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#11

ManAbout

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Join Date: 07/13/2009 | Posts: 115

Racism exists. It would be silly to deny it. I am brown, around Ryan's colour, I get mistaken for Persian most often, even though I am not. I have dated women of all colours, from white to Asian. My last girlfriend was actually European from the Czech Republic, even though a lot of women from these Eastern European countries are openly racist. The bottom line is that you can't let it bother you. Unless you have a strong accent or look like you just came off the boat, I don't think you should have a problem gaming white women. Act like it's the most natural thing in the world. I am sure I have lost some women because I am not blonde and blue eyed, however on the other hand, I think there are women that definitely go for guys with darker skin.

Having said all that, I think there is one area where not being Caucasian is a definite disadvantage and that is online dating. When you approach a woman on a street or in the club and if you come across as pretty normal and well integrated, any doubts that the girl may have quickly dissipate. It is much harder to do that on a dating site. In online dating all they see is that background and will dismiss you very quickly if you don't fit their preferred ethnicity.
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#12
Arman

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Join Date: 07/28/2009 | Posts: 84


It's all about how you communicate.
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#13
TheHitter!

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L-I-M-I-T-I-N-G
B-E-L-I-E-F. 

OR MAYBE

E-G-O
P-R-O-T-E-C-T-I-O-N.
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#14
Joe Shades

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Join Date: 05/28/2009 | Posts: 575

ManAbout wrote:
In online dating all they see is that background and will dismiss you very quickly if you don't fit their preferred ethnicity.
that goes not just for race, but for things like height, weight, even hair color. its more superficial online than in the real world i think. a perrson for example will see you are not the prefered height and just dismiss you instantly where in the real world you can overcome that with personality. online you may noy get that chance
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Join Date: 10/28/2008 | Posts: 171

Is that supposed to be good clothing? Generic, boring logowhoring.
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#16
Lowdash

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Join Date: 11/24/2007 | Posts: 530

Colt wrote:

Yesterday ( was feeling just like super confident in opening)
I admit that i do have a little beard
that it was probably not ideal night time doing day game at night,
and that i was probably not groomed the best, hair was wild,
i think i have a very little accent, which is a weird thing to say.


I have wrestled with this for a few years.

I will give you some simple advice: 

You gotta be the most BADASS dude she has ever met- and she won't even NOTICE your skin color

Most people these days are SHOCKED when i tell them i am east indian, they say "Oh really? I thought you were black, or spanish, or mixed" 

Which is a compliment actually, because most east indian dudes have a bad rap when it comes to their beta behaviors, and their personalities

The thing is, "when in rome" 

Shave off your damn beard man, just shave it off

And then buy some proper clothes, if you are currently shopping at shitty stores

After that, throw yourself into the fray, and the be the COOLEST muthafucker they will ever meet


I used to make excuses for it, like you, but i have TOO MANY reference points of OTHER awesome brown/black guys

Ryan is one, btw

I have at least 3 other friends who KILL it with the chicas, and plain and simple, they are just AWESOME guys

You dont think: "Oh its a brown guy. You think: Wow. This dude fucking rocks!!!!" 

So you gotta step strong, you gotta be a force of nature, and you gotta be the coolest dude she will ever meet


It might take time, but gluck to you


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#17
Lowdash

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Join Date: 11/24/2007 | Posts: 530

Oh PS 

There will be a % of white chicks who don't have it in their "reality" to hook up with a brown guy

You can look at that, as an obstacle, or you can look at that as a benefit. Shes been missing out... on YOU

The bottom line is becoming the best fucking dude you can be, and attracting the women who see/appreciate/digg you, into your life

I am personally not attracted to black and brown chicks, its not a racial thing, i just grew up in all white schools, so i am attracted to white chicks. I am a white brown guy. But yeah. Some chicks digg me, some don't.

The ones that don't, its OK- it frees up my time for the ones that do ;)

No excuses, play like a champion


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#18

pringles

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Join Date: 04/28/2009 | Posts: 963

wtf??? it makes no difference, ive got with a racist chick.
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#19
Colt

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The times i have seen brown/black guys hooking up with (attractive) white girls, They are really good looking guys.

My looks ( i find them attractive to me ) but I think they are average at best, in general, in my race or out

I dont want to start another 'do looks matter' discussion, but that has been my general obversation.....any one see that ?
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#20

ManAbout

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Join Date: 07/13/2009 | Posts: 115

Lowdash69 wrote:


Most people these days are SHOCKED when i tell them i am east indian, they say "Oh really? I thought you were black, or spanish, or mixed" 

Which is a compliment actually, because most east indian dudes have a bad rap when it comes to their beta behaviors, and their personalities
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Nothing more irritating than an Indian guy pretending to be a black guy.
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