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October 30th, 2014
What do you do when a girl really pisses you off?
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Icemonkey

Icemonkey

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Join Date: 01/03/2009 | Posts: 38

Hello everyone.

I don't post on here as much as I should.

Anyway, I was thinking about something and thought I'd ask some random people their opinion on something.

What do you do when a girl really pisses you off? When you know she knows exactly what to say to piss you off and keeps saying it until she gets a reaction? You can only smile, laugh, or ignore her so much. At some point, you have to tell her to shut up.

Personally, I sometimes tell girls to shut up right when they start to say something stupid. Right after they finish saying whatever it was, you say, "SHUT UP!" or "SHUT THE FUCK UP".

You'd be surprised how well this works! And its fun. I would say it works best on girls who are used to getting their way.

Anyway, sometimes you can't say this to a girl because its inappropriate or you just don't feel like it. That's when they start throwing the pins. How do you deal with it? 
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Hexif

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girls can actually piss you off? :3
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Souteneur

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If you're reacting (being pissed off, emotional response that you 'feel') to what a girl - or anyone - says, you should use it as an opportunity to ask yourself why it's agitating you. Whatever the reason is, it means there's room for growth. But anyway, It's hard to give you an answer without knowing more about the situation..

Questions -
1. Why is she or they giving you a hard time about?
2. What specifically is she saying, or have girls said, that bothers you .. have any examples?
3. How do you know this girl? is she a friend, a girl friends with your friends (in your social circle), a girl you just met, a girlfriend, your sister, your mom, a random girl on the street that you don't know?

More info = better advice.

Bottom line is you're still reacting. It shouldn't get to the point (by her feeling your boundaries, or having a reason for bugging you, or for it happening often) where you have to say shut the fuck up to them. You're definitely letting them get the better of you.
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Icemonkey

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 Well, I was specifically thinking of this one South American girl that I know. She's got a very fiery personality, very emotional. She talks a lot, and always mentions that she says whatever's on her mind. Basically, she's fucking insane. 

The things she says to piss me off sound like "nagging".

I told her the other day that when we talk on the phone, I feel like I'm in one of those movies where the main character's Latina girlfriend is non-stop nagging him in the background.

The questions that piss me off are mostly questions about my job and my future. I do work, but for a while I didn't. I also get shit about my room being dirty, but to be fair it is. Basically everything.

This girl as actually the roommate of a friend of mine, which further complicates things. 

I know I'm reacting, but when its a non-stop offensive what else can you do? I think she's picking a fight. If it gets too bad, I just hang up on her (if we're on the phone) or ditch her.

But I know that if there's a magic sentence, it would be on these boards. 
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Hexif

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Icemonkey wrote:
 

I know I'm reacting, but when its a non-stop offensive what else can you do? I think she's picking a fight. If it gets too bad, I just hang up on her (if we're on the phone) or ditch her.
I literally don't care at all, I'm like the terminator, and I make this face :3
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nestea

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Icemonkey wrote:
 you say, "SHUT UP!" or "SHUT THE FUCK UP".

You'd be surprised how well this works! 
no offense but for some reason i dont think i would be suprised at all
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Hexif

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honestly, violence is never the answer
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Vic Sage

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chick:

me:

everybody else:
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