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DaggerNL’s 30 / 100 Day Challenge. [Pictures/Videos]
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DaggerNL

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Join Date: 08/03/2009 | Posts: 221

I just did a boot camp on August 18 till 20 with Brad. You can find it here: www.rsdnation.com/node/131037

There were a lot of things I could work on. So I decided to do a 30 day challenge to get better and have more reference experience. Take a Boot Camp and do nothing with it? NO WAY!

Day 1: August 21, 2009

Goal: Get social with everyone. smile

For the 30 day challenge I bought a small notebook and wrote a background story. This is my third notebook.
I saw two hot girls walking. I approached them and said that I liked ice cream, then I asked them if they liked it. They like Ben & Jerry. She thought it was for a research. I said it wasn’t. Oh then why are you holding a pen. The pen was for my notebook, but I said that I liked to have things to put in my mouth. wink
They walked off.

I saw a blonde woman outside looking at a couple of bags. So I walked right up to her, put my hand out and introduced myself. She would give her hand and looked shocked. omg
She thought we were filmed or something. I exaggerated by pointing at some wall that there’s a hidden camera in it. She said you’re joking. This is kind of a surprise that you just walk up to me and introduce yourself. That has never happened to me before. Yeah, I can just walk up and have a conversation with you without any intention in mind.
I started talking about the hot brownie with ice cream of BK. It’s so delicious. The combination of hot and cold is so wonderful. She never had one before. So I suggested that she’d buy one sometime. Anyway I wished her a nice day and gave her a fun story to talk about at home. I kept laughing after that approach.
At the station I saw a blond girl on a bike. I walk up to her and said that she looked nice and asked if she goes out. She immediately responds with: I have a boyfriend. Well I’m not interested in your boyfriend, I’m interested in you. She said she goes out, but not in Amsterdam, because she’s not 18 yet. I wished her a nice day and left.

I send a text message to my brother asking if he wanted to go out tonight. He was going to a friend who knew about the boot camp. I wanted to join, so I went to the friend by taking the bus.

In the bus a beautiful girl sat next to me. I asked her that I needed to go to this stop. She said yeah it’s after the next one. I saw her beautiful eyes and gave a compliment. With some girls they always look older than they are. So I asked if she was 18+. It turned out she was going to be 16 in October, hehe i'm glad that I asked. smile

I arrived at the friend. Two minutes later my brother joined as well. We spoke a lot about the boot camp and sometimes I even remembered new stories that I didn't even put in the success story. I kept editing it. They all liked the story. One even got into state the whole morning because of it.
I talked about the bedroom eyes. They wanted to see it. Never done it before, but I demonstrated it. They said they felt it. Nice, I should use it more often. shades
Anyways, The girlfriend of my brother wanted to go out, so he went along. We asked a friend and his girlfriend, they also wanted to go. I went home and got ready to go out.

The meeting point was at my brothers house. I brought my digital camera. We drank some alcohol and watched summary videos of me talking about the boot camp. It's pretty funny actually. I kind of forgot that I also made a video of myself practicing my voice tonality, breaking rapport and facial expressions. We laughed so HARD. For myself, self amusement is the best. I shattered the image my brother's girlfriend had of me. While practicing my Breaking Rapport voice tonality, in the video I said something like: Hey, want to go upstairs and get fucked in the ass. Hahahahahaha. tounge

It's 1:00 AM, so we headed out towards a club.

In the club we danced a bit and started the evening with a tequila shot. I was already a little woozy, but that really hit the spot. They wanted me to approach. I wasn't into it, because I didn't want the mindset of "having to approach". Then I saw a Two-set and I couldn't resist. Got over there and approached them. I asked them about their dancing skills. (yes it was no statement, I’m half drunk).
The girl said she wasn't that good, then she pointed to another girl who was good at dancing. She is a salsa dancer. After hearing that, I went straight to that girl.

I said: I heard you can dance, that you're a salsa dancer.
She: Yes I am.
I: Teach me.
She: Yeah you could come by and take lessons if you want.
I: No, I want to learn it right now.

On the dance floor she taught me some stuff. Left foot forward and back, right foot back and forward. She said, that's 80 euros you don't have to pay. omg
We danced a bit, gave her a spin and stuff. Her friend stood behind her, so I introduced myself. I thanked her and gave her and her friend a hug. Saw some of her friends, touched one on the shoulder, giving her a comforted feeling.

