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December 9th, 2016
Calavera's Transformation
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Calavera

Calavera

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Hey boys.

I'm going to be updating this post, right now i'm listening to Foundations before heading out to have some fun. But basically, here are my goals that I want to be focusing on and I think this is the perfect place to be posting it and updating it on a regular basis.

My goals are as follows:
Be going out consistently and feeling good WITHOUT alcohol.
I want to have atleast two $HOT and COOL (girls I get along with) females in my life, that add to my life and I add to theirs.
I want to be 170 pounds and 7% bodyfat. (I'm around 6 feet tall, and 187 pounds about 15% bodyfat lets just say.)
I want to get straight A's.
I want to start up PPC, and atleast make $15/day. This I will focus on during holidays from school, and summer.

So: game, body,school, money, ppc.
I also want to boost my productivity and will be listneing ot some productivity programs, and reading some books.

I have all the resources, and I just need to discipline myself. I've had these goals but not the crystal clear focus that I once had and it's pissing me off (leverage.) I was going to write it in my notes, but a yelow flag went off saying I need to take action NOW.. and here's the action. Here I am posting my goals, I plan on writing FR's as apparently they help and you fine gentlemen can critique your game. I'm in college right now, so I can do the college/social circle game or go out. However, I find the girls in my group aren't SUPER FINE. I want to be talking to 9's.

I'll be updating this with more detail, and my story for you all. Thanks.

Edit:
i'm going to list my distractions.
I want ot get my inner game tight again as well. I want to improve myself, this is what it means to be the "being" rather then the "doing." being my BEST SELF, I want to work on my inner game.
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Tom Whale

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Good stuff man. Sounds like a fine start. Keep going and you will get all the things that you want.
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Calavera

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Busy w/ an assignment worth 40%, will update soon.
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"They say love is in the air, so I hold my breath till I turn purple. Keep a few bad bitches in my circle."

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Calavera

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I'm trying to re-concile a lot of different ideas.

I want concentration of my power.. I want to get PHENOMENAL in school as graduate school is going to be something i'm interested in inevitably.
School, Body, Inner Game, and PPC.

I have a new dilemma....Beer. I love it. I love the delicious taste of it! When it is cold and awesome. I'm going to have to consider Beer my REWARD for taking RIGHT ACTION! I have a buddy who enjoys tons of beer, however works out HARD and is in the shape I exactly want to be! I might have to just limit, and work out harder.

I want true 9's and 10's! I have in all honesty only slept with two girls! I'm WICKED at opening, and hooking at times... but the close is still foreign to me. (I have just come out of a two year relationship, when I was getting really into the game I met this girl who I decided to get into a relationship with and it fucked with me gettin' jiggy w/ it.. but she was awesome!) My inevitable goal is not to be awesome at CLUB GAME.. but it's to be my best self. I do want to be in 'STATE' more but I think I can do that with practising PRESENCE more, and taking RIGHT ACTION into goals that are important to ME.

For me to get the 9's and 10's i'm talking about (not just physically, but on all levels,) I  must first become 9 and 10 to get them. I need to get ripped physically and work on inner game.

My goal is not to have a relationship right now, my goal is to have two or three HIGH QUALITY GIRLS that ADD to my life and are doing something with theirs and are down to mess around.

I'm not interested in attracting girls that frequent clubs, I want to focus more on daygame, social circle, online game, etc. More inner game focus then clubs. I'm a NATURALLY social guy so for me to 'go out' isn't an issue, all my buddies are tight naturals that throw tons of parties and get laid.

I want to create positive habits, specifically ones that will help me 'chill out' as apparenly according to Alex~ chill guys get laid!
Here they are: Meditation, Yoga, Running, Eckhart Blitzkriegs.

I have been slacking hardcore in school. After finishing up this assignment, essay, and doing two mid-terms I basically forgot about school went out a lot, and indulged in facebook, msn, etc.
work on self hardcore.

I want to finish and implementing Eben Pagan's Productivity program.. wicked program, I just have to finish it and implement it!
I want to get rid of MSN, facebook, etc.
I want to drink much less, and be more sober--a drink or two isn't bad.

PPC: My goal is to try it out, see if I like it. If it is for me then I will go in HARDCORE as it is something that can fund my internally motivated goals and growth.

I realised right action is KEY to state. I think it has something to do with the fact it leads to GROWTH.. You feel more fulfilled and happy when you are growing, and this is done with right action. I love it.. I have to make little changes in my life, and I find it helps gain momentum I will do this by eliminating small habits and so on.

