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March 25th, 2017
Cheated on Her...Lost her...How do i get her back? (please help...)
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#31
HUBBSTER

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Join Date: 09/19/2009 | Posts: 15

Pimpski wrote:
Cut the chord.  Let her loose.  Next.

If its supposed to work out, it will.  Don't hold on man.  Trust me on this.  It ain't worth it.

Chock it up to a learning experience and move on.

I've found that as long as you hold your ground and dont turn into a Wus

sooner or later she will come back asking to get back with you. 

Once I got over being a Wuss EVERY single Ex has eventually come back asking for more.  Thats not to say I let them back in bcus I was usually with someone else by then
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#32
HUBBSTER

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Join Date: 09/19/2009 | Posts: 15

escalator wrote:
 What have you learned from this? Always tell the truth, right? It'll make you a better person.

Its a lot easier on you as well.  You dont have to keep remembering lies and improves your quality of life and increases your social value.

In my case I was telling the truth and she was telling me 5 different things that were all opposite, I dont know how anybody could make sense of that.  She wasn't cheating but she wasn't being honest either
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#33
NewLife

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Join Date: 05/04/2009 | Posts: 647

So......you're 17.....
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 If a girl falls down a flight of stairs and starts crying, this is not a shit test, help her.

My wingman is my penis... he shuts up and waits while I do the talkin'

I would NEVER fuck you over......but i'd gladly fuck you over and over teeth
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#34
Zebra

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Hope you learn and grow from this situation bro! I can relate.
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#35
Cornerlurker

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Join Date: 10/28/2008 | Posts: 171

Zebra wrote:

Hope you learn and grow from this situation bro! I can relate.
Hahahaha, perfect clip for this situation.
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#36

AwesomelyTom

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Join Date: 09/15/2009 | Posts: 20

Remember: 17...high school.  High school/college == WAY DIFFERENT than American (or Canadian) society at large. 
Montreal Madison wrote:
only kissed another girl?
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#37

AwesomelyTom

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Join Date: 09/15/2009 | Posts: 20

Dude,

I hear ya.  Its rough. 

TBH most of the guys in here with dumb responses just haven't had a (serious) girlfriend before. 

I'm 25 and just broke up with my 19 year old girlfriend.  She's young enough that I kinda got dragged down to that more dramatic level.  I really dig the girl, even though she's kinda dumb :D  

What helped me gettin over it:
- a little bit of time
- getting hardcore into old interests (just got back w some Brazilian Jiu Jitsu today, and I 100% forgot about her)
- going out, and even though I hate drinking...it helps a bit, and then lettin loose and having a great time
--> I met 3 girls tonight that I would've just been staring at with my GF by my side...hugest tits I've ever seen, littlest sexy girl I've ever seen (I guess that I like that  makes me a pedophile?), and another adorable ass girl
I know that even if after making out with all of them tonight I bang bang bang em Friday Saturday Sunday, it won't mean I miss my girlfriend less...it means that I won't think about my girlfriend enough to miss her nearly as much

So dig through a lot of the douchery responses here and...yeah, shoot to get your girlfriend back (I hate that mine also says she loves me but keeps changing the reason why she won't get back from the fact that I broke her heart by breaking up w her, to that I'm needy when she doesn't feel like talking, to other random BS...I hate the "I love you but I can't date you again")

Oh yeah, and some Tolle does help.  Particularly:
http://www.detoxifynow.com/et_pain_body.html

I just when I start to feel bad ask myself aloud "Am I...uh...feeding the pain body?"  And then laugh at how retarded the question is, while simultaneously realizing the answer is "Oh, I guess so!"  And it can kinda start to dissolve.  (Because you realize...well...thinking about this and having resentment or regret...is it actually helping?  Its unconscious,eh?)  

Anyway, take care bud, hurts now, but in a day or a week or a month it'll make you look sad but you can move your focus away easily enough to whatevers important NOW.
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#38

AwesomelyTom

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Join Date: 09/15/2009 | Posts: 20

Popinjay wrote:
High school is just a massive shit load of social conditioning and identity pigeonholing.
its irrelevant
People still happen to be in high school.

In that sense...its relevant. 

There's a lotta BS about it but fuck being bitter man.  If you're still in high school understand that shit and then abuse it.  
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#39

AwesomelyTom

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Join Date: 09/15/2009 | Posts: 20

Palm wrote:
HAHA man their is some BAD advice here.

allot of good stuff too though keep it up non-sucky people.

All I can say is, your young as hell and you will get over her, and you will learn allot more about yourself and probably end up happier if you break up. Buuuttt it's on you brother do what you gotta do.
Trueness.

Too many shitty responses with scattered good ones. 
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