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NATURAL friend / PUA me...
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#31
Gunn

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Join Date: 04/28/2009 | Posts: 526




Im gonna try this methodology again gotta do nothing and girls will jump on you
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#32
Gunn

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me: (day i met) Ms. Sunshine great job today ! Not a singel drop of rain
(GHEY)



4 days later

me: Cristy Guidette of the year lol
her:yepp thats me --who is this??
her: ??
her: Helloooo?
me: wow.
her: Enlighten me!
her: or not.
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#33
Koolaid

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lol
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Life changing self-esteem article by Tyler
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Excellent post about practice and consistency by Ozzie. Really hits home.
http://www.rsdnation.com/showthread.php?t=13223

Field report thread.
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#34

Go Go Gabriel

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Join Date: 04/19/2010 | Posts: 102

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#35
Holland

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Sounds like a pretty boring dude.
Unreactive doesn't mean unresponsive and inexpressive.
Sure it might work better than acting like a needy chode, but to me he sounds pretty boring.
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#36

Aceshigh616

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Join Date: 02/28/2007 | Posts: 165

Gunn please don't take this as a personal attack seeing as I do not know you and am actually trying to help you...

From reading the things you have posted in this thread, I think you need to go back and internalize a few concepts...or at least gain a better understanding of them.  The conversations you are posting with girls do not seem like very strong interactions at all, and you come off as trying WAY too hard.  Acting like the dude that OP is talking about is not going to make you any better at getting women.  In order to have a successful interaction you must have CONGRUENCE, and it's pretty obvious that you are just not this "unreactive dick" type of dude.  I suggest you do a little soul searching and learn about yourself and who you truly are, and then play off strengths that you know you have.  Girls can tell when you are simply pretending to be an unreactive dick (and I can too through a message board)...I go to a big university and there are loads of dudes like this everywhere when I am out.  They act like they are all uninterested but in the end they come off as really insecure and trying way too hard.  People can smell your insecurities, so don't just hide them, go get rid of them.
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#37
Gunn

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aceshigh

Your analyzing this stuff way to much, theres various ways of bedding a woman.how do i know because I've done it various ways , I've also failed various ways

re read tylers secret society post

Value = being someone in the secret society (it can also be SO many other things, but being a member can in some cases be sufficient)

Trust = not telegraphing interest


Attraction = increasing her buying temperature by making her emotional (emotionally aroused, not necessarily physically aroused.. the former will cause her to be too illogical to prevent you from causing the latter, when she's ready)

More Experimentation. Less Mental Masturbation.
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#38
ambiguity

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Join Date: 10/28/2009 | Posts: 5330

It is funny when you see how some guys naturally opperate vs. how the community as a whole says.

The only thing I caution you on is that, he may get attention cause of looks, natural tactics, or whatever. Don't spent too much time analyzing shit.

If this kid is cool, chill with him. If he is an idiot, don't bother.

When you chill with "cool" people, "naturals" for instance, they rub off on you. You begin to be conditioned being around that kind of high energy level.

I have experienced 10game first hand. It is pretty impressive but, you must realize, you are trying. 10 game isn't trying. It is doing.

The game comes from a diff sort of place, one which isn't looking for a response.

Enjoy analyzing it if you want but, don't fantasize about this too much. It will fuck you up. Comparing and contrasting will fuck up your game!
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The Natural Kid...

Ok so i went snowboarding with people and "the natural kid" in grade 11 at our school.  Were talking and our friend comments on this text he got, the hb's like "blah blah blah text me later or i'll text u" hes like "k" she responsed with a hour long text message.  Throughout the night i realized this kid doesn't give a fuck about ANYTHING.  I would ask him a question and he would wait forever to respond or just get side-tracked over nothing.  The whole night i was trying to get him to react and shit, it was nuts.  I brought up some crazy topics and he barly shows like any care/emotion.  Then joking around we were talking about girls and im like making fun of this random that we saw on the bus who was like "i can get any girl i want" he was hitting on a hb and got blown out, meanwhile me and my friends are just fucking around on the bus and the girls keep staring at us.
Hes like heres my "girls 101".  Hes like anwser their texts with the absolute shortest response and signifiying that you don't give a shit, then when she strings on like react like: ex =>
HB: hey that was so fun at wherever/whenever
Natural: K
HB: yeah
Natural: wow
Hes like whenever she tries to string on the conversation im just like "wow" calling her out on it, then he doesnt reply.  He's like don't ever let her know you like her, act like a dick most of the time, don't ever start the text messaging, and give her the most un emotional shortests texts back, and if they get all emotional just barely respond or if in a text just short responses.  If you text them back right away, and they text back 2 hours later don't ever anwser it.  Earlier on hes like yo we gotta talk to some girls, the chode guys from before the bus end up talking to a 2 set and im like dude there talking to you girls (trying to get a reaction) hes like w/e.  And then i realize he actually doesn't give a shit about anything at ALL.  When he talks he comments like this: 60% of the time he doesn't respond (he's in his own world), 25% he gives u some short anser, and 15% he gives you some C&F answer.

O btw this kid gets down with every girl, he f-closed the hotest girl in grade 11 and doesn't even care.  She acts so needy now and he gives her these short caveman-like responses.  Funny thing is he's like ya i always do that and then they want it even more, so he just keeps doing it and they fall into deeper deeper attraction.  He's like "I don't hang out with girls, i just make them want me, then i get with them".

So what you can take away from this is that when your being "unreactive" it is acutally being really reactive, so if you look like your in your own world it will be seen as "Truly Unreactive", also the more you ingore people the low their status gets, and the higher yours is and the more they want to talk to you later on or whenever.  Also if you don't care about girls like (good if i have, im still fine w/o) they pick up on it reallly really really fast and it causes crazy attraction.


JohnG says: "Less is more. always."

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#39
Resaj

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wow.
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#40
PimpBoy

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Join Date: 09/24/2009 | Posts: 164

I find myself acting that way too. It comes from this state of consciousness. They talk about that nonstop.

You feel good and simply don't give a a fuck about external drama. You trust youself to do the right thing.
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