THE FORUMS
How's everything been going Sasha? Any updates?
will posts some updates soon Adam :)
I'm gonna experiment with the following things:
- add IOD eg. use LMR on girls, disqualifiers
- create more sexual tension by escalating slower
- don't do a stupid small laugh to kill tension when being tested - stay unreactive and expectant
- use statements to make her qualify herself
- use body language as a reward - when first opening her be a bit closed off, if she says something good reward her by opening up more.
- completely ignore her and get her trying to get my attention back
- come in with the strong accusatory breaking rapport tonality
- chat with other girls and make her jealous
I'm gonna experiment with the following things:
- add IOD eg. use LMR on girls, disqualifiers
- create more sexual tension by escalating slower
- don't do a stupid small laugh to kill tension when being tested - stay unreactive and expectant
- use statements to make her qualify herself
- use body language as a reward - when first opening her be a bit closed off, if she says something good reward her by opening up more.
- completely ignore her and get her trying to get my attention back
- come in with the strong accusatory breaking rapport tonality
- chat with other girls and make her jealous
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“Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind” - Dr. Seuss
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some very important concepts I kind of forgot about the last few months
- you are enough
- accept your little stupid characteristics as quirks that make you UNIQUE
- be unapologetic
- stop trying to control your life, JUST LET GO
- some of the most successful people engage in self development eg. Greg Norman, Mike Tyson, Chuck Liddell, Diego Sanchez and Andre Agasi.
- quit comparing myself with others and just own ME 100%
- engaging in self improvement doesn't always mean you're inadaquete. it can be to go from good to great.
- if you're getting bored you're not present. Presence is blissful and whole
- remain unreactiveness to negative comments
Time to re-internalize them and keep making them STRONGER and STRONGER until they're internalized for good!
- you are enough
- accept your little stupid characteristics as quirks that make you UNIQUE
- be unapologetic
- stop trying to control your life, JUST LET GO
- some of the most successful people engage in self development eg. Greg Norman, Mike Tyson, Chuck Liddell, Diego Sanchez and Andre Agasi.
- quit comparing myself with others and just own ME 100%
- engaging in self improvement doesn't always mean you're inadaquete. it can be to go from good to great.
- if you're getting bored you're not present. Presence is blissful and whole
- remain unreactiveness to negative comments
Time to re-internalize them and keep making them STRONGER and STRONGER until they're internalized for good!
__________________
“Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind” - Dr. Seuss
FR journal: Living Success To The MAX From My Core!~
Representing Team Alexander~ Melbourne "You beauty"
FR journal: Living Success To The MAX From My Core!~
Representing Team Alexander~ Melbourne "You beauty"
UPDATE:
A couple of months ago one of my natural friend introduced me to his mate who I soon discovered to be a freelance pick up instructor. I later met his biz partner and we all shared our stories.
Anyway, until these guys told me they are into pickup, I had absolutely NO IDEA that they were in the community. They seemed like THE MOST NATURAL COOL guys in one of the most exclusive clubs in Melbourne. I couldn't believe it! But worst of all, these guys were using tactics and routines from 'the black haired magician'.
I told them 'OMG you guys are fucking cool you don't need this shit!! You are so natural it's not funny!
Then he pulls out his blackberry and shows me 10+ pages worth of routines from open to close and says "The difference between amateurs and professionals is that professionals write this shit down". I love this guy, but I laughed in his face!! Throughout the night I was in a really amazing state and was showing them the POWAH of RSD natural game by picking up girls and slamming them against the wall... as an opener; instant makeouts, and more flashy stuff just to show how whatever you feel is all that matters and routines are useless. Looking back on that, I really haven't been giving myself credit for these cool things. I seem to always down play my successes and focus on my failures which is what's holding back my self esteem from expanding further. Good thing I just became consciously aware of it now.
Anyway back to the story. These guys are naturally cool; they use routines; they pump their own state with stupid self amusing games; they engage in personal development, they DO get smoking hot girls... but here's the kicker:
THESE GUYS ARE BOTH INTERNATIONAL MODELS FOR VERY HIGH END LABELS!!! AND they still use game!! AND they still engage in personal development!!
Learning Lesson: Don't be ashamed or think lower of yourself for having to learning pick up because you weren't born a natural.
A couple of months ago one of my natural friend introduced me to his mate who I soon discovered to be a freelance pick up instructor. I later met his biz partner and we all shared our stories.
Anyway, until these guys told me they are into pickup, I had absolutely NO IDEA that they were in the community. They seemed like THE MOST NATURAL COOL guys in one of the most exclusive clubs in Melbourne. I couldn't believe it! But worst of all, these guys were using tactics and routines from 'the black haired magician'.
I told them 'OMG you guys are fucking cool you don't need this shit!! You are so natural it's not funny!
Then he pulls out his blackberry and shows me 10+ pages worth of routines from open to close and says "The difference between amateurs and professionals is that professionals write this shit down". I love this guy, but I laughed in his face!! Throughout the night I was in a really amazing state and was showing them the POWAH of RSD natural game by picking up girls and slamming them against the wall... as an opener; instant makeouts, and more flashy stuff just to show how whatever you feel is all that matters and routines are useless. Looking back on that, I really haven't been giving myself credit for these cool things. I seem to always down play my successes and focus on my failures which is what's holding back my self esteem from expanding further. Good thing I just became consciously aware of it now.
