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Youja Arhbutifal

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Join Date: 11/03/2009 | Posts: 54

Hey guys,

It's a latin night. I already opened and was dancing with some  other chicks that I ran into a previous night - I have no interests in these chicks but good to get the social vibe.  So eventually I leave them with a wing from the community - R. As we are leaving the other set I open a 2 set of Japanese chicks on the dancefloor.

I say "Hey, I thnk you cute, my name is Youja." offering my hand palms up. I am pretty physical right away, we talk about salsa dancing and she says she like latin culture or something. I just dance with her, my wing is occupying the other chick. My wing eventually ejects and leaves me with both girls.

I bring in the other chick for a double twirl and sandwich grind style. I make sure both knows I am wanting the original. The other chick leaves on her own and my chick and me dance more.

I qualify. I tell her she is cool cause she Japanese and is very cultured in Latin culture.

I tell her I really want to kiss her right now. She is like no. I want her to be horny, so I try to get myself more horny, state transferance. My face is really close to hers and I am constanly leading the dance and being agressive, but no kiss or makeout. Eventually I bring her out and number close her, and help her find her friend.

I tell her I like her and set up another dance session for next time. She squeezes me hard when I say I am going to go ( I wanted to open more sets and I feel she wasn't receptive for the SNL).

At all times, I was pretty chill and thinking about offering value. I drank a bit so I was real present with her. I don't know what I could of done differently with this chick to increase the chance of the lay.

Perhaps, it might be the 10 - 2 rhythm of Tim's Flawless Natural, because it was one of my earlier sets. Maybe I should of stayed in that set longer. I previoulsy been dancing too long with a girl and it went no where. Isolation off the dancefloor and go for the kiss or makeout there? I don't know. 
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#1

Youja Arhbutifal

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NOTE:

i have decided to put all my posts in my thread...the following 5 posts will be some of my past things, this is to help organize myself. the last 3 are from my previous account e60lci.
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Youja Arhbutifal

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thoughts on GOOD game and TIGHT game
Hi.

I think I have good game. My inner game is pretty tight. I love myself, I love women and I genuinely want to see them smile and happy when I interact. And I am pretty dominant when appropriate. I rather make friends then hate on people in terms of compeititon inthe field or people in general ina competiive context . I usually see the positive in everyone and I am very emotional (helps with the connection).

The times when I fuck up is when I start to think about what I want and coming from a place of neediness.

So I think, having this belief system, allows one to have GOOD game. I mean I can go into nightclub and know I will have good to very good interactions and I know the girls will have a better night beacuse I interacted with them. Giving value is not an alrustic activitiy, it is a selfish one. I give value beacuse it is the most expedient path to my goal. I realize to completely give value, one must be truly not thinking about what I get back - thats being a whore. Herein lies the paradox, "giving value" yields value and results, but "giving value" is not valuing results. but w/e I went off on a tangent...

Good game consists of the above. Tight game will have aspects of canned material with the usual natural dominance, woo, etc...

Is good game enough for a person or is there an underlying void one is trying to fill by developing tight game. You can probaly find a great girl and have options and all that with good game. Once you have good game, is it time to focus your life on something other than this apsect. of course this will always be around but, would time be better allocated to something other endeavour?
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How to improve...

Lately, I have thinking about how I can improve...

I know the guys who are the experts or the instructors in this arena say that it is still a numbers game, it's just that they increase the probabilities of success. There doesn't exist this magic, where full closes happen all the time, 90% of all the opens you make. It is expedient to have the belief that it is going to full close all the time but in reality, in truth, it does not exist.

Currently, I feel like I intellectually understand all there is needed to understand to achieve my goals in this endeavour. I beleive inner game is the master key to any success, where the outer game is just the cherry on top.

My inner game is not completely rock solid or I am not completely satisfied with where I am at internally ( belief systems...etc.). I don't think I can every be satisfied in the realm of the forms (refering to the mind/ego world), but that is another topic - but im not saying its a bad thing.

And, the only way to improve inner game, in this pickup respects, in my opinion, is field experience. What I am looking for with this post, is your way of improving. Obviously field experience is key, but what else would you say will compliment field experience?

