THE FORUMS
You live in Toronto? Why the fuck aren't we going out?!
Me and Kyle F hitting the clubs as if this shit was flush.
Calavera
Me and Kyle F hitting the clubs as if this shit was flush.
Calavera
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Representing RSD in Toronto.
"You do this for LOVE. Not because there's somethin missing in your life that you think it will fulfill."-Owen
"They say love is in the air, so I hold my breath till I turn purple. Keep a few bad bitches in my circle."
My field reports:
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/137773
(practice offering value.. drop a comment!)
"You do this for LOVE. Not because there's somethin missing in your life that you think it will fulfill."-Owen
"They say love is in the air, so I hold my breath till I turn purple. Keep a few bad bitches in my circle."
My field reports:
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/137773
(practice offering value.. drop a comment!)
August 20 2010
Went out to some random place in Toronto.
I meditated with some Binaural Beats for a good 15 minutes, and it was one of the deepest meditation states i've been in.. my goal is slowly to stairstep my way to doing two 20 minute sessions of meditation a day. I've done extensive research on how to boost my Serotonin (predictive of status in chimps, and humans) to get myself up there.. :)
I have realized that TWO BEERS are a good number to get me into a talkative mood..
As tyler said "Alcohol = liquid estrogen" which sucks because estrogen is for pussies.. but Ey, one or two don't hurt.. in fact, are actually better for you then red wine. (According to manswers..)
I feel this random compulsion, when i'm with people that are into the PU community as if i'm being watched...almost like performance anxiety. Anybody else go through this?
Papa at the Free Tour in Toronto said how a lot of the "crews" in different cities are just "friends" going out.. maybe i'm coming from the wrong frame, and need to bond with the boys more. I think that's what i'm going to be focusing on.. I feel that a bit with nickromeo, less as a pick up guy but more as a buddy.
Went out to some sit down, loungey place.. I actually really like it :)
I'm chilling out with a buddy, and it's going shit.. he's not in the community, he's pressuring me to approach and talking shit... and so on. I've known this guy for a while, but it doesn't help he doesn't have the appropriate RSD mindsets that we've all been indoctrinated with... regardless, after some talking w/ him I open this girl on the table by herself.. hey, i'm Calavera... shake her hand, hold it.. she says i'm Whitney.. i'm like hey Houston.. nice to meet you, (still holding her hand) I have to find my friend.. i'm still holding her hand... she looks at me, looks in my eyes after talking, I don't flinch i'm just chill.. at this point I believe she decided I'm cute or something.. she didn't say it, but i know it. I let go, she finds her friends immediately comes back..
I introduce myself to the friends, and the girls are being very receptive... I sit down on the table with them as my buddy is gone somewhere (no idea..) The girl I opened is talking to the one beside her, they're having serious girl talk and the other girl is almost in tears.. wooops ignore that. The third girl is totally into me.. asking where i'm from, etc. I'm just chilling... she's leaning into me and shit, then my buddy comes.. he starts gaming her up, but at the same time she's leaning into me a bit more (I interpret this as her wanting me obvi.) Eventually.. when they're leaving my buddy is like hey gimme your number, one of them is like I don't igve my numbers out i the bar.. the other one I intially opened i'm like (br tonality,) ey gimme your number..
(At this point, a mixed set of two we opened in line joins us on the table.. we're happy to see each other.)
She's like okay..
I'm like okay whitney, what's my name?
[=rgb(255, 0, 255)]I don't remember, but you're hot for a non-white guy..[/]
I'm like oh, right
gimme your number.
THE OTHER ONE (who was leaning into me) while they are leaving, her friend, looks at me and says.. stops, looks at me with naughty eyes and says "you better come." I think I said sure or yeah we will..
We decide not to go, my buddy is hitting it off with a girl/guy set we opened in line.. she's cute, they're just platonic friends (like most of the time..)
I text whitney some bullshit, no response at all.. bitch is probably wasted or some shit.
Regardless, he's hitting it off w/ her.. she's totally into him. I'm like fuck im' bored.. it's ME, this dude who i can't have sex w/, another dude who i can't have sex w/, and a chick whose not into me.. my dick is sad. So, being how i've been so inspired by the awesome instructors here I was like eh i'm gonna find me a cute girl to add to this table party...
Go up.. I got blown out hard multiple times.. meh. I open this one girl, boom hits off INSTANTLY.
Hey, what's up?
[=rgb(255, 0, 255)]Heeey.. (very friendly to me, shakes my hand..)[/]
Introduce each other..
I give a hug.
[=rgb(255, 0, 255)]"Where do I know you from?"[/]
"What?" (I don't know this girl)
"Where do you know me from?"
[=rgb(255, 0, 255)]"Did you go to Western?"[/]
"Nope..."
Joke around w/ her..
[=rgb(255, 0, 255)]"Oh, I saw you in line" [/](Is this her shitty game? Girls suck..)
I was like oh..
I'm like right right.. how old are you?
[=rgb(255, 0, 255)]"26"[/]
Show me your ID..(IN BR)
[=rgb(255, 0, 255)]"Are you serious?"[/]
"Yes.."
"You're demanding"
Shows me her I.D...
[=rgb(255, 0, 255)]"Don't laugh at my picture"[/]
I look at it, but my face is like me trying to hold back a laugh.. not overtly though.
Me: "What happend?!" (she obviously looks better now)
She laughs lol..
She's like yeah, i'm still dorky and awkward (qualifying)
I'm like yeah s'okay.. I can be like that too (laugh, almost like a no.. no i'm not.)
She takes a bit of my drink.. "You know it's water right?"
[=rgb(255, 0, 255)]"Yeah, I want some.."[/] Okay cool..
She's like yeah I model now.. then she says, no i'm joking.
I'm like oh.. so you model now eh?
I spin her around.. okay show me your model cat walk. She does it.. It was cute, I laugh and high five her.
She's totally playing along w/ me.. she's adorable.. I tell her, hey come meet my friends.. introduce her, she's being VERY FRIENDLY and getting along very well with my friends.. points for her.
I don't talk to her that much, I let her talk to the dude who we met in line who seems to be talking to her a lot.. I continue talking to my buddy, and just chill.. i'm like hmm... I don't have to worry too much I don't think... sure enough, in peripheral visions I see her looking at me while talking to him.
She eventually says [=rgb(255, 0, 255)]"I gotta go"
[/]
FUCK.
She says i'm gonna go see my friends.. i'll be right back.
Then glances back while leaving.. twice.
My experience has told me when they say that they DON'T COME BACK... so I rolled w/ it..
I get up off the table, determined to find another one to hit it off with.. I roll up i'm getting blown out, until I see this cutey blonde dressed really hot.. very nice tits. I roll up, we're totally joking around.. like so in state, so in the moment both of us going back and forth... we're touching, i'm giving her a hug and shit... UNTIL..
GIANT MAN OF DOOM that is with them.
His voice is more booming then man, and is BR... I start actually being a bit submissive. He starts talking about my shit, my clothing.. I'm starting to get self conscious.. girls can see this. BOOM, interrupt him ask him a question BR.. he answers my question, i'm like awesome..
The SOCIAL PRESSURE is on.. i'm BREAKING.
meet the rest of the group.. back on focusing on my girl.
Lesson:
Quickly determine whether dude is a DOUCHE OR NOT, and if he is.. IGNORE, if he tries to talk you're ignoring lowers his social value.
I do my usual thing, how old are you?! Oh i'm this age.. really? Show me your I.D. (I've noticed something here.. i'm getting LESS AND LESS rejections from show me your i.d. more and more girls are being receptive to the same shit..)
Wow, you're my brothers age
You can be my little sister
I wasn't completely in the moment/having fun w/ this.. but it wasn't completely shit either.
[=rgb(255, 0, 255)]you messed your self up by saying this.. [/](her buying temperature is high)
I'm like hmm... you're right
*grab her hand*
Come meet my friends
Just lead her to the table.. get her to sit in between me and my buddy
MISTAKE! Totally douchey.. she's a girl, WTF are you doing Calavera?! Girl is probably weirded out by random guy she just met and puttin gin between two dudes..
Mistake: taking them back to the table and SITTING DOWN.. should just introduce (my buddy is a douche, he could've done some like compliment shit here now that I think about it..)
) Introduce to everybody, talk to her.. she's uncomfortable, BUT..
GUESS WHO COMES BACK..
SAME INITIAL girl (who I thought would not come back) to the table W/ A FRIEND!
Lesson:
Improve intuition of when they say they'll come back.. her looking back, means she WILL be back..
I'm shocked.. but I don't let it show!
I'm like hmm... hey girls, more people.. come sit down and join us! She looks at the friend, i'm sure they know what's going down... she just leaves. It was apparent what was going down...
Tells us they're going to underground and it's her favourite place.. awesome.
Tonight I was more of the HOT SEARING COAL, and having so much fun.. I LEGITIMATELY had more fun then usual.. that seems to be the key.
I see M-star, and a bunch of guys I met at Free Tour (YESSS TORONTO CREWWWWW)
We do some retarded shit, we connect all four of us, arm to arm lock in this giant circle. THIS PLACE IS SMALL.. we clearly stand out people are pointing at us LOL. We try to approach bitches, it's not working.. You guys have some GOOF OF?! I'm saying retarded shit.. i'll shut up you go for it..
It's going bad... my buddy comes find me. I talk to him for a bit.. he's pissed off, slightly drunk. He wants to subway home if we don't go home right NOW?! It's 1 am dude.. chill the fuck out, MAGIC HAPPENS NOW.. he's not in the community, he's yelling at me.. TOTALLY ruining my vibe, like it was SHIT afterwards..
See the same table girl again, (i'm not gonna blame my buddy but it was a factor) MY BUDDY DISAPPEARS.. i'm worried because he's drunk, I don't wnat him to end up in a ditch or some shit..
I was being a bit NEEDY, found Lawrence.. but i'm like hey have yo useen my friend?! shit like that..
it's going kinda weird.. my vibe is off, not having fun.. my face is off, etc. I ask for her number, she won't give it to me.. challenge her to rock paper scissors, i win.. but she doesn't lol.I keep bringing up when she's going to underground, as they were talking about it..
we end up at underground.. venue change with two girls? My buddies girl and my girl Lawrence.. yep. I see her.. but i'm exhausted so is my buddy.. Lawrence is orbitting around for my attention, don't give it.. I'm like wells he didn't give the number what can I do here?!
MISTAKE: Should've went for it.. totally could've had it. Just because she doesn't give you her number doesn't mean she won't sleep w/ you... persistence.
The girl I noticed who my buddy was hitting on, came in between my sets.. said she was impressed, you're good.. how do you do it?! Teach me.. she wants to see me. I tell her, i'll help her.. introduce her to guys. She freezes.. tell her her game sucks. She's into me.. I'm trying to get sexual w/ her, but she's not reciprocating.. but.. whatever.
She's also there at this underground place... when I say bye to her, she gives me a shitty hug. I'm like no women, come here.. she gives me a hug, kisses my cheek and stares into my eyes.. i'm like ooooh.. it's on. My buddy is still there, he tries to kiss her cheek she's kinda like creeped out.. i'm like hmm... Okay, I GO BACK IN.. grab her hands. i'm like wow, you're cute what are you doing later? "Going back home"
"we should hang out.."
"Let me know.."
Try to kiss her.. rejection, rejection, rejection.. kiss her. Tell her she' a bad kisser because she didn't tongue down.
I have to remove the habit of trying to kiss girls.. RUINS SEXUAL TENSION (Reference: Papa.)
I text her saying "I heart you xoxo"
Her response: "I feel we bonded last night"
I kiss the girl we were intiially on the table with as she seems to be impressed by my bringing girls to the table, get her number and so on.. very friendly to me.
Should've isolated her, instead of bringing to table.. both girls.. COT DAMN! :)
Whatever..
Mistake:girl saw me open TOO MANY SETS.. think it freaked her. I was hitting on her friends and shit too...
I'm talking to my wing, then I see this tall girl who is ORBITTING Us HARD.. open her, she's totally into it. Tall intelligent bitch, she's crazy.. was going very well, we're vibing like mad.. i'm noticing the temperature drop, i pump it up w/ some jokes.. She's just not hot enough, so she says "I'm gonna go find my friends"
I don't mind.. go for it.
Lessons:
-The BR tonality.. MY BR TONALITY: Needs more FUN in it! I've been told i'm "DEMANDING" multiple times.. BR with more POSITIVITY in it is necessary :) NOT TOO breaking rapport.. sound like an asshole.
-I've also realized ESCALATION takes place SLOWLY on average.. .
-Best in the GAME strike out 1/3 times..
-BIGGEST LESSON: WHEN IT'S A LOUNGEY atmosphere, figure out if people know each other.. don't just hit on every girl.. play it like SOCIAL CIRCLE GAME!
-Escalate SLOWLY in these places too.
-If you're not doing well, START HAVING MORE FUN!
I started sucking soon as my buddys little freak out happend.. need to focus on bringing myself back up and change my state.
-Hot searing coal is key..
I've decided I'm going to get super lean, maintain and then get super muscular and start dressing a bit more stylish, and groom myself more.. I want to use my strengths: aka my looks..
My mistake another one: Girls didnt' feel they'd be the lucky ones to hook up w/ me..
I was "Gaming" except in a few interactions where I was just chill...
Lesson: with the girl my buddy was interested in.. I should have let her game me.
Going out w/ pick up dudes, I almost feel a pressure to 'perform'.. I don't know if others feel this, it's more about being 'friends' then 'wings' right.
LESSON/The pattern of when I have HAD success:
Assuming attraction = what I do.. I don't "GAME" I just move it forward.. talk to them, w/o really doing anything. It's already on yeah yeah, they talk.. yeah yeah. Then I touch them, LEAD THEM to a different place.. yeah let's go here, we talk for a bit.. I escalate, make out.. boom, talk for a bit, try to GET OUT OF THE CLUB.. Worked so many times. I can still do it.. That is what it means.
Calavera
LESSON:
I have been told NOT TO ISOLATE GIRLS from a very credible source... saying I should just go for the number :) I'm going to experiment with this..
He's saying my focus is: THE PUSSY, but change focus from THE PUSSY to CONNECTING WITH THE GIRL INFRONT OF YOU and sex will be an after thought..
STOP SAYING AWESOME CRAZY SHIT..
"SLOW DOWN, DO LESS"
Also.. funny enough.. in this FR, girls invested the most when I practically did NOTHING..
Went out to some random place in Toronto.
I meditated with some Binaural Beats for a good 15 minutes, and it was one of the deepest meditation states i've been in.. my goal is slowly to stairstep my way to doing two 20 minute sessions of meditation a day. I've done extensive research on how to boost my Serotonin (predictive of status in chimps, and humans) to get myself up there.. :)
I have realized that TWO BEERS are a good number to get me into a talkative mood..
