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Posted April 27th, 2010 at 1:51 PM
just watched the movie 'Pay It Forward'. Stop what you're doing and RENT, BUY, or DOWNLOAD this movie NOW.
Right up there with Fight Club as the best movie of all time
Right up there with Fight Club as the best movie of all time
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“Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind” - Dr. Seuss
FR journal: Living Success To The MAX From My Core!~
Representing Team Alexander~ Melbourne "You beauty"
FR journal: Living Success To The MAX From My Core!~
Representing Team Alexander~ Melbourne "You beauty"
Posted May 30th, 2010 at 9:52 AM
Been feeling a bit down today so I opened up notepad and just did a brain dump of everything going on in my mind. I nailed it down to not having sex for a long time.
WHAT DO I REALLY WANT?
- Sex with HOT girls
WHAT ACTION STEPS DO I NEED TO TAKE?
- Approach girls I'm attracted to during the day and get their phone number AND follow up on it.
- Approach girls I'm attracted to at night and number close AND follow up on it.
MINDSET SHIFTS TO ADOPT:
- Have an abundance mentality and see lot's of girls at the same time and most of my issues will self-correct
- Add disqualifiers into my game
- Inspire a wider range of emotions (positive & negative) in myself and girls AND at a more intense level
- don't be so damn nice
- ALWAYS stand up for myself - When someone gives me shit, give it right back!
- be unapologetic for hurting other peoples feelings when acting through my own intentions.
WHAT DO I REALLY WANT?
- Sex with HOT girls
WHAT ACTION STEPS DO I NEED TO TAKE?
- Approach girls I'm attracted to during the day and get their phone number AND follow up on it.
- Approach girls I'm attracted to at night and number close AND follow up on it.
MINDSET SHIFTS TO ADOPT:
- Have an abundance mentality and see lot's of girls at the same time and most of my issues will self-correct
- Add disqualifiers into my game
- Inspire a wider range of emotions (positive & negative) in myself and girls AND at a more intense level
- don't be so damn nice
- ALWAYS stand up for myself - When someone gives me shit, give it right back!
- be unapologetic for hurting other peoples feelings when acting through my own intentions.
__________________
“Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind” - Dr. Seuss
FR journal: Living Success To The MAX From My Core!~
Representing Team Alexander~ Melbourne "You beauty"
FR journal: Living Success To The MAX From My Core!~
Representing Team Alexander~ Melbourne "You beauty"
Posted June 3rd, 2010 at 1:40 PM
MY NEW EMPOWERING BELIEFS
16/9/09
HEALTH
- The way I eat, exercise and live my lifestyle determines how strong or weak my immune system is.
- I eat food purely for nourishment purposes to fuel my body. I do not view food as a source from which to receive positive emotions or restrain negative emotions.
- I eat plenty of fresh, natural, water rich and highly alkaline foods so I can live with maximum energy.
- I eat a variety of raw fruits and vegetables every day.
- I have no desire or cravings to eat junk food, highly processed foods, soft drinks or dairy products.
- I do the Tony Robbins 1-4-2 breath cleansing technique for 5 reps 3 times a day to get my blood pumping and cleansing my body.
- I do some form of exercise every single day.
- I know what I’m going to eat, so I write a shopping list to make sure I’m able to cook what I need to be bursting with energy and being extremely healthy.
BUSINESS/MONEY
- I have a huge amount of knowledge and experience about Internet Marketing and business. If I consistently channel it into actions that product results I will inevitably have financial freedom.
- I work with mentors who already have the success I desire and listen to their advice to fast track my results.
- I release my products and setup sales funnels when they are good enough. I don’t fuss about making my business perfect, simply excellent.
- Even if the 2 info product businesses I’m creating now fail, I will learn valuable lessons and have a much higher chance of achieving success in my next business.
- Whilst I’m specialized at creating info products and is what I want to do, I’m open to the possibility of creating a regular brick & mortar business, software development, create an innovative product or service, etc.
- I create such good value that my customers are happy to pay me 10x the value I offer them. At the same time, I deliver 10x the value the customer pays me.
- If I manage my time effectively, I have plenty of time to run a successful business whilst attending uni, playing sport and having a social life.
- When I become financially successful my existing friends will be happy for me because I’m down to earth and generous.
- When I become financially successful I will have new close friends that are on the same level as me.
LIFESTYLE
- I just straight out of bed as soon as my alarm goes off and feel unbelievably energized and excited at the start of another day I get to shape my destiny.
