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July 25th, 2017
Secrets of ~Eye Contact~ REVEALED
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insideasd wrote:





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Can't wait for Nine to come out...
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You always write such quality stuff. Nice one

I learned eye contact on the subway in London when I was there for a bit. Eye contact, looking at people till it feels like you're looking through them, conveys a lot of presence as well as give you a sense of power. You have to give yourself permission to look, not just scan. Throw in a few strategic periods when you look away briefly as not to creep the person out and you're all good.

An example that I like is in the music video MSTRKRFT - Heartbreaker
2:37 - 2:50 The guys eye contact is good. And notice how he doesn't take his gaze away when the lights go off. Presence. Even if it is scripted.
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 I just realised why one of the most chodiest guys I ever knew use to make out with girls on the dancefloor. I use to open sets, all high energy, pumping buying temperature....and nothing. 

I cant explain how much of a chode he is (I still love him). But every girl always talked about his eyes and how nice they were. While i would be pulling out my best dance moves for everyone to see...He would just stand there with his closed up body language and soft voice and just look into their eyes. That was basically it. Make out. 
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 Bump. Since writing the post above I have had so many amazing experiences in field to do with eye contact. 

- She starts breathing really heavily and becomes attentive 
- Puppy Dog look
- Crazy building of sexual tension
- Some girls not being able to handle it and nervously look away
- Respect from bouncers twice my size
- People apologizing
- Hottest most bitchiest girls turning red waving at me wanting me to wave back etc. etc. . 

It all started from when I read this thread. Kinda cool looking back. 

I remember the first thing I noticed about Alex during the Free Tour was his Eye Contact and then his Voice. 

A waitress came to ask him about out booking and he looked her dead in the eyes and she went kinda red and lit up. She then constantly walked passed him over and over during the talk, carelessly gazing at him.  
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Pirate wrote:
 Bump. Since writing the post above I have had so many amazing experiences in field to do with eye contact. 

- She starts breathing really heavily and becomes attentive 
- Puppy Dog look
- Crazy building of sexual tension
- Some girls not being able to handle it and nervously look away
- Respect from bouncers twice my size
- People apologizing
- Hottest most bitchiest girls turning red waving at me wanting me to wave back etc. etc. . 

It all started from when I read this thread. Kinda cool looking back. 

I remember the first thing I noticed about Alex during the Free Tour was his Eye Contact and then his Voice. 

A waitress came to ask him about out booking and he looked her dead in the eyes and she went kinda red and lit up. She then constantly walked passed him over and over during the talk, carelessly gazing at him.  
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I am going on eye contact mission 
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HAHA this is amazing, its FUNNY how long I have been in this shit, and used CRAPOOOOO eye contact.

Hitting up the mall yesterday, I made 4-5 girls working at stores turn BRIGHT FUCKING RED from insane eye contact.

Eye contact plus smile = magic pill
+ eye liner = steriod magic pill

^ the above is a joke, but I do love my eye liner.
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PlayDate wrote:
+ eye liner = steriod magic pill

^ the above is a joke, but I do love my eye liner.
i lol'ed. you and your damn eyeliner.

But seriously, strong eye contact is powerful shit. I have been using it as a way to escalate for a while now. It creates alot of sexual tension. Its almost like the whole "what you feel she feels" thing but when you utilize eye contact it gives her a direct window into how you feel. Its crazy how we can communicate so much through our eyes. I went over to a girls house last week and in between kisses I was giving her lots of eye contact and all I was thinking about was fucking her. (on a side note I find that alot of girls can't handle the sexual tension so they will look away but that seems to build their sexual state even more because not only are you creating this huge sexual tension but you are also dominating them) After a few times of us locking eye contact she leaned in and whispered "you have a very dirty look to your eyes right now" and I told her "its because i'm thinking dirty things".  I just thought that experience was so cool. I mean I always knew we communicated alot through our eyes but when she actually verbalized it I realized that eye contact can be incredibly powerful.
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eye contact is something i need to work on. something i noticed was when I saw people talking to one another was that the one that kept looking away just exuded a "I'm not as good as you"/insecurity feeling, while those that kept eye contact were exuding dominance and confidence. Good stuff
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Suspect wrote:
GuitarZan, consider the excercise of not looking away first an experiment. You'll learn that holding eye contact is not appropriate for all situations, it's true. You learn through both positive and negative feedback. That's the thing, I make no promises that you won't creep people out. I say, creep em out if you have to. Creep em out as many times as you need to learn how to not creep people out. It'd be hard to tabulate everything I've learned from my eye contact experiments, but that's not really my purpose. I'm just encouraging people to experiment with eye contact for themselves.

By the way somebody mentioned "David Shade's Eye Contact Experiments" and I'm pretty sure that's what inspired me to do the eye contact experiments I did. But I never knew the source of the article I read, and never saw it again, and don't remember much about the article anymore - I mostly just remember being scared shitless to look people in the eyes, and not having any idea what to do when a girl actually eye fucked the shit out of me from across the room.

I look people in the eyes habitually now. My eyes follow my interest. I look people in the eyes when I am talking to them, or when they are talking to me, or when I want their attention, or I want them to know they have mine.

I consider firm eye contact to be the most potent emotional communication channel between two people. This is why it is so ubiquitos to social dynamics. If I want to convey attraction, presence, or any emotional state to a girl, the best way to do it is with my eyes. If I want to know on a deep instinctual level what a girl is feeling, the best way to do with is by watching her eyes. The way it feels to me, if two people look in the eyes for long enough, their emotional state syncs up. So when I'm intensely attracted to a girl, and I look her in the eyes, if she holds the eye contact that means she is going to feel intensely attracted to me as well, and we both will feel more attracted as a result. She will want you, and she will know you want her, and she will want you to want her, and she will basically just be standing there waiting for you to come and get her. Seriously. DO NOT do this to a girl and puss out. It's downright cruel. You will hurt her feelings.