As tyler said "Alcohol = liquid estrogen" which sucks because estrogen is for pussies.. but Ey, one or two don't hurt.. in fact, are actually better for you then red wine. (According to manswers..)
I feel this random compulsion, when i'm with people that are into the PU community as if i'm being watched...almost like performance anxiety. Anybody else go through this?
Papa at the Free Tour in Toronto said how a lot of the "crews" in different cities are just "friends" going out.. maybe i'm coming from the wrong frame, and need to bond with the boys more. I think that's what i'm going to be focusing on.. I feel that a bit with nickromeo, less as a pick up guy but more as a buddy.
Went out to some sit down, loungey place.. I actually really like it :)
I'm chilling out with a buddy, and it's going shit.. he's not in the community, he's pressuring me to approach and talking shit... and so on. I've known this guy for a while, but it doesn't help he doesn't have the appropriate RSD mindsets that we've all been indoctrinated with... regardless, after some talking w/ him I open this girl on the table by herself.. hey, i'm Calavera... shake her hand, hold it.. she says i'm Whitney.. i'm like hey Houston.. nice to meet you, (still holding her hand) I have to find my friend.. i'm still holding her hand... she looks at me, looks in my eyes after talking, I don't flinch i'm just chill.. at this point I believe she decided I'm cute or something.. she didn't say it, but i know it. I let go, she finds her friends immediately comes back..
I introduce myself to the friends, and the girls are being very receptive... I sit down on the table with them as my buddy is gone somewhere (no idea..) The girl I opened is talking to the one beside her, they're having serious girl talk and the other girl is almost in tears.. wooops ignore that. The third girl is totally into me.. asking where i'm from, etc. I'm just chilling... she's leaning into me and shit, then my buddy comes.. he starts gaming her up, but at the same time she's leaning into me a bit more (I interpret this as her wanting me obvi.) Eventually.. when they're leaving my buddy is like hey gimme your number, one of them is like I don't igve my numbers out i the bar.. the other one I intially opened i'm like (br tonality,) ey gimme your number..
(At this point, a mixed set of two we opened in line joins us on the table.. we're happy to see each other.)
She's like okay..
I'm like okay whitney, what's my name?
[=rgb(255, 0, 255)]I don't remember, but you're hot for a non-white guy..[/]
I'm like oh, right
gimme your number.
THE OTHER ONE (who was leaning into me) while they are leaving, her friend, looks at me and says.. stops, looks at me with naughty eyes and says "you better come." I think I said sure or yeah we will..
We decide not to go, my buddy is hitting it off with a girl/guy set we opened in line.. she's cute, they're just platonic friends (like most of the time..)
I text whitney some bullshit, no response at all.. bitch is probably wasted or some shit.
Regardless, he's hitting it off w/ her.. she's totally into him. I'm like fuck im' bored.. it's ME, this dude who i can't have sex w/, another dude who i can't have sex w/, and a chick whose not into me.. my dick is sad. So, being how i've been so inspired by the awesome instructors here I was like eh i'm gonna find me a cute girl to add to this table party...
Go up.. I got blown out hard multiple times.. meh. I open this one girl, boom hits off INSTANTLY.
Hey, what's up?
[=rgb(255, 0, 255)]Heeey.. (very friendly to me, shakes my hand..)[/]
Introduce each other..
I give a hug.
[=rgb(255, 0, 255)]"Where do I know you from?"[/]
"What?" (I don't know this girl)
"Where do you know me from?"
[=rgb(255, 0, 255)]"Did you go to Western?"[/]
"Nope..."
Joke around w/ her..
[=rgb(255, 0, 255)]"Oh, I saw you in line" [/](Is this her shitty game? Girls suck..)
I was like oh..
I'm like right right.. how old are you?
[=rgb(255, 0, 255)]"26"[/]
Show me your ID..(IN BR)
[=rgb(255, 0, 255)]"Are you serious?"[/]
"Yes.."
"You're demanding"
Shows me her I.D...
[=rgb(255, 0, 255)]"Don't laugh at my picture"[/]
I look at it, but my face is like me trying to hold back a laugh.. not overtly though.
Me: "What happend?!" (she obviously looks better now)
She laughs lol..
She's like yeah, i'm still dorky and awkward (qualifying)
I'm like yeah s'okay.. I can be like that too (laugh, almost like a no.. no i'm not.)
She takes a bit of my drink.. "You know it's water right?"
[=rgb(255, 0, 255)]"Yeah, I want some.."[/] Okay cool..
She's like yeah I model now.. then she says, no i'm joking.
I'm like oh.. so you model now eh?
I spin her around.. okay show me your model cat walk. She does it.. It was cute, I laugh and high five her.
She's totally playing along w/ me.. she's adorable.. I tell her, hey come meet my friends.. introduce her, she's being VERY FRIENDLY and getting along very well with my friends.. points for her.
I don't talk to her that much, I let her talk to the dude who we met in line who seems to be talking to her a lot.. I continue talking to my buddy, and just chill.. i'm like hmm... I don't have to worry too much I don't think... sure enough, in peripheral visions I see her looking at me while talking to him.
She eventually says [=rgb(255, 0, 255)]"I gotta go"
[/]
FUCK.
She says i'm gonna go see my friends.. i'll be right back.
Then glances back while leaving.. twice.
My experience has told me when they say that they DON'T COME BACK... so I rolled w/ it..
I get up off the table, determined to find another one to hit it off with.. I roll up i'm getting blown out, until I see this cutey blonde dressed really hot.. very nice tits. I roll up, we're totally joking around.. like so in state, so in the moment both of us going back and forth... we're touching, i'm giving her a hug and shit... UNTIL..
GIANT MAN OF DOOM that is with them.
His voice is more booming then man, and is BR... I start actually being a bit submissive. He starts talking about my shit, my clothing.. I'm starting to get self conscious.. girls can see this. BOOM, interrupt him ask him a question BR.. he answers my question, i'm like awesome..
The SOCIAL PRESSURE is on.. i'm BREAKING.
meet the rest of the group.. back on focusing on my girl.
Lesson:
Quickly determine whether dude is a DOUCHE OR NOT, and if he is.. IGNORE, if he tries to talk you're ignoring lowers his social value.
I do my usual thing, how old are you?! Oh i'm this age.. really? Show me your I.D. (I've noticed something here.. i'm getting LESS AND LESS rejections from show me your i.d. more and more girls are being receptive to the same shit..)
Wow, you're my brothers age
You can be my little sister
I wasn't completely in the moment/having fun w/ this.. but it wasn't completely shit either.
[=rgb(255, 0, 255)]you messed your self up by saying this.. [/](her buying temperature is high)
I'm like hmm... you're right
*grab her hand*
Come meet my friends
Just lead her to the table.. get her to sit in between me and my buddy
MISTAKE! Totally douchey.. she's a girl, WTF are you doing Calavera?! Girl is probably weirded out by random guy she just met and puttin gin between two dudes..
Mistake: taking them back to the table and SITTING DOWN.. should just introduce (my buddy is a douche, he could've done some like compliment shit here now that I think about it..)
) Introduce to everybody, talk to her.. she's uncomfortable, BUT..
GUESS WHO COMES BACK..
SAME INITIAL girl (who I thought would not come back) to the table W/ A FRIEND!
Lesson:
Improve intuition of when they say they'll come back.. her looking back, means she WILL be back..
I'm shocked.. but I don't let it show!
I'm like hmm... hey girls, more people.. come sit down and join us! She looks at the friend, i'm sure they know what's going down... she just leaves. It was apparent what was going down...
Tells us they're going to underground and it's her favourite place.. awesome.
Tonight I was more of the HOT SEARING COAL, and having so much fun.. I LEGITIMATELY had more fun then usual.. that seems to be the key.
I see M-star, and a bunch of guys I met at Free Tour (YESSS TORONTO CREWWWWW)
We do some retarded shit, we connect all four of us, arm to arm lock in this giant circle. THIS PLACE IS SMALL.. we clearly stand out people are pointing at us LOL. We try to approach bitches, it's not working.. You guys have some GOOF OF?! I'm saying retarded shit.. i'll shut up you go for it..
It's going bad... my buddy comes find me. I talk to him for a bit.. he's pissed off, slightly drunk. He wants to subway home if we don't go home right NOW?! It's 1 am dude.. chill the fuck out, MAGIC HAPPENS NOW.. he's not in the community, he's yelling at me.. TOTALLY ruining my vibe, like it was SHIT afterwards..
See the same table girl again, (i'm not gonna blame my buddy but it was a factor) MY BUDDY DISAPPEARS.. i'm worried because he's drunk, I don't wnat him to end up in a ditch or some shit..
I was being a bit NEEDY, found Lawrence.. but i'm like hey have yo useen my friend?! shit like that..
it's going kinda weird.. my vibe is off, not having fun.. my face is off, etc. I ask for her number, she won't give it to me.. challenge her to rock paper scissors, i win.. but she doesn't lol.I keep bringing up when she's going to underground, as they were talking about it..
we end up at underground.. venue change with two girls? My buddies girl and my girl Lawrence.. yep. I see her.. but i'm exhausted so is my buddy.. Lawrence is orbitting around for my attention, don't give it.. I'm like wells he didn't give the number what can I do here?!
MISTAKE: Should've went for it.. totally could've had it. Just because she doesn't give you her number doesn't mean she won't sleep w/ you... persistence.
The girl I noticed who my buddy was hitting on, came in between my sets.. said she was impressed, you're good.. how do you do it?! Teach me.. she wants to see me. I tell her, i'll help her.. introduce her to guys. She freezes.. tell her her game sucks. She's into me.. I'm trying to get sexual w/ her, but she's not reciprocating.. but.. whatever.
She's also there at this underground place... when I say bye to her, she gives me a shitty hug. I'm like no women, come here.. she gives me a hug, kisses my cheek and stares into my eyes.. i'm like ooooh.. it's on. My buddy is still there, he tries to kiss her cheek she's kinda like creeped out.. i'm like hmm... Okay, I GO BACK IN.. grab her hands. i'm like wow, you're cute what are you doing later? "Going back home"
"we should hang out.."
"Let me know.."
Try to kiss her.. rejection, rejection, rejection.. kiss her. Tell her she' a bad kisser because she didn't tongue down.
I have to remove the habit of trying to kiss girls.. RUINS SEXUAL TENSION (Reference: Papa.)
I text her saying "I heart you xoxo"
Her response: "I feel we bonded last night"
I kiss the girl we were intiially on the table with as she seems to be impressed by my bringing girls to the table, get her number and so on.. very friendly to me.
Should've isolated her, instead of bringing to table.. both girls.. COT DAMN! :)
Whatever..
Mistake:girl saw me open TOO MANY SETS.. think it freaked her. I was hitting on her friends and shit too...
I'm talking to my wing, then I see this tall girl who is ORBITTING Us HARD.. open her, she's totally into it. Tall intelligent bitch, she's crazy.. was going very well, we're vibing like mad.. i'm noticing the temperature drop, i pump it up w/ some jokes.. She's just not hot enough, so she says "I'm gonna go find my friends"
I don't mind.. go for it.
Lessons:
-The BR tonality.. MY BR TONALITY: Needs more FUN in it! I've been told i'm "DEMANDING" multiple times.. BR with more POSITIVITY in it is necessary :) NOT TOO breaking rapport.. sound like an asshole.
-I've also realized ESCALATION takes place SLOWLY on average.. .
-Best in the GAME strike out 1/3 times..
-BIGGEST LESSON: WHEN IT'S A LOUNGEY atmosphere, figure out if people know each other.. don't just hit on every girl.. play it like SOCIAL CIRCLE GAME!
-Escalate SLOWLY in these places too.
-If you're not doing well, START HAVING MORE FUN!
I started sucking soon as my buddys little freak out happend.. need to focus on bringing myself back up and change my state.
-Hot searing coal is key..
I've decided I'm going to get super lean, maintain and then get super muscular and start dressing a bit more stylish, and groom myself more.. I want to use my strengths: aka my looks..
My mistake another one: Girls didnt' feel they'd be the lucky ones to hook up w/ me..
I was "Gaming" except in a few interactions where I was just chill...
Lesson: with the girl my buddy was interested in.. I should have let her game me.
Going out w/ pick up dudes, I almost feel a pressure to 'perform'.. I don't know if others feel this, it's more about being 'friends' then 'wings' right.
LESSON/The pattern of when I have HAD success:
Assuming attraction = what I do.. I don't "GAME" I just move it forward.. talk to them, w/o really doing anything. It's already on yeah yeah, they talk.. yeah yeah. Then I touch them, LEAD THEM to a different place.. yeah let's go here, we talk for a bit.. I escalate, make out.. boom, talk for a bit, try to GET OUT OF THE CLUB.. Worked so many times. I can still do it.. That is what it means.
Calavera
LESSON:
I have been told NOT TO ISOLATE GIRLS from a very credible source... saying I should just go for the number :) I'm going to experiment with this..
He's saying my focus is: THE PUSSY, but change focus from THE PUSSY to CONNECTING WITH THE GIRL INFRONT OF YOU and sex will be an after thought..
STOP SAYING AWESOME CRAZY SHIT..
"SLOW DOWN, DO LESS"
Also.. funny enough.. in this FR, girls invested the most when I practically did NOTHING..
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Representing RSD in Toronto.
"You do this for LOVE. Not because there's somethin missing in your life that you think it will fulfill."-Owen
"They say love is in the air, so I hold my breath till I turn purple. Keep a few bad bitches in my circle."
My field reports:
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/137773
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"You do this for LOVE. Not because there's somethin missing in your life that you think it will fulfill."-Owen
"They say love is in the air, so I hold my breath till I turn purple. Keep a few bad bitches in my circle."
My field reports:
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/137773
(practice offering value.. drop a comment!)
I didn't go out on Wednesday, and had a house party on Friday...but Saturday...
August 22 2010
I attended RSD Hotseat and then went out w/ a couple of wings to the Madison:
nickromeo, medic, TP, I, Matty Mills.
We roll out..
I'm doing terrible in the beginning! I'm trying some of the things I learnt @ Hot Seat but i'm weirding girls out because i'm not calibrating but just doing the 'method' lol.. fix this up by the end of the night.
One table I roll in.. i'm "gaming" too much, and I get told to "FUCK OFF" by the table, I proceed to say "they like me still" to nickromeo, who shakes his head.
MY new rule is to only have a pint when I go out... I love having one or so.
After watching Hot Seat I learnt a bunch of things, but a few:
-I'm pretty good with the English language and can use it to amuse myself by using ridiculous words n so on
Table set
I'm with one of my wings, we open a set on table.. we're just chilling, nickromeo has sat down already while i'm standing still talking to my girl..