- After I go through my morning success ritual, I spend the first hour of my day working on the business only doing actions that product results.
- I check email once a day only after 7pm.
- Unless it’s for business purposes - I only go on facebook, forums, YouTube, and blogs after 7pm.
- I write up a weekly schedule every Sunday night and follow it flexibly.
- I don’t eat any meals in front of the computer or TV before 7pm. I always eat quickly in the kitchen because food is just a way to fuel up – food is not a source of positive emotions.
- My best friends are adventurous, fun, positive, push me outside my comfort zone, have a strong drive to achieve their goals and help me with mine, have integrity, loyal, would back me up in a fight, laid back and cool to everyone.
UNI:
- I have a high distinction average across all my subjects.
- The content taught at uni is what makes big businesses have sustainable success and can be applied to any size business.
- What I learn at uni combined with my street smarts will give me an edge over the competition in any business venture I undertake.
- Attending uni is holding me back from working on my business at full throttle, but I have the rest of my life to do that. Uni is just a short period that I can look back at with great satisfaction about what I learned, the people I met and the crazy adventures I had.
- The lecturers and tutors have lots of knowledge from 1000’s of hours of studying. By listening attentively I can learn the core components of what they’re saying and shortcut my success by applying cutting edge, proven knowledge to the real world.
- Going to uni in fun!
PEOPLE
- Whether people are stuck in social conditioning or simply have different beliefs and goals than me, I respect them for being different to me and wish them all the best in what they want.
- People are cool, friendly and interesting.
- Regardless of how evolved someone is, they are still a person and are exactly where they need to be at this point in time and have a unique view of the world.
- People like me
- People think I’m funny
- People think I’m interesting
- People hang onto my every word
- People are too concerned about themselves to have time to judge me.
FAMILY:
- My parents have a lot of life experience, whilst it’s come from a place of scarcity and negative beliefs that doesn’t mean there’s no wisdom in there.
PERSONAL
- When I make a decision, I stick to it.
- I take right action 100% of the time even when it feels uncomfortable to do so.
- I make the most of EVERY moment and every interaction.
- I have unquestionable integrity in all aspects of my life.
- When I speak to someone, I listen attentively to every word they say rather than thinking about what I’m going to say next.
- I remember the name of everyone I meet.
- Everything happens for a reason.
- I’m exactly where I’m meant to be at this point in time.
- I constantly surround myself with a social circle of people who are better than me and transform up to their standard.
- I don’t give a fuck what anyone thinks of me. The only thing that matters is what I think of me.
- I’m hilarious.
- I’m extremely interesting.
- I make people feel good when they’re around me.
- I deserve success in all areas of my life.
- I’m the shit. And humble about it.
- I love myself.
- I let my personality flow freely and expose my vulnerabilities because I don’t give a fuck what anyone thinks of me.
- The more people I help achieve what they want will open up doors for me I can’t even imagine yet.
- My look and how I dress don’t matter whether I want to attract a girl or make a sale, but I dress well because I like it.
- I am 100% congruent with what I say and do. I’m always coming from my true self and people can see it and appreciate it.
SPORT
- I can become an AFL footballer if I dedicate myself to it
- Whether I have 1% or 99% chance of succeeding, if I choose to do something I know I will succeed 100%.
- I am the greatest AFL football player ever!
- If I apply what I know about mindset to sport I have the edge even against current AFL players.
16/9/09
HEALTH
- The way I eat, exercise and live my lifestyle determines how strong or weak my immune system is.
- I eat food purely for nourishment purposes to fuel my body. I do not view food as a source from which to receive positive emotions or restrain negative emotions.
- I eat plenty of fresh, natural, water rich and highly alkaline foods so I can live with maximum energy.
- I eat a variety of raw fruits and vegetables every day.
- I have no desire or cravings to eat junk food, highly processed foods, soft drinks or dairy products.
- I do the Tony Robbins 1-4-2 breath cleansing technique for 5 reps 3 times a day to get my blood pumping and cleansing my body.
- I do some form of exercise every single day.
- I know what I’m going to eat, so I write a shopping list to make sure I’m able to cook what I need to be bursting with energy and being extremely healthy.
BUSINESS/MONEY
- I have a huge amount of knowledge and experience about Internet Marketing and business. If I consistently channel it into actions that product results I will inevitably have financial freedom.
- I work with mentors who already have the success I desire and listen to their advice to fast track my results.
- I release my products and setup sales funnels when they are good enough. I don’t fuss about making my business perfect, simply excellent.