It's around my bed time (10:30 pm,) i'm gonna hit the sack and finish this up. I'm starting to see the picture clearly now more so! So many decisions... :) It's tough sometimes.
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Calavera

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YOYO homeboys.

I deleleted MSN.

Oh.My.God.

Why is this such a big deal?
I've been addicted to that shit for the past  7 years! SEVEN MOTHERFUCKING YEARS. The reason I was addicted to it was mainly GIRLS--talking to girls ONLINE. I was comfortable talking to them ONLINE, but not in person. In highschool, the girl I had the biggest crush on me and her would click so hardcore on MSN but in person I was a nervous WRECK. My hands were in my pocket, I wouldn't say much.. my hands STAYED IN MY JACKET! I remember we were on a double date, and the dude that was with me felt sympathy for me...
Online, I would get a RUSH of endorphins whenever girls I was into would message me, and i'm SURE they got the same thing back. But what a time eater! I recently re-read Tyler's Productivity entry on his blogspot, and yeah it definitely needs to be cut. It's deleted and I will keep it to a minimum. I woke up from a nap, with a strong compulsion to go on MSN--NO MORE.

The one girl i've been trying to lay for about 1 month (I know, very lame) was mainly through MSN/texts. We've had three meet ups since our first encounter. The story with this chick was I could've gotten the lay in the FIRST night, she was brushing my cock, etc. we were isolated but her friends cockblocked (probably not on purpose they were drunk.) then we starte dcommunicating over text messages/msn and I realised it has been set-up into a long-term thing (not on purpose, more so because she was very busy.) Last two times i've tried to fool w/ her she's told me "The clothes don't come off," which is bullshit... I started fingering her, and so much more ;] I just need to get good at overcoming LMR.. I realized one of the things was I wasn't comfortable myself, and most important i wasn't in a SUPER SEXUAL STATE MYSELF.. I had to lead her w/ my STATE. Last encounter, I got super hardcore into it.. and girl got sucked into it. Even when I stopped after she told me clothes don't come off, she was sucking on my neck, brushing my chest, etc. etc. while i'm laying there cold turkey. I recovered from it doing down the shitter. I'm being MUCH MORE PLAYFUL and MUCH MORE SEXUAL. However, I give myself props for taking right action as I did just come out of a relationship and this is me first blondie. I recently read Brad's "How to get laid on the first date," and realized my mistake was i'm doing too many cherishing things and texting/talking ot her everyday! I'm really ENJOYING me connecting w/ her, but i can't forget my long-term vision!

I've been spending way too much time talking to this one girl via MSN/text messages and lost sight of my long-term vision. True pimpness/player stylezzz. I sent a couple of texts got a solid meet up with the baking girl for sunday, and next weeks plans w/ another girl (she's a virgin though so this can be bad and in our social circle.) My EX has recently contacted me as well (the crazy one everybody on the board told me to stay the fuck away from [check out my other posts]) pouring her heart out saying she still wants to be in my life (as a 'friend') saying how she started taking birth control again... how she's not okay w/ me banging other girls but as long as i'm wrapping it up and not bragging to her it won't bother her as much.... I'm weary and will play w/ her consciously, she was a good friend before I started dating her so I'm going to keep her in my life still. I will keep our meet ups to once or twice a week, to keep pair bonding to a minimum.

Either way, I'm meeting up w/ this other girl I met up at a party on sunday--she's going to bake for me :) cuddle challenge (thanks stefan!) works wonders... Let's see. My sticking point seems to be Day 2's and getting lays right away.

And my sticking point ALSO seems to be approaching lol... I was an APPROACH MACHINE. in my group of friends, i was known for doing RIDICULOUS openers. ALA   My opener: "MY NEURONS ARE FIRING" Total outlandish shit. I've been resting on my laurels hard! However, i've decided clubs are NOT for me.. I just need to get up early and be productive! That is my purpose, I have many other goals to focus on... having a few fuck buddies, and approaching girls through out the day will be perfect. Either way, i've been slacking on approaches hardcore! for some reason my INTENT drives me like i'll STEP FORWARD to approach but something will say "NO, DON'T DO IT!" I wonder what it is? I doubt it's the player ego... I know I suck,, i' been out of the game for 2 years! i will have to listen to foundations, and read over brad's articles and start approaching again :) It's just a limiting belief stopping me, I know there's a beast that will be unleashed on these hoes.

I will be posting up what my 'distractions' are soon, and my whole story. My background, how I got into this shit, so on and so forth.