She's from Chile, I talk to her about Chile, and whether she's "Chillin" <- I always find this funny.
She sorta giggles, I ask her whether she's okay because shes looks GHASTLY bitch looks like her soul got sucked out of her.. she just came from an 11 hour flight. Wicked..
I vibe with her VERY NORMAL, I'm like yeah I used to travel a lot too, i know how you feel.. (feeling her vibe being down I wanted to make her feel comfortable)
I'm like okay cool, "did you do economy class?" She says: "Yes" (almost embarssed) "I'm like yeah, I used to too) (try to not make her feel that way..)
She's comfortable and cool.. awesome.
Somehow me and my wings attention change to seperate girls, the one beside me hates me. I'm using one of the exercises I was taught and it's miscalibrated and she calls me "Weird" It was hitting on and off, but not completely.. I was slightly in my head n shit too. Regardless...
My girl FREAKS says "I WANT TO GTFO OUT OF HERE" I'm like uhh.. fuck okay. She leaves, w/ her friend.. WHATEVER.
I see the SAME GIRLS AGAIN.. I see them this time i'm ON, GLOWING WITH THE HOLY NIMBUS. They proceed to try and walk away but VERY SLOWLY (Different vibe from them) I'm like hey you, WAIT WAIT WAIT... (no plan in mind)
ROCK PAPER SCISSORS RIGHT NOW
What?
RPS GIRLS!
They do it.. they ask what we're betting? I say our souls.. she calls me the devil, apparently the one I freaked out is "god" now (she's playing along)
I play RPS with the chilean girl while my girl wants in on the fun (girls are so cute)
I play both of them, I lost to both I think.. they tell me to buy them a drink
"At this point, I usually say if you make out w/ me.. but I don't think you'll make out w/ me right now" (Just very honest for some reason)
She says "yeah you're right"
We end up at the bar somehow.. I get a water, I tell them that they are gold diggers for talking to me for drinks, I hear my girl whisper to blondie "He's funny"
Regardless.. i'm getting along well w/ both, I try to lead them downstairs.. I lead them we go to a different place.
I'm trying to find any wing to occupy one girl.. Either way, I isolate both girls.. i'm totally IRREVRENT at this point.
The girls are testing me on my shoes, "You have gay shoes"
"Yes"
It was funny, at this point I noticed her LOOK AT ME TO SEE WHETHER I WOULD EXPLAIN MYSELF OR QUALIFY... nope.
Her pupils are dilating.. she keeps testing me "You suck at picking up girls" (While they are following around, and were the same girls that told me to fuck off, and she's telling her friend i'm funny) I'm not even TRYING at this point becuase i'm getting bored of her congruence tests, verbalizing "i'm bored" and "failing" one ON PURPOSE.
I remember recalling the quote "Hot guys game looks like it's shit because girls don't give IOIs. test harder, laid easier." Girl was giving me MAD SHIT..
I'm like yes.
Then i'm trying to have a regular conversation but she tries to take control of the frame, I don't like this behaviour so I talk to her friend again.. she eventually changes her behaviour.
We go back upstairs..
I tell her to stop trying to kiss me, while I like persistently try to kiss her.
She pushes my arms off her, and then I start doing this silly dance while making funny noises.. she starts laughing hysterically.
(It doesn't even make sense)
LESSON:
Making RANDOM FUNNY NOISES, repeating words you like, or phrases, along w/ doing rETARDED SHIT is KEY!! :) (Thanks Tyler for this one.. HotSeat)
She WANTS IT! so bad..
I tell her she holds my hand like a grandma.
I ask for her number, then tell her to text me
She says, "We can only be friends"
I'm like "OKAY I WILL NOT HAVE SEX W/ YOU" (VERY LOUD so people can hear it) lol! She repeats the friend thing.. I keep repeating this back.
she complies.. asking for my number, I tell her my number EXTREMELY SLOWLY.. in between I change the subject, and she is telling me to stop and tell me her my full number. Then she says, "OKAY I WON'T TAKE DOWN YOUR NUMBER THEN" I'm like OKAY FINE.. (I just don't care) We joke around..
I get a bit needy here and i'm like "okay fine gimme your number" but girl is flipping and runs..
Eventually she freaks out because i'm being too pushy/testy.. not enough PULLING IN! I need a balance. They run off.. :/
LESSON:
BALANCE of push/pull.. sometimes I PUSH TOO MUCH, then pull too much.
This is I guess where experience comes in, and I could've just gone with it instead of being a GAMEY MAN..
My wings want to leave but I say ONE MORE SET..
I go beside the smokers area, everybody standing around this umbrella.. one hot girl on the opposite end of the table.
I look at hey and say "hey, come over here"
She complies and walks around the table SUCH A LONG TABLE.. talk to her for a bit, just being NORMAL NOTHING.. her friends are making out i'm like wow they're really into it.. she's taking pictures. I'm like OUR TURN! We tongue down.. (her friend is taking pictures now) and she continues to kiss me while they're taking pictures.. i'm like uh they stopped taking pictures.
rEgardless.. at this point I should have chilled, but I was overly gamey and TOO GROPEY.. miscalibrated escalation.
I was trying to lead her, then she said "oh NO I HAVE TO SMOKE" I'm like hmm... cool.
Lesson: ESCALATION IS SLOW..
Regardless... there will be pics of me on some random girls camera of me making out w/ her.
Then I see another girl I opened before, but this time:
I see her, pull her in.. I'm saying retarded shit I don't remember but full out touching her and being sexual.
She compliments my game: "Wow you're good, man"
I respond with: "But you're a bad girl"
She loves it.. her friends are dragging her away, i'm holding her hand.. she's looking at my eyes, my INTENT IS CLEAR AS A FUCKING CRYSTAL.
See her later giving her number to some chode, I'M SO FUCKING ON I walk up ignore chode go up BOOM
"GIMME YOUR NUMBER" commanding her while this chode is doing his shit.
She's like what? I claw her in, gimme your number..
I give her my phone.. Im like wait, I don't want a fake number give me the phone back.
She's like NO IT'LL BE REAL.. and takes my phone back.
i'm giving like suspicious look.. I call it, it rings.. she says SEE in almost a pissy tone. I'm like FUCK I GOTTA GO (there was a hotter girl I opened who was supposed to meet me outside)
NOTE: This whole time the GIANT MAN who was getting her number was atleast 2 feet taller then me, more muscular while him and his buddy were yelling at me. (There was a hot seat interactive exercise that helped w/ this.)
I IGNORE.. I'm the EFFECTER, girl loves it.
I run outside, hot girl is ADD.. somewhat remembers me! She actually "lights up" in terms of her eyes when she SEES ME! I try to go for the kiss quickly, she freaks out and says "EW!" and runs off.
When i'm leaving, I text this girl saying "I heart you xoxo" She calls me.. EY, who is this?! i'm like WHO IS THIS!? almost in a seductive voice.. I tell her it's Calavera, she's like oooh it's you. It's an Ontario number so I didn't know, i'm like where you from?! Saskatchewan.. I tell her it doesn't exist and she's on drugs. (LOL) aSks me whether i've been to elementary school? I tell her no. She then tells me "Whatever man, i'm just in Toronto to have a GOOD TIME"
I'm like OOOOOH RIGHT! Well come out and eat w/ us then... she's like "Okay... give me ten minutes"
I look at both my wings who have put up with my bullshit and waited for me while I was ADD with all these bitches, who are tired and hungry.. I tell her
"It's now or never"
She says.. oh, another time then (almost pissed off voice.)
Bros before hoes, eh?
Lesson:
I think in that CASE maybe because we were in infront of the bar with people, it waas VERY miscalibrated for me to try and kiss her.. I was just so fucking ON. but she was so fucking hot that in a sense I regret it.. :/
I opened this one with, "You guys are so fucking lovely"
I tell one girl wow, I like your hat.. try to take her hat she says no.
"Do you guys watch jersey shore?" (they all look like them)
You guys look like them I SAY IT LOL! They say well we are ITALIAN.
I'm like SERIOUS, I see one girl whose playing w/ her hair and just LOOKING AT ME VERY ATTENTIVELY..
I'M LIKE HER! ATTACK!
I go up to her, I'm like ah you're italian? southern or northern.. MIDDLE!
I'm like oh? You're so fucking lovely. She says something.. I catch her accent, make fun of it and ask her whethe rshe's from an italian part of toronto.
She laughs and sys Yes.. i'mlike WOW HAHAHA, while laughing I hug her.
Lesson: HUG at a highlight point when you are amused.
I'm trying to isolate her quick times, she has to go the bathroom.. I lead her to bathroom, and then we wer gonna meet infront.
Either way.. night is over. I text the girl
I'm a high value guy being nice, and comforting the girl works!
Another one:
I just need to chill out.. tRUST that i'm a naturally cool guy, and just being MYSELF it'll FLOW OUT.
Lesson: Be more chill and NORMAL in the beginning.. by the END OF THE NIGHT start doing edgier shit.
English girls
I see these two girls, they're both 19 from England..
"Hey, what's up guys"
"Oh we're just hanging out" (I hear their accent)
Wait... SAY SOMETHING ELSE! I command them
They say some gibbrish
Wow... I LOVE YOU GUYS! I hug both of them..
Ask their names, I legitimately can not get her name cause the accents so thick.. she repeats it, I make up a random name for them.
I tell them whether they like CHEERIOS, and that was my favourite cereal while growing up.
Tell them they are "fucking lovely" ala jlaix
One of my wings comes in.. i'm like YES GLORY TIMES! TWo cool canadian men, and english broads.
Somehow my wing fucks up, girl is creeped out as fuck.. she's looking at me, while looking at him almost eye coding.. he came in TOO STRONG.
I try to recover "Hey, he's cool.. don't worry"
Girls too freaked though i'm like fuck... "OKAY LETS GO INSIDE" (try to change scenario)
We go inside...
This girl, that my wing and I opened, WHISPERS something in the girl that is in love w/ me and BOOM THEY'RE GONE..
Funny isn't it? Last time a random girl HELPED ME by whispering some shit, now one fucked it up.. part of the game I guess.
Lesson:
Not sure about this one..
Lesson: I make these WEIRD FACES IN BETWEEN saying things.. REMOVE THAT.. more I get warmed up more it goes away, but remove them.
Lesson:
IT'S OKAY TO JUST STAND THERE AND CHILL IN SILENCE... remember when BLONDE ENGLISH GIRL W/ JEFFY.
August 22 2010
I attended RSD Hotseat and then went out w/ a couple of wings to the Madison:
nickromeo, medic, TP, I, Matty Mills.
We roll out..
I'm doing terrible in the beginning! I'm trying some of the things I learnt @ Hot Seat but i'm weirding girls out because i'm not calibrating but just doing the 'method' lol.. fix this up by the end of the night.
One table I roll in.. i'm "gaming" too much, and I get told to "FUCK OFF" by the table, I proceed to say "they like me still" to nickromeo, who shakes his head.
MY new rule is to only have a pint when I go out... I love having one or so.
After watching Hot Seat I learnt a bunch of things, but a few:
-I'm pretty good with the English language and can use it to amuse myself by using ridiculous words n so on
Table set
I'm with one of my wings, we open a set on table.. we're just chilling, nickromeo has sat down already while i'm standing still talking to my girl..
She's from Chile, I talk to her about Chile, and whether she's "Chillin" <- I always find this funny.
She sorta giggles, I ask her whether she's okay because shes looks GHASTLY bitch looks like her soul got sucked out of her.. she just came from an 11 hour flight. Wicked..
I vibe with her VERY NORMAL, I'm like yeah I used to travel a lot too, i know how you feel.. (feeling her vibe being down I wanted to make her feel comfortable)
I'm like okay cool, "did you do economy class?" She says: "Yes" (almost embarssed) "I'm like yeah, I used to too) (try to not make her feel that way..)
She's comfortable and cool.. awesome.
Somehow me and my wings attention change to seperate girls, the one beside me hates me. I'm using one of the exercises I was taught and it's miscalibrated and she calls me "Weird" It was hitting on and off, but not completely.. I was slightly in my head n shit too. Regardless...
My girl FREAKS says "I WANT TO GTFO OUT OF HERE" I'm like uhh.. fuck okay. She leaves, w/ her friend.. WHATEVER.
I see the SAME GIRLS AGAIN.. I see them this time i'm ON, GLOWING WITH THE HOLY NIMBUS. They proceed to try and walk away but VERY SLOWLY (Different vibe from them) I'm like hey you, WAIT WAIT WAIT... (no plan in mind)
ROCK PAPER SCISSORS RIGHT NOW
What?
RPS GIRLS!
They do it.. they ask what we're betting? I say our souls.. she calls me the devil, apparently the one I freaked out is "god" now (she's playing along)
I play RPS with the chilean girl while my girl wants in on the fun (girls are so cute)
I play both of them, I lost to both I think.. they tell me to buy them a drink
"At this point, I usually say if you make out w/ me.. but I don't think you'll make out w/ me right now" (Just very honest for some reason)
She says "yeah you're right"
We end up at the bar somehow.. I get a water, I tell them that they are gold diggers for talking to me for drinks, I hear my girl whisper to blondie "He's funny"
Regardless.. i'm getting along well w/ both, I try to lead them downstairs.. I lead them we go to a different place.
I'm trying to find any wing to occupy one girl.. Either way, I isolate both girls.. i'm totally IRREVRENT at this point.
The girls are testing me on my shoes, "You have gay shoes"
"Yes"
It was funny, at this point I noticed her LOOK AT ME TO SEE WHETHER I WOULD EXPLAIN MYSELF OR QUALIFY... nope.
Her pupils are dilating.. she keeps testing me "You suck at picking up girls" (While they are following around, and were the same girls that told me to fuck off, and she's telling her friend i'm funny) I'm not even TRYING at this point becuase i'm getting bored of her congruence tests, verbalizing "i'm bored" and "failing" one ON PURPOSE.
I remember recalling the quote "Hot guys game looks like it's shit because girls don't give IOIs. test harder, laid easier." Girl was giving me MAD SHIT..
I'm like yes.
Then i'm trying to have a regular conversation but she tries to take control of the frame, I don't like this behaviour so I talk to her friend again.. she eventually changes her behaviour.
We go back upstairs..
I tell her to stop trying to kiss me, while I like persistently try to kiss her.
She pushes my arms off her, and then I start doing this silly dance while making funny noises.. she starts laughing hysterically.
(It doesn't even make sense)
LESSON:
Making RANDOM FUNNY NOISES, repeating words you like, or phrases, along w/ doing rETARDED SHIT is KEY!! :) (Thanks Tyler for this one.. HotSeat)
She WANTS IT! so bad..
