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LegalSeagull

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edit --- about intent
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where's the intent? you said you're not into her, but still. She's not feeling any emotions when she's talking to you, so she's bored. I would almost call this entertainer guy, cept she doesn't seem too entertained. Dancing monkey is like telling jokes, making her laugh, funny stories, palm reading, asking for opinions and debating useless shit - but never showing intent. Never making a move on her, or trying to escalate, or talking about sex, or touching her, or acting as if you have a dick. She knows you have a dick, but the dancing monkey forgets this...
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Goran~

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No this is what being a "dancing monkey entertainer" is:




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Macavity

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Corksil wrote:
She knows you have a dick, but the dancing monkey forgets this...
lol
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LegalSeagull

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but i have no intent because im not into this girl, and i think its kinda wierd to talk about sex stuff over aim or w/e always comes out creepy, not intentful.
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1) You're not leading
2) No intent

You're not leading the conversation. You're letting her talk about whatever, and you didn't do anything to reframe it into something funny and playful or change the subject. I imagine you probably have the problem of having your conversations "die" or the girls that you talk to are "boring".

You also don't have any intent, which means you don't put any sexuality into your conversation. You don't tease her playfully. For example, when she talked about ice skating, I would have said something like, "Ice skating eh? Are you any good at it? You would look so cute falling on your butt while skating around! I'd swing by and come pick you up though :p"

It's just a little fun and playful push-pull, I tease her about falling when she skates but then I give her the picture of me coming to her rescue at the end. It's just something cute that would make the girl feel good inside.
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Newuser

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I feel the same way.

Im talking to these bitches and I know they're feeling me but I feel awkward moving into the playful teasing and sexual talk. I dont want to come off as a creep.
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It's more creepy to avoid it at times. You both know it's coming, she's waiting for you to lead but you awkwardly patter around it until she gets frustrated, you wonder why she's so cold all of a sudden and BAM, boredom sets in.
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Cream. wrote:
It's more creepy to avoid it at times. You both know it's coming, she's waiting for you to lead but you awkwardly patter around it until she gets frustrated, you wonder why she's so cold all of a sudden and BAM, boredom sets in.
I agree. Looks like I'll be a creep for a while till I get it down.

Me: "Your ass looks good in those jeans."
Her: "Creep."
Me: **Shrugs shoulders**  "Oh well."
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shoulda been like "well im pretty sure those tights would look a shitload better on you then me. Cause if I wore em ude see my  mammoth 1in cock."
if ur not into the girl why not say stupid shit to see her response? test some shit on her ass.
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