Once I get stuck at a certain area, should I try a new tactic?But aren't tactics useless if you are not in the correct state? Should I just go out and keep doing what I am doing but focus being on more present? Could what I be doing is the "correct" way of doing things, but because its a "numbers" game, it didn't work out that particular time?, thus continue and just plow with what I got?

What is your opinion on the best way to improve?
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Field Report - First, I will describe situation without analysing. Second, I will go into more pick-up to give value to those who read to explain successes and learning lessons. Last, I will ask some questions.

I workout. I meditate. I shower. I take a shit. I drink. and off we go....

I am waiting at the bus stop and I am thinking to myself, "Man, I should have wore more than this t-shirt, it is fucking freezing".

I'm sitting on the bench, waiting for bus 22 to get going. Feeling the effects of the alcohol, I laugh, I laugh at the effect the alcohol has on me. I am a relatively new drinker, I don't drink much, so I am always suprised at what it does...

This blond chick walks over to me and attempts to move away the newspapers I browsed through on the seat beside me. She fails and sit to the other side of me instead. I am currently sitting on the middle seat of the three seat bench. She is on my right. I think she wants me...hehehe

I call my buddy and tell him I will be at the club at 10:15.

I get on bus 22 and I sit at the back of the bus. The blond girl also gets on and is somewhere else.

On the bus ride, hordes of pre-drinking young college girls and their guy friends get on.

Two girls, one sits in front of me and one sits beside me. They begin a hilarious tipsy conversation which I am very amused and I think it shows with this huge smile on my face. One of them, the one infront of me asks me "Are we boring you with this conversation?" to which I reply "No, I find it very funny".

By the way, before the college chicks and friends got on the bus, blond girl from earlier moved seats and sat directly infront of me, I thinks she feels my masculine polarity and wants me....=)

I almost miss my stop because I was SMSing on my Iphone on the ride there.

I get off on the correct stop and head towards the club. I have a beer on hand and decide I had enough to drink and give it away to a bum. I say to him "Hey man, pay it forward buddy, remember my random act of giving and do the same for someone else"

I thought I was going to be late, so I start running. It feels good. I used to run cross-country pretty hardcore back in highschool. I find out from my buddy that the birthday girl and crew is not going to the original club. I meet up with some of them at an intersection.

My buddy, and two girl as friends. I greet them, and I have BRUNG the party. I have good energy and am ready to give value and be present to the moment. We are laughing intermittenly during our convos about douchbagery and shit.

We get to the new club. I talking and talking and talking, I don't even remember what I was talking about. I meet the others, I introduce myself.

Here is my intro "Hi, I'm e60lci" My palm facing up, indicating I have no weapon. I introed my self whilst the girl was still talking to her friend so she is ignoring me, but I leave my palm there, while I began explicitly talking about my hand being there and her rejecting it.

She finally shakes my hand and blah blah blah.

My girlie-friend intros me to this taller than me blond chick, then we as a group talk about why we didn't go to the original club while in line at this club. Blah blah blah.

We enter the club. I go straight to the pisser cause I am ready to blow. I piss come back out and feel LOST. OMG! OMG! Where is my crew...I am losing social value because I am alone walking around, OMG, I look like a total chode....

Phew! Found them. I find them and comment on how fucken hot the hired gun is,OMG her boobs are bursting out of her turtle neck (Chappelle, 23).

My buddy buys me a beer and we head to the dancefloor with our birthday crew. When I am here, I remember Kyngantor?? (rsd nation winnipeg guy) antics on the dancefloor from his youtube videos.

We begin to dance, just having a good time with our crew. I am going to go for the taller than me blond chick.

Me and my buddy get off the dancefloor and get a jagerbomb.

We get back and the whole crew wants to get jagerbombs now, so I go along and get another jagerbomb.

We all get back to the dancefloor, and after clearing the dancefloor so all of us can dance together, I grab taller than me blond and isolate her to another part of the dancefloor, she and I are still visible. She complies with my relatively aggressive pull to another part and I begin grinding with her to thigh style facing each other. - I hate that the thought of my social value just went up but that was the thought that came into my mind.

I grab her head and make-out. She complies. I think I said somewhere during the makeout, "That is all you are going to get", "You know Chinese guys are the best" to which she replied "I know"....hhaha, but a thought pooped into my head, "fuck! Chinese guys have small dicks" something like that.