I tell her she holds my hand like a grandma.
I ask for her number, then tell her to text me
She says, "We can only be friends"
I'm like "OKAY I WILL NOT HAVE SEX W/ YOU" (VERY LOUD so people can hear it) lol! She repeats the friend thing.. I keep repeating this back.
she complies.. asking for my number, I tell her my number EXTREMELY SLOWLY.. in between I change the subject, and she is telling me to stop and tell me her my full number. Then she says, "OKAY I WON'T TAKE DOWN YOUR NUMBER THEN" I'm like OKAY FINE.. (I just don't care) We joke around..
I get a bit needy here and i'm like "okay fine gimme your number" but girl is flipping and runs..
Eventually she freaks out because i'm being too pushy/testy.. not enough PULLING IN! I need a balance. They run off.. :/
LESSON:
BALANCE of push/pull.. sometimes I PUSH TOO MUCH, then pull too much.
This is I guess where experience comes in, and I could've just gone with it instead of being a GAMEY MAN..
My wings want to leave but I say ONE MORE SET..
I go beside the smokers area, everybody standing around this umbrella.. one hot girl on the opposite end of the table.
I look at hey and say "hey, come over here"
She complies and walks around the table SUCH A LONG TABLE.. talk to her for a bit, just being NORMAL NOTHING.. her friends are making out i'm like wow they're really into it.. she's taking pictures. I'm like OUR TURN! We tongue down.. (her friend is taking pictures now) and she continues to kiss me while they're taking pictures.. i'm like uh they stopped taking pictures.
rEgardless.. at this point I should have chilled, but I was overly gamey and TOO GROPEY.. miscalibrated escalation.
I was trying to lead her, then she said "oh NO I HAVE TO SMOKE" I'm like hmm... cool.
Lesson: ESCALATION IS SLOW..
Regardless... there will be pics of me on some random girls camera of me making out w/ her.
Then I see another girl I opened before, but this time:
I see her, pull her in.. I'm saying retarded shit I don't remember but full out touching her and being sexual.
She compliments my game: "Wow you're good, man"
I respond with: "But you're a bad girl"
She loves it.. her friends are dragging her away, i'm holding her hand.. she's looking at my eyes, my INTENT IS CLEAR AS A FUCKING CRYSTAL.
See her later giving her number to some chode, I'M SO FUCKING ON I walk up ignore chode go up BOOM
"GIMME YOUR NUMBER" commanding her while this chode is doing his shit.
She's like what? I claw her in, gimme your number..
I give her my phone.. Im like wait, I don't want a fake number give me the phone back.
She's like NO IT'LL BE REAL.. and takes my phone back.
i'm giving like suspicious look.. I call it, it rings.. she says SEE in almost a pissy tone. I'm like FUCK I GOTTA GO (there was a hotter girl I opened who was supposed to meet me outside)
NOTE: This whole time the GIANT MAN who was getting her number was atleast 2 feet taller then me, more muscular while him and his buddy were yelling at me. (There was a hot seat interactive exercise that helped w/ this.)
I IGNORE.. I'm the EFFECTER, girl loves it.
I run outside, hot girl is ADD.. somewhat remembers me! She actually "lights up" in terms of her eyes when she SEES ME! I try to go for the kiss quickly, she freaks out and says "EW!" and runs off.
When i'm leaving, I text this girl saying "I heart you xoxo" She calls me.. EY, who is this?! i'm like WHO IS THIS!? almost in a seductive voice.. I tell her it's Calavera, she's like oooh it's you. It's an Ontario number so I didn't know, i'm like where you from?! Saskatchewan.. I tell her it doesn't exist and she's on drugs. (LOL) aSks me whether i've been to elementary school? I tell her no. She then tells me "Whatever man, i'm just in Toronto to have a GOOD TIME"
I'm like OOOOOH RIGHT! Well come out and eat w/ us then... she's like "Okay... give me ten minutes"
I look at both my wings who have put up with my bullshit and waited for me while I was ADD with all these bitches, who are tired and hungry.. I tell her
"It's now or never"
She says.. oh, another time then (almost pissed off voice.)
Bros before hoes, eh?
Lesson:
I think in that CASE maybe because we were in infront of the bar with people, it waas VERY miscalibrated for me to try and kiss her.. I was just so fucking ON. but she was so fucking hot that in a sense I regret it.. :/
I opened this one with, "You guys are so fucking lovely"
I tell one girl wow, I like your hat.. try to take her hat she says no.
"Do you guys watch jersey shore?" (they all look like them)
You guys look like them I SAY IT LOL! They say well we are ITALIAN.
I'm like SERIOUS, I see one girl whose playing w/ her hair and just LOOKING AT ME VERY ATTENTIVELY..
I'M LIKE HER! ATTACK!
I go up to her, I'm like ah you're italian? southern or northern.. MIDDLE!
I'm like oh? You're so fucking lovely. She says something.. I catch her accent, make fun of it and ask her whethe rshe's from an italian part of toronto.
She laughs and sys Yes.. i'mlike WOW HAHAHA, while laughing I hug her.
Lesson: HUG at a highlight point when you are amused.
I'm trying to isolate her quick times, she has to go the bathroom.. I lead her to bathroom, and then we wer gonna meet infront.
Either way.. night is over. I text the girl
I'm a high value guy being nice, and comforting the girl works!
Another one:
I just need to chill out.. tRUST that i'm a naturally cool guy, and just being MYSELF it'll FLOW OUT.
Lesson: Be more chill and NORMAL in the beginning.. by the END OF THE NIGHT start doing edgier shit.
English girls
I see these two girls, they're both 19 from England..
"Hey, what's up guys"
"Oh we're just hanging out" (I hear their accent)
Wait... SAY SOMETHING ELSE! I command them
They say some gibbrish
Wow... I LOVE YOU GUYS! I hug both of them..
Ask their names, I legitimately can not get her name cause the accents so thick.. she repeats it, I make up a random name for them.
I tell them whether they like CHEERIOS, and that was my favourite cereal while growing up.
Tell them they are "fucking lovely" ala jlaix
One of my wings comes in.. i'm like YES GLORY TIMES! TWo cool canadian men, and english broads.
Somehow my wing fucks up, girl is creeped out as fuck.. she's looking at me, while looking at him almost eye coding.. he came in TOO STRONG.
I try to recover "Hey, he's cool.. don't worry"
Girls too freaked though i'm like fuck... "OKAY LETS GO INSIDE" (try to change scenario)
We go inside...
This girl, that my wing and I opened, WHISPERS something in the girl that is in love w/ me and BOOM THEY'RE GONE..
Funny isn't it? Last time a random girl HELPED ME by whispering some shit, now one fucked it up.. part of the game I guess.
Lesson:
Not sure about this one..
Lesson: I make these WEIRD FACES IN BETWEEN saying things.. REMOVE THAT.. more I get warmed up more it goes away, but remove them.
Lesson:
IT'S OKAY TO JUST STAND THERE AND CHILL IN SILENCE... remember when BLONDE ENGLISH GIRL W/ JEFFY.
__________________
Representing RSD in Toronto.
"You do this for LOVE. Not because there's somethin missing in your life that you think it will fulfill."-Owen
"They say love is in the air, so I hold my breath till I turn purple. Keep a few bad bitches in my circle."
My field reports:
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/137773
(practice offering value.. drop a comment!)
"You do this for LOVE. Not because there's somethin missing in your life that you think it will fulfill."-Owen
"They say love is in the air, so I hold my breath till I turn purple. Keep a few bad bitches in my circle."
My field reports:
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/137773
(practice offering value.. drop a comment!)
August.25.2010
Went out to a local watering hole, this place is usually FILLED w/ dudes and tonight was no different.
My phone/text/facebook game is weak.. i've been doing some research on how to improve it.
We roll in, I have CRASHED HARD because of caffeine's biphasic effects.. I'm just chillin', we get opened by this BLACK GIRL sitting by herself. We're tlaking to her, she's VERY dominant and quite funny SHE brings two other girls to the table. She's dominant, controlling the frame.. I'm trying to fight and get it back, and she wings.. she's teasing me, and i'm FLINCHING HARD.. i'm not in a good state. I crack a couple of jokes and they don't hit, girls think it's kinda weird.. meh.
NEXT, i'm not "on" so I don't CARE it's our first set..
We keep moving, I'm with my wing and I open the next table.. it's ON YO! Both these girls are HAWT, my wing is talking to the other one she's not feeling him.. MINE is feeling me :) she didn't initially, but I kept at it with the positivity... talking about how hot her pants are, whether she works out, she rollerblades.. those pants must make it very aerodynamic for her to rollerblade, etc.etc. It's going well until my wing wants to leave.. to be honest, I think I should've stuck in this one because her BT was rising up HARD! but it's the beginning of the night i'll catch these girls later.. (I do catch them again later and get BLOWN OUT because i'm in a shitty needy state!)
I think this is a 'bad night' after a LONG TIME! I haven't had this bad one in a while.. it usually changes, I have a theory of what it occurred and it's probably because needing more sleep, and pushing myself super hard two days in a row in the gym..
Same issue, SMALL VENUE: Initial game needs to be SOCIAL CIRCLE, I got called out on doing many approaches.. instead I should do regular stuff. iWith this one it's best to do social circle, then BOOM START APPROACHING!
We move around, we chill.. I see this one GORGEOUS blonde.. OH MY GOD, my intent is CLEAR.. I move in hard EY YO, who are you.. command her to shake my hand, etc. I'm leaidng her.. she loves it, her eyes are shining, etc. until AMOG OF DOOM comes in "EY, IS THAT YOUR PICK UP LINE?! TELL HER TO SHAKE YOUR HAND" He's so fucking loud I can't just ignore him.. i'm trying too, but I believe my state drops and girl feels it and boom i'm gone.. I try to open her multiple times again and she doesn't buy into it.. I wanted her SO BAD. oh wellz :(
What do you do in the case where AMOG is SO negative?? Damn...
In retrospect, "buddy I don't disturb you while you work at mcdonalds.." line would've been perfect.
We go up, my wings chilling again.. not an 'on' night for him, we hit up the dance floor (it seems to pump his state,) I'm doing some moves just joking aorund being an idiot, a song comes on we like we're talking shit.. I open another set. Fucking TURBO GIRLS who are so hot that have bitch shields deluxe, i'm talking to them joking around.. HOWEVER my problem = trying for rapport, except w/ one.. this one again bitch shield deluxe but I keep laughing, i'm positive cracking jokes, etc. it's going SUPER WELL AGAIN I pre-eject because my wing wants to leave, in these cases I HAVE TO STOP:
For me it's not my wings fault, it's MY FAULT For finding an EXCUSE to leave becuase I have this anxious feeling to pre-eject..
Later on I open the same girl, and my wings start dominating the set..
Twice we opened sets where the girls were into me, and my wing after not being on for so long.. when I was "on" and I CHODED AROUND as an EXCUSE to "keep my wing company," (my fault,) but when he was on.. he was a bit more on then me, and he would dominate the whole set, and thus blowing me out (it sucks, but I don't think he's aware of what he's doing so whatever.)
Lesson: one person will ALWAYS be more "on" then the other person, split the SET! I told my wing this, so hopefully won't be an issue next time.
We get some lollipops from the door of the bar, I'm walking and behind my is this short cute redhead (I LOVE REDHEADS)
"Hey, do you love candy" (mummbling w/ this in my mouth)
"Yes, who doesn't?"
"Do you love DATE RAPE CANDY?"
She laughs, and loves me..
I shake her hand, introduce her.. she's walking by.
A girl that rejected me earlier on is looking at me, while I get this girl to sit down on the table and introduce to my wing.. my wing shakes her hand, and gets her to sit beside HIM. I guess w/ time communication will improve..
I've always been semi passive about girls.. but nope, that girl was mine. Eventually she leaves to find her "friends."
My mistakes: my EYE CONTACT is OFF, my VOICE was WEAK needed to be LOUDER!
Key: focus on MOMENTUM,
There were a few girls that were into it, "pink" girl.. my wing wanted to leave early, he wanted to "sleep early," (though we ended up talking super late anyways..) and doesn't like the venue. I'm gonna have to go out solo to this place on Wednesdays.. local, and not that bad.
I had a major realization.. I'm taking pick up SERIOUSLY again, a lot of my wings BEAT THEMSELVES UP, and have noticed another guy tell me "to just have fun." Dude. I always have fun, It never BUGS ME when a girl doesn't like me, I'm usually having fun and DO NOT CARE.. but tonight I started to take it seriously again, it effected my state.. FUCK THAT SHIT! What? I'm expecting to ALWAYS get laid. unrealistic, and i'm still a fucking newbie..
Problem is: It's becoming a "goal" to get laid, or get girls.. and going out w/ guys for that SPECIFIC reason it makes it more real, and state crashes occur when you get blown out infront of wings.. That is what's happeining w/ me.
MAJOR LESSON:
Criteria for success is: ACTION! (ATLEAST I took action.. I can't control the girls, but I CAN control me..)
Or as JEffy said: APPROaCH + Express from the CORE + SHOW INTENT
Lesson: girls with huge bitch shields.. make it into a game to make them laugh, then say ah "I won.."
Either way.. i'm happy I WENT OUT :) I'm also happy that I got relatively early there and almost spent the whole night..
ALL THE NIGHTS i've been going out the people I go with end up being SUPER FUCKING LATE, and we end up leaving at 2.. so i'm not there for the whole time, and don't have whole time to hit momentum and or work my game well.. so yeah fuck this shit!
I also noticed tonight I had WEAK ESCALATION. .! Improve next time.
Lesson again:
Do not assume that they are boyfriend/girlfriend..
I also noticed:
end of night, I saw these two girls that we opened earlier walking.. I go with ey gys what's up, didn't even crack any jokes "what are you guys up to"
"going home"
"Come eat shawerma"
"Nah.. we're gonna go home" she was smiling and happy <-- at this point, I could have been WAY MORE PERSISTENT.. I was choding HARD last night hmmm... next time.
Went out to a local watering hole, this place is usually FILLED w/ dudes and tonight was no different.
My phone/text/facebook game is weak.. i've been doing some research on how to improve it.
We roll in, I have CRASHED HARD because of caffeine's biphasic effects.. I'm just chillin', we get opened by this BLACK GIRL sitting by herself. We're tlaking to her, she's VERY dominant and quite funny SHE brings two other girls to the table. She's dominant, controlling the frame.. I'm trying to fight and get it back, and she wings.. she's teasing me, and i'm FLINCHING HARD.. i'm not in a good state. I crack a couple of jokes and they don't hit, girls think it's kinda weird.. meh.
NEXT, i'm not "on" so I don't CARE it's our first set..