- Even if the 2 info product businesses I’m creating now fail, I will learn valuable lessons and have a much higher chance of achieving success in my next business.
- Whilst I’m specialized at creating info products and is what I want to do, I’m open to the possibility of creating a regular brick & mortar business, software development, create an innovative product or service, etc.
- I create such good value that my customers are happy to pay me 10x the value I offer them. At the same time, I deliver 10x the value the customer pays me.
- If I manage my time effectively, I have plenty of time to run a successful business whilst attending uni, playing sport and having a social life.
- When I become financially successful my existing friends will be happy for me because I’m down to earth and generous.
- When I become financially successful I will have new close friends that are on the same level as me.
LIFESTYLE
- I just straight out of bed as soon as my alarm goes off and feel unbelievably energized and excited at the start of another day I get to shape my destiny.
- After I go through my morning success ritual, I spend the first hour of my day working on the business only doing actions that product results.
- I check email once a day only after 7pm.
- Unless it’s for business purposes - I only go on facebook, forums, YouTube, and blogs after 7pm.
- I write up a weekly schedule every Sunday night and follow it flexibly.
- I don’t eat any meals in front of the computer or TV before 7pm. I always eat quickly in the kitchen because food is just a way to fuel up – food is not a source of positive emotions.
- My best friends are adventurous, fun, positive, push me outside my comfort zone, have a strong drive to achieve their goals and help me with mine, have integrity, loyal, would back me up in a fight, laid back and cool to everyone.
UNI:
- I have a high distinction average across all my subjects.
- The content taught at uni is what makes big businesses have sustainable success and can be applied to any size business.
- What I learn at uni combined with my street smarts will give me an edge over the competition in any business venture I undertake.
- Attending uni is holding me back from working on my business at full throttle, but I have the rest of my life to do that. Uni is just a short period that I can look back at with great satisfaction about what I learned, the people I met and the crazy adventures I had.
- The lecturers and tutors have lots of knowledge from 1000’s of hours of studying. By listening attentively I can learn the core components of what they’re saying and shortcut my success by applying cutting edge, proven knowledge to the real world.
- Going to uni in fun!
PEOPLE
- Whether people are stuck in social conditioning or simply have different beliefs and goals than me, I respect them for being different to me and wish them all the best in what they want.
- People are cool, friendly and interesting.
- Regardless of how evolved someone is, they are still a person and are exactly where they need to be at this point in time and have a unique view of the world.
- People like me
- People think I’m funny
- People think I’m interesting
- People hang onto my every word
- People are too concerned about themselves to have time to judge me.
FAMILY:
- My parents have a lot of life experience, whilst it’s come from a place of scarcity and negative beliefs that doesn’t mean there’s no wisdom in there.
PERSONAL
- When I make a decision, I stick to it.
- I take right action 100% of the time even when it feels uncomfortable to do so.
- I make the most of EVERY moment and every interaction.
- I have unquestionable integrity in all aspects of my life.
- When I speak to someone, I listen attentively to every word they say rather than thinking about what I’m going to say next.
- I remember the name of everyone I meet.
- Everything happens for a reason.
- I’m exactly where I’m meant to be at this point in time.
- I constantly surround myself with a social circle of people who are better than me and transform up to their standard.
- I don’t give a fuck what anyone thinks of me. The only thing that matters is what I think of me.
- I’m hilarious.
- I’m extremely interesting.
- I make people feel good when they’re around me.
- I deserve success in all areas of my life.
- I’m the shit. And humble about it.
- I love myself.
- I let my personality flow freely and expose my vulnerabilities because I don’t give a fuck what anyone thinks of me.
- The more people I help achieve what they want will open up doors for me I can’t even imagine yet.
- My look and how I dress don’t matter whether I want to attract a girl or make a sale, but I dress well because I like it.
- I am 100% congruent with what I say and do. I’m always coming from my true self and people can see it and appreciate it.
SPORT
- I can become an AFL footballer if I dedicate myself to it
- Whether I have 1% or 99% chance of succeeding, if I choose to do something I know I will succeed 100%.
- I am the greatest AFL football player ever!
- If I apply what I know about mindset to sport I have the edge even against current AFL players.
