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Let the bass hit, this is my story.


I have been debateing this for awhile, but feel my time has come to let my storys be told. This thread will go along with my blog, and is being created to show the good, the bad and the wtf just happend moments. Nothing will be fluff,  the blunt truths must be told. There will be nights where I go out and pull dimes, there will be nights where I sit in the bar with my thumbup my ass. All will be told.

Who the hell am I, and where did I come from? ( cliff note version)

-Up untill I was 21 ( 22 currently), I never had a girl that didn't throw herself at me. I took what I got ( which wasn't much) based on social circle, work, etc. I lost all of them, due to my INSANE needyness, constant threats beliving I was being cheated on, and driving by there house to check on them.
- Three years ago, I started to go bald, got sad beacuse I felt Id never get laid, started to hit the gym for the sole reason to get more girls.
- Two years ago, I randomly came across an article that the talked about the " game" yea that book ( amazing how one little article, changed the course of my life).
- Read the book, had a gf at the time ( from work) and thought it was amazing, but didn't try shit.
- When the girlfreind left, I went out to game....I had AA from hell, from hellllllllllll. I went out 3 nights a week with my buddies, didn't open one set.....not a single one for a YEAR ! one year of my life, was me in total fear.
- A good friend of mine got me into RSD allmost a year ago, it took 6 months, to finally open a set, 6 more fucking months.
- I started to open, once in awhile when i had the balls, back in DEC, and sense then have had 4 lays, two being social circle girls, one girl approached me based on me having a killer time, and the other was a girl i approached at a frat party ( meet to fuck less then 20 mins)
- I went out solo for a good  part of the summer, an hour drive each way to the big city ( I was not in my normal town all summer). Didn't know anyone, went out a month stright, didn't open a set. Second month I started to open, numbers, a few days twos, hook ups  ( no lays)
- That brings us to now, back in my home town. I open, but not that many sets ( fairly small town but BS excuse).

What do I want?
- I want to be good, freakly good, for the sole purpose at this point in my life that this is fun as hell, and I love those sexy brunettes.
- 6 Lays before the new year.

Welcome to the rollercoaster of playdate

Intro post from blog.

Few know who I truly am, but once you do, you will love me or hate me. Pick your poison- change your life- its up to you.
This blog is dedicated to freinds that pushed me in the right direction ( RTC CREW, and a old friend that showed me the RSD way :) ), the thousands of people I have met along that way. I love all of you, even the ones that walk away after a simple hi…love you too .
welcome to the crazy ride, I wouldn’t change one damn thing, you think you know…..

-playdate
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First weekend of Blog, Followed by the second

_Aug 13th, 14th, 15th_

-13th, there was a time when I feel like I didn’t see the glitch, yea thats right I’m calling this shit a mother fucking glitch, and man that may sound negative, but let me tell you, -own the glitch, its your instinct, don’t stop it.- First time back into my small town after hitting the been venues in another state all summer. It was a wake up call, I have to live in a bigger city. Killer time to see all my freinds again, The first two bars had no sets, really…no sets. The last bar I open two girls, neither got anywhere. Why– ? let me tell you, I didn’t beleive I could do it, i went in assumeing i would fail, and I did. I drank to much, fuck man drinking is fun, but it SUCKS for serious progress in this game.

Lesson Learned-You MUST go in with 100% belief, its the only way.

14th- WTF was I thinking, why the fuck did I drink so much, ohh yea I enjoy it. Listen I love drinking as much as anyone, but me drinking is like the worst level of game you can play, its awful. I fully 100% follow my instinct drunk, which isn’t as fun as it sounds, my night included ( I don’t remember Ive been told) – throwing a chair at a bouncer, walking up to every girl and saying I wanted to fuck them, in front of there BF’s. Buying a ton of pizza and having no clue I ate it. Listen they say you have to go over the falls , hit the wall, and push the limits to find your center, maybe you do, maybe you don’t, but i am pushing something. Lucky the bar was not in my normal town, so that it won’t be an issue again. Sadly, some of my friends do not approve of my life ( drunk or sober) I fuck with there view of reality. It is what it is.

Lesson Learned- Drink less, not just to own the venues, but so you don’t get your ass arrested. I would like to thank some of my good friends, that know what the fuck im about, support it, and love it..respect.