We keep moving, I'm with my wing and I open the next table.. it's ON YO! Both these girls are HAWT, my wing is talking to the other one she's not feeling him.. MINE is feeling me :) she didn't initially, but I kept at it with the positivity... talking about how hot her pants are, whether she works out, she rollerblades.. those pants must make it very aerodynamic for her to rollerblade, etc.etc. It's going well until my wing wants to leave.. to be honest, I think I should've stuck in this one because her BT was rising up HARD! but it's the beginning of the night i'll catch these girls later.. (I do catch them again later and get BLOWN OUT because i'm in a shitty needy state!)
I think this is a 'bad night' after a LONG TIME! I haven't had this bad one in a while.. it usually changes, I have a theory of what it occurred and it's probably because needing more sleep, and pushing myself super hard two days in a row in the gym..
Same issue, SMALL VENUE: Initial game needs to be SOCIAL CIRCLE, I got called out on doing many approaches.. instead I should do regular stuff. iWith this one it's best to do social circle, then BOOM START APPROACHING!
We move around, we chill.. I see this one GORGEOUS blonde.. OH MY GOD, my intent is CLEAR.. I move in hard EY YO, who are you.. command her to shake my hand, etc. I'm leaidng her.. she loves it, her eyes are shining, etc. until AMOG OF DOOM comes in "EY, IS THAT YOUR PICK UP LINE?! TELL HER TO SHAKE YOUR HAND" He's so fucking loud I can't just ignore him.. i'm trying too, but I believe my state drops and girl feels it and boom i'm gone.. I try to open her multiple times again and she doesn't buy into it.. I wanted her SO BAD. oh wellz :(
What do you do in the case where AMOG is SO negative?? Damn...
In retrospect, "buddy I don't disturb you while you work at mcdonalds.." line would've been perfect.
We go up, my wings chilling again.. not an 'on' night for him, we hit up the dance floor (it seems to pump his state,) I'm doing some moves just joking aorund being an idiot, a song comes on we like we're talking shit.. I open another set. Fucking TURBO GIRLS who are so hot that have bitch shields deluxe, i'm talking to them joking around.. HOWEVER my problem = trying for rapport, except w/ one.. this one again bitch shield deluxe but I keep laughing, i'm positive cracking jokes, etc. it's going SUPER WELL AGAIN I pre-eject because my wing wants to leave, in these cases I HAVE TO STOP:
For me it's not my wings fault, it's MY FAULT For finding an EXCUSE to leave becuase I have this anxious feeling to pre-eject..
Later on I open the same girl, and my wings start dominating the set..
Twice we opened sets where the girls were into me, and my wing after not being on for so long.. when I was "on" and I CHODED AROUND as an EXCUSE to "keep my wing company," (my fault,) but when he was on.. he was a bit more on then me, and he would dominate the whole set, and thus blowing me out (it sucks, but I don't think he's aware of what he's doing so whatever.)
Lesson: one person will ALWAYS be more "on" then the other person, split the SET! I told my wing this, so hopefully won't be an issue next time.
We get some lollipops from the door of the bar, I'm walking and behind my is this short cute redhead (I LOVE REDHEADS)
"Hey, do you love candy" (mummbling w/ this in my mouth)
"Yes, who doesn't?"
"Do you love DATE RAPE CANDY?"
She laughs, and loves me..
I shake her hand, introduce her.. she's walking by.
A girl that rejected me earlier on is looking at me, while I get this girl to sit down on the table and introduce to my wing.. my wing shakes her hand, and gets her to sit beside HIM. I guess w/ time communication will improve..
I've always been semi passive about girls.. but nope, that girl was mine. Eventually she leaves to find her "friends."
My mistakes: my EYE CONTACT is OFF, my VOICE was WEAK needed to be LOUDER!
Key: focus on MOMENTUM,
There were a few girls that were into it, "pink" girl.. my wing wanted to leave early, he wanted to "sleep early," (though we ended up talking super late anyways..) and doesn't like the venue. I'm gonna have to go out solo to this place on Wednesdays.. local, and not that bad.
I had a major realization.. I'm taking pick up SERIOUSLY again, a lot of my wings BEAT THEMSELVES UP, and have noticed another guy tell me "to just have fun." Dude. I always have fun, It never BUGS ME when a girl doesn't like me, I'm usually having fun and DO NOT CARE.. but tonight I started to take it seriously again, it effected my state.. FUCK THAT SHIT! What? I'm expecting to ALWAYS get laid. unrealistic, and i'm still a fucking newbie..
Problem is: It's becoming a "goal" to get laid, or get girls.. and going out w/ guys for that SPECIFIC reason it makes it more real, and state crashes occur when you get blown out infront of wings.. That is what's happeining w/ me.
MAJOR LESSON:
Criteria for success is: ACTION! (ATLEAST I took action.. I can't control the girls, but I CAN control me..)
Or as JEffy said: APPROaCH + Express from the CORE + SHOW INTENT
Lesson: girls with huge bitch shields.. make it into a game to make them laugh, then say ah "I won.."
Either way.. i'm happy I WENT OUT :) I'm also happy that I got relatively early there and almost spent the whole night..
ALL THE NIGHTS i've been going out the people I go with end up being SUPER FUCKING LATE, and we end up leaving at 2.. so i'm not there for the whole time, and don't have whole time to hit momentum and or work my game well.. so yeah fuck this shit!
I also noticed tonight I had WEAK ESCALATION. .! Improve next time.
Lesson again:
Do not assume that they are boyfriend/girlfriend..
I also noticed:
end of night, I saw these two girls that we opened earlier walking.. I go with ey gys what's up, didn't even crack any jokes "what are you guys up to"
"going home"
"Come eat shawerma"
"Nah.. we're gonna go home" she was smiling and happy <-- at this point, I could have been WAY MORE PERSISTENT.. I was choding HARD last night hmmm... next time.
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Representing RSD in Toronto.
"You do this for LOVE. Not because there's somethin missing in your life that you think it will fulfill."-Owen
"They say love is in the air, so I hold my breath till I turn purple. Keep a few bad bitches in my circle."
My field reports:
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/137773
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"You do this for LOVE. Not because there's somethin missing in your life that you think it will fulfill."-Owen
"They say love is in the air, so I hold my breath till I turn purple. Keep a few bad bitches in my circle."
My field reports:
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/137773
(practice offering value.. drop a comment!)
i still think you're cool
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it is what it is
In terms of wings....I usually won't go out with anyone who I can't get along with on a real level or consider a friend. It feels to forced if I'm pretending to be someones friend in front of girls. So my friends are my wings, and my wings are my friends. Also, have you considered rolling out with any cool female friends of yours?
Mooky:
Ey man.. this guys one of the best naturals I know, but I think he just lacks experience with winging.. I luckily am a very friendly guy, and meeting new people I can create a 'bond' very quickly (comes in handy with pick up huh?) but I usually do go out w/ my friends who i've introduced to the game.. thanks mate. But i'm not a fan of this 'pivot' idea.. women are shit at game. However, I do plan on accumulating hot female friends over the next couple of weeks for some of that extra social proof..
August.26.2010
Wing: nickromeo
I'm extremely happy.. I spent no money for cover, drank water all night, and didn't eat shitty food (had almonds instead)
Though I did have PANGS for beer..
K, let's get into it..
Nickromeo actually surprised me today! He had a girl begging for his dick afterwards..
I played a different style today, I played a bit more with getting numbers.. I think i'm going to change my strategy and get a bunch of
numbers, see which one respond.. and follow up with them at a bar/club, if they MEET UP means they are DTF yo as I will be talking
straight sexual.
I said too much stupid shit again with one girl.. calling her a mutt (doesn't that just mean a mix of something? she was offended lol,)
and something else retarded.. I have to start having normal conversation again. Blown out..
Had this fatty orbit me for a while, kept telling me I was "hot" and I don't have to work hard to pick up girls.. kept getting
congruence tests upon congruence tests.. whatever yo, it took effort to get away from her gravitational pull.
"How do I AVOID getting bj's in the club?" - nickromeo
Me and nickromeo have developed an amazing winging tactic... I will dub it
JESUS WINGING TACTICS.
If you're doing a 2 on 2, and one buddy doesn't hook.. you "CROSS" paths and switch up the girls! Nick, fucking GOLDEN work here buddy
we were so in synch... going out together seems to be paying off! We both got digits.. it's still early.
Lesson:
Playfully tease anything they say.. "I'm from SMALL HIC TOWN" "do you live in a barn?"
I realize in the beginning, makes sense to be just SOCIAL and NORMAL.. just talk for a bit, because i'm "hot" and "cool" girls will just
naturally game me.. I opened this one giant group, joking around w/ them.. just being normal not really "gaming." I tell them
okay cool i'll see you guys later (I genuinely meant it..)
See them around, and logistically the HOTTEST girl was perfect to open.. perfect. Talk talk talk..
I don't remember what I said, but I was escalating..she was saying shit to qualify herself, she is a :
-professional dancer
-went to university in hawaii
-has giant tits and ass
I'm in love, she is my perfect women.. I am impressed, I hug her.. start touching her, tell her that she is going to be my new girlfriend,
I will smack her if she cheats on me, and tell her I cheated on her w/ her bestfriend.
she gets all sad, she's been cheated on.. oooh darling, COME OVER HERE IN THIS DARK CORNER W/ ME TO CRY ABOUT IT.
We talk, I vibe w/ her.. she has a boyfriend, my intuition tells me it's true.. I'm like ah okay, that's too bad, I would've
done naughty things to you.. well, I don't mind having friends.
My new plan:
Befriending HOT GIRLS if they have boyfriends, for social proof, and also because if they are ever single and so am I.. ;]
(Credit: M8knmoves/EazyDoesit <-- sexy man.)
She was super hot, and responding sooo well! I have to get rid of this in my head..
Another set, I open right awy ey what's up?! I start touching her.. joke around. I GO IN FOR THE MAKE OUT, she's into it.. TOTAL TONGUE DOWN DELUXE!
it's her 19th b-day, she's walking away with friend who got creeped by some dude (ahem..) and I tell her to give me her digits.
Either way, I don't want to follow them but i'm insisted by my wing to go in again.. uhhh, don't think so. Go back in,
I talk to fatty..
WEIRD AS SHIT! I actually am ATTRACTED TO FATTY and want to put my dick in her.. overescalation occurs from wing fag, and bitches run off!
Sadly, i'm not the biggest pimp in the world.. (though I secretly think I am.)
Same thing happend w/ nick.. we're outside, two italian cuties.
Nick is full out intent on that bitch, she knows he has a cock and wants to use it. He kisses her, me and him both pick up our girls at the same time.
My mistake: LOOKING AT HIM 'game' cause i've never seen nick do so well lol, and my girl starts looking at them and saying "I SHOULD SAVE HER"
Im like "NO, they are in LOVE BITCH FOCS HERE" she's A.d.d. I try to pick her up again but she is focused on taking her isnide.. (my bad.. :/)
boom they're gone, she later wanted to meet up w/ nick but she sald ywas out of luck as we were out of town by that point..
We're on the dancefloor.. open this one girl, OMG I love her.. pull her in, talk to her.. go in for the make out right AWAY! (I know, 'bad game' but I wanted too..) She rejects me, but her BT goes up.. she starts dancing, and grinding her pussy into my cock. i tell her
No, you're a bad girl.. I don't do this.
[=rgb(255, 0, 255)]So you make out w/ people and don't dnace w/ them?[/]
Yes.
She's turned on..
Nick's girl starts talking french to my girl, and both start to leave.. I grab her, tell her to give me her number.
She BASICALLY PRESSED HER WHOLE BODY INTO MY BODY.. i can feel her vagina on my dick my dick's getting hard.. i'm breathing a bit slower on purpose so she feels this.. i'm getting turned on, I can bet money she is too.. putting in her number very slowly.. while she leaves holds my hand lets go very slowly.
She's playing the seductress here.. and I was letting her.
A set we opened earlier on I see her talking to two dudes (nothing against them,) but I go up to the girl from the side..
ALL UP ON HER FACE, SUPER CLOSE WITH A GIANT SMILE LOL! I'd have to show you guys this move..
Lesson: CREEPY GIANT SMILE FACE is okay if you're amusing yourself..
she looks at me with a weird look,
"oh it's you"
I'm just laughing.. she starts smiling.
I'm told by her I have shitty game, i'm thinking my dick is shrivelling at the sight of you.. but luckily I am a social man and will
amuse myself at your expense for a minute or two more.
Point: I think this number thing will pay off.. i was much more 'normal,' yesterday less gamey and a lot more social circle..
me doing the numbers thing, over time I bet I can accumulate like for sure 10-15 numbers over 4 days.. and a few will hit.
I can see myself having a harem in a couple of months.. that's the plan...
My EYE CONTACT needs to be STRONGER I need to practise that.. convey sexuality w/ eyes.
"You're weird" "Weird... or FANATICAL" LOL!
"YOUR TURN"
Be VERY VERY positive, network, don't escalate infront of friends*
"Over-gaming stems from the idea that you have to “do” to be attractive – that you have to “game” to get girls.
actively improving one’s game is diametrically opposed to the mindset needed to reach an elite level – the “I am the Game” mindset, and because thought patterns are addictive, once one entrenches themselves in this pattern of cognition and calibration outgrowing it can be one of the game’s biggest challenges.
OKAY: so it's not about improving anymore.. i've reached there, I don't have to do shit anymore.* "
OKAY NOW.. I am enough, just talk about what you want.. don't need to say crazy shit.
I am addicted to ATTRACTION/reaction from girls..remove this along w/,
INCONGRUENCE: carry yourself as high value, but don't think you are high value inside. <-- more common for good looking guys.
As you become a money guy You Become The Game. Being YOU is the best way to be – any time you’re not being YOU, anytime you ‘run game’ you’re actually straying away from being that 10 out of 10.
When you feel the vibe dropping don’t rush to revive it. When you sense your brain darting to access the perfect response like you’ve done a thousand times before, tell it to chill.
Don't always need the PERFECT response..
The girl has an idea in her head of how getting a money guy should feel, how it should go down… be the guy that gives her that experience – don’t be ‘Brad Pitt running game’
That's why it worked for me.. I never "tried," always believed they were my friends.. girls REACHED/tried for me... I was just like yeah I feel this,
I would crack jokes, etc. etc.
I had this other set w/ an Azn girl.. went well, we vibed well. she was into yoga/meditation so I liked her, but she wasn't too hot.. don't want to write about it. Got her number, but she's an orientation leader downtown so maybe she can lead to good networking opportunities..