__________________
“Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind” - Dr. Seuss
FR journal: Living Success To The MAX From My Core!~
Representing Team Alexander~ Melbourne "You beauty"
FR journal: Living Success To The MAX From My Core!~
Representing Team Alexander~ Melbourne "You beauty"
Posted June 3rd, 2010 at 1:41 PM
more EMPOWERING beliefs:
I work with a sense of urgency and get things done fast
I love the feeling of feeling of completing high value tasks and making progress
I thrive on breaking through my comfort zone and getting to the next level because that’s what living is about!
I work in 60-60-30 blocks of time and during that time I remove all distractions and focus only on high value tasks
I love situations where I have to think hard and make important decisions because I get an opportunity to sharpen my brain
I am who I am and I can’t escape it. I don’t give a fuck what anyone thinks of me except myself.
I’m glad to listen to advice from people more advanced AND less advanced than me because everyone has a unique perspective that can bring about something of immense value – but ultimately I make the final decision on whether I will do something or not rather than being told what to do by someone else.
I work with a sense of urgency and get things done fast
I love the feeling of feeling of completing high value tasks and making progress
I thrive on breaking through my comfort zone and getting to the next level because that’s what living is about!
I work in 60-60-30 blocks of time and during that time I remove all distractions and focus only on high value tasks
I love situations where I have to think hard and make important decisions because I get an opportunity to sharpen my brain
I am who I am and I can’t escape it. I don’t give a fuck what anyone thinks of me except myself.
I’m glad to listen to advice from people more advanced AND less advanced than me because everyone has a unique perspective that can bring about something of immense value – but ultimately I make the final decision on whether I will do something or not rather than being told what to do by someone else.
__________________
“Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind” - Dr. Seuss
FR journal: Living Success To The MAX From My Core!~
Representing Team Alexander~ Melbourne "You beauty"
FR journal: Living Success To The MAX From My Core!~
Representing Team Alexander~ Melbourne "You beauty"
Posted June 3rd, 2010 at 1:50 PM
i want to be able to naturally spurt out great lines and witty comments
i want everything i say to be concise, powerful, funny, natural and leave people in awe
eg. tony robbins (ON HIS PREPARED & REHEARSED material), like Tyler Durden (ON HIS P&R material), like Brad Pitt as TD in Fight club, like Alan (almost everything he says is just perfect and sharp), Clemo (says shit with 110% certainty almost always funny) - sometimes people don't laugh or ever acknowledge his comment, but he doesn't give a fuck (calibrated) what anything thinks and says pretty much everything for his own self amusement, same with Sinclair, barack obama,
Richard Branson - ADMITS he can't speak without preparation, STILL gets laid by supermodels, STILL made billions of dollars in business, STILL influences people and has people like him intensely,
i want everything i say to be concise, powerful, funny, natural and leave people in awe
eg. tony robbins (ON HIS PREPARED & REHEARSED material), like Tyler Durden (ON HIS P&R material), like Brad Pitt as TD in Fight club, like Alan (almost everything he says is just perfect and sharp), Clemo (says shit with 110% certainty almost always funny) - sometimes people don't laugh or ever acknowledge his comment, but he doesn't give a fuck (calibrated) what anything thinks and says pretty much everything for his own self amusement, same with Sinclair, barack obama,
Richard Branson - ADMITS he can't speak without preparation, STILL gets laid by supermodels, STILL made billions of dollars in business, STILL influences people and has people like him intensely,
__________________
“Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind” - Dr. Seuss
FR journal: Living Success To The MAX From My Core!~
Representing Team Alexander~ Melbourne "You beauty"
FR journal: Living Success To The MAX From My Core!~
Representing Team Alexander~ Melbourne "You beauty"
Posted June 3rd, 2010 at 1:54 PM
Here's the secret to the most confident and extroverted guys in my football club:
100% SELF AMUSEMENT + 100% UNAPOLOGETIC
BEING UNAPOLOGETIC:
- talk LOUDLY. It's ok if other people hear you. It's ok if they judge you. It's ok if you're speaking louder than them and they're feeling less alpha. It's ok because that = being unapologetic.
- no need to prove yourself or back up statements. what you say or do is always right.
SELF AMUSEMENT:
- say and do what you find funny and pleasurable, regardless what other people find funny and pleasurable.
100% SELF AMUSEMENT + 100% UNAPOLOGETIC
BEING UNAPOLOGETIC:
- talk LOUDLY. It's ok if other people hear you. It's ok if they judge you. It's ok if you're speaking louder than them and they're feeling less alpha. It's ok because that = being unapologetic.
- no need to prove yourself or back up statements. what you say or do is always right.
SELF AMUSEMENT:
- say and do what you find funny and pleasurable, regardless what other people find funny and pleasurable.
