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Be Your Own Coach. This is how you end up fucking girls in less than 4 months.
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ReallityFactory

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I can assure you 100% that you will be pulling in less than 4 month, not one year, not two years, not four years; but like in any other program, you will need to stick to it. So here it is:

-Go out with nothing planned, 7 days a week for 15 weeks in a row. You can take one day off a week if you feel you need it, but I can tell you that this gets addicted and you will keep wanting going out.

-Socialize with everybody in the venue, meaning, don't stop socializing, no time to chode at the bar line, at the bathroom or pinging around. Talk to the first person you see.

-Assume everyone is your friend and they all like you. I'm sure you have a group of friends where you can just chill and nothing holds you back from being yourself, so apply the same approach to the pub.

-Plow with everybody, stay with the tension, learn to take social pressure, don't poof for no reason. Give them a chance, remember they may just be nervous.

-Don't think ahead anything to say, remember trying to impress will only show neediness, thinking ahead is trying to impress, you don't need to make any sentence longer, you are there to be out of the house and interact with people as any other socially healthy human being.

-Lower the standards of what you have to say, what you have to say is worth it becomes it comes from you, so anything, even if you are talking about dog shit, assume is interesting enough because it is coming from you.

-Whatever happens to you, assume is the coolest thing going on, the coolest thing going on is not in two hours, was not two hours ago, the coolest thing is happening right now in front of your eyes, not to the group over there, not to the guy over there, it is happening to you.

-Always know what you want. Never think about what you don't want. Only think about what you want, and take right action on it. Whether is calling up on people's behavior, hugging a girl, kissing, etc. Only do what you core dictates, people will appreciate you for being authentic.

-Do not compare, do not judge, do not interpret, do not label anything that the girl wear, do, or say. Do not focus on her mind, she is not her mind, so there is absolutely no reason to focus on her mind. Focus on her heart, her heart and soul is where is at, literally.

-Do not judge yourself, do not compare yourself, do not label yourself, feel good with yourself, your sense of value is not dictated by what you are seeing, or listening or anything that is coming through your senses. You are the only one that decides how you want to feel, you are your own authority.

-Don't forget that kino and escalation comes from this one question: What do I want right now? It does not come from this question: What should I do right now? That what should do question should never enter your thoughts.

-Remember you are the man, You take accountability for everything that happens. You never put any responsibility on her. It's all on you. You make the decisions, you don't wait for her to make a decision, she expects you to make the decisions for her.

The key is to have fun with it. It is suppose to be for your own fun. Do not to try to learn everything at the same time, that's like eating all 6 meals at once. Remember that it is just like going to the gym, you have to stick to it. Keep a journal and don't forget to always be closing. Expect consistency and easiness in your game.

Don't get caught up on the techniques, you can use anything you want, the idea of techniques is to have diversity so you don't come up so restricted, more than techniques to use, you should look at it as games to play, as something to have fun with. Here are some examples of things you can use to self amuse in the field during each day:

-Misinterpretations/Sexual Innuendo
-Cold Reading
-Storytelling
-Take Aways
-Plotlines/Roleplaying
-Future Adventure Projections
-Push/Pull
-Teaching Something Of Interest
-Elastic band snapback effect (used with playful breaking rapport tonality)
-Extreme multiple threading
-Compliance ladders
-Playful teasing and negging aka flirting
-Nicknames and pimp talk
-Disqualification
-Silly games (Fuck-Marry-Kil, second grade games, etc.)
-The anomaly effect
-Conspiracies
-Qualifying and Challenging (Are you fun?)
-Shock And Awe

Do the same approach for practicing kino. Here are some things you can use to get some touch going:

-Kissing
-Holding hands
-Moving her around
-Playful dancing
-Physical games
-Handshake
-Massaging
-Pinging
-Playful rubbing
-Scratching
-Grab her hair from the back of her neck
-Playful pushing
-Teaching something physical
-Poking
-Playful pulling
-Taping
-Cuddling
-Spanking
-Biting
-Hugging
-Clawing
-Keylock
-Ask her to touch you (feel this muscle)

Imagine you approach an average of 12 girls per night. In 3 weeks you will have 252 girls of experience and in a little over 3 months you will have 1,260 girls of experience. How much experience do you have now?
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Ranga

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This post is fucking awesome!

