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December 13th, 2017
I'm done with women and there fucking games (please answer)?
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#11
IvánPérez

IvánPérez

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Excellent. You are now in a mindset of fuck it, now all you need is to start expressing it.
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Some principles that have been getting me some success:
- When I'm out: it's me-time. I focus on expressing myself and doing what's fun for me, I don't care about girls. Self-absorbedness.
- 'It's all good, it's going to be fine, I am enough'. No worries or concerns. Let the dynamics work for me.
- Nobody is going to pull girls home for me. Self-image will stop you, take action regardless.
- Focus on finding a girl DTF vs. trying to game/arouse/whatever girl after girl.

IvánPérez.
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#12

Kal0051

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Join Date: 02/09/2009 | Posts: 581

IvánPérez wrote:
Excellent. You are now in a mindset of fuck it, now all you need is to start expressing it.
I'm not in the mindset of fuck it, I'm in the mindset of I'm giving up. Unless a woman comes up to me and tells me she wants to fuck then I'm not putting any effort in. Women are now gonna have to pursue me because I'm sure as hell not gonna pursue them.
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#13
Kirra

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Kal0051 wrote:
This is ridiculous, thought I finally met a woman that likes me and it turns out she probably doesn't. We went out, had a good time, all signs pointed to her being interested. But I've contacted her a couple times since then and nothing from her, no answer, no reply text, nothing. I'm really frustrated that this keeps happening to me. I'm 25, and have never been with a girl. I've gotten a date once every couple years, but they ALWAYS pull this shit. I'm fucking done.

I honestly don't get it, I see tons of guys with girls, lots of these guys are less attractive, less successful. But they still get girls on a regular basis. It's not normal that I can't find 1 girl that likes me, you'd figure over the years I'd at least get lucky. But no, apparently I'm repulsive to the opposite sex. I'm always the "friend", girls will always laugh if someone mistakes me for something else. And my family don't help, they are always asking me why I don't have a girlfriend and that makes me more depressed. I've considered suicide even, though ended up deciding that would be retarded to do over women. I'm afraid I'm gonna turn into the next George Sodini. Even reading some of the things he's said and it sounds exactly like me.  Fuck my life!

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#14
Kirra

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Kal0051 wrote:

IvánPérez wrote:
Excellent. You are now in a mindset of fuck it, now all you need is to start expressing it.
I'm not in the mindset of fuck it, I'm in the mindset of I'm giving up. Unless a woman comes up to me and tells me she wants to fuck then I'm not putting any effort in. Women are now gonna have to pursue me because I'm sure as hell not gonna pursue them.

You know, this might actually be a good thing... In a way.
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#15

subx

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Join Date: 09/18/2008 | Posts: 1248

shakeshi wrote:
nothing
is as bad or impossible as it seems. having the wrong attitude can make your problems appear insurmountable
.


this times a billion
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#16

Kal0051

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10Pin wrote:
so your solution to not getting laid is to...not get laid?

Everyone here had to go through this phase,don't think yourself so special.its just a phase,it passes.

But if it passes into success,or passes into failure,that's your responsibility.
everyone goes through the phase of not being able to get laid in 25 years? I'm not on a dry streak, I've NEVER had sex. I've had this "phase" since I started being attracted to women, so for about 12 years. How long does it take for a phase to pass?
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#17
Mitizaro

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Join Date: 09/14/2009 | Posts: 1070

Dude. Past is irrelevant.
You know what? I see it's hard on ya. But get this strait - wanna have girl? Be a Man. With value & principles. You talk about giving up? Yeah... i see why you can't get this shit done.
But you know what? It's all about believe. I haven't read 100% of this but every one of your posts includes "giving up" rather than "nailing this shit".

Have faith. When i have more time i'll write a big post about this. Here i am telling you - There's Always a Way.
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Beast hard! Live hard! I want to fulfill my mission, leave a legacy but at the same time enjoy my days because - i live only once and i want ALL OF THE to be getting licked by my tongue and dick!! Field Reports - it's all there.
Good Luck. You might fail, but you might succeed. Let your cock out and let it swing. - By Jim Wendler, EFS, from Beyond 5/3/1
 
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#18
Kuz

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she aint playin games with you man, your just a chode.

A fuck-buddy of mine dropped a "bomb-shell" on me on Tuesday - "i've been seeing someone". Hahahaha. And of course i was like "WTf??? How dare you!" And she was all "well you've been going around fucking whoever you want why can't i???!!!!" And i was like, "yeah, i'm a quality guy, wot, you just fucked some random chode??" and she's like "well we haven't fucked yet...."

Hahaha. Those are games people play. She's been seeing him once a week behind my back for a MONTH, and they haven't even got to second base. And i was like "hahahahaha, i would have fucked  you by now!" and she was like "he's sweet and everything, i don't know what's wrong with him, he never does anythign, he keep texting me how pretty i am, i just want DICK!!! but he wont do ANYTHING!" Hahahahaha. Anyway, turns out, she is now grossly put off by his dickless behaviour and dumped him yesterday and the chode was like "what? you're ending it? It hasn't even begun!" she was pretty brutal. Phoned me up to tell me about it last night "so i dumped him". "dumped him?" I said, "You haven't even fucked him, what the hell?" hahahahaha.

Up shot is, she asked me to come around to her house on Saturday, ostensibly to watch UFC 105 - yeah right, she knows what side my dick is buttered FTW.

In other words. There are men worthy of fucking. And then there are useless dickless chodes.

Word of advice: Be relentless and SHAMELESS in your pursuit of women and have no emotional attachment to people's opinion of you
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#19
Kuz

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wait a minute - your name isn't Terry is it? From Uxbridge, west London?
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Hai!!!

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#20

Kal0051

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Mitizaro wrote:
Dude. Past is irrelevant.
You know what? I see it's hard on ya. But get this strait - wanna have girl? Be a Man. With value & principles. You talk about giving up? Yeah... i see why you can't get this shit done.
But you know what? It's all about believe. I haven't read 100% of this but every one of your posts includes "giving up" rather than "nailing this shit".

Have faith. When i have more time i'll write a big post about this. Here i am telling you - There's Always a Way.

I talk about give up because for the longest time I believed I could "nail this shit". However, as you can tell nothing has come from that, and I don't know why. If I had even the tiniest measure of success over the years then I wouldn't be talking about giving up because I would know it's possible (although very difficult). However, when you have no success at all it affects you and makes you realize that maybe you were just fooling yourself all along. I'd love to be positive but unfortunately I can't be about this. I've tried my best and couldn't make it happen, I don't want to waste any more of my life on this crap.
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