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Jack of Hearts

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DaggerNL wrote:
Putting my head between her tits and start shaking my head: done and it's fun.
hahaha I was just rolling over my couch laughing when I read that. now that image is going to haunt me forever!! cheers! ;)
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haha, awesome
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Nice
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DaggerNL

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Thanks guys. Yeah Cortex, I didn't really have to do anything, since she called me. I got more interested when she showed more IOI's. I understand more why getting attraction first before showing intent is important. Right now I'm recovering from my eye surgery, which was succesful. I'm using eye drops every hour. My eyes are now a little bit red, but that will go away somewhere next week. 

I can see everything much clearer from afar: carsigns, subtitles, people. That's money well spend. Hometown girl called me a couple of times and we're going to meet up again soon. She just needs to wait until I recover. That's probably next week. This week I'm just chilling at my parents watching the world cup and reading awaken the giant within, which i'm almost done with. Haha I guess I didn't take my friends advice and went for hometown girl, instead of miss blue eyes. Oh well, I didn't regret my decision. Especially since she lives so closeby, which is great for future meet-ups teeth
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June 21st 2010: Thank you RSD

I had a nice week to rest from the surgery. Today I met with hometown girl again near her house at the bus station. She saw a girlfriend of hers. Her friend asked us how long we’ve been together, since I kissed her. Haha, we just met. After we had dinner at her house, we walked about half an hour to my house and enjoyed the nature. Being able to see everything clear again certainly made me enjoy the environment more.

We arrived at my house. After talking a bit we wanted to do it again. The only problem was that she had her period. Waiting a week and a half was too long to not do anything, so we had to be creative in other ways, without penetration. I don’t have to go into detail, but there was a lot of chemistry between us: through kissing, touching and eye contact. We enjoy each others company, lots of laughing. She stayed for the night at my place. Knowing I had to work in the morning we slept pretty late.

So I guess I have a girlfriend now. We like each other a lot. We’re meeting again tonight and Saturday. I do notice myself sometimes talking on a low voice tonality. So that’s something I can improve.

Real Social Dynamics, Brad ....... I can’t thank you guys enough. As I wrote in my BC report back in august, I never had a girlfriend, kissed or had sex. Within a year I’ve got/done all three. I think that’s pretty special. It means the way RSD do their work is no crock. Of course it depends on what you do with the knowledge and experience that is given to you. I’m still going to the RSD hot seat seminar and write a report about it.

I also want to keep writing reports. Even if it’s just to read back one day for the memories. But I don’t know if writing a relationship journal is interesting enough. It’s kind of personal, since I partially write about the life of another person. Or I’ll just write an offline journal. Either way, I am SO going to write it down. My brother wrote a year journal back in 1995 and it happens to be fun to read back again. Instead of only taking pictures, you’re putting your life on paper, a life journal.

Thanks again. thumbs up teeth
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Jack of Hearts

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nooo just lost an awesome wing :(
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 Fuck yeahshades Congrats on you improvements. So you are now settled huh, enjoy your relationship buddy. You'll probably learn a lot from it too
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@Velouria. No you didn't lose a wingman. We can still go out. My girlfriend is fine with me winging. There are just certain rules I can’t cross, which is understandable. smile



Falsetto wrote:
 Fuck yeahshades Congrats on you improvements. So you are now settled huh, enjoy your relationship buddy. You'll probably learn a lot from it too
Thanks man. Up till now I’m really enjoying it. I’m learning a lot about building trust and intimacy. Spontaneously I’m thinking of new ways to keep things fun and playful. Like last Tuesday I wanted to do some roleplay, which is so much fun. I was the innocent handyman who came to fix her washing machine, while she’s playing the mistress who tries to seduce me. angel Oh madam, what are you doing? What about your husband? tounge 

The push/pull technique is also very good for building attraction, which I am getting better at. There's still much to learn and I will have fun doing it.
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An update of last week. I’ve been meeting with my girlfriend almost every day of the week. The connection between us is great. Saturday we went picnicking in the nice weather. It’s cool to chill with someone in the nature without having to look at the clock. In the evening we were going out somewhere and had fun drinking some tequila. I told her that I approach girls just to get better at communicating with them. We discussed that I’m still going to approach. Now that I think about it, I’m actually satisfied with the goals I have accomplished. I don’t want to go out four times and bang a different girl every week. Not that there’s something wrong with it. Everyone has their own reasons for joining the community. I wanted to get better at communicating with women. I had so much fear for that very first approach back in June 2009. I was like: YES I DID IT.

What helps me to get comfortable around hot girls is not to make the conversation important just because the girl is hot. Just talk with them without getting an outcome. I’ve experienced that it creates more attraction than when you are too much focussed on the way you act and express yourself to make yourself more likable. Of course it’s easier said than done, depending on how bad you want the girl. Now that it’s summer and all the hotties are showing more skin, it’s the perfect time to approach, because everyone is hanging outside. I also feel that I’ve become less needy when it comes to approaching girls. If I’m doing it, it’s more to just have fun and not to get a certain outcome anymore. Maybe it’s because I don’t need it anymore.

At this point I want to spend time with my (first) girlfriend, expand my comfort zone by having new goals and get more comfortable around beautiful girls by taking action. Salsa helps a lot, danced with a couple of hot girls, one really gorgeous Spanish chick. Anyway I will try and post up some more FR. I just don’t know how to make the reports fun without breaking the relationship rules. I should definitely read way of the superior man again. In awaken the giant within Tony talks about relationships and how to keep that chemistry: every day having a wet kiss with your girlfriend for 180 seconds. I was sort of doing it already, so I will continue with that.

If anyone has any tips about how to combine pickup with a relationship, it would be helpful if I got some pointers or advice. I have no intention to hook up with girls or whatever. My goal is to keep improving the skill and have fun.
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