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Banged a new girl last night. Getting out of my lazy rut. It's not that I can't pull - rather I have been unmotivated to go out and do so - other issues I'm slowly getting handled.
Met her ages ago and she had a fiance. Somehow added to Facebook and after they broke up she started taking an interest in me. My Facebook game is tight so I just fucked with her for ages. She's been inviting me out lately so I thought I'd arrange things in my favour. This girl lives near the clubs so I arranged to stay at her house and meet her there for pre-drinks. She made sure she told me I could stay as long as I kept my hands to myself. I told her to get her mind out of the gutter - and with any luck I would end up in the gutter because I would write myself off.
Her and her friend talk shit the whole time at her house. Mainly telling me that they love cock. Girls are comfortable with me so I always hear this shit. Both the girls are getting wasted. The friend finds a guy and ends up leaving with him. I end up Babysitting the interaction until it was time to pull the plug and cab it back to her house. My girl has gotten pretty fucking drunk - but I have had a fair bit to drink myself and enjoy the drunk sex.
I definitely used everything I have learnt here - With the knowledge I have it's easy to just relax and trust yourself that you're doing the right thing and as long as you can get the girl back home in one piece it should go down like textbook game.
Fun times.
Met her ages ago and she had a fiance. Somehow added to Facebook and after they broke up she started taking an interest in me. My Facebook game is tight so I just fucked with her for ages. She's been inviting me out lately so I thought I'd arrange things in my favour. This girl lives near the clubs so I arranged to stay at her house and meet her there for pre-drinks. She made sure she told me I could stay as long as I kept my hands to myself. I told her to get her mind out of the gutter - and with any luck I would end up in the gutter because I would write myself off.
Her and her friend talk shit the whole time at her house. Mainly telling me that they love cock. Girls are comfortable with me so I always hear this shit. Both the girls are getting wasted. The friend finds a guy and ends up leaving with him. I end up Babysitting the interaction until it was time to pull the plug and cab it back to her house. My girl has gotten pretty fucking drunk - but I have had a fair bit to drink myself and enjoy the drunk sex.
I definitely used everything I have learnt here - With the knowledge I have it's easy to just relax and trust yourself that you're doing the right thing and as long as you can get the girl back home in one piece it should go down like textbook game.
Fun times.
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Haha thats awesome man.
It crazy how easy it is to fall into a rut without realizing it and loose all of that momentum. Its like starting back at 0. But good to see you hulk smashed the ferk outta it.
I reckon those types of pulls are the best. so effortless. Woosh was an incredibly accurate word to describe it.
keep it up!
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RSD, my brothers of the game. I'd rather roll beside you than any chode group of thousands.
Let no man forget how awesome we are, we are LIONS!
Do you know what's there, waiting, inside that venue?
Glory! Take it! it's YOURS!
- Bootcamp with Alex~
Ft Kimball & Pyro~
TEAM: TONITE ONLY
- RSD World Summit 2.0
QLD, Australia. Represent.
The Legend of Achilles~
I've just recently started actively gaming again.
After a HUGE-ASS 10 month break, I had had enough of the mediocrity and mild depression I was feeling for myself after hitting a low point in my life.
TooBad mate, these happen to us all. Its usually when things get out of control. I have not followed this thread but, I will check in on it again. Cheers mate! After a HUGE-ASS 10 month break, I had had enough of the mediocrity and mild depression I was feeling for myself after hitting a low point in my life.
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Jlaix: You are rather cheeky I admit but the self amusing authentic avi makes it impossible to hate!
Tyler:This is ultimately one of the keys to the game -- viewing EVERYTHING AS A JOKE. It's ALL funny.
Tim:`How can I make this fun?
brad:This thread got Ambiguity banned, you can thank me later.
Zack G: Ambiguity is becoming the Howard Roark of RSD!
Alex: "The famous ambiguity!" + "This is what happens when your naturally attractive; cheekyinnit#!
Ambiguity: I don't chase, I replace.
Tyler:This is ultimately one of the keys to the game -- viewing EVERYTHING AS A JOKE. It's ALL funny.
Tim:`How can I make this fun?
brad:This thread got Ambiguity banned, you can thank me later.
Zack G: Ambiguity is becoming the Howard Roark of RSD!
Alex: "The famous ambiguity!" + "This is what happens when your naturally attractive; cheekyinnit#!
Ambiguity: I don't chase, I replace.
Mate, that is awesome. Care to share on what you mean by slowly getting handled?
Banged a new girl last night. Getting out of my lazy rut. It's not that I can't pull - rather I have been unmotivated to go out and do so - other issues I'm slowly getting handled.
Met her ages ago and she had a fiance. Somehow added to Facebook and after they broke up she started taking an interest in me. My Facebook game is tight so I just fucked with her for ages. She's been inviting me out lately so I thought I'd arrange things in my favour. This girl lives near the clubs so I arranged to stay at her house and meet her there for pre-drinks. She made sure she told me I could stay as long as I kept my hands to myself. I told her to get her mind out of the gutter - and with any luck I would end up in the gutter because I would write myself off.
Her and her friend talk shit the whole time at her house. Mainly telling me that they love cock. Girls are comfortable with me so I always hear this shit. Both the girls are getting wasted. The friend finds a guy and ends up leaving with him. I end up Babysitting the interaction until it was time to pull the plug and cab it back to her house. My girl has gotten pretty fucking drunk - but I have had a fair bit to drink myself and enjoy the drunk sex.
I definitely used everything I have learnt here - With the knowledge I have it's easy to just relax and trust yourself that you're doing the right thing and as long as you can get the girl back home in one piece it should go down like textbook game.
Fun times.