END OF NIGHT:
I'm done.. i'm tired, i'm like fuck it lets go home.. my SUPEREGO kicks in.. NO! Stay in this, it's like the last rep in the gym push this shit. I see this booth with few of the HOTTEST GIRLS IN THE BAR, they're all just dancing.. no chodes approaching them. I'm completely sober, can I still STEP UP!?
FUCK YES I CAN.
Boom, roll in.. ignore everybody straight to my girl "Ey, you're cute" she's impressed.. talk to her for a bit, she has glowsticks.. tell her to show me her moves. She obeys, I reward her.. tell her GIMME YOUR NUMBER. She rejects.. keeps saying I don't give numbers, nothing against you (yeah right!) not enough time..
OH MY GOD.. WHY DIDN'T SHE GIVE ME HER NUMBER?!
This is why hot seat was worth it..
You either don't have enough: VALUE or QUALIFICATION.. I didn't qualify her enough!! DAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I need to:
Game Less,
and QUALIFY MORE.. i'm not qualifying!
Okay.. time to roll out!
Hitting the field like a lawnmower baby..
Ey man.. this guys one of the best naturals I know, but I think he just lacks experience with winging.. I luckily am a very friendly guy, and meeting new people I can create a 'bond' very quickly (comes in handy with pick up huh?) but I usually do go out w/ my friends who i've introduced to the game.. thanks mate. But i'm not a fan of this 'pivot' idea.. women are shit at game. However, I do plan on accumulating hot female friends over the next couple of weeks for some of that extra social proof..
August.26.2010
Wing: nickromeo
I'm extremely happy.. I spent no money for cover, drank water all night, and didn't eat shitty food (had almonds instead)
Though I did have PANGS for beer..
K, let's get into it..
Nickromeo actually surprised me today! He had a girl begging for his dick afterwards..
I played a different style today, I played a bit more with getting numbers.. I think i'm going to change my strategy and get a bunch of
numbers, see which one respond.. and follow up with them at a bar/club, if they MEET UP means they are DTF yo as I will be talking
straight sexual.
I said too much stupid shit again with one girl.. calling her a mutt (doesn't that just mean a mix of something? she was offended lol,)
and something else retarded.. I have to start having normal conversation again. Blown out..
Had this fatty orbit me for a while, kept telling me I was "hot" and I don't have to work hard to pick up girls.. kept getting
congruence tests upon congruence tests.. whatever yo, it took effort to get away from her gravitational pull.
"How do I AVOID getting bj's in the club?" - nickromeo
Me and nickromeo have developed an amazing winging tactic... I will dub it
JESUS WINGING TACTICS.
If you're doing a 2 on 2, and one buddy doesn't hook.. you "CROSS" paths and switch up the girls! Nick, fucking GOLDEN work here buddy
we were so in synch... going out together seems to be paying off! We both got digits.. it's still early.
Lesson:
Playfully tease anything they say.. "I'm from SMALL HIC TOWN" "do you live in a barn?"
I realize in the beginning, makes sense to be just SOCIAL and NORMAL.. just talk for a bit, because i'm "hot" and "cool" girls will just
naturally game me.. I opened this one giant group, joking around w/ them.. just being normal not really "gaming." I tell them
okay cool i'll see you guys later (I genuinely meant it..)
See them around, and logistically the HOTTEST girl was perfect to open.. perfect. Talk talk talk..
I don't remember what I said, but I was escalating..she was saying shit to qualify herself, she is a :
-professional dancer
-went to university in hawaii
-has giant tits and ass
I'm in love, she is my perfect women.. I am impressed, I hug her.. start touching her, tell her that she is going to be my new girlfriend,
I will smack her if she cheats on me, and tell her I cheated on her w/ her bestfriend.
she gets all sad, she's been cheated on.. oooh darling, COME OVER HERE IN THIS DARK CORNER W/ ME TO CRY ABOUT IT.
We talk, I vibe w/ her.. she has a boyfriend, my intuition tells me it's true.. I'm like ah okay, that's too bad, I would've
done naughty things to you.. well, I don't mind having friends.
My new plan:
Befriending HOT GIRLS if they have boyfriends, for social proof, and also because if they are ever single and so am I.. ;]
(Credit: M8knmoves/EazyDoesit <-- sexy man.)
She was super hot, and responding sooo well! I have to get rid of this in my head..
Another set, I open right awy ey what's up?! I start touching her.. joke around. I GO IN FOR THE MAKE OUT, she's into it.. TOTAL TONGUE DOWN DELUXE!
it's her 19th b-day, she's walking away with friend who got creeped by some dude (ahem..) and I tell her to give me her digits.
Either way, I don't want to follow them but i'm insisted by my wing to go in again.. uhhh, don't think so. Go back in,
I talk to fatty..
WEIRD AS SHIT! I actually am ATTRACTED TO FATTY and want to put my dick in her.. overescalation occurs from wing fag, and bitches run off!
Sadly, i'm not the biggest pimp in the world.. (though I secretly think I am.)
Same thing happend w/ nick.. we're outside, two italian cuties.
Nick is full out intent on that bitch, she knows he has a cock and wants to use it. He kisses her, me and him both pick up our girls at the same time.
My mistake: LOOKING AT HIM 'game' cause i've never seen nick do so well lol, and my girl starts looking at them and saying "I SHOULD SAVE HER"
Im like "NO, they are in LOVE BITCH FOCS HERE" she's A.d.d. I try to pick her up again but she is focused on taking her isnide.. (my bad.. :/)
boom they're gone, she later wanted to meet up w/ nick but she sald ywas out of luck as we were out of town by that point..
We're on the dancefloor.. open this one girl, OMG I love her.. pull her in, talk to her.. go in for the make out right AWAY! (I know, 'bad game' but I wanted too..) She rejects me, but her BT goes up.. she starts dancing, and grinding her pussy into my cock. i tell her
No, you're a bad girl.. I don't do this.
[=rgb(255, 0, 255)]So you make out w/ people and don't dnace w/ them?[/]
Yes.
She's turned on..
Nick's girl starts talking french to my girl, and both start to leave.. I grab her, tell her to give me her number.
She BASICALLY PRESSED HER WHOLE BODY INTO MY BODY.. i can feel her vagina on my dick my dick's getting hard.. i'm breathing a bit slower on purpose so she feels this.. i'm getting turned on, I can bet money she is too.. putting in her number very slowly.. while she leaves holds my hand lets go very slowly.
She's playing the seductress here.. and I was letting her.
A set we opened earlier on I see her talking to two dudes (nothing against them,) but I go up to the girl from the side..
ALL UP ON HER FACE, SUPER CLOSE WITH A GIANT SMILE LOL! I'd have to show you guys this move..
Lesson: CREEPY GIANT SMILE FACE is okay if you're amusing yourself..
she looks at me with a weird look,
"oh it's you"
I'm just laughing.. she starts smiling.
I'm told by her I have shitty game, i'm thinking my dick is shrivelling at the sight of you.. but luckily I am a social man and will
amuse myself at your expense for a minute or two more.
Point: I think this number thing will pay off.. i was much more 'normal,' yesterday less gamey and a lot more social circle..
me doing the numbers thing, over time I bet I can accumulate like for sure 10-15 numbers over 4 days.. and a few will hit.
I can see myself having a harem in a couple of months.. that's the plan...
My EYE CONTACT needs to be STRONGER I need to practise that.. convey sexuality w/ eyes.
"You're weird" "Weird... or FANATICAL" LOL!
"YOUR TURN"
Be VERY VERY positive, network, don't escalate infront of friends*
"Over-gaming stems from the idea that you have to “do” to be attractive – that you have to “game” to get girls.
actively improving one’s game is diametrically opposed to the mindset needed to reach an elite level – the “I am the Game” mindset, and because thought patterns are addictive, once one entrenches themselves in this pattern of cognition and calibration outgrowing it can be one of the game’s biggest challenges.
OKAY: so it's not about improving anymore.. i've reached there, I don't have to do shit anymore.* "
OKAY NOW.. I am enough, just talk about what you want.. don't need to say crazy shit.
I am addicted to ATTRACTION/reaction from girls..remove this along w/,
INCONGRUENCE: carry yourself as high value, but don't think you are high value inside. <-- more common for good looking guys.
As you become a money guy You Become The Game. Being YOU is the best way to be – any time you’re not being YOU, anytime you ‘run game’ you’re actually straying away from being that 10 out of 10.
When you feel the vibe dropping don’t rush to revive it. When you sense your brain darting to access the perfect response like you’ve done a thousand times before, tell it to chill.
Don't always need the PERFECT response..
The girl has an idea in her head of how getting a money guy should feel, how it should go down… be the guy that gives her that experience – don’t be ‘Brad Pitt running game’
That's why it worked for me.. I never "tried," always believed they were my friends.. girls REACHED/tried for me... I was just like yeah I feel this,
I would crack jokes, etc. etc.
I had this other set w/ an Azn girl.. went well, we vibed well. she was into yoga/meditation so I liked her, but she wasn't too hot.. don't want to write about it. Got her number, but she's an orientation leader downtown so maybe she can lead to good networking opportunities..
END OF NIGHT:
I'm done.. i'm tired, i'm like fuck it lets go home.. my SUPEREGO kicks in.. NO! Stay in this, it's like the last rep in the gym push this shit. I see this booth with few of the HOTTEST GIRLS IN THE BAR, they're all just dancing.. no chodes approaching them. I'm completely sober, can I still STEP UP!?
FUCK YES I CAN.
Boom, roll in.. ignore everybody straight to my girl "Ey, you're cute" she's impressed.. talk to her for a bit, she has glowsticks.. tell her to show me her moves. She obeys, I reward her.. tell her GIMME YOUR NUMBER. She rejects.. keeps saying I don't give numbers, nothing against you (yeah right!) not enough time..
OH MY GOD.. WHY DIDN'T SHE GIVE ME HER NUMBER?!
This is why hot seat was worth it..
You either don't have enough: VALUE or QUALIFICATION.. I didn't qualify her enough!! DAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I need to:
Game Less,
and QUALIFY MORE.. i'm not qualifying!
Okay.. time to roll out!
Hitting the field like a lawnmower baby..
__________________
Representing RSD in Toronto.
"You do this for LOVE. Not because there's somethin missing in your life that you think it will fulfill."-Owen
"They say love is in the air, so I hold my breath till I turn purple. Keep a few bad bitches in my circle."
My field reports:
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/137773
(practice offering value.. drop a comment!)
"You do this for LOVE. Not because there's somethin missing in your life that you think it will fulfill."-Owen
"They say love is in the air, so I hold my breath till I turn purple. Keep a few bad bitches in my circle."
My field reports:
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/137773
(practice offering value.. drop a comment!)
August.27.2010
Hmmm, not the best night. We got to the venue super late around midnight, as people I roll with always end up being super late.. next time, i'm going ahead w/o them, or telling them straight up if it occurs we're rolling local..
I was super tired as well, so not in the best state... I didn't feel like talking to bitches.
However, the french girl from yesterday who I thought would flake (as jlaix said you never know who will flake or not,) ends up texting back and forth.. she's into me and remembers me. Texting back and forth, she just double texted me..
So we roll into the venue, I open this fat chick in line.. flirting w/ her, but i'm not into her.. it's obvious, ditch her asap.
We're walking around, and we go upstairs and GUESS WHO I SEE?
Same two girls from last saturday! The chilean girl who gave me chile money, and the one who kept giving me congruence tests..
OPEN, I'm like OMG it's you guys.. they're pretending to be aloof like "oh no it's HIM again" (but they love me) I'm genuinelly happy to see them, I thought they were fun. I talk to the girl i'm into..
she asks me:[=rgb(255, 0, 255)]What kind of drugs were you on?! [/]
LESSON: AKA I need to game LESS and chill moree daaaahhh..
My response: Love.. I told you, you hypnotized me.
I did buy into her frame slightly, she's like yeah you were crazy.. I was like: "Yeah I can be crazy" <-- though it's honest, still buying into her frame.
Joking around w/ her.. all these little lines help a lot. She keeps making weird faces.. I ask her what she thought of my wing that night, and she was like yeah he was a bit too crazy just like you.. just testing me over and over, but she loves me (and this becomes clear later on.) We talk about some shit, we recall what we talked about.. hating babies, and she brings up how my wing said he's good at making babies and creeped her friend out.. (AS PREDICTED she was lying about having a boyfriend/just wanting to be friends..) I look at her and tell her I love making babies w/ a smile. Either way, I can tell she finds me attractive but I at the same time am being incongruent/weird.. so I chill out.
Some dudes come in, being the friendly guy I am I introduce myself eyy what's up?! I'm cool w/ all of them, crack jokes w/ one of them.. i'm glad the girls are seeing this.
I like this girl, so I stay in set.. talk to her friend for a while, totally connecting w/ her..
Her friends complimenting me: You have a nice smile, and you SMILE w/ your eyes
KEY: smile w/ your EYES BOYS!
I'm like yes yes, she asks me "Do you know those guys?"
"Nope just met them..."
I qualified myself here saying.. "I'm a pretty social guy" Shouldn't be SAID, should be SEEN...
Lesson:
When a girl is into you, she will put on a facade.. SHE will have TWO dialogues in her head going on.
This girls totally into me.. i'm joking around w/ her, i legitimately like her.. talking shit about travelling, drugs we've done, i'm going on this rant and being a science nerd (blowing myself out w/ my own awesomeness? not in this case as I know her..)
She was like, yeah your buddy kept getting TOO in my face.. i'm like, LIKE THIS?! I do the same thing.. but she's blushing, she wants my cock. I notice the girl I like trying to get in on the fun again, warm end of the pool baby.. talk to her for a bit.
I go UPTO HER FACE, i'm like okay YOU take down my number NOW. she refuses.. tests me more, i'm "going to go see my friends" she says.
I stick around and let her talk to her friends.. luckily my wing is there so i'm talking to her. While she's leaving she POKES ME (HAHA, even though she's telling me retarded shit i know she's into me) I'm like okay YOU, YOU give me your number.. JUST PLATONIC FRIENDS. (In the moment I was being honest, I did mean it.. I think she's cool (synthetic love?) and I wanted to hang w/ her.. though I have a feeling she wants me.) She smiles, and says.. okay fine. Texted back and forth at night..
MEXICAN GIRL
She doesn't speak english.. man hard to game w/ language barrier, i rely on verbals a lot.. i keep calling her korean, touching her eyes, saying shit and laughing.. she doesn't know hwat i'm saying but likes my vibe. I lead her around.. eventally just get her facebook and peace.. (she's in a relationship sadly.)
I see one of the girls I was supposed to Day2 on Sunday hitting on ANOTHER GUY.. I avoid contact, she sees me.. I look at her laugh and keep walking! lol :)
Random blonde girl
Weak EYE CONTACT
OVERESCALATING - let physicality BREAAATHE.
