THE FORUMS

Saturday 16/1/10

Met up with Moey, his mate, BRAH, and Stonefish.

Got there bout an hour before anyone so was on my own. Felt the pressure hard. Opened about 4 sets. One was a big group of girls on a Hens night. One of the girls was being a real biatch but the others were ok. The hottest one was quiet and attentive - didn't engage her enough - should have just focused on her exclusively and seen where it went. They eventually piss off.

Another set was a Birthday girl - I didn't capatalise by giving her a birthday hug or kiss damn! They soon left to find shiny shit.

Another Hens night - I open with I'm the stripper - they hated me haha - plowed a bit - didn't stick - told them I was going to cry in the mens bathroom and went for a piss.

Chatted a heap with Moey and his mate and a bit with BRAH and Stonefish. Gave some advice to Moey's mate and hope to see him out and posting!

Opened a seated 2 set and chatted for a good 10 minutes - didn't take it anywhere but definitely worked on some things I've been trying lately like expression vs impression, saying whatever is on my mind - talked about movies and work - made it amusing - probably could have stayed in there and just rode it out - I reckon the more receptive one may have been keen to fuck if I hung around and just socialised with them for the night - but wasn't that keen.

Opened a set as a demo for Moey's mate but the area where we were standing got cordoned off and we had to move - I hadn't hooked it and was actually asking chode questions and not making statements - this happens sometimes - I'll know what to do but not do it haha - that's the learning process.

Went home bout 12 - was tired from the night before and had to work early. A quiet night for me now - VS 3 months ago a quiet night would be sitting at home watching a DVD or reading a book - how things change!


Sunday 17/1/10

Met up with quantum. He's with a little cutie so I open a 2 set - boom my game is on and we're all just vibing and I'm feeling attracted to the blonde French girl. quantum comes to wing but him and the friend don't get along so she shakes her empty glass at blondie and tells her they're getting another - didn't see them again - should have engaged Frenchy again.

Russian gold-digger and her Asian friend - Just expressing and vibing a little - she is not all that receptive but does tell me I speak my mind which tells me I'm doing the right thing. Try for the number but no go - should have just stayed in and kept at it.

2 set - hot fucking blonde and her friend - it's going pretty well but eventually they let me know they need a D&M to which I stay for a bit longer then leave - she was fucking hot. Don't know if she was just being nice to me or not - don't matter.

4 set of Some Canadian girls and their Swiss friends - quantum and I just socialise a bit with them and I eventually end up with the tallest Canadian girl. Just good conversation and more of me just saying what's on my mind - really trying to work on the burning coal - think it's getting easier. They hang around for a good hour - then my girl has to go inside because she smells weed and is in the army and doesn't want to turn up positive on a piss test haha.

It's about 2am and I decide I'm fucked and need to get home. Burning the candle a little too much at both ends having gone out 6/7 nights in a row this week.

Logistics weren't good for the Canadian - she was staying with her mum and friend - should have stayed until close to see what went down with them - couldn't gauge if she was down to fuck or not - only one way to tell - but the chode in me wanted his bed!

quantum gave me some solid advice again and we had some good chats - another quiet night really - didn't push hard like a motherfucker but took some action here and there.

One thing I've taken away from this week is this:

Trust Myself, Trust the Process, and Stay on the path. Those 3 things will be my mantra from now on and I will try and not question myself or my progress.

Ooo I love that game - you're on!

It's free - lets rock that shiiiit!

Wixxed Wednesday 20/1/10

Moey and I get our creep on tonight and hit up my regular Wednesday haunt. The girls are always hot and always bitchy. If you ain't got a big plow in this place you ain't getting a wet dick.

Plow we did - oh how we plowed. It was like our own personal bootcamps. Blowout - go back in - "fuck off!" - Stay in set - "I have a boyfriend" look at her and continue with awesome vomit like her retarded objection didn't register - oh wait - it actually didn't. "Hey I remember you from last week! trying to let me know she rejected me - "Yep - tonight's a whole nother night baby!" unreactive as fuuuucck = attraction.

Tonight I told myself it's hug time - every girl - hug - that's right - champion slut hugger 2010. "But I don't want a hug!" Oh well - HUG - 7 set of Americans - 7 big fucking hugs! They were lining up for that shit! GIMME YOUR NUMBER YOU'RE SO COOL! Her phone is fucking retarded - oh well - no social circle with her at uni this semister!

Grind with hot little blonde cutie - Moey is the papparazi - snap snap snap - "I was thinking she was gonna see me so I only took 3" High Fucking Five. She's done turning my dick hard - onto a chode now - one who isn't gonna pull you the fuck outta this club in approximately 3.2 minutes. Find her later with said chode - pick her up and drag her away - half assed makeout - creep her the fuck out - shit.

Grabbing girls left right center - fuck off, fuck off, get away!

Hook! Grind - makeout - let's get outta here - I can't leave my friend - it's alright - let's go - noooooooo. fukkkk - stayed in there like a motherfucker! What comfort zone - it almost didn't exist last night!

Now the serious -

Found the Value Inversion Point with last girl - it was awesome - she was gaming me - eye coding her friend like she found a fuck for the night! Blew it by going too hard - must haven't of let her game me enough.

Needed to pump her up and talk to her more on the dancefloor - felt awesome with my physicality but my verbals were completely stifled for some reason! Don't be the chode that just dances with her all night - make her invest in you so hard she won't be able to let you leave for a piss!

Just assume she wants me - stay in that set regardless - I'm awesome - and she needs to realise this.

STOP ASKING FUCKING QUESTIONS! This one is giving me the shits haha - hard to train myself into just making statements - I will not utter a single question again - negative reinforcement time - I'll let you boys know when I've committed the chode sin and you can punish me appropriatley!

Blowouts - the key to unreactivity and indifference.

Go for the number as soon as it hooks!

Balance physicality with verbal - need to spit my shit as I'm clawing their asses to engage their minds - gonna definitely work on this - will hook way more hotties by doing this I think.

Always be trying new things - don't get complacent!

Go hard or go home!

Thanks boys!

Apart from some critical analysis and a bit of study, my only realistic remedy for sticking points at the moment is going out and taking action - that's my answer for almost everything these days.

Keyboard Jockeys out there, heed this - GO OUT MORE - TAKE ACTION. There is no other solution - just use common sense.