__________________
“Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind” - Dr. Seuss
FR journal: Living Success To The MAX From My Core!~
Representing Team Alexander~ Melbourne "You beauty"
FR journal: Living Success To The MAX From My Core!~
Representing Team Alexander~ Melbourne "You beauty"
Posted June 3rd, 2010 at 1:56 PM
VALUES OF SOMEONE WHO HAS ACHIEVED MY GOALS
I AM WHAT I AM AND I CAN’T ESCAPE IT; AND I HAVE A UNIQUE SENSE OF STYLE BECAUSE OF MY UNIQUE LIFE EXPERIENCES.
- Doing things with excellence
- Living life to the max
- Great communication skills
- Confidence beyond belief
- Level 10 energy towards goals
- Integrity
- Whatever you do, do it with enthusiasm and exceptional quality
- Live a balanced life
- Strong self discipline
- Organised and follows plan and to-do list
- Loves people and people love him
- Humble
- Takes care of health to have a steady stream of energy
- Grateful for every second alive on this earth
- Beams positivity and good feelings to everyone around him
- Happy and fulfilled with himself > doesn’t need to prove himself to anyone so he really doesn’t care what anyone thinks of him, but is considerate.
- Lives in the now and takes advantage of the best opportunities
- Takes MASSIVE action
- Loves adventure and having fun
- Loves and takes care of family
- Loves football and the challenge of it, getting through the massive challenge and winning the ultimate prize, a grand final.
- Travels around the world
- Believes CANEI and so is constantly learning new things
- Loves to try new things and push the boundaries to expand my reality
- Has patience and tolerance
- Understands people and why they act the way they do, therefore he doesn’t react to them and doesn’t judge their actions because he knows everyone is good at heart and he brings that out.
- Speaks eloquently, articulately with congruence and certainty.
- Makes decisions and people follow them gladly
- Honest
- Is direct and to the point without beating around the bush
- Hilarious
- Stands out from the crowd
- I act through my own intentions – don’t let society tell me how to act.
- I have a good vibe and express my personality freely, letting the chips fall where they may.
- I EXPRESS myself through complete self-esteem
- I take right action – even when I don’t feel like it.
- I have 100% presence, 100% positive dominance, and am 100% man of action.
- I use a NR-BR tonality
- I am unapologetic, I draw state from within, and everybody loves me.
- I own everything I do with 100% responsibility
- I walk through the world with ease and can handle ANY situation that comes up
I AM WHAT I AM AND I CAN’T ESCAPE IT; AND I HAVE A UNIQUE SENSE OF STYLE BECAUSE OF MY UNIQUE LIFE EXPERIENCES.
- Doing things with excellence
- Living life to the max
- Great communication skills
- Confidence beyond belief
- Level 10 energy towards goals
- Integrity
- Whatever you do, do it with enthusiasm and exceptional quality
- Live a balanced life
- Strong self discipline
- Organised and follows plan and to-do list
- Loves people and people love him
- Humble
- Takes care of health to have a steady stream of energy
- Grateful for every second alive on this earth
- Beams positivity and good feelings to everyone around him
- Happy and fulfilled with himself > doesn’t need to prove himself to anyone so he really doesn’t care what anyone thinks of him, but is considerate.
- Lives in the now and takes advantage of the best opportunities
- Takes MASSIVE action
- Loves adventure and having fun
- Loves and takes care of family
- Loves football and the challenge of it, getting through the massive challenge and winning the ultimate prize, a grand final.
- Travels around the world
- Believes CANEI and so is constantly learning new things
- Loves to try new things and push the boundaries to expand my reality
- Has patience and tolerance
- Understands people and why they act the way they do, therefore he doesn’t react to them and doesn’t judge their actions because he knows everyone is good at heart and he brings that out.
- Speaks eloquently, articulately with congruence and certainty.
- Makes decisions and people follow them gladly
- Honest
- Is direct and to the point without beating around the bush
- Hilarious
- Stands out from the crowd
- I act through my own intentions – don’t let society tell me how to act.
- I have a good vibe and express my personality freely, letting the chips fall where they may.
- I EXPRESS myself through complete self-esteem
- I take right action – even when I don’t feel like it.
- I have 100% presence, 100% positive dominance, and am 100% man of action.
- I use a NR-BR tonality
- I am unapologetic, I draw state from within, and everybody loves me.