But yeah.. I was exhausted, and my heart wasn't into it.. spent last hour of the night just walking around, hanging w/ wings.. didn't wanna open.
Tonight will be different ;]
There were other girls.. opened this GORGEOUS blonde at the ATM. I was micromanaging, not amusing myself, NERVOUS, turned RED, etc. <-- just BAD BAD BAD game.. meh! Warming up takes time right?
To be honest:
I'm getting in touch w/ my old self again, which is the HAPPY, chill, VIBING motherfucker who is social w/ EVERYBODY.. I like befriending people, joking aorund w/ them and so on.. and will do so. At the same time, I LOVE pulling One night stands.. :) I'll have to think of a way to incorporate host game and ONS game..
"If she didn’t like you, she would just walk away."
I've been thinking about the mindset.. AS LONG AS SHE IS STANDING THERE, SHE IS INTO YOU.
Otherwise, negative shit = CONGRUENCE TEST.
you have no emotional response to whatever she said, you don’t care..
EGO = leads to emotional response, being more EGOLESS = less emotional response.. stripping your identity, and not giving a SHIT what people think of you!
I also think the frame that they are retarded little children is also helpful.. in my experience it has helped!
Calavera
Hmmm, not the best night. We got to the venue super late around midnight, as people I roll with always end up being super late.. next time, i'm going ahead w/o them, or telling them straight up if it occurs we're rolling local..
I was super tired as well, so not in the best state... I didn't feel like talking to bitches.
However, the french girl from yesterday who I thought would flake (as jlaix said you never know who will flake or not,) ends up texting back and forth.. she's into me and remembers me. Texting back and forth, she just double texted me..
So we roll into the venue, I open this fat chick in line.. flirting w/ her, but i'm not into her.. it's obvious, ditch her asap.
We're walking around, and we go upstairs and GUESS WHO I SEE?
Same two girls from last saturday! The chilean girl who gave me chile money, and the one who kept giving me congruence tests..
OPEN, I'm like OMG it's you guys.. they're pretending to be aloof like "oh no it's HIM again" (but they love me) I'm genuinelly happy to see them, I thought they were fun. I talk to the girl i'm into..
she asks me:[=rgb(255, 0, 255)]What kind of drugs were you on?! [/]
LESSON: AKA I need to game LESS and chill moree daaaahhh..
My response: Love.. I told you, you hypnotized me.
I did buy into her frame slightly, she's like yeah you were crazy.. I was like: "Yeah I can be crazy" <-- though it's honest, still buying into her frame.
Joking around w/ her.. all these little lines help a lot. She keeps making weird faces.. I ask her what she thought of my wing that night, and she was like yeah he was a bit too crazy just like you.. just testing me over and over, but she loves me (and this becomes clear later on.) We talk about some shit, we recall what we talked about.. hating babies, and she brings up how my wing said he's good at making babies and creeped her friend out.. (AS PREDICTED she was lying about having a boyfriend/just wanting to be friends..) I look at her and tell her I love making babies w/ a smile. Either way, I can tell she finds me attractive but I at the same time am being incongruent/weird.. so I chill out.
Some dudes come in, being the friendly guy I am I introduce myself eyy what's up?! I'm cool w/ all of them, crack jokes w/ one of them.. i'm glad the girls are seeing this.
I like this girl, so I stay in set.. talk to her friend for a while, totally connecting w/ her..
Her friends complimenting me: You have a nice smile, and you SMILE w/ your eyes
KEY: smile w/ your EYES BOYS!
I'm like yes yes, she asks me "Do you know those guys?"
"Nope just met them..."
I qualified myself here saying.. "I'm a pretty social guy" Shouldn't be SAID, should be SEEN...
Lesson:
When a girl is into you, she will put on a facade.. SHE will have TWO dialogues in her head going on.
This girls totally into me.. i'm joking around w/ her, i legitimately like her.. talking shit about travelling, drugs we've done, i'm going on this rant and being a science nerd (blowing myself out w/ my own awesomeness? not in this case as I know her..)
She was like, yeah your buddy kept getting TOO in my face.. i'm like, LIKE THIS?! I do the same thing.. but she's blushing, she wants my cock. I notice the girl I like trying to get in on the fun again, warm end of the pool baby.. talk to her for a bit.
I go UPTO HER FACE, i'm like okay YOU take down my number NOW. she refuses.. tests me more, i'm "going to go see my friends" she says.
I stick around and let her talk to her friends.. luckily my wing is there so i'm talking to her. While she's leaving she POKES ME (HAHA, even though she's telling me retarded shit i know she's into me) I'm like okay YOU, YOU give me your number.. JUST PLATONIC FRIENDS. (In the moment I was being honest, I did mean it.. I think she's cool (synthetic love?) and I wanted to hang w/ her.. though I have a feeling she wants me.) She smiles, and says.. okay fine. Texted back and forth at night..
MEXICAN GIRL
She doesn't speak english.. man hard to game w/ language barrier, i rely on verbals a lot.. i keep calling her korean, touching her eyes, saying shit and laughing.. she doesn't know hwat i'm saying but likes my vibe. I lead her around.. eventally just get her facebook and peace.. (she's in a relationship sadly.)
I see one of the girls I was supposed to Day2 on Sunday hitting on ANOTHER GUY.. I avoid contact, she sees me.. I look at her laugh and keep walking! lol :)
Random blonde girl
Weak EYE CONTACT
OVERESCALATING - let physicality BREAAATHE.
But yeah.. I was exhausted, and my heart wasn't into it.. spent last hour of the night just walking around, hanging w/ wings.. didn't wanna open.
Tonight will be different ;]
There were other girls.. opened this GORGEOUS blonde at the ATM. I was micromanaging, not amusing myself, NERVOUS, turned RED, etc. <-- just BAD BAD BAD game.. meh! Warming up takes time right?
To be honest:
I'm getting in touch w/ my old self again, which is the HAPPY, chill, VIBING motherfucker who is social w/ EVERYBODY.. I like befriending people, joking aorund w/ them and so on.. and will do so. At the same time, I LOVE pulling One night stands.. :) I'll have to think of a way to incorporate host game and ONS game..
"If she didn’t like you, she would just walk away."
I've been thinking about the mindset.. AS LONG AS SHE IS STANDING THERE, SHE IS INTO YOU.
Otherwise, negative shit = CONGRUENCE TEST.
you have no emotional response to whatever she said, you don’t care..
EGO = leads to emotional response, being more EGOLESS = less emotional response.. stripping your identity, and not giving a SHIT what people think of you!
I also think the frame that they are retarded little children is also helpful.. in my experience it has helped!
Calavera
__________________
Representing RSD in Toronto.
"You do this for LOVE. Not because there's somethin missing in your life that you think it will fulfill."-Owen
"They say love is in the air, so I hold my breath till I turn purple. Keep a few bad bitches in my circle."
My field reports:
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/137773
(practice offering value.. drop a comment!)
"You do this for LOVE. Not because there's somethin missing in your life that you think it will fulfill."-Owen
"They say love is in the air, so I hold my breath till I turn purple. Keep a few bad bitches in my circle."
My field reports:
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/137773
(practice offering value.. drop a comment!)
August.28.2010
Yo, what up?!
Last night ha.. interesting night.
We seem to have a sick crew, which we have dubbed "THE GENTLEMENS CLUB"
Basically, two of my best buddies who are huge pimps and into this RSD shit.. along w/ two of the best naturals we know that are non-community.. lethal combination.. :) After reading Brad-'s FR I realize I have a long way to go.. but i'm so motivated it's ridiculous..
We roll out, we're in line.. being loud as fuck, doing ole ole ole, and a bunch of other things people are into it.. i'm not warmed up yet, Mark (best natural i know easily.. this guys BALDING AND FAT and gets more ass then ALL of my buddies.) He opens them up, they're totlaly into it.. i'm just chilling back..
One of the girls KEEPS LOOKING AT ME, giggling at everything I say.. it was like her BT was so high just by looking at me or something, I just chilled.. I saw her kept looking at me. Never ended up talking to her.. did see her again but all my buddies were all up on that ass, and she kept looking at me while they were trying.. I just laid back, hoping to see her again.. no luck, oh well! Poor girl :(
The french girl from madison night.. I may have played something wrong, some feedback would be wicked..
I text her:
You filled w/ my head w/ dirty thoughts..
[=rgb(255, 0, 255)]Her: I what?!?!?[/]
Me: Filled my head w/ dirty thoughts.. girl.. where you from?! You know what i meant ;]
[=rgb(255, 0, 255)]Her: Your last MSG needs to CHILLLL[/]
Me: Oh, I guess that was kinda of straight forward.. we can be like that where i'm from.
[=rgb(255, 0, 255)]Her: I'm not that type of girl, and we don't do that shit where I'M FROM.. respect.[/]
Boom done.. too straight forward? Hmm.. dunno, I tried to be: "unapologetic, then SOE" HMM...
Maybe I don't need all these tactics and shit, because girls assume i'm a 'good looking guy's o i must be getting laid.. and if i'm only after them for ass (which I humbly realize I need to qualify more..) and if i'm talking SEXUAL they think OH I'M JUST ANOTHER GIRL HE'S GONNA FUCK (even though i've only boned two girls ha..) Strange.. i've had SO MANY OPPORTUNITIES, but fuck them up somehow..
So realization: just CHILL BACK, don't talk about sex overtly.. LET THEM GAME YOU.. I've been reading Brad-'s fr's and they've been wanting me to be all SEXUAL and STRAIGHT FORWARD but it's not working for me.. I noticed with JEFFY's game at HOT SEAT, he NEVER talked SEX OVERTLY and the GIRLS Would bring up sex.
I roll out.. ended up getting a bunch of numbers.
I need to remember: OPEN VERY CHILL, hot searing coal open... remember tonality..
That works best for me.. Do NOT only focus on the girl.. and let her game you.
I'm walking.. see these two cuties, ey gus wha'ts up?!
One girl is insta hook for sure.. I can see it in her eyes, other one is like meh.. she can tell her friends into me.
I just lay back.. forgot the words.. but something about univeristies came up.. my tall girls Scandanavian, 19 years old.. tall hot, a model apparently lol.. and is going to school for kines. Her friend says "MIT" I am all impressed and shit.. even though I didn't want her to be honest,
I just found that to be sooo cool. turns out she was in the "MIT program" in a local university.. ha.. i'm disinterested immediately.
Back to my girl.. talking to her, joke joke joke.. I see my wings on the dance floor being idiots.. I must join them! I get her digits tell her i'll talk to her later..
I'm walking by, I see her talking to some dode whose being a full faggot and not escalating. I'm hesitant.. but i'm like fuck it!
I roll up talk to her directly, completely ignoring faggot.. he walks away, she loves me.. we're talking blah blah blah, I think I said she must've drank a lot of chocolate milk.. she pulls out her phone for some reason? I don't know if she asked me or what.. either way, she's putting in my number.. I bust her balls for having this old ass phone, in between I stop and say..
"You're not gonna stalk me are you? Are you emotionally mature?" Straight from 9ball..
She's like no I won't, i'm pretty mature.. i'm like okay cool, enters my number.. i'm walking away.
She follows me..
"Are you really popular?!"
I say "No.." I don't want to 'qualify myself' but this was retarded.. in this sense I could've playfully said: "Ofcourse I am" with a giant smile keeping it light.. but I said it somewhat serious.
Her face was like "Oh :/" Then why'd you ask me about that? I'm like well.. you never know with younger girls right (almost logical)
Bad game here..
Next time: More playful, and LIGHT <- I need to do this easily.. that's one thing I noticed about my buddy Mark..
Regardless.. i grab her, tel her she's lovely.. and kiss her.. she says "I don't kiss guys at bars" (even though I just did) I'm like it's cool.. and walk away.
Let's see what happens.. I legitimately liked this girl.. I'm starting to find my interactions are getting more and more connection, i'm getting to know the girl more.. Me liking them is coming through..
I honestly think I should've stuck w/ her more, and SOLIDIFIED the connection..
In a sense I 'pre-eject'
but getting their number and texting at the bar... and leaving when it makes sense makes it less you are TRYINg and less needy..
The epiphany I had was it should MAKE SENSE that you guys would talk again on the phone.. like you're talking to someone you know.. I SHOULD FEEL LIKE I WANT TO TALK TO HER (If I do, bet your bottom dollar she does too..)
25 year old blonde
I opened this one girl close to the dance floor.. went up to the group, STEPPED IN and just smiled with a funny face while looking at them.. i laughed, and said ey what's up guys?! lol.. I forgot what happend, think I got blown out..
I go outside, and I see the same girl again.. i'm talking to her roll in, my wing comes in starts talking to her.. don't care because one of her friends TALKS TO ME because we're having SO MUCH FUN! She's TOUCHING ME, laughing at everything.. her eyes are huge, etc. I'm cracking jokes she's touching me.. but nothing over the top.
Epiphany:
Try hard.. REFERENCE: A GIRL I KNEW.. a south asian girl her name stars w/ N, rhymes with urine.. she was a TRY HARD girl.. I do the same thing at times.
She asks me are you muslim? aren't your parents gonna be mad you're here? I'm like yeah probably.. she giggles.
Says something like.. OH, your parents would probably get so mad if you brought a white girl home.. i'm like oh they do already (lol.) She said she knew a muslim girl who got disowned because she married a white guy. i'm like oooh.. we're vibing here..
Lesson: I've noticed i've been naturally qualifying girls more.. whenever they used BIG WORDS,
wow have I found an actual intelligent girl in this mess? I used it twice tonight.. it was genuine.
Also and 'us vs. them' solidifies it too.. she says wow that girls ASS is showing, I dunno guys like that but how can you have self respect..
I giggle.. You can't have self respect by showing body parts?
Lesson: Without being an asshole.. laugh in a playful way at what they say..
Her, qualifies almost.. no, self respect. blah blah (i'm not even paying atteniton)
I grab her hand I'm like stand up.. she says no. I like TELL HER STAND UP.
she stands up.. I look at her ass..
She sits down..
"It's kinda big."
Me: "it's huge.."
I think she likes this.. portraying sexuality..
i don't even remember what I said.. just vibing really well. My wing pre-ejects.. not getting validation from girl or something.. he says lets go what mark is up to.. i'm like we should stay in here buddy... he leaves.
The vibe was.. i'm relaxed, getting to know them.. cracking jokes.
I tell her she's cute little package, and i wanna take her home..at the end.. I take down her number because my wing wants to go.. it makes sense I leave, I tell her i'm hungry and we should eat later.. (she mentioned hunger too.. as if she wanted the pull to happen.) She says okay..
[=rgb(255, 0, 255)]"Text me for sure.."[/]
"Okay sounds good.."