W/e, I begin more escalation and grope her. I think I might have escaled too fast, or ASD kicked in because of friends watching... because she grabbed my hand and led my off the dancefloor and went to one of the guys she knew in our crew and left...I didn't know wtf happened....but my state didn't drop a bit.

During her pull away, some girl grabbed my ass and I was like "Hey, you can't do that".

Then, I started grinding with my girlie friends. Some guy comes up and tries to get up on our crew. and I be like "are you RSD?!" "are you RSD?"

the guys says yeah! {hey buddy, who are you, if you reading this, I couldn't make out your forum name, it was loud}

I begin conversation with him. I tell him how much I respect him for coming out alone. I think he was alone. Seriously, I give him hardcore props for that...and I mean that too...very respect there!!

Anywho, I wind back on some seats with my buddy, and this group of girls start coming closer and stay infront of me where I sat.

I start talking to my buddy, about how present I am and how easy chill everything is when you are present. Thanks to the alchohol. FUCK!! I get positive reference points when I drink, but I do not want to get dependent.
While the girls are infront, I tell him they came here for me and how I am lording this club right now. I say this loud, so the girl closest to me hears this, as she begins to turn and look my way, I extend my hand out, palm facing up, indicating I have no weapon on me...

and say, "Hi, I'm e60lci" I look directly into her eyes, complete nothingness, presence, I tell her "I think your cute and your friends are cute too" She then, directs my attention this this sash her friend is wearing. Her friend is on the other side of me.

I notice that it is a bachelorette sash. I shoot the shit with this girl about the sash. I ask her what she expecting tonight for her final day of singleness. She coyly says " I don't know" and I being the douchebag say something to the of "I can;t do anything to you cause you going to get married and that ain't right" (Now, as I am writing this, I am wussy, I should of gave her value, didn;t have to be "wrong" stuff we did, I should of gave her a good time)

At the time of speaking, all her friends had left. COCKBLOCK or challenges do not exist when you are in state.

Thats it.

Giving Value to PPL who read:

Prep-work. I workout to get into my body, I do not workout for some outcome at the club. I workout because that is who I am, I like to workout. Also, working out puts you in your body.

Throughout the report, I was very in "PRESENCE" I was completely chill. but with my friends I gave value by bringing up the energy while we were in line, by talking a lot, and with passion. Vomiting, I thnk RSD nation would say.

Cultivating presence has been a key component of my life in general. Once you are more calm, and you realize everything is not such a big deal, things get easier.

Things to work on:

Do not drink to get into state. And approach more sets. Keeping going until I give my dick to someone cause someone in there someone on that night was dissappointed she did not find a cool guy.


Questions:

1. What do you think about alcohol consumption and building positive reference points to start my journey into this game.

2. What would you have done differently with the taller than me blond girl, who I believe I escalated too fast.
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#5

Youja Arhbutifal

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Hello Friends,

I do not drink much, but I have started to drink a bit, 2 beers and usually I am feeling buzzed. I want to keep it that way...and drinking shuts off the left - analytical brain so this is what attracted me to it, yes i know, do not get dependent. I am a lot more value giving, I love ppl more when I am buzz, this is a good thing.

Anyways, my friend invited me out for his girlfriend's friend's birthday. I had massive diaarreha* this day. Sucks, but it was all cured when I took a massive shit before the club.

I arrived at the club, dressed all spiffy and slightly buzzed from 1 and 3/4 of a beer. I feel good, I am loud. (btw, I always felt like I was a natural with girlie emotions - these feminity things really got me wierd in highschool)

I walk in fucking confident, not like I am a gangster, more like HI!, My name is Robbie, I like flowers! kinda confident. Because I kind of look like a gangbanger.

I am late, so I do not know where my party is, I walk in, straight into the dancefloor, where it is empty, so everyone looks...finally my friend's girlfriend pulls me..."Oi, we are here"


Imma like ok, lets go...when I get there, there are three girls, and one guy and my buddy and his girlfriend.
I introduce myself to the guy first....not intentionally, just happened that way.... then the girl to his left and so on and so forth.