My friends and I danced a lot. A girl walked by and I yelled WOOOH, put my hand in the air for the high five. She didn't give the high five. How rude.smile 
Another two set walked by and I asked them if they had fun tonight. They did, I said something and she laughed hard, I thought I said something normal, but her laughing like that, I must've had some effect on her. Hahaha I know what I did. I vomited unconsciously saying random stuff. . We stood pretty close, got a little physical.
The transition from talking in the ear to kissing her on the cheek is such a smooth move. shades
It's all spontaneous and the alcohol helped too. She asked me how much I drank. I said enough. I wished her a good night and went back to my friends.

A friend unbuttoned the top of my polo shirt. Then I tried to play superman by pushing my chest forward and ripping both sides of my shirt to show some skin, but i forgot some had knots. One was ripped off  sad

We had another tequila shot. I saw a blonde girl dancing pretty good by herself. She looked like fun. I went up to her saying that she dances good, but I can dance better. We had a dance off. She showed her moves, then I showed mine. I said to her girlfriends, I won right? I thought I did. We talked a bit, got pretty physical. Then a guy came. I thought it was her boyfriend. It turned out to be her cousin. Which was weird, because they were getting pretty close for cousins. He's very friendly. We talked a bit. He said that I need to be good to her. I said that I’m a gentlemen. angel
The girl and I danced a bit and then she went talking to a friend. My friend came to me and suggested to eject, I said they were cousins so he knew what was going on. I went back to my friends. The cousin came back and saw me. He said: why aren't you with her? She really likes you, just go for it.

Okay, so I walked up to her with her back turned to me and put my head over her shoulder. The tall guy talking to her said something I couldn't hear and pushed me on the chest. WTF? Am I getting AMOGed? omg Because I didn't hear him I wanted to know what he said. He said: We're talking and we want some privacy. I was drunk, but smart enough not to create a conflict. I practice self defence for 8 years, so I avoid conflicts every means necessary.
I put my hand on his shoulder for the comfort and said it's okay. Then I walked back to my friends. Looking back at, maybe I shouldn't have interrupted them, but he didn't need to go physical.

I felt a little bit down because of it, but I got over it. I wasn't that interested in her. My friends walked around in the club, leaving me and my friend's girlfriend alone. We danced a bit. Then I saw a friend sitting and we talked a bit. Around 3:10 we left and went to eat some shoarma.

I'm glad to start this first day of the 30 day challenge with a bang just by sending a text message to go out.

Goal Day 1: Getting social with everyone. Accomplished. I even did more than that. I got physical a lot. It's so weird. A week ago I couldn't even talk on any level with girls, kiss them, get physical and have three-way make outs. Now I did all of that. I'm not putting a lot of value to it. I'm being action based, not result based.

See you tomorrow. smile
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DaggerNL

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Day 2: August 22, 2009

I've never gone out alone. It sounds weird to go out alone. Like why would you do that, people say. I read some good things of going out alone. In the evening I went to Amsterdam. There was a blonde and a brunette sitting at a bench. I approached them asking for fun place to go out. After talking a bit I sat down. We talked for like 20 minutes. The blonde was meeting with a guy she met a month ago at a bar and the brunette came along. Later that guy came and 3 of his friends, the blonde stood up and started talking to them. They find it weird that I'd go out alone.

I talked to the brunette and asked about a opinion which i did want to know. I told the transvestites story and she was shocked. A friend and I talked about the following: If two transvestites had sex together, are they having a foursome? Them being both male and female. It doesn't matter what the answer is, it's just funny. She said it was just like normal sex. The blonde was totally into that guy, she looked at me. Aww look how cute she is. She blushed. Then they all left to go out somewhere.

A hot drunk blonde started singing to me, she was with her friend, and apparently they were Dutch.
Yeah I finally got to the Leidseplein. There were a lot more people than when I did the boot camp. I walked to the bulldog café, where i did the karaoke. Outside there were two blondes smoking. I approached them asking if they had fun tonight. They were from Australia. I couldn't remember the name of one, but did remember the younger girl. Her name is Katie. Katie as in Katie Melua. They don't know her. (9 million bicycles). They were with 50 other Australians for a Euro trip. They were all inside the café. I said: Can i tell you a secret, i grabbed them both on the neck and said quietly: I like you both. Reaction: Awwwwww, that's so sweet. They went to go back inside and asked me to join them.

