THE FORUMS

1. Every guy out there that knows from RSD talks about showing your intent, but I can't clearly understand the concept.
Ok, Intent is just your natural desire for the woman.  Most average chodes hide their intent from the girls.  They don't want to come off as lecherous or horny bastards or whatever.  So instead the neuter themselves.  They end up in the friend zone, or they entertain the girl like a dancing monkey.   Yes, you are showing that you have a dick from the start.  You walk up and say "Wow, you're hot.  I had to come meet you."  You're not hiding anything that way.  Girls can tell when you're into them.  Walking up and asking if they think your friend should name his 2 new dogs milli and vanilli is hiding your intent.  The girls can sense this shit.  We're not fooling anyone when we do that.  They know the deal.  So if you walk up and are just straight forward and honest about yourself, then that shows integrity, it's Alpha, it's positive and dominant.  It "Sub-Communicates" that you are good enough for her, whereas using some cheesy indirect routine subcommunicates that you must not think you're really good enough for her, otherwise you wouldn't be using some inauthentic routine.   Girls like intent.  Girls like sex.  Girls like men who want to fuck them and aren't afraid to own up to it.   They aren't so into little boys asking for their opinion on wether or not david bowie is hot.   Intent is what women are attacted to in men.  If you hide that intent, what the hell is going to turn them on?  You'll entertain the hell out of them, just like a clown... but they fuck guys with intent.  It's manly essence, and she wants it in her.  Hide intent and you've turned yourself into a dancing monkey.

2. Also how do you display your intent?. Do you just through many IOIs: I think you are lovely, do you go for the kiss, do you incorporate take aways, do you blame her for it.
You just display it, however the fuck you feel like it.  You walk up and say "Hey I'm Bob, and you are sexy as fuck"  You stare into her eyes, you put your arm around her and pull her in closer.  You chat a little bit, and if you feel like it, you go in for a kiss.  What matters is not her reaction, but that you are acting in alignment with your nature and what you feel like.  Maybe you don't feel like kissing her... fine, no worries.  You don't try to throw out IOI's per say... as if your in your head digging through a catalog like "Hmm, now which IOI should I deploy?" as if it's like a deck of Magic the Gathering cards.       What dictates wether you pull her in or kiss her or not isn't some outside theory, it's not some routine, it sure as hell isn't her IoI's or lack thereof.  You go for it because it was the thing you wanted to do.  You owe it to Darwin, blame him if she doesn't go for it, he programmed you that way after all.  :-P   Fuck take aways... you don't have to manufacture them.  Thinking about take aways will put you up inside your head and out of the moment and the vibe will die.  You can't both be there in the moment sharing a good vibe with the girl and inside your head calculating wether or not to do this or that.  Drop all that shit...  If one of your buddies watched the interaction from the outside, he might see some behavior on your part that looked like a take away.  But from your point of view you aren't consciously doing a take away.  Maybe she really did say something that turned you off and killed the vibe and you instead decide you wanted a drink, so you went and did that.  Was that a take away while you went up to the bar?  It looked like it to your loser pickup lair buddies, but you were just doing what you wanted to.. without trying to manipulate the situation.  You can 'blame her for it' if that is an authentic joke that really amuses you to tell, but you shouldn't do this... because you just got it out of a pickup book.  It'll seem weird and incongruent coming from you.  Instead do whatever other joking fun thing amuses you.  Tell her funny stockings make her look like the witches legs sticking out from under the house in wizard of Oz.   Tell her those 3 inch pump heels give her an unfair height advantage.   Ask her if being a 6 foot tall hottie makes it hard to find a good date.  Whatever the fuck interests you and amuses YOU.   Take all that dancing monkey 'entertain the girl' crap you've been trained to do, and instead use those same impulese to entertain yourself.  Then you feel good and validated and fun, and she will want to be a part of that and get in on your good feelings.  You'll be giving good feeling to yourself, and she'll want you to spare some for her too.

When I stopped worrying about all that pickup theory shit such as IOI's and takeaways, and stacking routines, and DHV stories, blah blah blah.. Then I was finially able to really enjoy the moment with the girl.  Boom, way more success.

All it requires is that you realize that you are enough....  sorta like Neo realizing that he is the one.

But it's true and it's not a movie.    This is a very rad realization.  You may understand it intellectually now, and when you realize it experientially, it's pretty bad ass.

Let go neo... then you will be able to jump over the building, and fuck the hottie.

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