I always make sure I do a HAND sandwich, it is naturally now though...I think it gives it a nice touch...friendly...because I have laser eyes...Laser Eyes + Hand Sandwich. The Natural Way =)
Easy game cause already in, beacuse friends of friends...so I break a lot of rapport...not intentionally, it just happens that way...i been like that for a while when in state...cocky funny...JUST FLIRTING...and kino and kino...

same old same old...atttraction is defintely on...with the single girl....and the most attractive..lucky..

sidenote: hey..i do not know if loud...but i remember Jeffy show...just be LOUD..haha....

I digress i digress....

anyways...dancefloor time and I am agressive, i pull her in...and grind.....but she is a "nice" girl and does not want to lose that image especially with her friends...?so she says "i don't know how to dance"...maybe escalte too fast?

anyways...w/e..no affect on me...abundance.....proably because I wasn't really attracted to her...but did it because it was the thing to do...- fucked up but you gotta do stuff to learn stuff....i hate to PRACTICE on girls cause I think it is so incongruent with being a GOOD MAN...this is a conflict that i have...I LOVE WOMEN and I want to get better but I don't want to practice on them....but there is not a lot i am really really into..so most will be practice?w/e...it all good..

so i leave the girls with my other buddy...not guy with girlfirned....and go to the bar area.....and BAM! i see this girl...fucking tight...in red....fucking red is my favourite colour...if YOU want to attract me for realz...go get a red dress...

I see her...i hesitate for 2 seconds...and i don't think,i just do..i am flikkering state...the nimbus is flikkering.

I walk up confident....and I hold her shoulder and say to her very close cause it is loud...."i really like your red dress" and she says "its pink"...I retort............FUCK YOU BITCH!!...not just kidding... i say "w/e"...i still like it.


she smiles and shit....i think she got really attracted...based on my non-verbal cues and shit....she was with two other friends, she was in the middle....so COCKBLOCK o shit,,,,gotta introduce myself to others...i do so...with laser eyes and hand sandwich.

they are chill cause i say they are chill...........I go back to the red dress chick and say, I am going to see you again...i eject on a high note.....MIND YOU, I am a fucking NEWB ok!! fuck off!! I ahve only been clubbing 6 times. I am good at work and school.

anyways...there is more...i opened anotehr set........fuck i am tired...i will continue this maybe....but overall i had a lot of fun....FUN FUN.........is not my friend dependent on chicks......i had fun cause i got to see my old friend and hang out with new peiople......and my other community firnd.....later gators!!

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"Damn, it's fucking cold!" I open the door and I am greeted by the hostess. She tells me my party is at the back.

I am walking down the hall and spot the birthday boy, "Hey, Happy Birthday Buddy!!"

As I greet my friend, I see out of the corner of my eye an absolutely cute lady ( a two set ) and lo and behold there is a vacant seat infront of her with my name written all over.

I sit down, I look at them for a couple a seconds, I would like to assume I am a good looking guy with great body language, so when I greeted my birthday buddy, I assumed people (target cutie) noticed and was instantly intrigeued with this newcomer.

As I sit, I greet my other male friends before any verbal interaction with the ladies.

After a couple of minutes of shooting the shit with male friends, I ask the ladies how they know the birthday boy.

Now I do not remember exactly the conversation that took place, but I made sure I held strong eye-contact and had a projected voice; which, my friends, comes naturally when I am somewhat relaxed and just being myself.

I order my tapa, and continue normal chode-like conversation with the ladies. There were large times of silence on our parts but that didn't really bother me, I felt pretty good. Why? I couldn't answer that. I just felt at ease.

Now, at this moment, I know they were attracted to me. However, it is plummeting, like approaching gives you high value but if you do jack shit, it will start to diminish. My case was I was different at first, but I started to ask chode questions and shit. and i mean i literally shit. no, j/k, shit is a connotation for "things"

Well, from here you can guess my friends, she initiated conversation, I answered, I didn't escalate, things got nowhere.

Dinner is completed. Ladies hit up different club than birthday boy and myself. Hey, that was good warm-up

Club Scene

We walk together, the chode crystal to the club. We get in and form the chode crystal. After about a good 5 minutes of chode crystalling, I go take a piss. I walk through the dance floor and I know everyone will look, cause the fucken shit is empty as fuck right now. I naturally have good body language when I walk, just chill and dominant I would describe it, just being in your own world kinda walk, I return from the pisser and back into the chode crystal. However, I stop and scan the whole club before I get back. That atta show them, the club I am in the house.

