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aproaching a girl with a compliment about her tits/ass/etc.
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#11
RockNRollPUA

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Join Date: 12/14/2008 | Posts: 1980

This kind of thing definatelly works, but only of you are rock solid confident and can say it without fear.  Girls actually like to hear this stuff, just not from low value guys and value takers.  If you say it and mean it, and not give a fuck about the outcome, it will usually go good.  If not, try something else.  Telling a girl she looks rediculously cute never fails to get a smile, brightens up there day.  But seriously, TRY IT then you will KNOW if it works haha.
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#12

Canello

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Join Date: 07/23/2008 | Posts: 1261

Generally it's not good to compliment a girl about her physical appearance especially early in the interaction.But depending on the delivery and the attitude you have,this may  leads to positive results.

Test it and see the results.That's the only way to find out
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beckstar

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Evenstar wrote:

YaBoiRayDawg wrote:
not sure what you mean by congruent with it? but thanks.
Welcome to Pick Up 101.

Congruence is when your words and actions match your personality.  They have a natural feel, instead of coming across as awkwad, forced, or insincere.

but where is the point where it gets inconcruent?
Imaginate: U see the hot chick and the first opener who comes truly from your inner Pimp is Who say "damn you are fucking cute. Your ass your lips your body you are wonderfull" but your inner chode says man you can´t do it this way to hard or whatever..
But you do it anyway.   normal it should be concruent. but i do not feel so much confidence it´s like the chode vs the pimp
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#14
Dion

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Because you are unsure. After this kind of comment if you pay attention YOU WILL ALWAYS see the girl pause for a milli second and scan you very quik to see if you are man enough to back up whatever it is you did or say. Pay attention it happens everytime, and if she senses you are not sure of what you did/say POOF gaaaaaaahn.

This is why subcommunication is KEY. When they scan you in that moment they watch for your puppils ( eyes ) bodylanguage ( hands fidgety ..little ticks..biting lips from nervousnes..mouth and lips moving quikly or shaking etc etc ) and voice tone ( cracking or not..stuttering or not..tone of voice..Br Tr Nr )

This is why when you talk to girls and especially just open her SUBCOMMUNICATION is all there is. Anybody can say anything its easy to put words together and spitt it out, but you can't manipulate your whole body that quik or long or good. So work on that.
The way to do it. Is to get used to saying this kind of shit so much untill you don't care anymore, and then get laid with it a couple of times. Then this will build momentum and your mind starts thinking ''hey this actually works'' and it brings the same lines and actions next time BUT with more confidence and certainty by dialing up your subcommunication which all happens on a uncouncious level. So the only way and best is to do it allot untill you become that kind of guy and it becomes a habit.

ps: Ofcourse calibrate and don't go ''i said this in church in front of everyone, and she didn't enjoy it'' because even tho girls might enjoy it they don't want to break social norms in the eyes of others such ass don't be a slut and smile when a man tells you ''You got a nice rack of tits''
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CHERISH

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Join Date: 12/09/2007 | Posts: 871

I can definitely see it working.

Especially if you're percieved as high value in the club -- do this by BEING comfortable, having fun in your environment, social proof or whatever.

I liked that "you make those pants look really good" though, smooth.

WHAT YOU SAY -- the words -- ARE DEFINITELY IMPORTANT...
At the same time, you can say pretty much anything.
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Poppa was a Playa

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Join Date: 01/21/2009 | Posts: 172

Try it out and then share what you found.
When I opened with stuff like that I have found that it is very polarizing. Most girls will nearly want to slap you, if not they will. Yet some will be all about it and you will need to escalate fast to keep congruent with your bold statements.
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#17
Charlie Kilo

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A good follow up line would be "I want to eat the corn out of it."
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#18

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Join Date: 07/13/2009 | Posts: 115

HymenOfGlory wrote:
This is a classic 40+ men opener, and everytime I hear it I hear more creepy than the first time,
Hardly, I am not that far off 40, but I wouldn't use "nice ass" as an opener on a girl, specially in day game. I think it is more of a street/urban type of opener.

You can say the same thing without spitting it out like that. I have been using the, "You make those pants look really good." line and that seems to be very appreciated. I get big smiles from it.  A similar one you could use would be, "I love your curves".  In both those cases, you are saying "nice ass" without actually saying it.

Now, if you are in a club environment, it is much each to pull of "nice ass", though I would probably say something along the lines of "I love your booty".
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#19

YaBoiRayDawg

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Join Date: 03/02/2009 | Posts: 1499

good stuff in here guys thanks. i dont think it makes someone misogynist, but certainly miscalibrated.
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#20

zippyzag

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Join Date: 05/01/2009 | Posts: 135

Sadly this is one of the rare things that matter on the context (eg where you are), in some places of London, you could have the charm of Jack Black or the looks of George Clooney and if you opened with that on some women you will get rejected straight away... but if it's congruent, it's possible.
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