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Paris Boum Boum

Paris Boum Boum

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The fundamentals of game:

Those are the practical moves that must be performed on order to work on the fundamentals of game.
As opposed to flash game, where you perform extraordinary pick ups, the fundamentals of game focus on the bare minimum that must be laid in order for you to get laid on the short term, and to improve drastically on the long term. Here is what you must perform regardless of your state or of your current skills.

-Go out
-Gain social momentum
-Approach the girls you feel are attractive
-Isolate
-Push out your Comfort Zone (CZ)
-Work on a special piece of your game that specifically needs to be improved
-Lead
-Stay in set
-Get physical
-Close

1/ Go out: if you don’t go out, nothing will happen, plain and simple. If you don’t go out regularly, you’ll never implement the habit of going out. Be careful nonetheless and don’t wreck your day life because your nightlife is unbalanced.

2/ Gain social momentum: you won’t get in state and have fun before having social momentum. The later you cold approach, the later you will get social momentum, the more you are wasting your time. If you go out at 10pm but didn’t approach anybody at 1am you wasted 3 hours.

3/ Approach the girls you find attractive: if you don’t do this, you won’t get laid by attractive girls, which is ultimately what you are looking for.

4/ Isolate: this is crucial because if you don’t isolate you won’t be able to reach the next level in the interaction, everything becomes more difficult, and you are more likely to eject prematurely.

5/ Push out your CZ: if you don’t this regularly you will never have the habit to do it, and if you don’t have the habit implemented you are far less likely to push out your CZ when you will need it the most. End result: all those nights out will be a waste of time because you didn’t work on the most important habit necessary for your improvement on the long term.

6/ Work on a specific area of your game: when going out, you should focus on one of your weaknesses and find a way to improve in that specific area. If you don’t do that, you will keep making the same mistakes again and again. 

7/ Lead: leading will show you a new perspective on what you were doing before. You will discover that many problems you encountered simply vanish when you are leading more. Simply put, if you don’t lead and take charge, you are not behaving like a man, and you won’t attract heterosexual girls looking for a man.

8/ Stay in set: if you don’t push the interaction further when you feel you lost the set, you are preventing yourself from gaining extra experience and from learning to deal with social pressure.

9/ Get physical: sex implies contact. No contact = no sex.

10/ Go for the close: this will be much easier after leading and isolation.

If I did this on any given night, and didn’t get laid, I can consider that I did all I had to do, and I can go to sleep happy.

Feel free to add any fundamental area I forgot. I wrote this for me and will be happy to benefit from the experience of others.
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#1

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Very good post man!Actually these are the things that bring success in a consistent basis.
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what is CZ?

great post.
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Paris Boum Boum

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CZ = Comfort Zone (I forgot to mention it, original post modified)

1/ is covered in http://www.rsdnation.com/node/125518

2/ is covered in http://www.rsdnation.com/node/125529

Keep in mind those are not things you need to know, but habits you have to implement until you don't think about it anymore. 

It's like in any sport: you must practice the fundamentals for hours and hours and hours if you want to perform amazingly during a match or a fight.
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Episode III - Love, Dong, Light & Magic : http://www.rsdnation.com/node/178486
Episode IV - The Return of Mandala : http://www.rsdnation.com/node/180784
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i googled this and your post came up. its money. thanks
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Like a bouse.

i hit 5 star
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#6

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Paris Boum Boum wrote:
The fundamentals of game:

Those are the practical moves that must be performed on order to work on the fundamentals of game.
As opposed to flash game, where you perform extraordinary pick ups, the fundamentals of game focus on the bare minimum that must be laid in order for you to get laid on the short term, and to improve drastically on the long term. Here is what you must perform regardless of your state or of your current skills.

-Go out
-Gain social momentum
-Approach the girls you feel are attractive
-Isolate
-Push out your Comfort Zone (CZ)
-Work on a special piece of your game that specifically needs to be improved
-Lead
-Stay in set
-Get physical
-Close

1/ Go out: if you don’t go out, nothing will happen, plain and simple. If you don’t go out regularly, you’ll never implement the habit of going out. Be careful nonetheless and don’t wreck your day life because your nightlife is unbalanced.