In our group we have some female friends and they gravitate towards me because I am funny? I think so. I get "flash game with them" Social value yes! yes! =)..w/e..

Dance Dance Dance all boys....

No approaches...

Female friends come into group on dance floor, dance dance dance...

No approaches...

'Fuck, Get into state, mother fucker!! FUCK!! Clap clap shit, not working...

I talk to myself "Hey guy, have fun, have fun right now with your boys, who cares if you are dancing with a lot of guys on the dance floor, have fun"

Proximity??

No approaches...
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Field Report - Tuesday December 22nd 2009

Got off the bus station and my buddy picked me up. We went to find parking.

Before we leave our parking spot, I down a drink, and my buddy smokes a joint. I haven't seen him in a while so it was great chilling with him. We both walk to the club and meet up with our other friends.

The lineup is massive. I yell at this persian chick in the smoking or "outside chilling area for ppl who are already in the club" and tell her I am going to jump over this fence and join her group and she gotta be chill with it. She is into it. But I didn't have any plans to really follow through so it staled out.

It fucking cold as fuck. So my buddy decides to go back to the car to get his jacket. We get lost finding the car, but it was fun...haha. My other buddies from the original club say we bouncing to another club when my friend and I finally get to find the car and his jacket.

We head towards the other club. We get in line but it was a while already so my friends were already in the club. It's me and my buddy waiting in line.

sidenote: I have been out with community guys and they just want to approach. When I got with my buddies, we have fun. AND approach happens naturally. I forgot, but I think it was Chuck Norris' thread that said something about this...

I chat up the peeps in front and behind me in line. My buddy has this limiting bullshit belief that white chicks do not like chinese guys. So I ask the white chick straight up infront of us, it is a three mixed set - one guy two chicks. She is like omg, you put me on the spot, but I know she liking it sooo much.

I chat up the peeps behind me saying how crazy the line was for the previous club and they concur.

OK, I finally get in the club and I straight to the washroom, cause I need to piss bad. I come back out and meet up with my crew. Its 2 chick friends and like 3 of my close buddies and some other guys.

I approach a two set, asians. I go in with my usual default opener...I have decided if I approach a chick, they are cute...soooooo, being that I thnk every chick I approach is cute, naturally and genuinely when I say "ey, I thnk your cute" it legit......I am real and it works in every circumstance...BUT of course we all know the actual words don't mean shit....

They open not fully, but I am not fazed at all, plow stand there un reactive. presence. Grab spin grind, I am the sandwich, two chicks grinding on me. leave on high note "i will come see you again"...

same shit for all my other sets, 90% opens great, some i gotta keep on unreactive or somehting and they open....

IN the end, i come back to the first two set, she dancing with another guy, i try to pull her away, it doesn;t work, I be asking the boy..boyfriend,, he says yes...so I leave....

I go back in again, I wanted this bitch. this time she not with that "boyfriend" I pull her caveman shit, then she starts leading me  to isolation, we grind and makeout. I isolate her to couches. get number bridge for date. makeout. help her find her friend.

Her friend is in vip section. I can't go in but she can. but I am chill guy eventaully the bouncer lets me in too...

late i see her grind with another guy, i am not pissed but, I say this is mine. so I grab her away when the guys still grabs her so I am in the middle of a tug of war with this CHODE. I win of course cause I am alpha...haha.

I high five the chode and say, bro it all good....I already assumed she mine. She probably got hardcore truned on but I dunno.

I leave with my buddy. She sees me outside, she was outside after I brought her to her friend. she comes up to me and myu buddy, we kiss a bit..bf/gf shit,...find out she lives like 1 hour away from me..

game over.
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#8

Youja Arhbutifal

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Be ok with every part of yourself.
Be in rapport with every part of yourself.
Integrate, do not dismiss.

How I treat myself and all the parts within me is an indicator of how I treat all the different people I meet on a daily basis. If I love and ACCEPT every flaw and highlight, I will naturally love and be able to relate with people who are struggling and succeeding.