15th. I wanted to go out without drinking, and I did( I had two beers in 3 hours). Ohh and guess what happend? my game was legit, best night in awhile. I hate the fact that I do NOT open nearly as often without drinking, in fact I only opened ONE set all night. I was with a LARGE group of people 10+ mixed group, of people I haven’t seen in months, so I didn’t push my opening on ” bull shit sets” aka girls I don’t even like that much, but just open to open. I started to approach a solo girl at the bar, got half way, and a dude rolls up and starts making out. Turned and backed out. In the last venue, I saw a girl that was my ” style” i like a certain odd sect of girls. The funny thing is, and it blows my mind, I opened her without hesitation, because I was truly attracted to her, it opened with ease. Hook, friend comes over, my target invites me out to chill with her click ( a large mixed set). All i can say is, I opened the entire set, felt totally at ease due to going out so much, talked with the girl for a while, isolated her, number closed ( she actually number closed me, which i can’t recall that happening before, can’t decided if that is a good thing or a bad thing. I guess only time will tell, Id pref to number close myself ….maybe.) I need to push more in this town, I can’t be as picky with the sets, the bars have maybe 50-100 people in them max, maybe 20-30 girls, half of them are just no, the rest I make up BS excuses, I’m going to have to open mixed sets often and always, if I plan to get anywhere. I learned a ton in the super venues of the summer, I also opened the easy sets… I need, I will, kill this habit.

Lesson Learned- If you open, and truly truly want the girl, it will open,hook, and close. If you do it just to ” open” youve already lost. I can’t make myself be attracted to certain girls, but I can open the ones that I want, I will open the ones I like….why

because what other option do I have, do we have?…what does anyone have. I have one life, thats what I fucking have, and I own it, grab it, and live it to MY dremas, my goals….my vision.

I want to make blogs for every night individualy, and I will usually, but had no computer the last few days.

with love, playdate-

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I debated with my self if I should post the real story of what happend over the weekend. It is what it is, let the truth be told.

- Thursday Aug 20th

-I have a issue, its called staritng the weekend off right. Yea that means my ass is getting drunk, and all hell is to ensue which was the case. I was pounding shots, md , and god knows what else. Tottally fucked by 1030 me and my boys head out. Now I knew that we where meeting up with two girls, one whom my freind has known for a year…pay attetion to that part. They have never hooked up, been anything other then freinds, but he obv likes her. Now shes dated other dudes during the year, during which time they don’t talk. Now I have met her before, and could tell in a short time she was attracted to me ( later I will discuss why). This was the 2nd time that we all hung out, in my head I knew it was on, I didn’t want it to be, I run on fucking instinct when I’m drunk. Cut to 230am, we are all over at my house, she is sitting on my lap, and he then decides that its time for them to go. I get a txt a min later ” nice car” …my car is a piece of shit I txt back ( it is) and then I get the famous….want to hang out. Aka shits going down get on board. About 30 mins later ( maybe I’m wasted) she shows up, while another freind is passed out on the couch. He wakes up when he sees her and leaves. It gets blurry after that, but from 3am till about 8am glory times ensue ( no lay, but glorious ). Skip to the am, my freind tells my other freind that the girl was over, he drives by to see if she slept over. He txts her going nuts, hes pissed at me. I’m a fucking ass. Let it be known though that I would NOT touch a girl my freinds have hooked up with, and USUALLY if there trying to. But if you try for a year, I’m sorry man I love you, but let it go.

- Intresting note from her, she was super attarcted to me early on beacuse I was not talking to her, being semi stand offish, basicly the shit I should be doing. It got her intrested, she sexy girl that was used to the attetion from everyone, I was real with her…..key part that I don’t know what to think, she called me out on being a a few times at the bar. Guys chicks know when your a player, and some of them fucking love it, don’t hide it to the hilt, but don’t brag about shit either thats tacky.

- Lesson learned, girls want the guy that sex is NBD too, if its nothing to you, just a hell of a time, then it will be the same to her. respect

Friday Aug 21st

Too fucking hung over, woke up at 2, went to be at 10pm, felt like shit due to drinking, and my moral issue the night before.