I also will tone down drinking hardcore. Something manwhore said on this board really got to me, something to the effect of: you can't really experience true growth, or know where you are at if you are high or drunk; being sober, and totally exposing yourself naked will lead to true growth. (I will post up the quote I found it, motherfucking inspiring shit.) This will help me attain that model body i'm looking for, which is so near reach I can feel it.

December, I will have the whole month to focus and immerse myself in PPC to make tons of cash and get this journey of my life financed! :) Our school recently got a first semester 'reading week.' Fucking university of toronto... Either way, right action for the win boys!

Calavera
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"You do this for LOVE. Not because there's somethin missing in your life that you think it will fulfill."-Owen

"They say love is in the air, so I hold my breath till I turn purple. Keep a few bad bitches in my circle."

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Calavera

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Dec.28.2009

Venue: Rockwood in Toronto
Wing(s): nickromeo

I've decided to go out consistently, three nights a week. Two nights a week in Mississauga, and once a week in Toronto. Why? Whenever I go to Toronto it is almost GUARANTEED I will stay late, considering im' in school I can not always do that, I need to be awake and alert and be productive--I need to get the grades for Graduate School. However, I always found excuses saying I can't do both--fuck that shit, I can fucking do it. I outlined some goals, but my main focus now: game, gym, school.

I wasn't even planning on going out tonight.. AT ALL. As in, I was so tired from the gym and travelling all day (just came back from Ann Arbour Michigan) that I was just laying around all day, not even being productive as I had one of the toughest work outs in my life (YMCA in the states.) But, I had my motivation.. I know what I wanted, and decided to text up nickromeo. Make the myths. Last night was in Toronto, I met up with nickromeo who happens to be from the same area at a coffee shop near our place. We meet up, discuss our 'game,' what we know about it, how long we've been in it, etc. etc. Nick's a cool ass guy, and we've both committed to going out regularly. He went to the world summit and had a wealth of knowledge to share, I tried to just shut my mouth and listen and that was cool--I can tell Nick went out regularly, he was funny, and knew his sticking points and so on.

My game: I do mostly daygame, i've been out to the clubs couple of time mostly involving drinking and wings that are totally natural with tons of inside jokes and so on so that would get me into state but i'm almost dependent on these guys and would rarely hit state, I can't do this shit solo, nor w/o dependency on alcohol, this was when I WAS going out to clubs/bars regularly now the social muscle has atrophied since then. I've been told my verbal game is tight, but my physical escalation is awkward--I either go "total faggot or full rapist" as Jeffy says. (I've been told this by two female friends.) I'm trying to learn the balance. I've been told if I can get the girl 'alone,' then i'll do just fine but my group/club game SUCKS. I was very ANTI-clubs for a long time and I still am to some point, staying up super late, drinking, type of people, etc. Not my cup of tea, but reading Ryan's article recently got me pretty motivated. The analogy of it being the best gym for this skill really hit home, and i've decided clubs are where this warrior will practise. Club warrior baby. 

My goal for the next little while is to just GO THE FUCK OUT FOR THREE NIGHTS A WEEK, and OPEN. THAT IS IT! Just open. I've been KJ'ing a bit too hard and no more chode shit. I want results. I've realised I just need to make it a habit to go to the clubs, like the gym.. I need to start enjoying going to the club and having fun, become really at home w/ it and have 'goalless practise.'

I didn't at all tonight, my physical escalation was WEAK at best. I was going in just thinking i'm going to open this girl, "I WANT THIS GIRL" and my brain wouldn't give me ANYTHING to work with. Nick really helped pick me up here, teaching me some dance moves, we broke the ice on the dance floors ourselves doing ridiculous dancing and bunch of state pumps jumping up and down whenever we'd be losing momentum. I had the social momentum going, but the club upstairs was SO PACKED and the sets burnt out a little too early. We went to some sets about two, three times. Some of the girls in there hated us, SUCCESS! lol, everytime that occurred me and nick wold high five each other and say yes, our job is done... Why the fuck not? We totally suck, and i've heard even on bootcamp they say stay in until they tell you to get the fuck out of there.

I could tell Nick overall is a cool guy, we're talking about our game and in the process we're semi-making fun of it and just coming up with our own little jokes along the way. Nick's the power ranger of attraction, and we both proceed to make 'morphin' time' poses for the club. I actually went in thinking, man... I'm out of practise, going to go out to see a bunch of dudes into this shit (that was the plan, just turned out to be us,) i'm going to chode and not even open (re-experiencing AA recently.) I was fucking worried... but soon as we roll in, i'm opening nooo problemo.

