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emotional stability. Keep it simple
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For one thing, don't treat a girl any better than you treat yourself . (unless you're married and even then it's still BS)
Always look out for #1 first. That's you.
After that, treat people how you'd want to be treated and honestly do not put that much time and consideration into how much you do for a girl. If you have to do that, chances are, you're doing too much already.
Always look out for #1 first. That's you.
After that, treat people how you'd want to be treated and honestly do not put that much time and consideration into how much you do for a girl. If you have to do that, chances are, you're doing too much already.
I don't know about that, a lot of the time you have to put other people first but it's not supplicating at all.
Cinderalla Man... money example, the dude puts his family first when he probably could have just fucked off and looked out for number 1
Cinderalla Man... money example, the dude puts his family first when he probably could have just fucked off and looked out for number 1
For one thing, don't treat a girl any better than you treat yourself . (unless you're married and even then it's still BS)
Always look out for #1 first. That's you.
After that, treat people how you'd want to be treated and honestly do not put that much time and consideration into how much you do for a girl. If you have to do that, chances are, you're doing too much already.
This is a recipe for disaster. You can never "do too much". I do everything for my girl, and in return she does everything for me. Always look out for #1 first. That's you.
After that, treat people how you'd want to be treated and honestly do not put that much time and consideration into how much you do for a girl. If you have to do that, chances are, you're doing too much already.
You receive what you give. If you arent receiving enough out of your relationship, then you aren't giving enough.
Supplicating is when you do something only to make her like you. She already likes you. Its not an issue. Do everything for her from that frame, and she will do everything for you because she loves you.
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See: Twilight
See: Twilight
haha I don't know about that, a lot of the time you have to put other people first but it's not supplicating at all.
Cinderalla Man... money example, the dude puts his family first when he probably could have just fucked off and looked out for number 1
Cinderalla Man... money example, the dude puts his family first when he probably could have just fucked off and looked out for number 1
I should ammend, family comes first along with yourself, maybe closest friends as well. But with women, I've never seen any reason to shower women with gifts and attention. It sounded to me from the thread starter like he has a need to get all clingy with girls and I'm guessing that's not a good thing. Just offering a view from my perspective. Yea if you wanna buy a girl a gift or flowers once in while, sure. Do things for them, sure. But I'm not going to be worried about doing all that stuff all the time, especially when all I've ever observed is that when gaming, displaying neediness (i.e. gift buying/attention) wasn't really the correct move... Is he gaming these chicks? Are these chicks he's talking about, is he dating them for long periods of time? Befriending them? That makes a difference here.
See: Twilight
haha
Focus on what you want to do. If she brings you fun or not? Do this with everything. If she does something that you don't like, don't be afraid to show it...
If you can take care of a puppy without being a supplicating chode, you can do the same with your woman
If you can't, you got 99 problems and at least two of them are bitches
If you can't, you got 99 problems and at least two of them are bitches
AlphaCentauri
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Join Date: 05/23/2009 | Posts: 91
also, when i interact with a girl ive been practicing asserting my male polarity on her hardcore and it works great. but when i start liking a girl i have no idea how to take care of a girl.
its like in my mind im constantly trying to be a man around her, but because i like them i stil want to take care of her. i tend to get all lovey dovey and supplicate and buy her everything when i try to take care of a girl. or ill take the other way and be that typical jerk boyfriend.
so how do you guys balance these things out? be a man and dont cherish her??