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January 16th, 2017
One night mistake (ugly girl)
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dardien

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Join Date: 07/03/2009 | Posts: 11

This kind of a stupid question (or confession), but i would like to see your opinions.

I am in college, and  becoming (or at least, i was) very popular socially and starting to get some hot girls falling arround me and giving some good hints of how they like me.
actually many people here think that i am very sucessfull with women (that im not, but trying to)
but...

Last week, with help of some good alcool and a lot of irracionality i made out with one ugly girl in front of everyone (my friends, and that hot girls that like me included) in the midle of the pub. (actually she has a very nice body, but her face is ugly as hell) and now i feel that it will be very hard to me to return that "atraction" that girls had to me.

Well, i know that i cannot return to the past and correct that mistake, but now i'm thinking about that all the time (thinking what now people think about me etc), and i would want to know if you have some kind of suggestion, opinion or personal story about that.
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#1

Bones

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Join Date: 08/18/2008 | Posts: 250

i have been ther bro, doesnt hinder attraction at all if you play it cool and dont care.

if girls give u shit for it you can try saying "she was the coolest girl i could find at the time, looks dont mean shit" something like that perhaps...its what i would say but it might not be "community correct" whatever..

Goodluck and just remember to laugh at this with your buddies later in life, but i wouldnt say things about the girl being ugly or whatever to people in your college :just keep with the "nah shes cool" or whatever cause once you start hurting people in school you get yourself into shit so stay away from that :)
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luthor

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Join Date: 12/14/2008 | Posts: 55

Shouldn't affect you. Girls aren't that bitchy about ugly girls, just girls who are hotter than themselves. It might make them try harder for your affections. Just don't act like a douche slagging the minger off behind her back, that wouldn't be cool, esp since YOU got off with her.
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Kirra

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Join Date: 10/01/2009 | Posts: 739

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#4

Shazam!

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Join Date: 10/01/2008 | Posts: 1295

Hahaha!  Welcome to the club, indeed.  Was she fat?  If she was fat you can sit in the VIP section with me.

Seriously though, dude, your reputation doesn't mean shit.  Just act genuinely and it's like the reality that your reputation matters is in a whole different dimension from you.  I think I wrote a thread about that yesterday, title was something like "What people think of me is the most inconsequential thing to think about EVER" followed by the reasons why.  Shutting off that part of your brain will make your thinking so much clearer it's surprising.  That clearness is what awesomeness is made of.  I find when I keep it up I get alot more resourceful (and I'm usually pretty resourceful at the baseline anyway), focused, at peace, "on purpose" and it's easier to be genuine.  Frees up ALOT of mind power, seriously.  The impression managing pattern alot of people are in is like running a program on your computer that takes up 90 percent of your CPU/RAM, but does NOTHING.  Task manage that shit into oblivion and you wil benefit =P
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dardien

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Join Date: 07/03/2009 | Posts: 11

ahah
great feedback here, it's a lot easier to handle this if you think that this was just another funny story to tell friends if someone talks about what happened etc
 thanks for all your opinions and points of view, is something that i really wasn't "seeing" until i read what you all said.
but i still think, that next time that i pull some not so pretty girl, i will try to not do it in front of everyone.or if not, i will take it like it is not a big deal.

i also think that this is kind of a interesting topic for the guys that didn't "see it" too. x)


(btw, great sign shazam!)
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