- I own everything I do with 100% responsibility
- I walk through the world with ease and can handle ANY situation that comes up
__________________
“Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind” - Dr. Seuss
FR journal: Living Success To The MAX From My Core!~
Representing Team Alexander~ Melbourne "You beauty"
FR journal: Living Success To The MAX From My Core!~
Representing Team Alexander~ Melbourne "You beauty"
Posted June 3rd, 2010 at 1:59 PM
MISSION STATEMENT: make myself the best that i can be so that i can give back as best as i possibly can to others
i will make myself the best that i can be through:
- hanging around other motivated people who push me outside my comfort zone
- maintaining a very healthy and energized physical body through exercise 5x week and healthy nutrition
- reading at least 1 hour per day
this will allow me to:
- better act through my own intentions
- run a business about something I'm passionate about
- travel the world and do extreme adrenaline rush activities and create adventures
once I am doing those things I can:
- be 100% authentic with all people and communicate with maximum effectiveness
- give back and contribute to my family and others to the best of my abilities
i will make myself the best that i can be through:
- hanging around other motivated people who push me outside my comfort zone
- maintaining a very healthy and energized physical body through exercise 5x week and healthy nutrition
- reading at least 1 hour per day
this will allow me to:
- better act through my own intentions
- run a business about something I'm passionate about
- travel the world and do extreme adrenaline rush activities and create adventures
once I am doing those things I can:
- be 100% authentic with all people and communicate with maximum effectiveness
- give back and contribute to my family and others to the best of my abilities
__________________
“Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind” - Dr. Seuss
FR journal: Living Success To The MAX From My Core!~
Representing Team Alexander~ Melbourne "You beauty"
FR journal: Living Success To The MAX From My Core!~
Representing Team Alexander~ Melbourne "You beauty"
Posted June 4th, 2010 at 4:05 AM
i feel as though i'm pretending to be a cool guy
although i can seem cool on the outside, if i slip up and reveal a bad trait or do something needy/uncool then people will realize i'm not actually the guy they think i am. i'm not a cool guy.
OR
they'll realize damn he's just a person too - just like me. he makes mistakes. this means he's honest. he's not pretending to be perfect all the time because NO ONE is.
it's not about trying to look 'cool'; it's about ACTING THROUGH YOUR OWN INTENTIONS and what happens as a side effect is that you're perceived as looking 'cool'... but who cares about that.
although i can seem cool on the outside, if i slip up and reveal a bad trait or do something needy/uncool then people will realize i'm not actually the guy they think i am. i'm not a cool guy.
OR
they'll realize damn he's just a person too - just like me. he makes mistakes. this means he's honest. he's not pretending to be perfect all the time because NO ONE is.
it's not about trying to look 'cool'; it's about ACTING THROUGH YOUR OWN INTENTIONS and what happens as a side effect is that you're perceived as looking 'cool'... but who cares about that.
__________________
“Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind” - Dr. Seuss
FR journal: Living Success To The MAX From My Core!~
Representing Team Alexander~ Melbourne "You beauty"
FR journal: Living Success To The MAX From My Core!~
Representing Team Alexander~ Melbourne "You beauty"

roxsta89~
Senior Member
Join Date: 06/18/2008 | Posts: 257
- focus on taking right action in the moment and stop making myself feel bad when comparing its results to the current world benchmark. Everything is a process and as long as I keep taking right action consistently and don't stop, the side effect of it will be good results. (this is focused more on my business goals, but it applies to picking up girls 100%).
- there is no need to be intimidated by a packed club where everyone looks to be having the time of their life. It's just an illusion when lots of people are close together and shouting. Also keep in mind that most of these people are drunk and many on drugs, it's no wonder they're able to feel so good so easily.
I'm not better than these people, I'm not worse than them, I'm just another person at the club. Whether I feel good is determined by me taking right action and doing what I need to be doing. ie. Opening sets. Just like Michael Jordan starts with 0 at the start of a match, I start at 0 when I first enter a club. It's upto me to step the fuck up and use my skills. Nothing will happen if I just sit back and do nothing, although there is a time and a place for that too. Do what I gotta do and trust my instincts to kick in.
- don't give a fuck what people around me think. I JUST DO WHAT I DO. More than likely they're gonna forget about me within a few seconds and go and have fun themselves - possibly INSPIRED from me. I don't need to out alpha anybody, I just help them give themselves permission to let loose and have fun.
Things I should do:
- escalate harder and be more shameless
FR journal: Living Success To The MAX From My Core!~
Representing Team Alexander~ Melbourne "You beauty"