club alone, as a cunt of a mate decided to invite me out and ignore my phone calls when I arrived in the location. Twat.
Anyway, didn't pull, no make outs, some push away blow outs by bitchy friends. Basically a "bad"night. Ultimately it can never be a bad night. Went out to blow off some steam, talked to some girls, had some fun and had some beers. Booo hoo didn't hook up with anyone.
Only thing I need to do is accept my entitlement, stay the fuck in set - particularly when its uncomfortable, and stay the fuck with it till the bitter end - win or learn. I'm a great guy, be assertive with my value. Return to "bad" sets, keep at it.
I could get down about tonight, particulary about my epiphanies not translating into real results.
BUT, I forget that I have 2 girls in love with me that I'm fucking - a whole host of other girls who fancy me.. And my life is awesome without girls anyway. Last time I got depressed abouyt a night out I pulled the following night, so its nothing.
Its like pool, sometimes I play well, sometimes I play shit - no rhyme or reason. Chill mate.
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Saturday 17 July 2010
Again, been pretty shit writing up at the moment, my life is getting busier and busier. Good times.
However, think I'll write this up as its pretty noteworthy. First alleyway fuck :-)
Attended the London hotseat during the day, pretty awesome. Its not really learning anything new per se, for me at least. Not in terms of words, physical escalation etc.
The big learning is the vibe these guys have. Tyler in particular is sooo chill. Really relaxed but with a good energy. Its a very very good demonstration of "searing coal" that Jeffy talks about, chilled intensity.
Anyways, finished off there about 9pm and got home to get changed. Then off to Clapham! :-)
End up doing a couple of street approaches before the club but the girl keeps on getting dragged away by the angry cockblock despite my best efforts. The hot girl loves it though. Meet with Momooj, Goran, Matt and a couple of other guys who are helping out bootcamp for Ozzie.
Literally am in the club by 11.30pm and pretty much the first set I open is some group of foreign girls, I end up wrapped around some tall brunette and we start feeling each others arses. She has a cracking arse, and I tell her that. She loves it but her friend freaks the fuck out, I try and calm her down but she keeps on saying how disgusting I am and I lose the girl because she needs to look after her friend. Wierd how conservative some people are. Retarded almost.
Anyway, I see a group of girls walk in. Beyonce "Sweet Dream" is playing, so in my very best plummy English accent I tell this blonde girl that I could be her "Sweet dream, or her beautiful nightmare".
Yes, thats my opener.
She laughs, her friends laugh. I pull her in and hug her, telling her I love her. I kiss her cheek and then kiss her lips - full makeout ensues. Nice.
Introductions to the friends, hello, hello, hello. Handshake times. Momooj and Goran move in to take the friends. I end up dancing with this girl for a while, chatting shit and feeling her up. Move her around to the bar. Start making out again when some guy walks up to us.
I'm pretty sure that this guy is a bootcamp student cos he starts asking about good clubs around here, trying to make conversation. Some sort of talk to the couple making out challenge. I just grab my girl and start making out with her again, he trails off and excuses himself. Sorry man.
Its simply a case of leading her around, chatting shit and seeding sexual ideas in her mind. Logistics are good for the ONS as she is only here for the weekend - she comes from Jersey. She is however staying at her friends house, shit logistics. Shes down for an afterparty though, for horizontal manouveres.
I get the vibe she is worried about her friends, so I take her down to see them. I leave her with them telling her its me and her tonight and I'll see her later. I've got her number in case I can't find her.
I run around the club for an hour with Momooj, generally causing mayhem. A lot of stuff has sinked in from the hotseat and a lot of girls I talk to are into me, unpredictable enviroment nightclubs though, so a lot of cockblocking going on - the club we are in is renowned for it. Very studenty vibe with lots of big cliquey social circles there.
I'm also a bit paranoid about the girl seeing me with other girls, so I hold back on the kisses and physicality. Don't know quite what to do there to be honest, maybe should just say fuck it and do it anyway.
I run into my girl again, lead her into a private part of the bar. She says she cannot come home with me, her friends won't let her - she needs to go with them. Fine, I start fingering her in the bar and then tell her that she wants my cock inside her. She nods her head.
Righto.
Take her hand and lead her towards the door and get stamped. She freaks a little bit but I promise her I'll bring her back.
Outside into the fresh air and we cross the road hand in hand. I'm looking for an alleyway, it becomes apparent to the smokers outside the club what we are doing and we receive wolf-whistles and cheers.
I find a church wall that we can get behind.....