I realize I must love that part of myself. The part that "holds be back" from my goals. I must accept every part of myself. It is there for a reason. I have developed this for a reason.

In this community, we are constantly praising our "risk-taking, going for it" self, and I fully understand how this appropriate considering the environment in which the community was founded. However, recently, I have come to appreciate the other self, how this part of me has protected me.

I have to accept and integrate it into myself and be "TEAM YOUJA" rather than reprimanding and leaving behind the perceived lesser self. If I am not in rapport within myself how can I expect to relate with other people? How can I relate and stay HARD for my evolved woman? How can I give her the value she deserves?

I must love all that is me and continue to grow. I remember, Tyler or one of the RSD guys saying, I think it was Jeffy that I have to be ok with living in a paradox.

I have to accept all that is now, and also continue to grow.
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#9

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Field Report - Friday January 15th/2010

Haven't been clubtimes in two weeks. I make plans with a wing from a local lair to go out.

I get there, meet the other 3 guys. One guy - D, R, and A. D gives me tickets cause he knows the promoter. We go in.

I drank a bit beforehand so I am buzzed. Im starting to feel the negative effects of alcohol, this is me talking outside the field report, writing now, alcohol sucks. But it gives me darn good results. But I am finally feeling that I can truly get the same results and do the same things without it, but probably not yet fully disengage with alcohol.

Anyways, we go in and stand around for a bit, just catching up with the lair guys and congrats for some LR and meeting a new guy. Good times.

See a 4 mixed set. No attractive chicks really, but D goes and chats up so I go in too, warming up getting social.

I chat up one of the girls right away and D chats the other one, and we are getting to know the guys also...looking good, I say see you around....find out they from san fran....one of the guys is a promoter there, so I got his contact.

This is pretty boring night. I opened a lot of sets. nothing hooked. honestly, I do the same thing at a more "white" club and i be getting results. but this is a

at least I think of someting of value to give out of this night to whoever reads, a lot of guys were seeking rapport with me, or I perceived it that way, I think it is the way I move in the club, I honestly beleive that I am embodying positive dominance manfiested in my walk.

Umm, Im writing this a while later so don’t remember that well. But I remember seeing a fucking hot ass chick. Dancing so fucking provocatively…omg.
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#10

Youja Arhbutifal

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Join Date: 11/03/2009 | Posts: 54

Field Report - January 16th/2010

I didn't get to do my yoga and breathing exercises before I went out tonight. It is my usual routine.

I shower get dressed and head out. I realize I look extra good looking today in the mirror, and my lips are more red, i put some vaseline on them, perhaps that explains the lips standing out.

I was originally going to meet up with nova from rsd tonite, but he bailed. So when I got to dt, I msged some other guys from the local lair and met up with them.

We went to a new venue, new as in I never been there…I found out later that is was a lesbos venue or something like that….

I run like 15 million blocks to the other side of downtown and meet up with them, so I am on a runners high and feel really good. Its three of us from the lair.

I get in and right away someone recognizes me, it’s a buddy from highschool. Good times start to roll.

I am not really close to this guy. In highschool, I was part of the asian crew…and these are the white crew…but I was pretty cool and social value was good in school, so everyutime I met another guy I knew, it was like SHITET MOFO, omg, I haven’t seen you in ages…cheers huge party atmpsohere…the chicks they were with was like who the fuck is this gangsta.

The cute probably hottest chick in there group, is chatting me up right away as my old buddy says he buying me a drink. Got me in great mood, set up for later game with that chick.

Finally left that grup after catiching up a bit, felt like a long time, but eventually departed and met up with the lair guys.

First set I approached, I was really warmed up already…two set Latinas. One blonde hair, my the one I wanted. I approached, Hi, I think your really cute. My name is blahahal…hand..forgot my convo, got her number she was at this venue on way to another venue. It was good, cause she texted me back later that ngiht.

Next one, I don’t want to be rude, but when you are emitting happiness and love, I naturally will eclipse my lair guys. Oen guy brought in ahcick , and I didn’t do this purposely, but I felt like I had to cause I was being real, right away I say we would be so good as a couple. that was my initial verbal interaction. She liked it.

Overall, had great interactions, the above girl offered to buy me a drink. All that good stuff. Had long sets, 3 great interactions.
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