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March 23rd, 2017
3 fatalilties that will hinder your recovery in life
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Rayes

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Join Date: 04/06/2009 | Posts: 12

1)Indulging in self pity-Most of us have been through the stage feeling sad for ourselves all day long,whining in misery how sucky and fucked our life when that precious time and energy can be harnessed to actually do something more productive.There will always be that tendency to want to give yourself that pathetic 5 mins so that you can do some 'mental masturbation' and eventually yourself.The 5 mins turn into 50 mins and then gets longer and longer.You'll never find your way back up.

2)Comparing sufferings-Actually depends on how much external validation affects you.If you're constantly validated externally from your surroundings or your standings among other people,chances are when shit arises you're mostly likely to compare yourself with people around you who aren't having such a comfortable time as well.The sad part is society does that all the time as well.Showing that poor african kid on TV and then flashing 'You're way more fortunate.Please donate' gets people to constantly gauge how they're doing from people around them.Their happiness and misery is not self-defined by always fluctuating based on their surroundings.

3)Hiding instead of facing-Lots of people go through shit in life,but never really learn from it.When shit happens they go through it in a daze,shutting all consciousness from it in an attempt to escape from  misery.Nothing is learned and they thought they survived with more knowledge to deal with bigger waves.That is not the case.Shit simply ended before they could learn from it.Or they have got their heads in their shells the whole time to get any lessons from crisis in life.The bigger waves hit later on and all they realised is that they have been simply avoiding the misery instead of taking it in the face;The only way that you truly learn and grow from it.
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onmyjunk

onmyjunk

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Join Date: 11/09/2008 | Posts: 263

this fatality always gave me a lot of trouble
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Magix

Magix

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Join Date: 07/29/2009 | Posts: 19

I accept. Face up to your fears.
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Flawless Victory!
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Magix

Magix

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Join Date: 07/29/2009 | Posts: 19

I accept. Face up to your fears.
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Flawless Victory!
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Magix

Magix

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Join Date: 07/29/2009 | Posts: 19

I accept. Face up to your fears.
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Flawless Victory!
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