We roll to the club, right away start talking to this U.K. dude that parked beside us nothing just fluff talk trying to get the social juices flowing. Talk to a bunch of honies in the line, no biggie. Ugs, Nick starts hitting it off with the Mexican girl infront of us talking some Italian shit (that stud,) and getting her a bit hooked the fat friend didn't even turn around. They go in, I joke around with the line girl whether or not she likes my hat, she hates it, and I laugh and we proceed. WOooo. Go in, coat check. Hotties in the club, I want to be excited but my bodies tired. We grab corona's (it's the holidays boys,) and we roll upstairs.  Nick was getting attraction, I think it was multple time in the night we would open two girls and the girl would be feeling nick and my girl wouldn't be, and the girl would pull her away. Ooops Nick. The whole night, I think I semi-hooked multiple girls.. Nick said it best, I can open consistenyl and the girls will not think im' creepy i'll be normal, but after couple of minutes boom..i'm not 'building' attraction. I'll go in, girls will be like ooohhh what is this? Then after seeing me for a bit are like, okay.. not interested. I'm micromanaging, and trying to come up with some funny to say.. i'm not chill and present. Not vommitting, etc. etc. The light in their eye extingushes. My voice is weak and not loud. There was I believe one girl I hooked this whole night who happend to be the bottle service girl, couldn't even number close at the end of the night because of logistics (us leaving, her running around because of work, etc.) Am I happy? Yes, I went the fuck out we opened all the sets, and we burned all the sets to the ground. As in.. we got told to fuck off twice. The funniest was the girl who told us to leave, though she definitely loved us.. she was like "okay, you may leave now" my response: "oh yeeeah baby, that's hot i love it when you talk dirty" totally absurd. "No seriously, get out of here" "okay, give me more" I'm totally enjoying it and don't care, and me and nick are having fun with it.. she's catually starting to loosen up and laugh, but because the friends are around and she's playing the 'hero' she sticks w/ that roll we leave. Good times. We ended up going to the after hours to debrief, meeting up with Farlox and medic and just talking about game and future get togethers.. beginning of something good. Going out again tonight, woooo!

I realised the problem also was I was doing a LOT of chodeversation. Biggest mistakes... "where are you from" and question upon question upon question. I wasn't ESCALATING smoothly, being chill, and just making STATEMENT.

One funny encounter from last night:

Short girl.
Me: 'you're short'
her: are you hating on short people.
Me: yeah (with a giant smile)
her: she just laughs.
me: but really, i don't like them.
her: i'm going to slap you.
me: rawr, i'm into that.
her: laughs, you'rea freak.
me: sometimes :D huge smile
her friends are hearing this and giggling and liking it.
but too bad the girl was an UG to the max.

Thought that was a funny little encounter, worth sharing.

Again.. my criteria for success was opening, and just going out... but, I feel like i'm shorting myself! I know I have done more in the past, and if I end up going out tonight i'm going to pushing it more. LESS CHODEVERSATION, full on positive dominant style, and more woooo.

I just had a huge epiphany that me going out is actually GOOD FOR ME, because i'm socializing and having fun and it'll re-energize me for school! rather then staying in and drinking beer with buddies, PLUS IT'S FUN! I always thought of it as a 'chore' omg going to the club.. but I forget that couple of times i've gone out i've felt AMAZING the next day... i'm re-framing the 'i hate clubs' to it's a necessity in this part of my life right now, because i have the natural urge to have sex, and for me to go out is actually a GOOD THING in the long-term. I'm not going to be a club dude forever.
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Calavera

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Oh, I failed a congruence test yesterday I just thought of. Girl asks me how old I am:
I answer logically.. (bad move) 23 years old.
She says she's 25 years old, she's like my friends are over there and tehy're your age I can introduce you to them like that one over there, friend looked kinda hot but my eyes were set on the blondey so I just waved politely to the friend who waved back flirtatously and moved back to the blonde saying.
"I want you."
Her response: You're too young.
MY WEAK RESPONSE: It's only 2 years difference.

Correct response:
"Thank you"
or
"I love banana bread."

What does this tell me? THE GIRL LIKED ME! I intiially encountered her with a group of friends but went straight up to her and said hey how's it going. Her response was VERY warm and friendly, so she actually captured my atteniton rather then me just mechanically approaching the girl. She could feel this, I was escalating physically, I had her giggling and everything but she was like i'm gonna get going my friends are over there. Girl leaves, go for the number before she leaves she says if you find me again I will give it to you.

I get dared by another girl to go approach her again, I just go up and straight up try to molest her. She's being slightly bitchy, giving me tests as I demand for her phone number (Isn't it funny, this means that she LIKES ME and is INTERESTING IN ME! Haaaa)

Live and learn. Newb mistakes.

