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March 27th, 2017
How did you stop looking at PORN? I'm addicted.
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#31

JeeMo

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Join Date: 10/28/2009 | Posts: 51

I don't understand this "addiction to porn" thing. What are you addicted to REALLY?

Do you sit and watch the porn like it's a fucking movie, or are you addicted to masturbating?

Now are you addicted to the physical act of rubbing skin up and down, or are you addicted to the orgasm?

If so, wouldn't you then also be addicted to sex?

Addiction to porn just sounds absolutely ridiculous to me. It's like video game addiction. It's not a real addiction.
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#32
Getupa

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Join Date: 12/21/2008 | Posts: 830

 This thread is good to show some things:

Not all people think bad of watching porn, even daily! 

What emotions arise in you when watching it? Do you hate it? do you love it? Are you suspicious about it? Everything together???

This is an important self examination, becuase you can track the cause of it.

Do you have too much free time and likes to fill it with orgasms? Do you have too much curiosity for girls bodies? Do you have curiosity for different sex acting?

What are you looking for in porn?

Probably you are anxious to get rid of this problem, butthese questions can be the beginning of the solution.

Highly recommend a book called Love and Orgasm.
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#33
oneyeardeep

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Join Date: 06/26/2007 | Posts: 212

kidazia wrote:

tweezer wrote:
 Go cold turkey for 30-90 days, I would stop MB for that time too. 
Thats impossible.  How do you fight the temptation, especially after coming home buzzed from a night out and no girl.  Those are the hardest times for me.  I went a whole 5 weeks once, it felt like an accomplishment but I ended up relapsing.  Im trying now again.  Im scared to erase my porn though cause ive regretted it in the past.  I doubt these urges will ever go away.
Haha.  I just deleted all my porn last week. 

Its impossible for you because you haven't hit a breaking point.

I woke up after having had a REALLY shitty night where I basically blacked out, ditched my friends, left my brand new jacket at the bar, and shattered the screen on my phone.  I was hung over all day, and the only thing I did to make myself feel better was watch porn and wank it. 3x. I deleted all the movies/pics I had of girls I've hooked up with.  Then I passed out.  I realized it was poisoning my mind. 

I've gone through cycles of deleting it and regretting it later.  I know that I may potentially regret it, and when I deleted it I FORMATTED my hard drive.  No recovering that shit later.

I've got a some self reflection to take care of, and to get my mind straight, but basically it comes down to this.

Are you where you want to be in the game?  Why not get the most you can out of REAL life?  Those porn stars that do all that crazy shit, you could be doing that with some girl, and it would be a totally different and way more awesome experience. Wouldn't you rather that?
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#34
Stockholm

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Join Date: 03/16/2009 | Posts: 175



SUP!
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#35
The Symphony

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Join Date: 09/14/2007 | Posts: 246

Whats bad about porn?

I dont think you can get addicted, if you dont blow your load for a couple of days YOUR GOING TO GET HORNY, simple as that, and if for whatever reason you dont have a girl you can fuck, bat off, isn't this normal?
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#36
jlaix

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I always had a fantasy of fucking a girl, and laying a porn magazine out ON TOP OF HER while I fucked her... like, opening up the centerfold and laying it over her so it obscures her entire body and fucking her while looking at the porn. 
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#37
xGuyx

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Join Date: 08/14/2009 | Posts: 240

try to get busy with other stuff.....maybe picking up chicks? like whenver you have an urge to fap go out and hit sets....or even go online and hook up.....if you are busy...you cant fap right?

I gona go watch some pron now.
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#38
tweezer

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Join Date: 08/30/2007 | Posts: 144

you guys all suck balls!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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#39
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#40
Kirra

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I hate you OP you whiny bastard. Now i can't watch porn for a month because of you, and i really want to.

You never know how addicted you actually are untill you try to stop...
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