A few more cool/interesting experiences I wanted to share: Alone with a girl, 1-on-1, I often just look her into her eyes and just... look. I'm not thinking anything, just taking her in. I tend to enjoy this. GIrls LOVE it. I'll see in their eyes that their wheels are turning. Girls will ask me "What are you thinking about?" and my honest answer is "nothing." I've been told more times than I can count "I can't figure you out." Other cool things I've been told are "Usually, when a guy looks at me like that, I know that I have him. With you, I'm never sure." "The way you look at me scares me, because I know you're in control" I never used to be able to sit with a person, and stare into their eyes, without feeling akward, not until I was able to hold eye contact in general without feeling akward. Now I've come to realize that it's the best way to show a girl that you are comfortable with yourself. Girls almost -expect- to see some sort of neediness in your eyes, and when they don't, they find it confusing, intriguing, alluring, and addicting.

Eye contact really was the cure for what ailed my social life. I dated a 28 year old model who owned her own photography business, and I remember feeling so out of my league, but when I looked in her eyes and saw her attraction for me, I knew in my core that I had her, and it was an extremely comforting feeling. So I kept looking into her eyes. We were sitting on a black velvet couch in some bar she suggested, and she told me "Nobody is able to look me in the eyes like you do" and then she started telling me some really deep things about her life, and how she puts on an act to seem confident, and how she has to look good to feel good and why she spends so much time on her appearance, and how she's been hurt in the past, etc. I was in so far over my head, and all it took to feel like I was up to the next level was too look into her eyes more, and I was at ease. When she saw me so at ease, magic happened. Next thing I know we're ducking into a dark corner, so she can rub my cock without the whole world seeing. I can't count how many times now I've stared into a girl's eyes and watched her fall for me.

When I'm at a bar and I manage to catch a girl's eyes, I don't have to spit game. All I have to do is walk up, and reach out for her hands. She will give them to me. Then I pull her in close, and wrap my arms loosely around her waist. Actually, if you saw Brad-'s video he posted a while, you've seen this. What I'm telling you now is how to do that - and consistently! It's simpler than you ever imagined. Look into a girls eyes, and think about fucking her so vividly that you pop wood. You've probably heard that before. I'm telling you now, do not underestimate this simple skill.

If you catch a girl's eyes from across the room, she's yours. Sometimes, when I'm in set, and I don't want to walk away that moment, I catch a girl's eyes from across the room, and you know what? If I convey the right things (I see you, I want you), I can stay in set and keep chatting, and she will see that I am "busy" and actually wait for me. Sometimes the girl will even come over to me, or at least near me, or do whatever she has to in order to make it work for me. I call it my "Tractor Beam Eyes", which I consider to be basically the same thing as "laser eyes". Simply the most devastating tool in my aresnal.

Just as a note, I do not feeling like I am attracting these girls with my eye contact. I am simply sealing the deal with girls who are already attracted to me, which you'd be suprised how many girls you will attract from across the room just by competently navigating the social landscape, and being unafraid to be noticed. Girls will stand in the shadows, quietly wishing you'd notice them, and when you do... magic. It can be so easy it's not even funny.

When you have these moments with girls before you approach them, it doesn't even feel like an approach. There is no need for an opener, because your eyes have already been having a deep conversation. These are the times when overgaming means death, because you are so far PAST the need for fancy lines that it'd just look stupid if you tried too hard to get her attention. You already HAVE it. You make her feel like the only girl in the room, and she will make you feel like the only guy in the room. You can lock eyes with a girl who is with her boyfriend/husband, and have a private naughty moment while he remains oblivious. The emotional reads you get off of these girls can be so much fun. It's like you can tell they feel guitly for wanting you so bad, but they're enjoying it too much to stop. Be careful about looking at someone else's girl like that though, that'll get you into fights. TRUST ME. I've made that mistake.

I've pulled girls off the dancefloor while I chilled at the bar, using eye contact, often while dancing with some slick guy who was better looking than me and obviously had more money, judging by the way he was dressed. It's a pleasure to chill at the bar, relaxed, and watch a girl completely lose interest with some guy while he has no idea why. You can outgame another dude without ever opening your mouth, if you use your eyes right. Girls are emotional creatures. The best tool you have to give them that is your eyes. The next is your body. The last is your words. Your words can be powerful, sure, but your eyes are more powerful with less effort.

Eye contact is intimate. I've heard girls complain that guys today don't know what real intimacy is. If you can be comfortable staring into a girl's eyes for a long period of time, she will respect you for it. She will overestimate you. She will want to submit to you, and she will fantasize about being "your" girl. I am not joking when I say that I have sat back and watched girls fall in love with me. I have told a girl "you're in love with me" and saw her jaw drop, "I didn't say that" "You said it with your eyes" "It scares me how well you read me." I have told girls things about themselves that they didn't want me to know, only because I picked it up from them while looking in their eyes. I have caught them lying to me, or hiding things, or realized they had a romantic history with a guy who came up in conversation, or seen that they were scared of being hurt.

"The eyes are the windows to the soul"
This shit put me in state just reading it...i love that nervous tension when you get great eye contact. It can be totally dominating, playful or sexual. Great post.
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Told a good friend of mine about  this thread.
He's a 33 year old virgin, living with his parents!
I said "you should try that man. Maybe you can finally get laid then."
He fucking CRIED.
For DAYS!
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