Calavera
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"You do this for LOVE. Not because there's somethin missing in your life that you think it will fulfill."-Owen

"They say love is in the air, so I hold my breath till I turn purple. Keep a few bad bitches in my circle."

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Went out downtown again with one of my good natural friends, and one of my good female friends (who gives me feedback on my game and semi-knows what i do.)

We ended up at the bar at midnight, two hours to go--i'm exhausted because the previous night i stayed up smoking weed with friends until like 5 am (i let myself indulge because it's holidays, but i don't think this behaviour is that great.) Either way, go in and these two are just WATCHING ME hardcore. My buddy knows about the game and is just talking to me, and telling me which girls to approach. I interpret it negatively and tell him that i'll approach wheni feel like it. He was trying to help, but when i'm out i think I just prefer to do it when i feel like it-pressure-free, and so on. I push myself, howeverto some extent i think an external form of pressure would be a good thing--kind of like bootcamp. Either way, only had three major approaches tonight--time was, and by around 1 am i was totally utterly tired; yawning constantly, and physically just drained. Either way, I approached one of the hottest girls in the bar--full on grabbing her stylez, eye contact, and finding out about her--turns out she's from a rival university, and making fun of it n shit. I did a direct opener, teling her she was hot and then proceeding into making fun of her. Then I froze, and basically was like who are you here w/--she introduced mt to her friends which were at a table, and the friends were being SUPER COLD at the table. As in, when i reached to shake their hands say what's up they wouldn't shake my hand. Meh... whatever. at this point I just left, I don't know what I should've done. Just go back to the girl eventually after she's away from the group? or what? Hopefully you guys can help.

Another approach I realized a VITAL part of my game, if i'm going to be doing direct shit n escalating.. after my intiial i pause a bit and don't know what to say. I remember Tyler saying the 80/20 rule in the beginning of the conversation until the hook point or value inversion as alex~ calls it. So I need to go in and start spitting random stories in my life.

figured out a major weakness in my game, which is after my direct opener and touch i run out of things to say. Why does that occur? I think it's a. 'cause i'm not too present and chill, and just thinking uhhh.... my 'routine' is going in direct now with "your hot" and physical escalation. Now i gotta go up and start spitting out random stories that come up, and as nickromeo pointed out making more observations and shit. It's fucking funny, i've been KJ'ing hardcore for a while and going out CONSISTENTLY is so fucking vital.

Calavera
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"They say love is in the air, so I hold my breath till I turn purple. Keep a few bad bitches in my circle."

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Ended up at the bar downtown.
Feeling fantastic, i'm in a good state--cracking jokes, self amusing, shits coming through me. Soon as I get to the bar.. talking to the stamp girl and bouncer, joking around. We eventually sit down, and order nachos as it's relatively early and place is all just b-day parties, at tables.. hasn't transformed into the bar. Either way.. waitress cute as fuck, i'm with one of my natural friends he's a VERY cool dude, and naturally self amusing and amazing w/ women. Either way, starts joking arond w/ her i crack some jokes too. I notice she finds me attractive, her pupils dilate initially but i'm in my head and just being WEIRD. Her and my buddy hit it off, i start thinking in my head shit his game is tight (losing MY reality,) and the second watiress comes and I notice she's feeling me..and that makes me feel good for some (drawing state externally?) and I notice she's wearing a butterfly necklace.

So I just look at her and say: so are you a butterfly? in a funny, semi-teasing/ self amusing way. (something semi-retarded and after I said it I semi-thoght man that's not even remotely funny or smart,)

she responds: oh, it was just a gift.

Starts qualifying herself. i'm an attractive, and cool dude I FORGET that. I'm negative about myself I realized, and I give up my reality by giving a bit to much props to dude and forget my OWN Value. Either way...

I've really been hitting girls i'm REALLY attracted to, and the hotties. NO FEAR--fuck this shit, I want hot girls in my life. I also realized a bit more that I need to practise presence more, and not have that 'pimp'ego which I have developed--it really crashes my state at times. I'm starting to catch it though, and trying to work on it.

Either way,

Me and a buddy break the dance floor--we get some orbiters occurring, but they are mediocore at best. I kindof loafted around and didn't open, wasn't 'feeling'it.

My natural buddy and I just hang out and a couple of other friends show up. Wére just shooting the shit having fun, then my budy taps me shoulder and says come with me. Me and him go in onto a table, WOW--i'm usually weary of tables but going in and not going where I was going in--I guess the three second rule in effect, led me to go in w/o any issues. We're joking around and the girl is feeling me slighly, and slightly not.