In the café they introduced me to some of their friends. I was talking to one of them, suddenly the 2 set I approached went somewhere. The girl I was talking to said, go after her. Being high value, I didn't want to act as a monkey and just do what she tells me to do. So I kept standing there. I could feel myself being chode. Dude waiting for the girls. So I went to the bar and bought a coke. After getting my drinks I walked back and saw a girl taking pictures of the girl I was talking to and a friend of her. I was so glad I bought a canon ixus 100 is camera a couple of months ago. It's so small, perfect for parties. So I got my camera out and gave it to the girl taking pictures. We made a photo, but it was on video mode. The video looks pretty funny for just being 4 seconds. Then we did it again. 

   

I saw the girl who's name i couldn't remember again. We went downstairs to buy some cigarettes for her. I had to wait upstairs, while she went to the bathroom. While I was waiting I saw Katie again. So I talked to her again, she was asking the DJ to make an announcement at 12 AM, because it would be a friend's birthday. She walked to her friends, I stopped her halfway through asking if I could make a picture with her, we made two. I wanted to take the train early so I could get home, because I didn't sleep much from last night. Otherwise I should've waited till morning.



Going out alone is actually normal. It's like day game. I feel like doing a boot camp every day, without Brad.

If there's anything you guys would like to see more of or less, just reply. I hope to make a lot of pictures. It's fun to have pictures to remember the 30 day challenge.
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amanwithaplan

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Join Date: 07/31/2009 | Posts: 86

nice dude, I haven't really ever gone out myself... it just feels different...

I mean its not a big deal to go out yourself but there seems to be no one to fall back upon to talk to.....but its something im really thinking of doing tomorrow at the mall...and bookstore but its sunday so idk if people reallly hang out then, then again...its vacation here so yeah chances are im going

im still stifled dude
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DaggerNL

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People only get stifled when they get in their head and overanalyse stuff. They want to have the best opener, conversation and close. 
What do i say and do in this situation? What if she rejects me? It should be like: " Yeah i'm going to say this to you and you're going to love it and fall in love with me, we'll marry the next day and have 20 children together." Like that will happen right, tounge

It's okay to think about it when you're at home, but when you go out, try to just live in te moment. Whatever happens, happens.

Thanks for saying the word Stifled. I forgot something to write in the bootcamp story. It's about an unstifling exercise. The yelling out loud exercise. If you've seen the blueprint decoded, than you'll know what i mean.
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Poet3

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Join Date: 08/07/2009 | Posts: 20

 Nice dude!

Glad to hear the transvestites story is working out as we designed it to. :)

It inspires the thought that everything you ever wondered about is usable as a story, as an opener or just as a regular chat with anybody in field. The fact that everytime you keep wondering how people will respond makes it self-amusing and therefor...fun! :)

It is not canned material if you really want to know what they think.

Nice insight, thanks.
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DaggerNL

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Yeah it really doesn't matter what you talk about, as long as your passionate about it. Even if you bore her, so what. It's not your job to entertain everyone.

Day 3: August 23, 2009


Today is a day to chill. The family came to pay a visit. I saw my weighing machine and i wanted to know how much I weigh. Apparently I’ve lost 2 kilo’s, nice. But after how much I’ve eaten today I must have gained 2 kilo’s haha.

A friend (girl) wanted to see my most sexy facial expression, so we made some pictures. It wasn’t sexy. It had something, but not that instant attraction switch turned up. I am going to practice this. I did made a lot of pictures during the day.

No approaches today. It doesn’t matter. I was still being social and we went to a social environment.
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Poet3

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 It's not your job to entertain everyone.
Except yourself :p
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DaggerNL

DaggerNL

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Poet3 wrote:
 It's not your job to entertain everyone.
Except yourself :p


Exactly smile

Day 4: August 24, 2009

I had my alarm set early today so i could go to Amsterdam to approach. My job schedule is 1:30 PM till 10 PM. I can't remember what happened, but i was having a great time. Suddenly i heard someone yelling. I woke up, run towards the stairs and yell: What's wrong? My dad says, don't you have to go to work, it's 12 PM. I was still in a dream state: Oh yeah, i do have to go to work today. tounge I hurried up, did my thing and ran towards the bus. The bus just came when i arrived. Yes, i made it. After 20 minutes i still have to take the train. So while i stand on the escalator to go up, i saw a beautiful girl taking the stairs. I was glad she was there, because i used my free time on sleeping. Situational approaches are convenient. So i asked her why the train the goes directly to amsterdam is on this side, while it's normally on the other side. She responded well. I vomited about what happened to me this morning. We introduced ourself, then the train came.

