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Megaman79

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Join Date: 10/28/2009 | Posts: 2

So there is a dinner / award night coming up and I want this girl to come as my date.
I'm a 23 year old student in college and she is also a student there. She works at the front desk on Wednesday mornings so I see her there.
We had a class together last year and because I'm such a hilarious person she knew who I was.
I'm not sure how to ask her though...
I don't know if it'd be better to just sort of straight up ask her or to kind of play with her a little and ask her if she hsa any good looking friends who'd like to go to a dinner with me.
I really want to make this work so any advice will be greatly appreciated.
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Bones

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Join Date: 08/18/2008 | Posts: 250

just bring it up in conversation for example "hey i got this dinner award night coming up and i need a date you should totally come with me its going to AWESOME"
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Dkismet

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Join Date: 10/29/2009 | Posts: 9

^^ yeah, pretty much what he said. I would keep it pretty casual, and mention it in general conversation. If you happen to be having a conversation about school events or any other type of related topics, prior to asking, all the better. games are kinda silly, and the example you came up with almost sounds like you have no other options. whether that's true or not, probably not the best message to convey. keep it simple and casual, as if she just happens to be the first girl you had a conversation with since you found out about the dinner. goodluck.
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MasterSword

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Join Date: 08/06/2009 | Posts: 207

I agree with bones...go straight for it during a good convo!
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Brokenpath

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Join Date: 08/12/2009 | Posts: 80

Just ask.

However, it all depends on how she sees you. A situation like this is much different from a cold approach.
You're not going to magically learn anything by yourself right now.
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To make it simple and just get her to go, I would go up to her as confidently as possible with a playful and flirty attitude.

The sooner you ask in the conversation the better though.

If she questions it at first. just remember confident, flirty and playful.

"What's up girl, You look so extraordinary today, I Like your shirts and pants, You like food in the night? I have a dinner award ceremony coming up I want you to sit.... with me... there...."

Do not overthink the situation or get caught up in the slew of possible situations right now.

The sooner you ask her in the conversation the better.
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Megaman79

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Join Date: 10/28/2009 | Posts: 2

Thank you all for the advice.
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