I will continue this soon.

but important lessons: going out reuglalry is important if you are not getting laid because it gives you the fundamental BASE of how logistiically you can work in bars, and that field intuition. I always read that but I undersand it, it gives you the STRUCTURE and peripherally being aware of logistical stuff such as friends blocking, and so on.

Girls LOVE dudes w/ social superior skills. I go open a girl,

"hey, zebra girl " (she's wearing black and white shirt,) talk to her for a bit and then take her back to the table above and introduce her as one of my friends. The table thinks i'm a long-term friends of her, and she thinks i'm friends w/ them. I just sit down and talk to zebra girl, zebra girl and our conversation is turning into chodeversation. Then she realises that I had just met these people, I see an emotional spike. I see a 2 set me and a buddy opened up earlier on in that night, giving periphary IOI's seeing this all happen--all the girls gigling, and me even chatting up the dues and owning up the table. After I leave table, i open those girls up again--the one i like i'm just talking to her mostly and the friend LEAVES US ALONE. I wasn't physical at all with this, she likes me I can tell but then tells me: you know what yo look like my friend, but the problem is.. you're too friendly, and a bit tight. (It seemed so genuine that I took it as feedback, especially w/ her i wasn't PHYSICAL.)

My uiltimate success: going in direct, being persistent, being present, and just self amusing--POSITIVITY IS SO KEY!!

Funniest interaction: my buddy is dancing w/ this girl somehow pisses her off, and she punches him in the nuts. Afterwards while we're all dancing, she comes in the middle of the circle and starts jerking off her imaginary phallis in the group (this is like an 8, with a tongue ring doing this RANDOMLY!) Honestly, we're cool dudes--so all of us are like WTF THAT IS JUST RETARDED type shit. And eyecode her friend w/ weird eyes, "your friend is being weird." LATER ON I see her and i like point at her and i'm like woah it's this girl. she tries to punch me:
oooh baby, I love it.I love it when you touch me like that. (positivty and retardedness,)
her: fuck you, bla bla bla (don't remember her swearing at me.. i don't understand why i don't know her at all
me: wow, i love it when you talk shit to me like that.. it's turning me on (while i'm like feeling her up)
Then she is looking in her purse for money for a drink. Keep talking to her, whatever.
She seems sad, no moneys and wants a drink.
Buy me a drink she demands.

I mentally backhand her. "make out w/ me and i will"
"okay "
Ï go on, she objects.  "/i won't make out w/ you pfbtssh"
Asks me to buy a drink again, I say no--then she leaves.

Honestly.. I don't even CARE I didn't make out w/ this girl, i'm just proud of my positivity and just turning that shit around. I bet that will work wonders, my social intuition tells me in the near future.

Importance: befriend and offer value to EVERYBODY! logistically you never know when it will work in your favour. I approach hotty, doesn't work out. Talk to some people, turn out to be her friends--I bust her balls w/ my new friends (hers originally, lol) then I make out w/ her infront of them. Glory times.

Also, just butting infront in a line is much easier if you are congruent with good posture and have hot girls w/ you.

Talking w/ 9's and 10's best to go indirect.
There are two types of fatty: jolly and angry.

Intuition tells you which girls like an AGGRESSIVE man, while some prefer an INTELLECTUAL man.

When talking w/ 9 w/ fatty friend, talk to fatty friend soon as you see her befriend and have fun!

Lessons learnt, having dancing my repertoire would add to getting the girl.

I will list my internal thought processes, and stream of inner game soon.

EYE CONTACT is so key, being chill is so key, having FUN and them being retarded puppy dogs in your periphary is key.

"Dudes that come into set: potential new friends! kill any thoughts of them being boyfriends, or even douchebags.

Edit: I just re-read this and realized it is VERY choppy, and disorganized. I will organize it and revise it tommorow, Cheers.

Calavera
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"You do this for LOVE. Not because there's somethin missing in your life that you think it will fulfill."-Owen

"They say love is in the air, so I hold my breath till I turn purple. Keep a few bad bitches in my circle."

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http://www.rsdnation.com/node/137773
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Calavera

Calavera

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Ended up at the bar, my favourite opener now is:
 "Guys.. i've got so much money"

When they tell you to buy a drink: only if yo make out w/ me... got a few 'kisses'out of that tonight.

Will update tommorow.


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"You do this for LOVE. Not because there's somethin missing in your life that you think it will fulfill."-Owen

"They say love is in the air, so I hold my breath till I turn purple. Keep a few bad bitches in my circle."