Anyway back to the story. These guys are naturally cool; they use routines; they pump their own state with stupid self amusing games; they engage in personal development, they DO get smoking hot girls... but here's the kicker:
THESE GUYS ARE BOTH INTERNATIONAL MODELS FOR VERY HIGH END LABELS!!! AND they still use game!! AND they still engage in personal development!!
Learning Lesson: Don't be ashamed or think lower of yourself for having to learning pick up because you weren't born a natural.
__________________
“Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind” - Dr. Seuss
FR journal: Living Success To The MAX From My Core!~
Representing Team Alexander~ Melbourne "You beauty"
FR journal: Living Success To The MAX From My Core!~
Representing Team Alexander~ Melbourne "You beauty"
A few weeks ago I was at Eve and bumped into Jedi. For those that don't know Jedi, he was once a very prominent figure at RSD and was invited to Hawaii to go through instructor training with Tyler.
During the night he pulled me aside and shared his rosetta stone of game. To paraphrase it was something like "Whatever girls say or do should NEVER effect your state. Always be unreactive to tests and don't let a woman lead you off your path. Stay true to yourself and do what you want. YOU are the prize - she's lucky to get YOU!".
eg. Whilst he was sharing this with me, one of the women he came with tried seductively pulling him away to another part of the club, but he told her to fuck off and he'll catch up with her later. He continued talking to me and said 'this is a perfect example of not letting a woman control you'.
During the night he pulled me aside and shared his rosetta stone of game. To paraphrase it was something like "Whatever girls say or do should NEVER effect your state. Always be unreactive to tests and don't let a woman lead you off your path. Stay true to yourself and do what you want. YOU are the prize - she's lucky to get YOU!".
eg. Whilst he was sharing this with me, one of the women he came with tried seductively pulling him away to another part of the club, but he told her to fuck off and he'll catch up with her later. He continued talking to me and said 'this is a perfect example of not letting a woman control you'.
__________________
“Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind” - Dr. Seuss
FR journal: Living Success To The MAX From My Core!~
Representing Team Alexander~ Melbourne "You beauty"
FR journal: Living Success To The MAX From My Core!~
Representing Team Alexander~ Melbourne "You beauty"
BRILLIANT quote from the 'Human After All' article by 10Pin
In a one-on-one interaction sense, generally speaking you need to go first in order for her to follow. If you go up, with your tricks and your shells, she'll play back with her own tricks, and put up her own shell. If you can go up totally fucking REAL?...she will respond to that. This is self-esteem.
As you know though, to be at this place we have to be connected to our feelings. And you know what that means? It means that yes, sometimes we will get hurt. Sometimes we'll take a real sucker punch. Sometimes we'll get blown out hard - and we won't have game to hide behind. Nor can we walk away blaming all womankind for being 'sluts'. It simply is what it is.
Is this weak? I don't think it is weak. In fact, I think it is strong. I think it is strong to put yourself in a position where you can be vulnerable. I think it is strong to go into a risky place - or to be in a relationship where you can love. What I think is WEAK, is hiding from the punches. Running away from them. Hiding behind your paper-thin shells of game and misogyny. This is the weakness you can smell on so many guys in the club.
As you know though, to be at this place we have to be connected to our feelings. And you know what that means? It means that yes, sometimes we will get hurt. Sometimes we'll take a real sucker punch. Sometimes we'll get blown out hard - and we won't have game to hide behind. Nor can we walk away blaming all womankind for being 'sluts'. It simply is what it is.
Is this weak? I don't think it is weak. In fact, I think it is strong. I think it is strong to put yourself in a position where you can be vulnerable. I think it is strong to go into a risky place - or to be in a relationship where you can love. What I think is WEAK, is hiding from the punches. Running away from them. Hiding behind your paper-thin shells of game and misogyny. This is the weakness you can smell on so many guys in the club.
__________________
“Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind” - Dr. Seuss
FR journal: Living Success To The MAX From My Core!~
Representing Team Alexander~ Melbourne "You beauty"
FR journal: Living Success To The MAX From My Core!~
Representing Team Alexander~ Melbourne "You beauty"
Learning Lesson: Don't be ashamed or think lower of yourself for having to learning pick up because you weren't born a natural.
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Alex~ Bootcamp April 09
What happened to jedi anyway? he was a good poster
could he not handle instructor trainning or something?
could he not handle instructor trainning or something?
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Jedi got a job with a national football team.
Due to all the dramas sport stars are having with women, he didn't think it would be good to associate himself on a forum about pick up due to the implications it could have on his career.
Due to all the dramas sport stars are having with women, he didn't think it would be good to associate himself on a forum about pick up due to the implications it could have on his career.
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“Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind” - Dr. Seuss
FR journal: Living Success To The MAX From My Core!~
Representing Team Alexander~ Melbourne "You beauty"
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roxsta89~
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Join Date: 06/18/2008 | Posts: 257
consistency is a futile goal to have in regards to game. in fact, you should have no explicit goals in regard to game except to get married and start a family one day
that is all.
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