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March 26th, 2017
Secrets of ~Eye Contact~ REVEALED
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#11
Suspect

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Join Date: 01/24/2007 | Posts: 1237

Let me put it this way:

Using eye contact alone, I have slept with more girls than with all other methods combined.

Like R0B0TB0NER stated in his thread, yeah eye contact is metioned often, but glossed over and the magnitude of it's effectiveness never really aknowledged. It's like "okay, tonality, check, eye contact, check, what else?" When I finally got convinced to do the "eye contact experiment" I was nothing less than blown away by the results.

Simple eye contact has been responsible for some of the craziest Jedi shit I've ever pulled. I've blown guys out from across the room, just by giving the girls they were dancing with "the look". I had a model literally THROW her number at me without me speaking a word or do anything but just *look* at her the right way... I mean she actually wrote it on a peice of paper, balled it up, and tossed it my direction. I dated a stripper for a while who I met almost the same way - I've probably never said less to a girl before sleeping with her. She said she knew from the first look she saw in my eyes I'd be good in bed, and at that moment knew she wanted to sleep with me. I pulled the hottest girl out of the club, the one in a belly shirt gyrating while guy after guy gets blown out, just by picturing myself fucking her while I stared her down, until she was just dacning right in front of me and staring me in the eyes with the sexiest look I've ever seen - it was hot. Eye contact is foreplay. It's versatile, and indispensible, and if you are not a MASTER of using it in the context of seduction, you'll never be more than amatuer seducer, period.
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#12

sirex

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Join Date: 04/11/2009 | Posts: 705

well dont go giving strong eye contact to the gangsters in the alley way... some places you give eye contact, some places you dont.

the idea is you dont want to give eye contact to challenge someones authority or power. you want to give eye contact in a way of being sincere and caring. this also has to do with the muscles on your face as well. If done properly it shows that youre listening intently and genuinely interested in what the person is saying.



Do you find that when youre giving eye contact to a girl, and shes talking about something, that you might lose train of thought of what she is saying and start thinking about fucking her and other great stuff.. ALL the while youre staring intently into her eyes... and shes still talking to you and then its like time for you to respond but its like everything she said just went right by you, and your caught in a moment of awkwardness and dont know what to say for a sec.... You wonder if the girl could read your mind, or felt your thought transcend the space time continuum. Man happened to me the other day with this girl i was talking too and i was just in awe that here i am staring in this girls eyes, thinking of all the ways id ravege her, while shes asking me about schoolwork/tests/homework, w.e. then itsmy time tor espond and there is just some silence as I finish my thought and try to snap back to reality, but haven't really heard what she said....lol.
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#13
Tasty

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Join Date: 05/25/2009 | Posts: 524

Strong sexual eye contact is the quickest way to build sexual tension, period

There have been way too many times when there is some really cute girl across the way, making super strong eye contact with me but I fail to do anything.

Like when I was visiting paris 3 yrs ago, and it was 2 or 3 am, my buddies and I were on the subway back to our hotel. There was this super cute hipster/punky chick sitting directly across from me about 15 feet away. Face to face. Her shirt was falling off so you could see her bra and top of her tits. Anyway, we stared at eachother for a solid 5 or 10 minutes. No smiling... I remember we'd take turns looking away, but holding it for at least a solid minute. I'd look away first, then she would, etc. When I looked away I would always have that smirk or smile as if I was thinking about her. It was so intense that I knew BOTH of us were intensely horny and feeling pleasure. I choded out and of course I got off at my stop as she rode away. I was beating myself up for not even sitting next to her and saying "hi"...she was very cute.

Anyway... that experience, mixed with lots of tension and pleasure, was ALL off of eye contact. No body movement, no words uttered, nothing.
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#14
xGuyx

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Join Date: 08/14/2009 | Posts: 240

You know what i never really took eye contact this seriously....iam gona try this shit
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#15
Daniel

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 This post is where its at for something you must do, not just in pick up, but its essential in life.

It just shows... confidence

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GreyMatter

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Suspect wrote:
It'll get you in and out of fights, it will help convince people you are sincere, and make girls melt right before your eyes. It's just too valuable to ignore.


I can 2nd these. My number one tool to get an aggressive person in my face disappear/calm down, hold my space and look straight in to the eyes, no need to say anything. I've been told I have honest eye's. I've practically gotten extreme emotional connection with some of the hottest women just by giving an intense eye contact which says "I want you", hardest part of this is actually finding a woman who is hot enough. Sometimes it's better to be a bit closer than others so she can see that you are looking.

Funny story related, one girl next to me when I was getting my jacket suddenly got all excited and started telling her friends "Look, he has the 'I kill you' - eyes!" I'm still not sure whether I should have taken that as a compliment or an insult. oh, and another one, I got one celeb back out from my girl by looking at him, must have been the "I kill you -eyes."  

I still don't do this nearly often enough, thanks for reminding me.
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#17
crusher~

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Make a rule for yourself not to look away first. Use your brain, don't go around staring down gangsters and aggro drunks at random bars ... but people you know and people you want to know which would include: friends, coworkers, bouncers, bartenders, *hot girls*, etc. Just look them in the eyes, and hold it. THAT SIMPLE. Oh yeah, and smile, or at least don't look like you want to kill them.


Excellent reminder. A couple of years ago I did this for a while, mostly around my office. It was like my version of David Shade's eye contact experiment. I quickly realized that I was giving off an intense "Fuck off and leave me alone" vibe that I had to correct. I also found pretty quickly, there is nothing gained in having staredowns with other men. You aren't trying to establish your dominance over them, so make eye contact to acknowledge them and then look away. Be aware that breaking eye contact downward is often seen as a submissive gesture while looking up can be seen as dismissive, not unlike rolling your eyes. So, best results come from breaking eye contact sideways which is neutral.

Looking back, I think the reason that I quit doing this is that my self-image couldn't handle the positive responses. I'm definitely going to start doing this again. Thanks again suspect.

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#18

Thisis4am

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Join Date: 10/01/2009 | Posts: 388

This is awesome thanks for drilling it one more millimeter into my head.
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sabster

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 these random concepts sometimes slip your mind, i redid some of this today after not really practicing it, shit was bombb!!!! i love doin the look to girls, LOOOVVEE IT. try this out people if you havent. 
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#20
Dr.Dish

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what is it about RSDNation that makes everyone post like a self-help marketer
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