SpinozaLeibniz wrote:
I can see how incredible good do this would be, but I don't have the money, that would be expensive.
Me either man, I'm still going out tonight.
I literally have $5 cash and about $15 on my card which i can't access cos $20 is the smallest you can get out of an ATM here.
All of the clubs here are free entry before 10pm and most of them are free all night.
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"tim has an exercise in which he makes you describe your girl archetype and then he sends you in a quest to find her. this helps guys get focused because they are not approaching for the hell of it they are on a quest to find the right one. it is like an screening mission. this exercise is genious because it removes the typical pitfalls of approaching to get approval or to hook a set. it makes you naturally screening in your approach. you dont dwell much on negativity because you are after something else. you have purpose, intent naturally. i thought this would help guys that have been in the field for a while equally to those who havent. a man with a purpose is a dangerous weapon." - Ozzie.
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For anomaly effect and elastic snapback effect : see Tyler's old archives on mASF,
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Paris Boum Boum

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@ ReallityFactory:
I like your post. Simple & inspirational.

A few questions:
Did you follow one of those programs ?
What was your back story before those programs ? 
What did you learn doing each of those ?
What kind of results did you come up with ? 
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ReallityFactory

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The reason why I feel accountable to share this experience is because I had experienced it myself, it is a simple personal practical approach to learning game. Expect consistency and easiness in your game. I was one of the most self defeating guys you'll ever met, so not excuses.
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This is good stuff. I was just thinking earlier today that a summary like this would be awesome.

Thanks man!
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Don't get caught up on the techniques, you can use anything you want, the idea of techniques for the program #1 is to have diversity so you don't come up so restricted, more than techniques to use, you should look at it as games to play, something to have fun with. Here are some examples by Alexander~:
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• Teasing
- light hearted put downs - your silly, this is an adult conversation, keep up

• Misinterpretations
- are you drinking that to absolve yourself from responsibility, no that doesnt mean im going to take off my clothes

• Cold reading
- truisms about the girl in the same style as horoscopes - your very extroverted but you like to have your own time as well, omg your such a party girl but im sure theres a deep side to you as well that few people know

• Compliance ladders
- hey hold this for one sec, stand over here, take this money and go and buy us a round of drinks, give me massage and i will give you one

• Push/Pull
- i love you i hate you, were friends now were mortal enemines/hug, backturn

• The Anomaly effect
- you know i want to spend more time with my family, i want to make sacrifies to get ahead in my job, i love my little neice and i think people who have enough responsibility to have kids are great... i cant wait to be a dad one day

• Teaching something of interest
- this is how you elbow people in the head at the bar, this is how to use ten straws to drink a pitcher of beer in one gulp, this is how you infuriate the person in the bathroom

• Take aways
- interrupt the person while they are talking and text, interrupt and talk to someone less cool in their social circle, ge their number early on a high and leave back your friends

• Extreme multiple threading
- tim's pounding of passion, asking a question... getting a response then asking another question mid response so you open multiple threads of conversation ad the girl goes into conversation stimulus arousal

• Elastic snap back effect
- calling the girl a fucken with a retchid fetid when you are losing her attention [dont go that extreme] just say something oi bitch... something shocking to win back attention when you are fighting to keep it

• Shock and awe
- blaming them for making them like you your so hot, your making me want to kiss you, i help help this, stop tempting me, let e have a peaceful night with out being drawn into you

• Conspiracies
- you and me are the cassiest people in the bar, you and me are the only two people who really get this scene, you are me are the only fun people here, you and me are the only to REAL people here

• Plotlines
- im going to make you my girlfriend or the next five minutes, im going to go with you to las vegas to get married for facebook status purposes, im going to dress you up in half a cheerleader's out fit and thether us together

• Storytelling
- telling a chain of events starting with a hook state ment - the faggot magicians in sydney are amazing! - then use environmentally descriptive and emotionally charged words - in the elegant bar all i could smell was sweat and dancefloor smoke, all i could see was bodies. I was realy fucking scared, like pertrified to the depths of the capiliaries of my soul. Fucking magician faggots everywhere, wearing no shirts, they couldnt afford them; because of the economy.
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Low key for day game.
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FraserVatt wrote:
bump! 

Hey man, thanks for bumping. I also love Rhapsody. Down Of Victory and Power Of The Dragonflame albums rule. Have you heard of Revolution Renaissance? I bet you'll love it too:



Another favorite band of mine is Stratovarius, I bet you heard about them:

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FraserVatt wrote:
 
Thought I'd bump this thread as I've been real lazy when I'm out recently, gunna go crazy Halloween tomorrow, and do likewise three days a week (sometimes 4, as monday is a good night where I live at the moment, but I sometimes have real hefty days on tuesdays). Going to start out with your second plan, until I can consistently keep things going and I start to get results, and then start to put some more traditional concepts in. Or maybe I'll keep going as I am, who knows...

Nice to hear you are stepping up man. That's all that matters. I actually decided to put it all in one program, that's how it was meant to be in the first place anyway because that's how my experience was. As long as you have the right mentality everything else will just fall into place. Keep it up.
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great post man, great fucking post!

the girlfriend for 5 minutes is gold i've been using it the past couple of weeks and its great call back humour =)
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