Yes a church wall, I'm going to hell.
Take her pants off and pull my trousers down. She starts giving me a blow job, thing is though I don't get turned on by public sex...so little Chris is not rising to the occasion. Fuck. Shes begging me to stick it in her, but the more I get pissed off the less "things" happen.
Finally I relax, she talks dirty to me and its ground control to major tom. She sits on top of me and starts riding. Flip her over on her fours and finish off. My knees are cut to fuck on gravel and there are two guys just standing on the other side of the road who doubtless heard. Lol.
Walk her back to the club. Nice to meet you and kiss goodbye. Never to be seen again.
I decide to go home, fun night :-)
- First alley fuck
- The chill vibe with physicality is where it is at
- Lead, lead, lead - she won't do shit to help you fuck her
- When a girl asks you to do something physical to her, like massage, kiss etc. Always comply - she wants to hit BT.
- Should have stayed in the club after I fucked her and gone for number two. Next time.
- I love this game :-)
Again, been pretty shit writing up at the moment, my life is getting busier and busier. Good times.
However, think I'll write this up as its pretty noteworthy. First alleyway fuck :-)
Attended the London hotseat during the day, pretty awesome. Its not really learning anything new per se, for me at least. Not in terms of words, physical escalation etc.
The big learning is the vibe these guys have. Tyler in particular is sooo chill. Really relaxed but with a good energy. Its a very very good demonstration of "searing coal" that Jeffy talks about, chilled intensity.
Anyways, finished off there about 9pm and got home to get changed. Then off to Clapham! :-)
End up doing a couple of street approaches before the club but the girl keeps on getting dragged away by the angry cockblock despite my best efforts. The hot girl loves it though. Meet with Momooj, Goran, Matt and a couple of other guys who are helping out bootcamp for Ozzie.
Literally am in the club by 11.30pm and pretty much the first set I open is some group of foreign girls, I end up wrapped around some tall brunette and we start feeling each others arses. She has a cracking arse, and I tell her that. She loves it but her friend freaks the fuck out, I try and calm her down but she keeps on saying how disgusting I am and I lose the girl because she needs to look after her friend. Wierd how conservative some people are. Retarded almost.
Anyway, I see a group of girls walk in. Beyonce "Sweet Dream" is playing, so in my very best plummy English accent I tell this blonde girl that I could be her "Sweet dream, or her beautiful nightmare".
Yes, thats my opener.
She laughs, her friends laugh. I pull her in and hug her, telling her I love her. I kiss her cheek and then kiss her lips - full makeout ensues. Nice.
Introductions to the friends, hello, hello, hello. Handshake times. Momooj and Goran move in to take the friends. I end up dancing with this girl for a while, chatting shit and feeling her up. Move her around to the bar. Start making out again when some guy walks up to us.
I'm pretty sure that this guy is a bootcamp student cos he starts asking about good clubs around here, trying to make conversation. Some sort of talk to the couple making out challenge. I just grab my girl and start making out with her again, he trails off and excuses himself. Sorry man.
Its simply a case of leading her around, chatting shit and seeding sexual ideas in her mind. Logistics are good for the ONS as she is only here for the weekend - she comes from Jersey. She is however staying at her friends house, shit logistics. Shes down for an afterparty though, for horizontal manouveres.
I get the vibe she is worried about her friends, so I take her down to see them. I leave her with them telling her its me and her tonight and I'll see her later. I've got her number in case I can't find her.
I run around the club for an hour with Momooj, generally causing mayhem. A lot of stuff has sinked in from the hotseat and a lot of girls I talk to are into me, unpredictable enviroment nightclubs though, so a lot of cockblocking going on - the club we are in is renowned for it. Very studenty vibe with lots of big cliquey social circles there.
I'm also a bit paranoid about the girl seeing me with other girls, so I hold back on the kisses and physicality. Don't know quite what to do there to be honest, maybe should just say fuck it and do it anyway.
I run into my girl again, lead her into a private part of the bar. She says she cannot come home with me, her friends won't let her - she needs to go with them. Fine, I start fingering her in the bar and then tell her that she wants my cock inside her. She nods her head.
Righto.
Take her hand and lead her towards the door and get stamped. She freaks a little bit but I promise her I'll bring her back.
Outside into the fresh air and we cross the road hand in hand. I'm looking for an alleyway, it becomes apparent to the smokers outside the club what we are doing and we receive wolf-whistles and cheers.
I find a church wall that we can get behind.....
Yes a church wall, I'm going to hell.
