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December 7th, 2016
Got a girls #, she made out with another guy same night, worth calling?
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roxsta89~

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So I was out last night and I saw this gorgeous girl (9/10) pretty much ran up to her clawed her in (ableit a bit weakly) and said something like 'I just had to meet you, I think you're the most gorgeous girl in this club' she was a bit flattered and after exchanging names she quickly said 'i gtg get a drink' and ran off. So I moved on to a different part of the club and saw this guy I had a fight with in football a few weeks ago. He was at the bar and called me over, he had bought me a shot but I was driving so I passed. Then I hung out with him some more and decided we should go get some girls, so we moved around to another part of the club to a new bar where he bought shots for me again! So I looked around and saw that HB9 from before, said "it's your lucky night" and gave her a free shot. Then the dude started ordering another round of drinks for them. Meanwhile I was vibing with this HB9, spinning her around, clawing harder now and getting our faces close to each other (should have kissed her right here) and then I started saying "what are you doing to me!? You're too hot I just wanna hang out with my friends and you keep making me wanna talk to you etc" and I was push/pulling hardcore. Uncalibratedly, I pushed so hard that I left to find other girls (WTF was I thinking!?!?!?!?!?!!?!).

After chilling with my friends for a few minutes, I said "I found my dream girl for tonight. On my mission to find her". So after walking around this massive, crowed bar for a good 5-10 minutes I finally saw her making out with some drunk guy! This did piss me off, but whatever I ignored it and used it as fuel for my fury that was now ignited! Unfortunately that fury didn't turn into any results.

Anyway about 20 minutes later I see this HB9 at the bar again and start chatting (pretending I didn't even see her makeout before). We sit down and just vibe for a good 5-10 minutes (turns out she goes to my uni and lives 1 suburb away from me - chodeversation at it's finest) I tell her about all the uni parties she's missed out on and get her number so I can invite her to pre-drinks for the after exam party next week. Also I talked about the 'afterparty' at my mates house 5 minutes from this club and the tastiest rasberry smirnoff vodka was on tap. She was like "I love that! etc" and I'm thinking "Yes!! >:) " Then the song 'I'm on boat!' comes on and I'm like "hell yeah lets go" and grabbed her hand to go to the D-floor, but then she rejects it and says "I gtg find my friends I'll see you later".

Then the guy she was making out with before emerges from out of the shadows and starts talking to her again as soon as he saw me walk off. I didn't care so I just went opened another set not far in front of them and just vibed there for about 2 minutes, but I wasn't interested in this new girl so I moved on to find my mates. Whilst chilling with my mates having a good time I spotted the HB9 sitting down with her group, so I pulled her up, introduced her to my friend and his gf, then started talking about how if she wants, she and a few of her friends can come over for drinks at the afterparty. (I now realize I made it sound a bit lame, cheesy and even a bit creepy) and rightfully so, she said "Oh I'll talk to my friends and I'll see if they can do it".

Then throughout the night I saw her sporadically talking and making out with that guy she was with from before. I then decided "fuck it" and went for other girls myself ( although I didn't get any :(  ). My state dropped and when I saw this girl on the couch just with her girl friends, I walked past and just barely acknowledged her with a 'Hey' because she kept hooking up with that other guy before, so whatever I don't care. But now, I realize it wasn't her fault and that it was mine. I wanted to hook up with other girls myself and would have, so I'm not being fair on her here.

Anyway I have her number now, so my question is; is it worth pursuing?
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NewLife

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 She's a sexual being, are you saying she should apologize for that?

No. 

If you liked her, call her. 

As the saying goes, "You miss 100% of the shots you don't take". 

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Dude that shit sucks big time. I don't think it's worth calling because she seems like the type of girl you could getting sucked into.
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You aren't gonna know until you try ittt

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roxsta89~

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Alright I'll do it!!

I don't wanna over analyze this, but because I didn't kiss her in the club I feel like if I meet up with her for a coffee or something during the day I'll be in friendzone. So what could I do to hook up with her or go all the way that day?

Normally this wouldn't be an issue, but I've never really done a day 2 so I feel like such a newbie haha
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I msg'd her inviting her out tonight and here's what went down:

me: Hey i'm going to mates house to have a DJ jam sesh and then head out somewhere (last time b4 exams!). He lives in Brighton so if u wanna come have a spin on the decks and go out tonight let me know. Probs around 8-9pm - Sasha.
her: Hey! That sounds like fun but I'm sorry which sasha is this?
me: Sasha with the big ass jack russel ofcourse
her: I'm so sorry but I'm having trouble remembering meeting you... Where did we meet?
me: lol that's cool. We met at 7 last night. U were sitting down when I gave u my wet shot because I was driving and couldn't drink it. we realized we both go Monash and then borat came and was like wawa-wiwu :P
her: But of coourse! Sorry I remember everything now. I can't go out tonight unfortunately I already have plans, but maybe some other time? Have a good night.
me: Cool I'll see you at AXP (after exams party) then if u go. Have a good one

I'm just wondering about her "I can't go out tonight unfortunately I already have plans, but maybe some other time?" comment. It seems genuine enough, but if she really wanted me then I reckon she would've asked me to come out with her. Maybe she just said that because she now knows she's doing the same course as me at uni (although we've never seen each other on campus - EVER!) and is just being polite.

Either way it's all good and I'm getting ready to head out soon for a night of mayhem!
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Never a good thing when the convo dies immediately after they remember who you are lol
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Yah sounds totally dead man.  Thats why you gotta learn to ESCALATE.  Stop trying to GAME the girl and start trying to FUCK the girl.  Its way easier to just make the girl ATTRACTED to you in the first meeting, get her HORNY, then PULL.  This shit happens all the time, no big deal.  You were a chode, period.  Man the fuck up next time.
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Regardless that I acted somewhat chode and what not, I reckon she's still into me. If she wasn't, she wouldn't have bothered replying to all the msg's. And there is simply no way a girl NOT interested would suggest meeting up another time. I'm sure she really did have other plans as I MSG'd her pretty late at about 6pm inviting her to go out in 2-3 hours.

Either way its all good, I had a great time last night without her.
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roxsta89~ wrote:
Regardless that I acted somewhat chode and what not, I reckon she's still into me. If she wasn't, she wouldn't have bothered replying to all the msg's.

Either way its all good, I had a great time last night without her.
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I will not give you advice but I will tell you what I do, and I do what I want when I want.

Dude, first of all I dont analyse, I dont think if I do this, will she do that etc. But just doing things, expressing myself, be proactive. Second I would keep her in my phone and call or text her whenever I feel like it. I come from a mindset that I give her the opportunity to get involved in my awesome life. So if she doesnt recognize that, it's to bad for her not me, I have other options.
I text or call her as long as I want to and she doesnt tell me to to stop.
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