Met her ages ago and she had a fiance. Somehow added to Facebook and after they broke up she started taking an interest in me. My Facebook game is tight so I just fucked with her for ages. She's been inviting me out lately so I thought I'd arrange things in my favour. This girl lives near the clubs so I arranged to stay at her house and meet her there for pre-drinks. She made sure she told me I could stay as long as I kept my hands to myself. I told her to get her mind out of the gutter - and with any luck I would end up in the gutter because I would write myself off.
Her and her friend talk shit the whole time at her house. Mainly telling me that they love cock. Girls are comfortable with me so I always hear this shit. Both the girls are getting wasted. The friend finds a guy and ends up leaving with him. I end up Babysitting the interaction until it was time to pull the plug and cab it back to her house. My girl has gotten pretty fucking drunk - but I have had a fair bit to drink myself and enjoy the drunk sex.
I definitely used everything I have learnt here - With the knowledge I have it's easy to just relax and trust yourself that you're doing the right thing and as long as you can get the girl back home in one piece it should go down like textbook game.
Fun times.
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Jlaix: You are rather cheeky I admit but the self amusing authentic avi makes it impossible to hate!
Tyler:This is ultimately one of the keys to the game -- viewing EVERYTHING AS A JOKE. It's ALL funny.
Tim:`How can I make this fun?
brad:This thread got Ambiguity banned, you can thank me later.
Zack G: Ambiguity is becoming the Howard Roark of RSD!
Alex: "The famous ambiguity!" + "This is what happens when your naturally attractive; cheekyinnit#!
Ambiguity: I don't chase, I replace.
Tyler:This is ultimately one of the keys to the game -- viewing EVERYTHING AS A JOKE. It's ALL funny.
Tim:`How can I make this fun?
brad:This thread got Ambiguity banned, you can thank me later.
Zack G: Ambiguity is becoming the Howard Roark of RSD!
Alex: "The famous ambiguity!" + "This is what happens when your naturally attractive; cheekyinnit#!
Ambiguity: I don't chase, I replace.
Yo ambiguity! Thanks for checking out the thread.
I've just had some issues that have made me put pick-up lower down my list of things I wanted to work on. I allowed myself to get into a rut which happens to everyone I guess but I was quite hard on myself.
I was studying at university and really trying to knuckle down to get my course completed, but after struggling with motivation to attend I decided to leave it and do a correspondence course in another field - namely Mental Health. I'm now just trying to save up enough cash and get a few more hours at my current job to pay for the course so I can start it and try and get it completed quickly. Once I get into the field I think I'll be in a better position in my life as I'm not making much at my current job and am still living at home with the parents, although I have no issues if I wish to bring girls home etc I think a change in lifestyle by living somewhere closer to good bars would improve my chances of pulling. Right now I can go out Friday and Saturday nights and have a good chance to pull, as the venues close to home are conductive to pick up on those nights - although weeknights I have to travel 1 hour each way to the city with little chance of pulling because of early starts and shit logistics - yet I will mention that this doesn't really bother me though and I'll go out anyway to get some good social momentum going. So bottom line is pick up is back on the list for me and a high priority - I just had put it down the list because I had other things I deemed more important at the time - now things are back into perspective my drive has returned and I'm feeling better about myself and see where I want to be heading again.
I've just had some issues that have made me put pick-up lower down my list of things I wanted to work on. I allowed myself to get into a rut which happens to everyone I guess but I was quite hard on myself.
I was studying at university and really trying to knuckle down to get my course completed, but after struggling with motivation to attend I decided to leave it and do a correspondence course in another field - namely Mental Health. I'm now just trying to save up enough cash and get a few more hours at my current job to pay for the course so I can start it and try and get it completed quickly. Once I get into the field I think I'll be in a better position in my life as I'm not making much at my current job and am still living at home with the parents, although I have no issues if I wish to bring girls home etc I think a change in lifestyle by living somewhere closer to good bars would improve my chances of pulling. Right now I can go out Friday and Saturday nights and have a good chance to pull, as the venues close to home are conductive to pick up on those nights - although weeknights I have to travel 1 hour each way to the city with little chance of pulling because of early starts and shit logistics - yet I will mention that this doesn't really bother me though and I'll go out anyway to get some good social momentum going. So bottom line is pick up is back on the list for me and a high priority - I just had put it down the list because I had other things I deemed more important at the time - now things are back into perspective my drive has returned and I'm feeling better about myself and see where I want to be heading again.
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Have gone out a few times since - still trying to implement the HABIT of going out consistently - It will take a few weeks. Should have gone out on nights I planned and then didn't - need to execute the plan! It's happening - slow process - coming out of a bit of a personal slump - changing uni and lifestyle and it has impacted my social life. That stuff is almost past now so it's glory times ahead.
Some lessons -
I'm really starting to believe that I can't not be awesome. The double negatives are in my mind when I need them - the flawless self trust is growing - I see the light at the end of the tunnel. I understand that I am enough - it's quite obvious.
I have good reference points for relaxed arousal now so I know what I need to do to mitigate inconsistency and to make sure I have a good night. After I've reached that state I start to feel like I can't not be awesome and trust that I will take the girl home. Just need to endure the night and keep myself and the girl aroused until home time for SNL.
I know what I need to do and the actions I need to take - it's just a matter now of fine tuning my instincts to the point where I trust myself completely. My social calibration is a little off from not going out but it's coming back each time I go out.
My plan is to aim to pull weekend nights as I will be going local and logistics are great - my week nights will be good for finding the groove needed for the weekend.
TOOBAD *Parental Advisory* Awesome Adventures Ahead - A Journal - http://www.rsdnation.com/node/137867
Alexander~ Sydney Bootcamp of Unproportionate Glory - Feb 26-28 - [/u][u]http://www.rsdnation.com/node/149072