Take her pants off and pull my trousers down. She starts giving me a blow job, thing is though I don't get turned on by public sex...so little Chris is not rising to the occasion. Fuck. Shes begging me to stick it in her, but the more I get pissed off the less "things" happen.
Finally I relax, she talks dirty to me and its ground control to major tom. She sits on top of me and starts riding. Flip her over on her fours and finish off. My knees are cut to fuck on gravel and there are two guys just standing on the other side of the road who doubtless heard. Lol.
Walk her back to the club. Nice to meet you and kiss goodbye. Never to be seen again.
I decide to go home, fun night :-)
- First alley fuck
- The chill vibe with physicality is where it is at
- Lead, lead, lead - she won't do shit to help you fuck her
- When a girl asks you to do something physical to her, like massage, kiss etc. Always comply - she wants to hit BT.
- Should have stayed in the club after I fucked her and gone for number two. Next time.
- I love this game :-)
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I'm pretty sure that this guy is a bootcamp student cos he starts asking about good clubs around here, trying to make conversation. Some sort of talk to the couple making out challenge. I just grab my girl and start making out with her again, he trails off and excuses himself. Sorry man.
Hahhaha :-) Brilliant. It's even more funny when two students do it to the same couple using the same openers...
Good to meet you mate. Bring on Vegas!
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1st - 8th August Las Vegas - Summit
Holy shit. Holy shit. Holy Shit.
The most awesomely fun week of my life so far.
London crew rocked the shit out of vegas, we fucked 12 girls between the 5 of us in just under a week. God knows how many girls we made out with, every night it was multiples and every night we would pull. Insane anf great fun.
My two lays were nice and straightforward and one of them included Feet and Gsaad almost walking in on us. Lol.
The greatest learning experiences came from the failed pulls though. Virtually every night I pulled, but certain fuck ups halted the sexual activity:
- lost one to some ripped tall good looking guy cos I was too reactive to him when he started chatting my girl in Drais. She went from full on it after pulling me from club to Drias, to fuck off you cunt. Unbelieveble to witness. Lesson - don't try to blow him out, trust the girl can see you are cooler than him. Be friendly to him, he's only a chode.
- lots of girls lie about b/fs to keep you around and once they have taken it as far as they want to they mug you off. Lesson - screen better
- go for bathroom pull if she can't leave with you
- don't be too sexaully agressive with a girl in front of her brother :-/
Funniest experience was in Tryst, some guy starts trying to take Goran's girl away from him. She's telling him to leave and Goran has his arm around her with his hand on her arse, but the guy just sticks in there. I go to chat to him but he chats briefly then ignores me.
I sit down and watch him for 2 minutes. He still stays there, and by this point has gripped her arm and is trying to physically pull her away. Fuck this. I stand up walk behind him and pick him up and walk him away. Plonk him down, tell him I love Portugal (he's American portugese) and push him away. 30 seconds later he is back and very angry. He's trying to fight me, I just sit down and wave him away full chill. He keeps ranting and then walks away.
Now, we are sitting in VIP, we didn't buy it - we just walked in there with our girls and now the staff assume we have paid for it. :-) I walk up to a bar staff and point out this guy. Tell him that he just walked up and started insulting us - the guy grabs and bouncer and together they chuck him out. Haha, don't fuck with the London crew.
Glorious. The speeches were fantastic, some great new insights and some reaffirmation of key principles.
Heres to next year :-)
Holy shit. Holy shit. Holy Shit.
The most awesomely fun week of my life so far.
London crew rocked the shit out of vegas, we fucked 12 girls between the 5 of us in just under a week. God knows how many girls we made out with, every night it was multiples and every night we would pull. Insane anf great fun.
My two lays were nice and straightforward and one of them included Feet and Gsaad almost walking in on us. Lol.
The greatest learning experiences came from the failed pulls though. Virtually every night I pulled, but certain fuck ups halted the sexual activity:
- lost one to some ripped tall good looking guy cos I was too reactive to him when he started chatting my girl in Drais. She went from full on it after pulling me from club to Drias, to fuck off you cunt. Unbelieveble to witness. Lesson - don't try to blow him out, trust the girl can see you are cooler than him. Be friendly to him, he's only a chode.
- lots of girls lie about b/fs to keep you around and once they have taken it as far as they want to they mug you off. Lesson - screen better
- go for bathroom pull if she can't leave with you
- don't be too sexaully agressive with a girl in front of her brother :-/
Funniest experience was in Tryst, some guy starts trying to take Goran's girl away from him. She's telling him to leave and Goran has his arm around her with his hand on her arse, but the guy just sticks in there. I go to chat to him but he chats briefly then ignores me.