End of night my phone was dead.. fuck.. maybe i'll see her again.
Something i've noticed: I keep letting my wings take the hot girls, I think it might be an ego protection thing.. i'm going to start focusing on the hot ones so my intent is clear..
What else do I remember? Umm... see a girl I saw from the SAME WEEK wednedsay night in a local joint.. and we're out of town.
I think she's put my in chump status.. I open her, we're both shocked.. she's walking away, i'm like hmm.. NO YOU STOP, I give her a hug, I ask her if she likes my wing..
(Retarded..) She's like maybe, how old is he? I say the age.. Im like wow I want to keep you, I pick her up and put her down.. her BT goes up, i'm like you're lovely.. give me your number and i'll text you later (when she was leaving for friends.)
Mistake: should've texted her in between..
see her again later, a bit needy.. she's talking to her firends, i open her joke around w/ her.. talking BORING SHIT, not interesting..
REMEMBER: amuse ONLY myself..
She's like "Okay, i'm going to talk to my friends.." laaaaameee...
Umm... all I can remmeber for now.. swore I would make these shorter and more readable, along w/ saving myself more time.. until tommorow!! I'm off again.. 5th day in a row i'm going out..
One of the girls I number closed (Friend of chilean girl..)
Me: I love sundays.. you can just sleep all day :)
[=rgb(255, 0, 255)]Her: Wow.. you just woke up? Must be all the love drugs.. (she kept asking me what drugs i'm on..and i told her i was high on love for her)[/]
Me: Babe.. my bed with be better with your love.
[=rgb(255, 0, 255)]Her: Pg rated please and thank you <-- umm... not sure about this.. she didn't play along.. test? I didn't think so..[/]
Me: Ey not my fault you're tempting..
[=rgb(255, 0, 255)]Her: All your pick up lines are so original[/]
Me: i picked the best ones, only for you.. cuz you're kinda cool and fun ;]
[=rgb(255, 0, 255)]Her: Such a smooth talker[/]
I'll let it simmer for a while.. maybe text her later.. or maybe even never.. she's for sure hooked on my love drug...
Calavera
Yo, what up?!
Last night ha.. interesting night.
We seem to have a sick crew, which we have dubbed "THE GENTLEMENS CLUB"
Basically, two of my best buddies who are huge pimps and into this RSD shit.. along w/ two of the best naturals we know that are non-community.. lethal combination.. :) After reading Brad-'s FR I realize I have a long way to go.. but i'm so motivated it's ridiculous..
We roll out, we're in line.. being loud as fuck, doing ole ole ole, and a bunch of other things people are into it.. i'm not warmed up yet, Mark (best natural i know easily.. this guys BALDING AND FAT and gets more ass then ALL of my buddies.) He opens them up, they're totlaly into it.. i'm just chilling back..
One of the girls KEEPS LOOKING AT ME, giggling at everything I say.. it was like her BT was so high just by looking at me or something, I just chilled.. I saw her kept looking at me. Never ended up talking to her.. did see her again but all my buddies were all up on that ass, and she kept looking at me while they were trying.. I just laid back, hoping to see her again.. no luck, oh well! Poor girl :(
The french girl from madison night.. I may have played something wrong, some feedback would be wicked..
I text her:
You filled w/ my head w/ dirty thoughts..
[=rgb(255, 0, 255)]Her: I what?!?!?[/]
Me: Filled my head w/ dirty thoughts.. girl.. where you from?! You know what i meant ;]
[=rgb(255, 0, 255)]Her: Your last MSG needs to CHILLLL[/]
Me: Oh, I guess that was kinda of straight forward.. we can be like that where i'm from.
[=rgb(255, 0, 255)]Her: I'm not that type of girl, and we don't do that shit where I'M FROM.. respect.[/]
Boom done.. too straight forward? Hmm.. dunno, I tried to be: "unapologetic, then SOE" HMM...
Maybe I don't need all these tactics and shit, because girls assume i'm a 'good looking guy's o i must be getting laid.. and if i'm only after them for ass (which I humbly realize I need to qualify more..) and if i'm talking SEXUAL they think OH I'M JUST ANOTHER GIRL HE'S GONNA FUCK (even though i've only boned two girls ha..) Strange.. i've had SO MANY OPPORTUNITIES, but fuck them up somehow..
So realization: just CHILL BACK, don't talk about sex overtly.. LET THEM GAME YOU.. I've been reading Brad-'s fr's and they've been wanting me to be all SEXUAL and STRAIGHT FORWARD but it's not working for me.. I noticed with JEFFY's game at HOT SEAT, he NEVER talked SEX OVERTLY and the GIRLS Would bring up sex.
I roll out.. ended up getting a bunch of numbers.
I need to remember: OPEN VERY CHILL, hot searing coal open... remember tonality..
That works best for me.. Do NOT only focus on the girl.. and let her game you.
I'm walking.. see these two cuties, ey gus wha'ts up?!
One girl is insta hook for sure.. I can see it in her eyes, other one is like meh.. she can tell her friends into me.
I just lay back.. forgot the words.. but something about univeristies came up.. my tall girls Scandanavian, 19 years old.. tall hot, a model apparently lol.. and is going to school for kines. Her friend says "MIT" I am all impressed and shit.. even though I didn't want her to be honest,
I just found that to be sooo cool. turns out she was in the "MIT program" in a local university.. ha.. i'm disinterested immediately.
Back to my girl.. talking to her, joke joke joke.. I see my wings on the dance floor being idiots.. I must join them! I get her digits tell her i'll talk to her later..
I'm walking by, I see her talking to some dode whose being a full faggot and not escalating. I'm hesitant.. but i'm like fuck it!
I roll up talk to her directly, completely ignoring faggot.. he walks away, she loves me.. we're talking blah blah blah, I think I said she must've drank a lot of chocolate milk.. she pulls out her phone for some reason? I don't know if she asked me or what.. either way, she's putting in my number.. I bust her balls for having this old ass phone, in between I stop and say..
"You're not gonna stalk me are you? Are you emotionally mature?" Straight from 9ball..
She's like no I won't, i'm pretty mature.. i'm like okay cool, enters my number.. i'm walking away.
She follows me..
"Are you really popular?!"
I say "No.." I don't want to 'qualify myself' but this was retarded.. in this sense I could've playfully said: "Ofcourse I am" with a giant smile keeping it light.. but I said it somewhat serious.
Her face was like "Oh :/" Then why'd you ask me about that? I'm like well.. you never know with younger girls right (almost logical)
Bad game here..
Next time: More playful, and LIGHT <- I need to do this easily.. that's one thing I noticed about my buddy Mark..
Regardless.. i grab her, tel her she's lovely.. and kiss her.. she says "I don't kiss guys at bars" (even though I just did) I'm like it's cool.. and walk away.
Let's see what happens.. I legitimately liked this girl.. I'm starting to find my interactions are getting more and more connection, i'm getting to know the girl more.. Me liking them is coming through..
I honestly think I should've stuck w/ her more, and SOLIDIFIED the connection..
In a sense I 'pre-eject'
but getting their number and texting at the bar... and leaving when it makes sense makes it less you are TRYINg and less needy..
The epiphany I had was it should MAKE SENSE that you guys would talk again on the phone.. like you're talking to someone you know.. I SHOULD FEEL LIKE I WANT TO TALK TO HER (If I do, bet your bottom dollar she does too..)
25 year old blonde
I opened this one girl close to the dance floor.. went up to the group, STEPPED IN and just smiled with a funny face while looking at them.. i laughed, and said ey what's up guys?! lol.. I forgot what happend, think I got blown out..
I go outside, and I see the same girl again.. i'm talking to her roll in, my wing comes in starts talking to her.. don't care because one of her friends TALKS TO ME because we're having SO MUCH FUN! She's TOUCHING ME, laughing at everything.. her eyes are huge, etc. I'm cracking jokes she's touching me.. but nothing over the top.
Epiphany:
Try hard.. REFERENCE: A GIRL I KNEW.. a south asian girl her name stars w/ N, rhymes with urine.. she was a TRY HARD girl.. I do the same thing at times.
She asks me are you muslim? aren't your parents gonna be mad you're here? I'm like yeah probably.. she giggles.
Says something like.. OH, your parents would probably get so mad if you brought a white girl home.. i'm like oh they do already (lol.) She said she knew a muslim girl who got disowned because she married a white guy. i'm like oooh.. we're vibing here..
Lesson: I've noticed i've been naturally qualifying girls more.. whenever they used BIG WORDS,
wow have I found an actual intelligent girl in this mess? I used it twice tonight.. it was genuine.
Also and 'us vs. them' solidifies it too.. she says wow that girls ASS is showing, I dunno guys like that but how can you have self respect..
I giggle.. You can't have self respect by showing body parts?
Lesson: Without being an asshole.. laugh in a playful way at what they say..
Her, qualifies almost.. no, self respect. blah blah (i'm not even paying atteniton)
I grab her hand I'm like stand up.. she says no. I like TELL HER STAND UP.
she stands up.. I look at her ass..
She sits down..
"It's kinda big."
Me: "it's huge.."
I think she likes this.. portraying sexuality..
i don't even remember what I said.. just vibing really well. My wing pre-ejects.. not getting validation from girl or something.. he says lets go what mark is up to.. i'm like we should stay in here buddy... he leaves.
The vibe was.. i'm relaxed, getting to know them.. cracking jokes.
I tell her she's cute little package, and i wanna take her home..at the end.. I take down her number because my wing wants to go.. it makes sense I leave, I tell her i'm hungry and we should eat later.. (she mentioned hunger too.. as if she wanted the pull to happen.) She says okay..
[=rgb(255, 0, 255)]"Text me for sure.."[/]
"Okay sounds good.."
End of night my phone was dead.. fuck.. maybe i'll see her again.
Something i've noticed: I keep letting my wings take the hot girls, I think it might be an ego protection thing.. i'm going to start focusing on the hot ones so my intent is clear..
What else do I remember? Umm... see a girl I saw from the SAME WEEK wednedsay night in a local joint.. and we're out of town.
I think she's put my in chump status.. I open her, we're both shocked.. she's walking away, i'm like hmm.. NO YOU STOP, I give her a hug, I ask her if she likes my wing..
(Retarded..) She's like maybe, how old is he? I say the age.. Im like wow I want to keep you, I pick her up and put her down.. her BT goes up, i'm like you're lovely.. give me your number and i'll text you later (when she was leaving for friends.)
Mistake: should've texted her in between..
see her again later, a bit needy.. she's talking to her firends, i open her joke around w/ her.. talking BORING SHIT, not interesting..
REMEMBER: amuse ONLY myself..
She's like "Okay, i'm going to talk to my friends.." laaaaameee...
Umm... all I can remmeber for now.. swore I would make these shorter and more readable, along w/ saving myself more time.. until tommorow!! I'm off again.. 5th day in a row i'm going out..
One of the girls I number closed (Friend of chilean girl..)
Me: I love sundays.. you can just sleep all day :)
[=rgb(255, 0, 255)]Her: Wow.. you just woke up? Must be all the love drugs.. (she kept asking me what drugs i'm on..and i told her i was high on love for her)[/]
Me: Babe.. my bed with be better with your love.
[=rgb(255, 0, 255)]Her: Pg rated please and thank you <-- umm... not sure about this.. she didn't play along.. test? I didn't think so..[/]
Me: Ey not my fault you're tempting..
[=rgb(255, 0, 255)]Her: All your pick up lines are so original[/]
Me: i picked the best ones, only for you.. cuz you're kinda cool and fun ;]
[=rgb(255, 0, 255)]Her: Such a smooth talker[/]
I'll let it simmer for a while.. maybe text her later.. or maybe even never.. she's for sure hooked on my love drug...
Calavera
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"You do this for LOVE. Not because there's somethin missing in your life that you think it will fulfill."-Owen
"They say love is in the air, so I hold my breath till I turn purple. Keep a few bad bitches in my circle."
My field reports:
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/137773
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"You do this for LOVE. Not because there's somethin missing in your life that you think it will fulfill."-Owen
"They say love is in the air, so I hold my breath till I turn purple. Keep a few bad bitches in my circle."
My field reports:
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/137773
(practice offering value.. drop a comment!)
ambiguity
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Join Date: 10/28/2009 | Posts: 5200
I do caution you. Much of RSD material is dedicated to pulling, pick up, etc. I wish they would have a slight bit of info on relationship management. I've travelled all over the world. Not quite every where. My point is that, I've met and pulled girls from all over the world. Some were just temporary means of sexual bliss. They were physically attractive despite their inability to challenge me intellectually. Its fun but, that is it. Then again, I've met some awesome women who I would date.
Do not try to live up to a false sense of self. I have honestly missed out on opportunities due to commitment issues. If you meet a girl who actually reaches you on another level, see it through no matter what. Give it a chance.
I pull regularly. Like you, I am a good looking guy. The girls come to me with little to no effort. Tons of girls pick up me ironically enough. The reality is that, I project my reality and go out to put in my workd. Like the girls, I want the adventure of it all. The bathroom pulls, the hottie in the park or on the back seat of a car.
There are no excuses. The impulse is there & like that, on the highest note, she is up over my shoulders, and we are on the beach doing the no pants dance.
Every night? No. It doesn't work that way as I am sure you already no but, I still project myself. Like anything, everything that goes up must come down. It centers us. We are faced with the counter balance. A women that is of my equal or closely related beyond attraction is dateable. What I dislike is the victim card mentality. These females are dismissed after sex. There is nothing there for me.
I've been that relationship guy yeah.. I think girls took pride in settling me down into a relatinoship because i'm considered "good looking." I've always enjoyed relatinoships, and this whole player lifestyle was out of my reality.. but FUCK IT! I've lost tons of weight, i've stepped up in many other ways.. I'm certain I can do this too.
"No matter how she responds, anything but your reality is weird." <= LOVE THIS!
I think i get what this implies..you're so used to getting LAID, that if she weren't to do it it's WEIRD TO YOU.. awesome.
I think you have been that "relationship guy." Your relationships yielded sex. You were the suitor & it came as a result of a relationship.
Relinquish your attachment to security. Step into the unknown. Really push yourself. Go for the pull. Always go for the pull. No hesitation. No matter how she responds, anything but your reality is weird.
"what do you mean? Lets fuck... its fuck time."
Tyler:This is ultimately one of the keys to the game -- viewing EVERYTHING AS A JOKE. It's ALL funny.
Tim:`How can I make this fun?
brad:This thread got Ambiguity banned, you can thank me later.
Zack G: Ambiguity is becoming the Howard Roark of RSD!
Alex: "The famous ambiguity!" + "This is what happens when your naturally attractive; cheekyinnit#!
Ambiguity: I don't chase, I replace.