Inside the train we sat crossed from each other, because it was so crowded. I used that transvestites discussion again. She wasn't that receptive. Then we talked about going out. She does go out, but not this friday. Saturday she goes to Mysteryland. It's an party outside with lots of different kinds of music. I wanted to go there also, but the tickets were sold out. You can buy one, but for 100 euro. That's too much. Someone called her. After she was done I grabbed my phone and said: You look like a fun girl to go out with, what's your number. She gave me her number. I called her and it goes off. She wasn't always reactive, I don't think that it means that she's the high valued person.
The train stops at Amsterdam Central Station, she had to go out and I had to wait for the next stop to go out. Nice, number close. Maybe I'll call her next week.

At work during a 15 minute break a friend and I went outside. After a few minutes there was a cute blonde coming outside and sat behind us with her friend. For some reason my friend told me to say funny stuff in English. I said those things. Now shake you ass. I shook my ass. They laugh. I asked the girl if she saw me shake my ass. She: No I didn't, can you demonstrate it again? So I did it again, she laughs. I asked her if she can do it as well. Then she stood up and showed me the same move. Cool, she sat down again. I said: Let's do it together. She: No. Come on, I walk to her, hold her hands, but she wouldn't stand up. It was a bet I would lose she said. The 15 minute break was over, so I had to go inside. It was still spontaneous of her to play along. smile
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DaggerNL

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Day 5: August 25, 2009

I woke up at 7:20 in the morning, because I heard the biggest thunder of my life. That was loud, fuck. I wanted to go downstairs if anyone else woke from it. So I open my door, suddenly I saw my father. AAHH. Jeez, two surprises in a minute. I took a piss and got back to bed. 

I woke up late again. At the station I saw two girls waiting for the train. I approached them. There was a bee bugging them. The train came, I touched the girl lightly on the shoulders and asked where she was going. She gave me this weird look and answered to where she was going. Then she walked off. It was like she was saying: Use statements and not questions like you've learned at the Boot Camp, you asshole. tounge

At the supermarket I saw a woman looking what she would buy for dinner. I asked, mag ik je iets vragen? She: Sorry I speak English. Oh, Can I ask you a question? I'm looking what I should eat for dinner. Have you eaten this lasagne? I want to know if it's good. She said: I ate it before, it's good. The fact that I ate it many times doesn't matter. Actually it does, I asked a question I didn't even want to know. I must redeem myself. The actual reason why I asked was because I thought you looked gorgeous and I wanted to talk to you. She: Why thank you. I: Do you come here often. She: I live here in Amsterdam for two years now.
I only had about 10 minutes before work began and I still had to pay for me groceries, so I wished her a good day. I should really work on more number closes.

Being direct is so much better than making things up to talk about. teeth
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Poet3

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Join Date: 08/07/2009 | Posts: 20

Another great statement you might want to consider when wanting to ask a question:
Hey! Quick Question....or Hey! Listen... (Hey! Snelle vraag of Hey! luister) > Question or Vomit

I noticed the strong and confident 'Hey' , as if you naturally assume she will listen, has a great impact on her reality. The fact that you immediatly start talking, before she can actually reply or refuse, fuels this even more as you care more about your reality, then whatever she would think of you.

Hope it is helpfull..

Keep up the good work dude. I'm rooting for ya! :)
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Brad

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DaggerNL wrote:
Day 5: August 25, 2009


At the supermarket I saw a woman looking what she would buy for dinner. I asked, mag ik je iets vragen? She: Sorry I speak English. Oh, Can I ask you a question? I'm looking what I should eat for dinner. Have you eaten this lasagne? I want to know if it's good. She said: I ate it before, it's good. The fact that I ate it many times doesn't matter. Actually it does, I asked a question I didn't even want to know. I must redeem myself. The actual reason why I asked was because I thought you looked gorgeous and I wanted to talk to you. She: Why thank you. I: Do you come here often?

Being direct is so much better than making things up to talk about. teeth
Yep, you are conscious of the question thing, so it should auto correct.  Look at this tho.  You thought to yourself, " I gotta use more statements!"  So you do, but follow it up with a question@!!!!

Haha, no worries, just work on flowing more.  Random statements.  VOMIT!!!!!!!

Keep up the discipline and hard work!
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