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http://www.rsdnation.com/node/137773
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Clearly by tommorow I meant 6 months later.

To be honest, I didn't stick w/ it, and other areas of my life needed attention.
I started focusing more on my money side, and long-term career goals.. now that the momentum is there, and I have learnt some time management skills and improved certain health habits, and gotten better friends I can focus on this area of my life again. I needed this time away to build that internal value again.. I was putting too much value on women... I have better mindsets, and things I have learnt along the way. I think it's necessary sometimes to take a 'break,' an interesting thing I noticed soon as I took a BREAK is when I had the MOST epiphanies (counter to Mastery actually,) and I believe it was because of a mixed mental set (google it,) and the incubation period aloud some creativity to arise.

Went out wednesday night to see one of my favourite artists (KO Kapsches from Toronto if anyone is interested.)
We get to the venue, empty totally at 9:30, I am chilling by the bar and I see this cutie walk by :) I look at her and just say hey.. that's all that I wanted to say at that point, came 'through' me. This seems to be key.. just chilling, not 'trying' and TRUSTING your brain/universal intelligence/etc. will send something 'through' you.

Either way, sit down me and my buddy (one of the best naturals I know,) just hanging out.. girl coincidentally sits a few seats away
Me: look at her, hey come sit with us (considering it's empty and I said hey)
Her: I need to sit here to take pictures, it's a better view
Me: We have a pretty clear view of the stage here (with a smile)
She looks at me, smiles, and comes over.. (whicked)

Just shoot the shit.. i was nervous/in my head slightly, she could tell, so i just started talking to my buddy (left of me,) and her (right of me,) until I broke the walls and the converation started flowing.. owned that shit up, turned out she's there for some magazine writing article on this guy and is into SEO/PPC (which I dabbled with recently.) Either way.. then KO comes on stage, THERE ARE MORE IMPORTANT THING TO BE HAD, we leave her go to the front. TOTALLY OWNING THAT SHIT UP! Clearly the loudest, most fun guys there in this like EMPTY VENUE (build state from w/ in.) Joking around w/ guys beside us, having fun, offering value and vice versa... yelling requesting songs. KO in between pulls out like 5-6 joints and hands them out (I grabbed one of 'em luckily :D..I hate it because it makes me lethargic, but this is an exception. ) Soon as he's done the show, the guys we randomly were joing aound w/ know KO's agent and are like you come with us to blaze with him. It was like that horny loud girl in the club who is blessed to see a shinin' RSD boy and games him... extreme joy! :D We go out, meet up w/ him, offer respects, talk shit... blaze one.

Interesting thing I noticed, KO's indecisiveness whether where we should go and I was like LETS GO! Made the decision, totally being 'normal' w/ him while other chodes are taking value (TR tonality, etc.) Joke around with these guys.. peace out head to karaoke bar.

I'm scared shitless of public speaking, and karaoke.. I can open huge sets, joke around, be loud, etc. (depending..) but that was slightly fear inducing.. I have been doing some inner work to overcome this, an analogy that really helped was thinking of it as a VERY HEAVY WEIGHT that semi scares you but you can do it.. it's that kinda of 'social pressure' I have to overcome. Either way, my buddy goes up owns up the songs (good singer,) bitches are coming up to him complimenting him, his hat (stylish dude,) etc. etc. He games the bartender, I game the hostess, THE WHOLE BAR STAFF IS HANGING AROUND our table (super hot bitches,) mad proof... tried to pull hostess (lets go to a restaurant,) she wasn't down... Meh. Not bad for a wednesday night.. still mad FUN! That is exactly what I need right now, get back into that STATE of being social and fun :D

Last night:
go out to Hess Vilage in Hamilton.. if you boys are ever in that area.. GO!!! Fucking pick up HEAVEN. I honestly think living there (minus the fact you can get cancer because of all the industraial shit in the area,) there is so much to be had boys! Imagine a giant strip of bars (with like 20 of them,) bars with $3 shots for those are alcoholically inclined, hot clubs, dive bars, etc. good combination of EVERYTHING! :)

Either way.. go in with two of my best natural buddies. These guys get more then Genghis Khan. Go out, totally positivly dominant!!
We find some parking, go to 'sidebar' get a few shots, i'm not really talking to anybody slightly stifled.. go into this new venue, alright place... ratio of girls to guys is ridicuslous. like 3:1.
Get in.. dance floor, shots, talking to the bouncer, bartender, girls beside me.. i'm repulsing them like I got fucking feces on my face or some shit. Totally humourous... I DO NOT CARE lol.
I go in this set, (I like to think of them as a rep.. keep pushing reps even if it's shitty,) I'm in this set, i'm SWEATING, i'm RED, I'm nervous.. I even tell them they're making them nervous. I'm like NO, i WILL stay in set.. I've had WAY too many 'successes' by just STICKING IN SET, persistence, etc. They totally walk away... GREAT SUCCESS! :) I took action, and that is all I care about.