I sit down and watch him for 2 minutes. He still stays there, and by this point has gripped her arm and is trying to physically pull her away. Fuck this. I stand up walk behind him and pick him up and walk him away. Plonk him down, tell him I love Portugal (he's American portugese) and push him away. 30 seconds later he is back and very angry. He's trying to fight me, I just sit down and wave him away full chill. He keeps ranting and then walks away.
Now, we are sitting in VIP, we didn't buy it - we just walked in there with our girls and now the staff assume we have paid for it. :-) I walk up to a bar staff and point out this guy. Tell him that he just walked up and started insulting us - the guy grabs and bouncer and together they chuck him out. Haha, don't fuck with the London crew.
Glorious. The speeches were fantastic, some great new insights and some reaffirmation of key principles.
Heres to next year :-)
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That was fuken sweet man, lol, the little midget got quite anoying, my girl was trying to get rid of him aswell, lol. It was funny you just picked him up, and woosh, he was gone! I owe you one!
And then the girls pull us to Drays, hilarious!!!!
And then the girls pull us to Drays, hilarious!!!!
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"As our awesomeness grows, I find it difficult to acknowledge things that arent awesome"
Matt.
"Im so hot"
Goran~
"Oh my god, you look like something out of a magazine"
Moderately attractive chick stroking my ego.
"As our awesomeness grows, I find it difficult to acknowledge things that arent awesome"
Matt.
"Im so hot"
Goran~
"Oh my god, you look like something out of a magazine"
Moderately attractive chick stroking my ego.
I like the sprinklings of london slang. makes me feel patriotic.
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Updates
Bloody hell, it took a while to re-adjust after Vegas lets put it that way. London nightlife doesn't really cut it when you've partied and pulled some of the hottest girls on the planet. I think all we London crew have felt the same way after returning from the states.
The action has slipped somewhat on my part, I've spent a lot of time with one girl over the last year and its my biggest sticking point at the moment. Jeffy's speech at the summit really banged home when he talked about his girlfriend (now ex).
I don't want to leave my girl, I love her, but I also want to grow in this game and I know that better girls are out there waiting for me. Comfort versus growth, I know I need to chop her but logistically right now its fucking tough (for reasons I'm not going to explain).
Its not really the cheating issue, that doesn't bother me, I've got no guilty conscience about that. Its just the worried about getting caught that freaks me out. Tough tough tough.
On the plus side, internally I'm pretty fucking sorted. I'm chill, cool, and stress free. Read my post explaining A=HV+E, its where my heads at and its fun socially, not even just with girls, but with everyone. When you relax and don't stress about the impression you make, its fun and you actually make a really good impression. Its wierd.
One little epiphany today, was that by cold approaching, regardless of outcome, you are actually demonstrating some fucking cool characteristics about yourself to everyone around you, including the girl. Namely that your just very relaxed with yourself and happy with who you are. And thats a cool guy, chill, relaxed and unconcerned by others opinions of him cos you know your a decent man. And thats a cool person to be.
Anyways, some actual field time updates arriving here soon. Gonna tap some ass.
Bloody hell, it took a while to re-adjust after Vegas lets put it that way. London nightlife doesn't really cut it when you've partied and pulled some of the hottest girls on the planet. I think all we London crew have felt the same way after returning from the states.
The action has slipped somewhat on my part, I've spent a lot of time with one girl over the last year and its my biggest sticking point at the moment. Jeffy's speech at the summit really banged home when he talked about his girlfriend (now ex).
I don't want to leave my girl, I love her, but I also want to grow in this game and I know that better girls are out there waiting for me. Comfort versus growth, I know I need to chop her but logistically right now its fucking tough (for reasons I'm not going to explain).
Its not really the cheating issue, that doesn't bother me, I've got no guilty conscience about that. Its just the worried about getting caught that freaks me out. Tough tough tough.
On the plus side, internally I'm pretty fucking sorted. I'm chill, cool, and stress free. Read my post explaining A=HV+E, its where my heads at and its fun socially, not even just with girls, but with everyone. When you relax and don't stress about the impression you make, its fun and you actually make a really good impression. Its wierd.
One little epiphany today, was that by cold approaching, regardless of outcome, you are actually demonstrating some fucking cool characteristics about yourself to everyone around you, including the girl. Namely that your just very relaxed with yourself and happy with who you are. And thats a cool guy, chill, relaxed and unconcerned by others opinions of him cos you know your a decent man. And thats a cool person to be.