- lesson learned, im an ass and I drink too much

Sat Aug 22st

Went up to see my boy at his college, got there late. Didn’t have time to go to the bars ( they close at midnight ! fml). Went to some country show, if you know me, picture me there…..yea keep laughing. I opend a three set, it was 10 mins of non hooking fun. One bitchy girl ( the ugly one of course) the cutest one was actully holding eye contact, the other wouldn’t for shit. I need to learn when to stick it out, and when to bail. But I saw it going no where and peaced. Then the magic party circuit begin. On the way to the first party, opend a 3 set on a bench, hooked, then there ride came, tired to pull them to the party but no go. Got to party one, all guys, one girl, no fucking shit. Baiscly the same for party two. The nights done.

- lesson learned, if I want to get this shit on lock, i need to go out earlyer, and approach a TON more
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Dude, I can totally fucking relate. I'm 20 years old. The only girlfriends/hook ups I've had have been girls that threw themselves at me. I go out all the fucking time and have been going out for the past year, I have never approached one girl on my own. When I'm home reading the RSD forum and shit I think that the next time I go out will be the time that I actually put myself out there and approach some chicks, but nope. Never happens. I don't know what I need to do to get over this AA. Its ridiculous.

But anyways, why didn't you get the lay??? It seems like she was totally down.
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I feel ya on the going out for a year and not approaching anyone, been there done that.  What helped me get past my AA stright up was booze. Heres how it went down, 6 months or so ago, Id get fairly drunk, and open a set and bail within a min, and not open again.  Slowly over the course of thoses months, I could drink less, and open a set or two.  Now I can open 100% sober, BUT I only open the easy sets. ( solo girl, 2 set, small group etc) I rarely do mixed sets sober, and I'm going to move past that. When I'm drunk, esp when I'm with my freinds that know whats up, I open everyone like a machine. So yea people say don't drink it kills your game, and it totally does, but for me it helped my AA to get me where I can open sober today. After awhile you'll truly enjoy it, go kill it man !

ohh and on the lay she was def down, but I was so fucking drunk, that I just didn't even push....honestly its a big blur ill have her remind me what happend ha ! see drinking killed game !! fail
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Tune of the week ! bang bang




Dun dun dun......dun dunn...yea i'm singing
Anyways

Thursday Aug 27th-

No one wanted to go out, and thrusday is the only night people actully go to the " club" in my town. No way I'm missing that one. So for the first time in my life, I went solo out in my town. Now I have gone solo all summer, but none of it was in my small home town. I actully feel more comfortable in mega city, then in a smaller one. I think it has to do with the fact, that when you might see people you " know" you start to wonder what they think, when I didn't know anyone in the big cities over the summer, I didn't care what anyone thought. I'm stoked that i actully went out and was comforable. Well I got going out alone and chodeing about on lock....fuck ha. I opened a few girls that would stand near me, but I didn't cold approach a few sets that I wanted to. In my head, no excuses.  Had a few drinks, which i feel I need to be able to open "better" ( obv I need to KILL this mindset). With that being said, I am going one month with no serious drinking, maybe a drink or two. I want to see where it leaves me after the month.

- Lesson learned, going out alone is fun ! bah rock shit

Friday Aug 28th. ( New lay) .....One down 5 to go till the new year.

More on the lay in a min, but I went up to the local college secene with my buddy, had a great time with the guys, had a few convos with social circle girls of my freinds . One girl was interviewing me for like 10 mins, the shit was too funny, I wan't attracted tho. Basicly same type of shit all night on repate, some drunk redhead invited me to stay on her couch, but again I wasn't attracted to her, its funny a few months ago I would have been down be on down, my how things chage :) I didn't open a set, and I didn't figure out why I had no motovation to do so untill later on in the night. before I went out, it was pretty much on lock that the HB from last thursday would be sleeping over. My mind didn't really see a point to open, beacuse even if I did I would have still had to eventully leave the set to go home to the HB. Minds are tricky little fuckers, next time I know if i go out to pick up, don't have a girl waiting for you to get home, or your shit will be weak. On the lay though, def a much higher caliber of girl then I used to get with ( in both looks, personailty  etc) So something is def working. She came over about 3am, we talked maybe 30 mins, then started to make out and all that fun shit........I would say we didn't actully have sex till like 6am, man she was having a hell of a mental debating about us actully fucking. I totally respect that though, didn't show that I cared( well i really didn't its just fucking sex after all ;) ) and after she got horny enough it had to be done. Glory times did follow. Back in the day Id be like begging this girl to date me, and since she knows ( i never said, but she understands) that I'm not a dater, she just wants me more. It leads her to do all the " gaming" she usually txts, keeps the convos flowing, its nice for a change from being this uber needy dude not so long ago. Hell we even talk a good amount about human interactions, attraction and so forth. A very nice change of pase from the girls I used to attracted.