2/ Gain social momentum: you won’t get in state and have fun before having social momentum. The later you cold approach, the later you will get social momentum, the more you are wasting your time. If you go out at 10pm but didn’t approach anybody at 1am you wasted 3 hours.

3/ Approach the girls you find attractive: if you don’t do this, you won’t get laid by attractive girls, which is ultimately what you are looking for.

4/ Isolate: this is crucial because if you don’t isolate you won’t be able to reach the next level in the interaction, everything becomes more difficult, and you are more likely to eject prematurely.

5/ Push out your CZ: if you don’t this regularly you will never have the habit to do it, and if you don’t have the habit implemented you are far less likely to push out your CZ when you will need it the most. End result: all those nights out will be a waste of time because you didn’t work on the most important habit necessary for your improvement on the long term.

6/ Work on a specific area of your game: when going out, you should focus on one of your weaknesses and find a way to improve in that specific area. If you don’t do that, you will keep making the same mistakes again and again. 

7/ Lead: leading will show you a new perspective on what you were doing before. You will discover that many problems you encountered simply vanish when you are leading more. Simply put, if you don’t lead and take charge, you are not behaving like a man, and you won’t attract heterosexual girls looking for a man.

8/ Stay in set: if you don’t push the interaction further when you feel you lost the set, you are preventing yourself from gaining extra experience and from learning to deal with social pressure.

9/ Get physical: sex implies contact. No contact = no sex.

10/ Go for the close: this will be much easier after leading and isolation.

If I did this on any given night, and didn’t get laid, I can consider that I did all I had to do, and I can go to sleep happy.

Feel free to add any fundamental area I forgot. I wrote this for me and will be happy to benefit from the experience of others.


money
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FCuk-dNiM wrote:
there is a better way of doing things.

1.i disagree with staying in set its a mentality of wanting something , interactions about sex go down in the first 30 seconds.

2.social momentum is a geeky way of saying take action ....in higher levels girls choose you in a milisecond and many times come to you

3.get physical is good but not infront of the friends or in the club have some class

4. working out on a specific are is LAME you are there for women not to become a pick up artist

other than that this is pretty basic newbie stuff GOOD
straight up polarity dude. man you are so insecure
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'nigga gimme mine' - Nas
'30 grand in my jean poc' - Jim Jones
'we ain't trippin, cuz we'll get there in a minute' - Wiz Khalifa

On the road to destiny, do not waver, do not look back. - Frank Mcgrath.

Though the fear may come over you, never let it overcome you. - (Take away from : ''Though the pain may come over you, never let it overcome you'' - Frank Mcgrath).

"Be real. Don’t be fake. Be smart. Don’t waste your time. Find that spark inside you and make it the biggest fucking fire around. Let it burn out of control. Take control of your destination and never give it up. Stop making excuses. Make it work. All the pleasures in life cannot compare to living your dream. Get off your ass. The only thing that you must fear is the thought that one day you may not have a dream, so do not let this one go until you get all the fuck you want. By any means necessary. Take it. Be an Animal. Fuck everything else. " - Bulldog, Animalpak.com

"I am the man responsible for who I am. When I look in the mirror each day, I stare my creator in the eyes. I am responsible for what I have and will become, I am accountable for what I will or will not accomplish. I believe in myself." - G Diesel.

"To elicit extreme results, you must take extreme measures. If you never push yourself to the limit or risk going over the edge, you will always be mediocre." - Evan Centopani
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Juju Shaka Khan

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Join Date: 11/12/2012 | Posts: 140

 Excellent post! 
I think I made the mistake of overloading myself with too much information on seduction. 
I'll just follow your 10 fundamentals and ignore the other stuff for the time being.
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Idk i think even this overcomplicates shit...

Id break it down even further n say just be happy, constantly interact & be a sexual person & take control.

Alot of the fundamentals just run in the background, those are the main things u can control to me.
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Good post!
5 staring the shit out this!.
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