Anyways, some actual field time updates arriving here soon. Gonna tap some ass.
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Updates....again
Yo, been a while. Promised I would update this shit so I will!!
I've been really chilling back, got so much crazy ass shit to deal with work - I'm working to become work independent, so its taking its toll putting in the hours to set up my own passive income on top of pretty intense work days, but hey thats why partying so much fun!!
Went out on the weekend on Saturday night with Goran. Unfortunately I had the shits from a big fry up and MacDonalds and lots of beer so that ended my night abrubtly at 1am. However before then I was starting to get back into my stride.
When you haven't been out properly for some time you tend to forget the basics and lose your rythym a bit. Bit of a mini re-epiphany (think I just made that up) was that its all about being totallllllyyyyyyyyy chiiiiilllllleeeeed out when talking to girls. Almost like your stoned, lazy and this brings about a really good feeling in your body. Every success I've had I've felt like that. What Alex talks about as relaxed arousal, and Ozzie talks about as lack of fear. You see, after a bit of a warm up, you start to hit your stride and fear/anxiety goes away - you start to express yourself and arouse the girls around you.
It usually takes about 2 minutes for you to be able to relax in set properly (like Ozzies 2min rule - where fear disappears and performance goes up in set), after 2 minutes you start to express yourself with a range of emotions and move things forward physically instinctually (unless your a newbie in which case you'll probably need to remove a lot more social conditioning to access your instincts) - arousing the girls around you.
This is a great realisation for opportunistic daygame when you aren't going to be boucing around talking to a lot of people and have the opportunity to properly relax beforehand. All you've gotta do is stick out the 2mins and then you'll start to have fun, relax and arouse her as well. Good natural game.
With night game the more people you speak to, the more you relax, get out of your head and have fun and arouse the people around you. So you've got the 2 min rule in set but operating on a macro level - so you really hit full relaxation and fun times.
Sweet, glad I reminded myself of that. I'm eating healthy this week so no dodgy stomachs this weekend and happily for this journal that means the rebirth of party times and field reports!!
Till next time
Yo, been a while. Promised I would update this shit so I will!!
I've been really chilling back, got so much crazy ass shit to deal with work - I'm working to become work independent, so its taking its toll putting in the hours to set up my own passive income on top of pretty intense work days, but hey thats why partying so much fun!!
Went out on the weekend on Saturday night with Goran. Unfortunately I had the shits from a big fry up and MacDonalds and lots of beer so that ended my night abrubtly at 1am. However before then I was starting to get back into my stride.
When you haven't been out properly for some time you tend to forget the basics and lose your rythym a bit. Bit of a mini re-epiphany (think I just made that up) was that its all about being totallllllyyyyyyyyy chiiiiilllllleeeeed out when talking to girls. Almost like your stoned, lazy and this brings about a really good feeling in your body. Every success I've had I've felt like that. What Alex talks about as relaxed arousal, and Ozzie talks about as lack of fear. You see, after a bit of a warm up, you start to hit your stride and fear/anxiety goes away - you start to express yourself and arouse the girls around you.
It usually takes about 2 minutes for you to be able to relax in set properly (like Ozzies 2min rule - where fear disappears and performance goes up in set), after 2 minutes you start to express yourself with a range of emotions and move things forward physically instinctually (unless your a newbie in which case you'll probably need to remove a lot more social conditioning to access your instincts) - arousing the girls around you.
This is a great realisation for opportunistic daygame when you aren't going to be boucing around talking to a lot of people and have the opportunity to properly relax beforehand. All you've gotta do is stick out the 2mins and then you'll start to have fun, relax and arouse her as well. Good natural game.
With night game the more people you speak to, the more you relax, get out of your head and have fun and arouse the people around you. So you've got the 2 min rule in set but operating on a macro level - so you really hit full relaxation and fun times.
Sweet, glad I reminded myself of that. I'm eating healthy this week so no dodgy stomachs this weekend and happily for this journal that means the rebirth of party times and field reports!!
Till next time
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When you haven't been out properly for some time you tend to forget the basics and lose your rythym a bit. Bit of a mini re-epiphany (think I just made that up) was that its all about being totallllllyyyyyyyyy chiiiiilllllleeeeed out when talking to girls. Almost like your stoned, lazy and this brings about a really good feeling in your body.
Yes! Good.
See you on the weekend?
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