- lesson learned , don't have a girl waiting on you, if you plan to have the motavation to open and close sets all night.

Sat Aug 29th...

I don't know.........no really........I don't know, I played a lot of pong, drank a ton of vodka before I even went out. Went to some house party, who knows what I did, people said they saw me, no clue. woke up on my buddies floor, shirt less, with madi gras beads around my neck. Yeaaaaaaaaa well........I do enjoy drinking, but this is getting retarted and now effecting my goals to rock this shit. So limited drinks for the next month, starting now.

- lesson learned, if your going to get drunk, have a "drunk night" or if you want to own your game, don't drink much at all.


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Tune of the week ! ( though not really a tune )




Well this is getting fun

Thursday Sep 3rd-


Had a killer concert that was supposed to go down, but got cancled , and I still had plans to pick my boy up at the airport a few hours away, so I didn't make it out.  Short and sweet

lesson learned- I have some killer friends

Friday Sep 4th-

Hit up the college scene bars with my crew of boys ! It was a fun fucking night, I opened a few sets, nothing really stuck. I couldn't even tell you how many I opend, 5+ but they where all half ass as I was more concered with drinking then gaming....bahhh . I grabed a number of some girl, don't remember what she looks like, and never got any return txts ( im not suprised with my state of mind that night). Fun night all around, again as always, for me at least drinking and gaming do NOT go hand and hand. Maybe a few drinks, like 3 MAX.

lesson learned- life is fun, live it up you fuckers

Sat Sep 5th -


Welllllllllllllllll this is getting intresting. Fucking ehh man. Went out with my boys again, whom where half asleep in my apt, and I couldn't drag out of the house till aroudn 11:30. I wanted to do work tonight, and I wasn't going to let anyone else mood bring mine down. I didn't drink SHIT, I think I had one mixed drink before I left for the night. Had a lot of BS going thru my head, as the girl I'm currently sleeping with on the reg was going to be out too, with her freinds. Well the ISSUE with this is that, A. My town is small B. This is the girl, that my buddy tired to " claim" for a year, though they never hooked up. So only a few of my close freinds know that I hook up with her, so we agreed for now when we see each other out NOT to say anything to each other. So this is pretty fucked up as is. Well we walk into the first bar, standing near some girls, one of my buddies knows one of the chicks ( the guy that " claimed" the girl I'm getting with) I start chating with one of her freinds, all is well, she is def into me I can tell in about 1 min. About 5 mins into the convo, the girl I'm laying walks in with her freinds ( she rolls with mostly dudes). Well she walks up to my freind, says hi to him, we look at each other for a sec and thats all. Its kinda akward, but im used to akwardness so its all good to me. We end up moving on to the next bar ( again theres NOT many) and I grab the girls number I was talking to). We get to the next bar, i saw a set I wanted to open, but didn't ! ....withn a few mins the girls from the last bar end up at our new bar. So I continue to talk to her for a while ( on and off the rest of the night) she basicly followed me around like a puupy. First time that ever happend so that was cool, sorta. Also during this time the girl I'm hooking up with in secret is there, about 15feet from me, again we aren't talking. This puts me in a shitty spot, beacuse the new girl would def be making out with me, if I tired, and I didn't want to piss off the current hook up and loose that. I also didn't open anymore sets beacuse i didn't want to hurt my hook ups feelings, and I didn't want to piss off the new girl. IN THIS GAME, im going to have to get over the fact that I am playing with peoples emotions, and people are going to get hurt, there is NO way around it. Unless you cease to be yourself, which is hard after doing it so long. Cut to the end of the night, my boys hit the strip club, I txt the new girl a bit, I DIDN"T go to the strip club, and my " claiming freind" decided to tell my current hook up I didn't go beacuse I was fucking that new girl ! are you seriousssssssssssssssssssssssssssss
So after this happens I get a few txts from hell, which confirms what i was worried about, that my current hook up is more into me then I thought. She was pissed/ jelous just bad shit. So i tell her to bascily stop over reacting, and that I was alone. A little bit later she is over, and glory times are had again. But this situation has put me in a spot.

