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April 17th, 2014
How To Make Love Better Than A Pornstar (How To be Her Best Partner... Ever)
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#21

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I got the book, but this is a seriously awsome summary, you got any more summaries of books?
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Excellent stuff Caligula.
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I don't see myself doing the "I love you" shit when I don't.. I mean them being adDICKted is enough... I don't want the absolutely obsessed too..

Oh yeah, didn't someone mentioning fucking a girl to right before climax.. then pulling out and saying "I Own You".... then fucking the shit out of her after?
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Really good post!
Read David Shade's book on sex. It's insane!
As the guy you need take the lead, be dominant, thats what i learnt.

Although girls who just lie there expecting me to do all the work are boring no matter how hot they are. I like a girl who has energy in bed and who pounces on me too :)
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I forgot that I had read this book. It is truly awesome.
I love the Dominance, I have to up the Emotion a little more though.
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Caligula

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I can usually get about 3 orgasms going but after that she starts to get sore, but I already have everything applied: Dominance, emotion, variety and Immersion.

How do you get 6-8 orgasms in her? Is it how long your sessions are?

My sessions don't last more than 15 minutes.


It really is just a matter of ratcheting up the four elements, which requires creativity more than anything.

If soreness is a problem, then you need to ratchet up her immersion so that she doesn't even proccess it.

Read some books on tantric sex.

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By the way, I hate dirty talking, it's just retarded, unless you are still a teenager that never got to grow up.


lol, wut?

Please elaborate.

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I don't see myself doing the "I love you" shit when I don't.. I mean them being adDICKted is enough... I don't want the absolutely obsessed too..

Oh yeah, didn't someone mentioning fucking a girl to right before climax.. then pulling out and saying "I Own You".... then fucking the shit out of her after?


Ya, don't say "I love you" unless you actually do.

That said, her orgasms will become more powerful in future sessions if you do cross that threshold.  The only time in my experience that it is possible to give the girl a 30 minute continuous orgasm is when she is in love with you, and you have reciprocated.

And yes, the "I own you" bit is fantastic (dominance).

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Really good post!
Read David Shade's book on sex. It's insane!
As the guy you need take the lead, be dominant, thats what i learnt.

Although girls who just lie there expecting me to do all the work are boring no matter how hot they are. I like a girl who has energy in bed and who pounces on me too :)


Thanks for the props.

The first book I read on sex was by David Shade, and that realy messed me up because it emphasized fingering as opposed to fucking.  That puts a pretty low ceiling on how good the sex can get for both of you.

That said, the deep spot was a useful bit to know.

My current girlfriend was very sexually closed when we first started having sex.  She just kind of layed there and thought about the queen or whatever.  Because I was dominant and gave her commands, she started doing more and more.  And as I pushed her way outside of her comfort zone, she morphed like a pokemon into a sexual freak.

Now she wants threesomes with my housemates.

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Caligula

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boobier wrote:
Yeah, this stuff is great -- for a certain type of girl.
 
It's helpful to remember that female sexuality ecompasses a huge spectrum. Not everyone's the same (or even remotely the same). 

Best to feel things out a bit before you grab a girl's head and tell her to SUCK IT NOW, BITCH! 
Depending on how socially conditioned the girl is, you might need to tone down the dominance early on into your relationship.

But over time, all feminine women well respond to extreme dominance once they feel comfortable enough with you to shed all that social conditioning.

This has been the experience myself and every other guy I have talked to who is aware of the power of dominance combined with emotion, immersion and variety.

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Caligula

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boobier wrote:
Not trying to be a dick, here, but look at the way you're approaching things: 

-- It's assumed from the get-go that this is the one true way in bed, that all others are false. 

 -- Women who don't respond to 'extreme dominance' are dupes, tricked by 'social conditioning' into thinking other things really turn them on.

 -- Women who still don't respond are not truly 'feminine', and can be discounted.

Sorry, but it just doesn't pass the ol' critical thinking test.

I happen to agree with you 100%...but only in regards some women. Or a certain type of woman...
I wasn't very detailed.

As you probably know from studying pickup, women have two opposing forces: their mind and their buying temperature.  Their mind says things like "make him work for sex, don't be easy, don't be a slut, etc."  

Her buying temperature is the emotions she is feeling when an attractive man is interacting with her.  That part of her is saying "omg I want his seed."

Her buying temperature responds to status (or the appearance of status) and emotional spikes.  That is why "naturals" who embody those traits can bed just about any type of girl in any situation.

This is the case in sex as well.  Women have grown up being exposed to different ways that sex "should be."  Guys have to, and they usually have sex with women in that way, which is usually non-dominant.  Women, therefore, create a lot of mental blocks that prevent them from opening up to dominance.

That said, all feminine women are biologically hardwired to respond most powerfully to dominance, plain and simple.  Read up on masculine and feminine polarity if you do not understand this.  Because of their mental blocks, however, a lot of women have a tough time opening up to extreme dominance.  My current girlfriend is a perfect example of this.

If you inteligently push her comfort zone, over time, those mental blocks will go away and she will open up to her natural state, which is total submission.

A lot of "intelligently pushing her comfort zone" is not being disrespectful to her.  I found with my girlfriend that she was most afraid of not being respected by me if she did things like suck my cock or take it up the ass.  To overcome that, I constantly reminded her why I like her and was completely non-judgemental at all times.

If you do that, then all women will open up and allow themselves to be completely dominated, because that is what they are hardwired to respond to.

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VisionsDivine wrote:
By the way, I hate dirty talking, it's just retarded, unless you are still a teenager that never got to grow up.
Uhm......... FALSE
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