AGAIN i've said this befor ei'll say it again... peripherally aware what they are feeling, while staying positive and persistence...

HUGE EPIPHANY (been watching blueprint again.. motherfuckin' gold!!! so true you learn again.) KEY:
INDIFFERENCE to the girl... the girl WANTS TO GAME YOU!!!

Again: girls want to GAME YOU!!!

Let her game you man..

So I do a few sets, build up some momentum...
Positives:
End of night, I open a girl my buddy did, totally into me-i'm talking bullshit, spinning her around telling me to show her posture (she's a massage therapist,) etc. etc. Touching her, she's touching me (I love cute girls.. we need to lay them more boys!!!)
Me, my buddy (whose kinda just chillin' doesn't feel like talkin')
Talking to this girl flirting it up.. her two friends come in, male female.. joke around w/ tthem. Dudes trying to tool us..  say he looks like this good looking guy he knows (in a stupid way,) then says saying racist shit (i'm south asian,) i'm like ha.... something about my lips..
mistintrepet.
"Woah dude.. first you tell my buddy he's cute, now you're talking about my lips.. I mean, I go tnothing against gay people but i'm straight.."
His state drops.. I hate doing that, but if he wants to fuck around mang..

Either way, this girls totally into me i'm like yo lets go get shawerma (venue change,) to the whole group.. female friend not down, wants street meat.
I'm like nah fuck that it's not healthy!! shawerma tastes so good.. nothing. The girl is like aw I have to go w/ my friend (even after friend left she's telling me this..)
Then asks me whether i want to come for street meat? AKA she wants my meat on the street.
I'm like nah... (thinking of standards.) but I say "I like you, give me your number" (BR,) she writes it putting it on my chest.. gives me a hug. awesome..
bouncer is watching all of this.. comes to me and is like YO what are you doing?? go get street meat with her NOW! I'm like fuck, what am I THINKING?!
go for it.. she's surrounded by friends.. meh. We bounce, pull away my buddy from a chick he's making out w/ hahah.

KEY: indifference, ONLY AMUSING SELF, the fuckin' buyer/seller frame is SO GOLD it's not even funny. Not laughing at everything, but smiling and it's obvious you'[re not really amused.. she never has you 'fully.'

I'm laughing, humor, getting touch going on more easily.. a few shots in the beginning of the night realy help.. like here and there. Nothing major and it helps me stay sober, and learn...

Another interesting thing that happend..
My buddies are dancing, after dancing I go sit down and just CHILL... I just felt like sitting, needed some rest from lack of sleep.
I see these two girls dancing, extremely fun girls you can tell totally having fun smiling/lauging.. i'm laughing too whenever I see them do something humorous, semi-interested.. but not really. they notice me..
they move from where they are right infront of my chair dancing. I'm looking at the TV (left of them,) and semi at them... they're dancing infront of me and i'm not paying attention.
They move closer in.. dancing more provacatively with a smile on their face. I smile/laugh whenever I see something I like..
Dudes come in, start dancing with them.. nothing yet.
I just chill.. these girls ditch the guys, AND ONE BY ONE BY ONE GRIND ON ME.. asses in my crotch and i'm still kinda indifferent. Taking turns, etc. FALLING and touching me up completely... etc. etc. I HAVEN'T SAID SHIT..

Why did this occur?? Identity Snapback I guess.. wanted validation, I didn't give it to them.. they kept dancing, this girl put her hands on my knees and was dancing up. In retrospect it's pretty hot (i'm getting a boner writing about it.)
I was like okay play it cool, indifference... then they eventually LEFT! FUCK... what the fucks hould have I done?? Talked to my natural buddies they said shoul have taken action sooner.. can't play it too long (seems correct.)

ANY FEEDBACK WOULD BE GREAT! :)

I also realized the key to being one of those STATE PUMPER GUYS: POSITIVE and LOUD, frame: we are the SHIT! (an 'us' mentality.. we are one troop)
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Representing RSD in Toronto.

"You do this for LOVE. Not because there's somethin missing in your life that you think it will fulfill."-Owen

"They say love is in the air, so I hold my breath till I turn purple. Keep a few bad bitches in my circle."

My field reports:
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/137773
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