- What should I do with my current hook up, how do you guys manage a few girls, esp when one of them is into you? The issue is there is absolutely nothing wrong with the girl, shes beautiful, she has a killer personality, shes older and mature,  has her shit together, and we have amazing sexual chem, its just the fact I feel she is ready to settle for the long haul.......and I'm not.  If anyone can throw me imput im all ears.

Lesson learned- your going to hurt peoples feelings, theres not much way around this, how do some of you guys get past the moral side of this life style?


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 "I opened a few girls that would stand near me, but I didn't cold approach a few sets that I wanted to. In my head, no excuses."

I know that when I see a set I want to approach, INSTANTLY I can feel my state dropping and me getting inside my head.  THIS BADD!!

"don't have a girl waiting on you, if you plan to have the motavation to open and close sets all night."

So then what does this mean?  That when you get a little bit better and know that you could have 1 or 2 booty calls on lockdown that you just won't even go out anymore?  You gotta find your own motivation above and beyond getting laid that night if you want to achieve excellence.  As Jeffy says: "You gotta have a love for the game"

"woke up on my buddies floor, shirt less, with madi gras beads around my neck"

I thought youre only supposed to get those beads if you take off your shirt AND youre a chick...Is there something you want to tell me?

"for me at least drinking and gaming do NOT go hand and hand. Maybe a few drinks, like 3 MAX."

Agreed.  At some point you gotta ask yourself which you like more: drinking or having an abundance of beautiful women in your life.

"she basicly followed me around like a puupy. First time that ever happend so that was cool, sorta."

You gotta think that she was partly doing this because Im sure you were atleast somewhat dismissive and trying to not talk to her too much since that girl youre banging was in the bar as well.  Now you just gotta transfer that mindset and behavior to ALL of your interactions.  This is also something that Ive been working on lately.

"im going to have to get over the fact that I am playing with peoples emotions, and people are going to get hurt, there is NO way around it."

Yes, but at the same time there are differerent levels to which ppl can get hurt, and that you ARE in control over.  This is where your own moral compass comes in to play, and I would say that in times like that you just need to make a decision and run with it since being indecisive is NEVER attractive.

Rock on man youre def making progress as well!!  Just keep gettin out there and killin it brotha!  As far as what to do with this chick, you can either continue on down the path youre going and learning how to meet and hook up with new chicks (although a limited selection of them), OR for the first time try a relationship now knowing everything that you know about women, social dynamics, and what it means to be a man.  Just weigh what you think has more benefit to you at the moment, make a decision, and stick to it.  Till next time buddy shades
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"I thought youre only supposed to get those beads if you take off your shirt AND youre a chick...Is there something you want to tell me?"

thats what this whole thing is about man............:( hahaha ! win


"You gotta think that she was partly doing this because Im sure you were atleast somewhat dismissive and trying to not talk to her too much since that girl youre banging was in the bar as well. Now you just gotta transfer that mindset and behavior to ALL of your interactions. This is also something that Ive been working on lately."

amazing fucking point I need to do this ALL the time, NO reactions to anything that does not fit into my reality.


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first time try a relationship now knowing everything that you know about women, social dynamics, and what it means to be a man. Just weigh what you think has more benefit to you at the moment, make a decision, and stick to it."

POTF you always know what to say my good man, point well taken ! stickkkk to it is the key there


Going to a new town tonight my man, ! time to rock shit-

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I want the fucking lot, tune of the week ( sorta)



35-40 secs sums it up nicely

Thrusday sep 11th-

Was going to go out solo, last min my boy came along. Went to the first bar, we where the only ones there ( im fucking serious) small town fail. Went to the next " club" ( the only one in town) there was maybe 10 girls in the entire place, I opened the ones I thought where hot, that didn't end up getting me shit. I got drunk, and thats about that. The fatties still didn't look hot. Next time Im just going to bring the fucking party like my boy POTF does , so when the club sucks, at least I will be killing it.

_- Lesson learned-
move to a big city after school, learn serious day game NOW

Friday Sep 11th ( RIP 9/11)


- Went to a hugeeeeee party school in the deep south. Holy fuck what a mind trip ! I stood out like a mother fucking with all the fart tastic dudes( btw you guys highly amuse me no hard feelings). I opend the most sets in my life with little to no serious attraction. I didn't count but it was easily more then 15 sets. I was really looking for a ONS since I didn't live there phone numbers and all that ISH wouldn't be appealing to me.  Nothing much to say other then I apporched a bunch so I'm stoked on that. I couldn't get into one bar due to having a mowawk !! ( howww fucking funny) and another bar beacuse I have earring ( not gauges! just normal earrings lmao). So i was opening the hotties walking by the bar most of the night, moving sets, mixed groups, fun times ehh. Next time I head to this place im going to dress frattastic and see if I get any better luck, strictly out of curiosty.

lesson learned- you will open a ton, and still fail, failure is good, without it you aren't trying .

Sat Sep 12th


DIdn't go out, didn't get home from a game untill after midnight, didn't see a point to try to go wing it solo, tho looking back on it I should have.

-Lesson learned,
  daddyyyy was a bank robbber he never hurttttttttt no bodyyyy,( I'm singing)

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"At the end of your life what have you've got except memories? That's it. And then poof. You know, we're all just passing through. You really do have to be selfish. You really can't love anybody else unless you're Goddamn in love with yourself. Be delusional. Be really delusional. Consciously, I know I'm not the best looking guy in the world, but when I walk into a room I'm so convinced I'm good-looking that I *will* go home with your girlfriend. " Gene Simmons


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PUA of the Future

PUA of the Future

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Join Date: 07/05/2008 | Posts: 762

 "Next time Im just going to bring the fucking party like my boy POTF does , so when the club sucks, at least I will be killing it."

Much love for the respect dude!  But think about it.  If you had already been bringing the party when you went to the club then attraction with those hot girls would have been automatic.

" failure is good, without it you aren't trying"

YESS!!  You have no idea how long it took me to frickin learn that.  I actually had to buy a frickin book to teach me that shit. (Pursuit of Perfect btw for all of you perfectionists and ppl who are afraid of failure)

"didn't see a point to try to go wing it solo, tho looking back on it I should have."

To paraphrase Viktor Frankl (psychologist) 'Look on the present moment and the action that your about to take with the eye of the future and how you will feel about it down the road'.  Every minute that passes you're dying dude.  You gotta make the most of this shit.

Respect.  Keep killin it man and make sure to plan a trip to Denverrrr!
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You decide what it contains.

The lay reports and analysis of my nights out in Denver:
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/102567?page=40#comment-879488
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PlayDate

PlayDate

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Join Date: 02/01/2009 | Posts: 450


"Nothing can stop me,I'm never satisfied
I take what i want,refuse to be denied
Live in the moment,the future can disguise
It's starting to touch us,but i still can't touch the sky"
-Tiesto walking on clouds




Late on the update- the story must go on though.

One new lay over the weekend, Sunday I had a day 2 from a girl I meet a few weeks ago at the club. Had her over to watch a moive, and well that was that ! + 1 So that brings my yearly total to six, four away from my goal which I will achive.

Thursday Sep 17th

I'm a chodeeeeee I'm a chodeeee, I'm a chodeeeeeee, no idea what happend tonight, first night out in awhile I didn't open a set !! Not much to really say here, I actully had some girls open me, but I was in such an odd frame that they said I was mean and ran away, like all of them. HA good times, lets just blame it on jeff for having a killer book that I was reading before I went out that totally fucked my game ! I kid I kid. Nine ball for the win

Friday Sep 18th


Honestly I can't remember much from friday, it might have been the large amounts of booze( duh) but i did open some sets, which prolley went something like this !  " bahhhh your hot".......hmmm your werid....." skoooo lets go bang" come here..........get away. thats the usual deal when I wasted. The bar was pretty much dead as usual, im going to start to pick up chicks at walmart, and taco bell.

Sat Sep 18th


Friday all over again.


This was a lame ass report, though I did get laid, I didn't progress for a lick of beans, I need to push this shit to the HILT. Going to a BIG city this weekend, so i shall return with a field report worthy of reading even if I get blown out 30 times its going down.


-respect
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"At the end of your life what have you've got except memories? That's it. And then poof. You know, we're all just passing through. You really do have to be selfish. You really can't love anybody else unless you're Goddamn in love with yourself. Be delusional. Be really delusional. Consciously, I know I'm not the best looking guy in the world, but when I walk into a room I'm so convinced I'm good-looking that I *will* go home with your girlfriend. " Gene Simmons


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